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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
hairraiser ruby church
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
Avocado generalized bond
  01/21/18
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Stirring parlour famous landscape painting
  01/21/18
was she hot?
sienna twisted orchestra pit pervert
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
hairraiser ruby church
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
sienna twisted orchestra pit pervert
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
hairraiser ruby church
  01/21/18
of course.
sienna twisted orchestra pit pervert
  01/21/18
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Avocado generalized bond
  01/21/18
...
Glittery step-uncle's house athletic conference
  01/21/18
Lol
Orange pit
  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
Fishy excitant hospital trust fund
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
hairraiser ruby church
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
sienna twisted orchestra pit pervert
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
hairraiser ruby church
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
nubile aphrodisiac newt market
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
hairraiser ruby church
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
nubile aphrodisiac newt market
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
hairraiser ruby church
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
nubile aphrodisiac newt market
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
hairraiser ruby church
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
nubile aphrodisiac newt market
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
hairraiser ruby church
  01/21/18
CR
Avocado generalized bond
  01/21/18
lololol
cerebral electric furnace pozpig
  01/21/18
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balding appetizing kitchen death wish
  01/21/18
your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
Infuriating outnumbered locus dragon
  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
hairraiser ruby church
  01/21/18
lol
sienna twisted orchestra pit pervert
  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
Infuriating outnumbered locus dragon
  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
Coiffed New Version
  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
hairraiser ruby church
  01/21/18
how did she die/
sienna twisted orchestra pit pervert
  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
hairraiser ruby church
  01/21/18


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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: hairraiser ruby church

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Avocado generalized bond

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: Stirring parlour famous landscape painting



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: sienna twisted orchestra pit pervert

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: hairraiser ruby church

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: sienna twisted orchestra pit pervert

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: hairraiser ruby church

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: sienna twisted orchestra pit pervert

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Avocado generalized bond



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: Glittery step-uncle's house athletic conference



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204404)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: Orange pit

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204566)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Fishy excitant hospital trust fund

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: hairraiser ruby church

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: sienna twisted orchestra pit pervert

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: hairraiser ruby church

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: nubile aphrodisiac newt market

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: hairraiser ruby church

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: nubile aphrodisiac newt market

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: hairraiser ruby church

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: nubile aphrodisiac newt market

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: hairraiser ruby church

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: nubile aphrodisiac newt market

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: hairraiser ruby church

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Avocado generalized bond

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: cerebral electric furnace pozpig

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: balding appetizing kitchen death wish



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204548)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: Infuriating outnumbered locus dragon

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: hairraiser ruby church

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: sienna twisted orchestra pit pervert

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: Infuriating outnumbered locus dragon

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: Coiffed New Version

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: hairraiser ruby church

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: sienna twisted orchestra pit pervert

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: hairraiser ruby church

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)