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Date: February 19th, 2018 7:08 PM Author: Anal irradiated associate I wish I had a few friends in my city. I wish I could see them for dinners or drinks and regular shit. I don't need many. How about 4. 3 might even be fine.
And I wish in my metro area, even out in the burbs, my family lived and I could see them for dinners or events or whatever 1-2x a month and then talked to them on the phone and stuff like regular families.
I wish I weren't so depressed all of the time. I wish my medication worked better. I wish I were more in love with my girlfriend.
In reality I have almost no close friends in my current city and they're either all random people I've kind of stayed in touch with or my gf's friends. My family is spread out all over the country (closest person is my mom who is still like 500+ miles away). My medications kind of work but not enough. I am so depressed I can barely do work and my job, which is like "government" level cushy is even becoming too hard for me which is ridiculous. |
Date: February 19th, 2018 7:10 PM Author: Anal irradiated associate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3897858&forum_id=2#35439893) |
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Date: February 19th, 2018 7:14 PM Author: Anal irradiated associate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3897858&forum_id=2#35439933) |
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Date: February 19th, 2018 7:14 PM Author: Emerald flickering skinny woman same (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3897858&forum_id=2#35439938) |
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Date: February 19th, 2018 7:20 PM Author: Anal irradiated associate I'll never be able to change this except maybe make more friends as I get older and perhaps make more of an effort to fly and see family but it's kind of hard to do (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3897858&forum_id=2#35439975) |
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Date: February 19th, 2018 7:27 PM Author: very tactful razzle-dazzle property if it's really making you depressed you should just try to make more of an effort on both those things. It's humiliating I realize but once you get past your pride it might help you feel better (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3897858&forum_id=2#35440031) |
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Date: February 19th, 2018 7:42 PM Author: Anal irradiated associate I am trying to make more of an effort with family, I started last thanksgiving and have made more of an effort to call, email, and see them, but it takes a long time to improve something like that
as for friends it's a lot harder but I have been trying to reconnect with people and expand myself when possible |
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Date: February 19th, 2018 7:15 PM Author: deranged haunted graveyard sanctuary :(
Situational or clinical? |
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Date: February 19th, 2018 7:18 PM Author: Anal irradiated associate Both.
Situational: basically deep feelings of being lonely and bored which I increasingly tie to my kind of lukewarm feelings toward cohabiting sig other and disconnect from friends and family ... I have very little purpose in life except to work my cushy job and repeat, but even that's really hard for me because I don't even get the simple pleasure of a dinner with my parents
Clinical: I take medication that has depression side effects but I need this medication so it's pretty much inevitable but I do take bupropion |
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Date: February 19th, 2018 7:16 PM Author: very tactful razzle-dazzle property this is me except i'm single and like my job (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3897858&forum_id=2#35439949) |
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Date: February 19th, 2018 7:19 PM Author: Anal irradiated associate How old and what kind of job?
My job is cushy as fuck man, like 170K income this year and I work 10-4, but I am getting majorly depressed about it because it's isolating me, like I have nothing else except to commute there and back and then live my life until my gf eventually wants to eat dinner, it's better than nothing but no friends, no family, it's lonely and I think trickling down to make me depressed about even going to work |
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Date: February 19th, 2018 7:25 PM Author: very tactful razzle-dazzle property Late 20s.
I know this sounds gay but i've really enjoyed setting up skype chats with old friends at random times. They're often just as bored as you and it feels good
Also planning on trying to join some random clubs to meet more people, though it's probably hopeless to pretend like I have "community" where I live |
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Date: February 19th, 2018 7:27 PM Author: Anal irradiated associate I didn't feel the lonely shit until after I turned 30
late 20s I was striving in my job trying to make it and it was very fulfilling, I even copped a gf
but now the feelings have crashed around me as I've peaked in my job and don't have anything to strive towards
sounds like maybe you have similar problems but deal with it better |
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Date: February 19th, 2018 7:36 PM Author: very tactful razzle-dazzle property I can feel it setting in but I think I'm more interested in copping wife + kids than you are (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3897858&forum_id=2#35440103) |
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Date: February 19th, 2018 7:37 PM Author: Anal irradiated associate from what I've been told, that's the natural result of most situations like mine and people build their own new family and make married couple friends
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Date: February 19th, 2018 7:24 PM Author: Anal irradiated associate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3897858&forum_id=2#35440005) |
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Date: February 19th, 2018 7:35 PM Author: Anal irradiated associate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3897858&forum_id=2#35440093) |
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Date: February 19th, 2018 7:41 PM Author: trip red brethren (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3897858&forum_id=2#35440131) |
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Date: February 19th, 2018 9:06 PM Author: startling insane school death wish Lol @ having a GF. Fuck off Chad.
Come back when you have 0 friends, 0 GF, no family, nothing. |
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Date: February 19th, 2018 9:08 PM Author: khaki well-lubricated library ONLY CR response
lol @ this humble brag - I make 170K working 10-4 and have a GF. will somebody feel sorry for me |
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Date: February 19th, 2018 9:11 PM Author: Fiercely-loyal Racy Water Buffalo As others ITT are saying, you have a lot in comparison to most XO poasters and people in general. Having a gf who loves you, cushy 170K job, any family at all, and friends scattered around the country is a lot to be thankful for. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3897858&forum_id=2#35440764) |
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Date: February 19th, 2018 9:11 PM Author: Sepia parlor pocket flask Join some meet-up groups.
Volunteer at an animal shelter.
Get into physical fitness.
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