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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
dashing rose black woman
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
fragrant ebony den
  01/21/18
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Thirsty center
  01/21/18
was she hot?
mentally impaired trailer park queen of the night
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
dashing rose black woman
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
mentally impaired trailer park queen of the night
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
dashing rose black woman
  01/21/18
of course.
mentally impaired trailer park queen of the night
  01/21/18
...
fragrant ebony den
  01/21/18
...
Razzmatazz bearded hell jewess
  01/21/18
Lol
Ruddy stirring corn cake theatre
  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
Plum Boistinker Bawdyhouse
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
dashing rose black woman
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
mentally impaired trailer park queen of the night
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
dashing rose black woman
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
provocative meetinghouse useless brakes
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
dashing rose black woman
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
provocative meetinghouse useless brakes
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
dashing rose black woman
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
provocative meetinghouse useless brakes
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
dashing rose black woman
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
provocative meetinghouse useless brakes
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
dashing rose black woman
  01/21/18
CR
fragrant ebony den
  01/21/18
lololol
comical sienna pit
  01/21/18
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Wine Range
  01/21/18
your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
Light international law enforcement agency
  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
dashing rose black woman
  01/21/18
lol
mentally impaired trailer park queen of the night
  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
Light international law enforcement agency
  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
marvelous vengeful theater stage headpube
  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
dashing rose black woman
  01/21/18
how did she die/
mentally impaired trailer park queen of the night
  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
dashing rose black woman
  01/21/18


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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: dashing rose black woman

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: fragrant ebony den

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: Thirsty center



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204585)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: mentally impaired trailer park queen of the night

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: dashing rose black woman

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: mentally impaired trailer park queen of the night

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: dashing rose black woman

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: mentally impaired trailer park queen of the night

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: fragrant ebony den



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: Razzmatazz bearded hell jewess



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204404)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: Ruddy stirring corn cake theatre

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204566)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Plum Boistinker Bawdyhouse

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: dashing rose black woman

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: mentally impaired trailer park queen of the night

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: dashing rose black woman

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: provocative meetinghouse useless brakes

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: dashing rose black woman

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: provocative meetinghouse useless brakes

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: dashing rose black woman

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: provocative meetinghouse useless brakes

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: dashing rose black woman

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: provocative meetinghouse useless brakes

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: dashing rose black woman

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: fragrant ebony den

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: comical sienna pit

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: Wine Range



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204548)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: Light international law enforcement agency

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: dashing rose black woman

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: mentally impaired trailer park queen of the night

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: Light international law enforcement agency

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: marvelous vengeful theater stage headpube

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: dashing rose black woman

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: mentally impaired trailer park queen of the night

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: dashing rose black woman

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)