Should I feel bad about taking my full 3-month paternity leave?
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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:52 PM Author: Stimulating Snowy Menage
company has a 3-month policy that matches maternity and paternity. i took 6 weeks to start. i'm 4.5 weeks in, but chatting with my boss tomorrow. thinking about taking the full time.
i don't see much of a future at this job, should i just yolo?
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Date: February 21st, 2018 4:53 PM Author: Stimulating Snowy Menage
UPDATE: got a job offer today, pay is $7k higher than current job, benefits are worse (2 week vacation instead of 4, no match for 1 year instead of 4% at current), but position has better exit options, commute is shorter by about 20 minutes, and unlike current (no direct reports), i will have two. however, if i accept, i need to cut short my paternity at 6 weeks, give my two week notice, and start. take it?
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Date: February 21st, 2018 5:04 PM Author: Cordovan jew telephone
Better setup. Direct reports opens entirely new field of positions. 20 Mins per day easily makes up for a couple weeks vacation. More money.
Transitions suck. Having direct reports will suck. What's the new environment? That's probably the biggest factor.
Don't even consider the paternity leave (unless you plan on having lots more kids)
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Date: February 21st, 2018 5:17 PM Author: Stimulating Snowy Menage
we will have 1-3 more kids. i've had direct reports in the past. doesn't that dilute the value this time?
the environment is more stuffy and corporate (but overall collegial) i'd say. current company is 3-6 years old but relatively prestigious.
the commute admittedly is a big draw especially because wife's job is 10 minutes away from this new company and we might consider moving to that area.
however, lately, we've been thinking about risking it all and moving abroad, which makes me question whether i need to rock the boat at all right now.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35454901) |
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