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Date: March 7th, 2018 1:33 AM Author: Charcoal Antidepressant Drug
You remind me of a close buddy of mine who's a 30 year old virgin. Super smart dude, very high social intuition in terms of his ability to perceive people's emotions. He's very empathetic and tells interesting, funny stories. Well off, successful, in good shape. All around great guy.
So,what's the problem?
The issue is that he lacks the ability to connect with women in a romantic male to female way. I guess you could say he "sucks" at talking to girls. About once a year, some girl somewhere shows interest in him and he basically tells her he's in love with her straight away and she gets scared off. Then he hibernates socially for a year and the process basically repeats with the same results.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3911904&forum_id=2#35551642)
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Date: March 7th, 2018 1:50 AM Author: Onyx Aphrodisiac Hell
"I think if you confront yourself and become more in tune with your sexual identity,"
Elaborate on what this means.
And while I'm not sure I'd have to "change myself," I absolutely would have to change my basic personality. It's just not in my nature at all to pursue chicks and I find even socializing for the sake of meeting them rather draining.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3911904&forum_id=2#35551693) |
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Date: March 7th, 2018 2:04 AM Author: Charcoal Antidepressant Drug
You only find pursuing chicks draining because you haven't figured out how to be successful at it yet. If you knew you could pull a hot chick from a bar tonight you wouldn't find it so draining, rather it would likely energize you.
I'll tell you a story. A few years ago I went through a rough patch. I was unemployed, I had gotten overweight, I went through a period where I didn't have a girlfriend for a long time. Shit happens, life is messy. During this time, I became very bitter towards society. I started reading a lot of philosophy and tuned in to various ideologues and public intellectuals. I became a self-appointed prosecutor of society. Everyone and their behavior hung in my judgment. I thought life was unfair and I had all the answers. Everyone else was the problem.
And then I had a chance occurrence. I went to a party on a whim and I was in a very good mood that day. I went to the gym earlier. And I met a very cute girl that night and she basically threw herself at me. I barely talked to her or acknowledged her. We didn't talk about politics or anything like that. We certainly didn't discuss any XO related mental illness. It was a lot of laughing and smiling. I remember her favorite band was Backstreet Boys (tee hee). I ended up making out with her and fingering her on the couch. It made me feel pretty good. I pretty much dropped all the Jordan Peterson crap after that.
The point is you gotta lighten up and learn to have fun. That one night set me down a path of self discovery. It made me realize that the reason I was so angry all the time was that what I really wanted was social acceptance and romantic success. I did have to make some big changes in my personality. They don't happen overnight. It's a long and difficult process to figure out who you are and how to project a personality that women find attractive. The bad news is that it's a long painful process, which is why a lot of guys would rather be miserable. The good news is that any thoughtful person can do it if they are brutally honest with themselves and willing to change.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3911904&forum_id=2#35551732) |
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Date: March 7th, 2018 2:30 AM Author: Onyx Aphrodisiac Hell
I don't fully intend to live a celibate life. I just consider it a perfectly acceptable life outcome, and given my habits, my values, my natural disposition, my location, my age, and the trends of the wider world, it's probably the outcome I'm going to settle into.
And like I said, I don't think you really understand the life I lead or the values I hold, and the fact you're trying to win me over by talking about hookups at parties says as much.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3911904&forum_id=2#35551781) |
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Date: March 7th, 2018 2:34 AM Author: Charcoal Antidepressant Drug
I get it, you hate parties. Such strong values!
Instead of jumping through so many mental hoops wouldn't it be easier to figure out how to go to a bar and make small talk and get a lil shawty in your bed humping you?
There's a lot to unpack in your statement. Your 'age' is you are young and in your prime. The 'trends' you speak of haven't changed in millennia. Trust me it would be so much easier to learn how to approach women than spend decades in silent anguish and insecurity. And to be frank your life is very incomplete without these wonderful creatures around. They are really awesome! Give yourself the chance to get to know a few why dontchya.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3911904&forum_id=2#35551786) |
Date: March 7th, 2018 2:09 AM Author: shimmering boyish pit selfie
he is literally the idealized "republicuck."
can't talk to women, won't have kids.
be a good white boy who will kill his lineage.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3911904&forum_id=2#35551745) |
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Date: March 7th, 2018 4:01 AM Author: pungent marvelous step-uncle's house boltzmann
Right?
ARE Charles will never be wading through a cess pool of Tinder 3's, but without a basic guide map he's fucked.
CW would never get him laid, but CW WILL help him avoid some common mistakes that EVERY sexhaver has made in the past.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3911904&forum_id=2#35551833) |
Date: March 7th, 2018 5:40 AM Author: Arousing resort
I mean, I don't know. Let's think this through. Modern board games are, for the most part, balanced, enjoyable, well-designed, and have clearly articulated rules barring the inevitable edge cases (and even those can be hashed out on BGG).
The modern dating market for non-Chad straight men has none of these things; you are locked into the side that has all the disadvantages/no material advantages, the process itself is miserable, every aspect of the design enhances your disadvantage/enhances the advantages of other factions and things can go horribly wrong for any or no reason.
The only way to really overcome this is to power through, endure the miserable grind of the modern dating market and keep a result-orientated mindset; sure, "on the dating market" is an awful place to be, but the victory condition is so good that it's all worth it!
Except it's not. What's the best case scenario here, you marry a 6 who's tired of riding the Chad Cock Carousel and is willing to settle? But, at any time, she has a call option on half your assets if she gets tired of you?
Maybe Charles should be helping us get into boardgaming instead of us trying to get him to replicate our mistakes. It's more fun, costs less, and no matter what you at least end up with some cool plastic figurines. And if you really just need to get laid, there's always SA. You can afford a kyoot college girl (or whatever you like) with all the money you're not spending on "romance."
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3911904&forum_id=2#35551912) |
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Date: March 7th, 2018 11:11 AM Author: Crawly gunner police squad
excellent poast.
i will add, and i've said this before, that in my experience older virgins self-sabotage sexual prospects out of fear.
they are usually incredibly hyper-aware, which is a curse in the romantic realm.
they don't want to fail, they don't want to be laughed at, they don't want to look stupid. so they find reasons to not proceed.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3911904&forum_id=2#35553163) |
Date: March 7th, 2018 3:26 PM Author: Peach overrated spot codepig
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(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3911904&forum_id=2#35555006) |
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Date: March 7th, 2018 5:01 PM Author: Chrome ceo
if you think anyone, even the Chadliest Catholic alive, can "easily" find a virgin bride in this day and age, particularly in America, you are delusional.
I have tried to tell him before that he will likely have to at least slightly relax this requirement. He has said in another thread that he would consider marrying a girl with <5 previous sexual partners, but that she would have to have a good explanation. Even a non-zero number that low is basically a unicorn today.
He has also stated that, for whatever reason, the Catholic girls he's met at church are not really into him. They probably don't like how deep into politics he is.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3911904&forum_id=2#35555777)
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Date: March 7th, 2018 5:07 PM Author: Charcoal Antidepressant Drug
Now we're getting somewhere closer to the honest truth.
Step 1 becum Chad. Become a gregarious, high status male with many desirable qualities that women are drawn to.
Step 2 maintain your religious authenticity. Despite the rampant attention from women, you maintain that you are serious about your values and are unwilling to break them. Not to mention, at this point he has completely changed his personality and the way he is viewed by those around him, and the fact that he is unavailable as a sexual partner will only make him more alluring and drive women completely bonkers for him.
Step 3 at this point his sexual market value is unbelievably high. Men want to be him and women are melting for him. He chooses the best mate available, which will at this point be a wide pool because he is so coveted. Marries a total babe 10 years his junior who wakes up every morning and can't believe how lucky she is.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3911904&forum_id=2#35555813) |
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Date: March 7th, 2018 5:59 PM Author: Charcoal Antidepressant Drug
You need to go through a cold approach bootcamp. Stop thinking there's only one way to get results or that you have to change everything about yourself- it's not gonna happen first of all. If you're incongruent women will smell that out.
You can be nerdy as fuck, it's all about the confidence you project. Women typically do not give a fuck about high minded intellectual pursuits. They really don't care what books you read. But if you portray yourself as a cool guy in general who is passionate about books, that could be cool.
Honestly I would avoid political discussions. Don't lie about yourself, but don't get into it really. A liberal woman could fall for you even if you have different politics. I'm a lib but I once dated a Trump supporter (who was sexy af). It really doesn't matter when it comes to romance. If a girl finds out your conservative and it pisses her off, just be cheeky about it, tease her and make fun of her in a playful way. "How come you're so attracted to conservatives?" Whatever you do don't delineate your politcial or religious beliefs like you're being interviewed.
Overall you just have to learn how to communicate. Since you're not looking for casual hookups, you're playing the long game. This can be an advantage as you won't come across as desperate if you're genuinely not trying to get into their pants right away. Use what you've got. Be pragmatic. There are tons of hot religious girls out there. Seriously.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3911904&forum_id=2#35556187) |
Date: March 7th, 2018 5:41 PM Author: ultramarine curious parlor
Charles, why can’t you date a virgin catholic shrew again? Is it because of the unsavory people you work for? (If so, I’m pretty sure it’s literally a sin in the eyes of god to choose your immoral bad hombre boss over dating a nice catholic girl.)
Or is it your childish tabletop war gaming , or your anime porn addiction? It’s time to do the needful and put childish things away.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3911904&forum_id=2#35556048) |
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