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Would you take care of a child, after divorce, that was not biologically yours?

HYPO: A man marries a woman, spawns 3 children, and the coup...
wonderful stubborn quadroon
  03/22/18
As a new father, I can’t imagine not loving my daughter, or ...
Lemon Curious Love Of Her Life Abode
  03/22/18
very intellectual
maroon garrison macaca
  03/22/18
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vivacious seedy hell gaming laptop
  03/22/18
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trip trust fund
  03/22/18
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Cheese-eating reading party
  03/22/18
Assume it is 10 years later, and it is the middle child that...
wonderful stubborn quadroon
  03/22/18
i agree. if I found out my son was not mine, I could never d...
hyperventilating irate gas station
  03/22/18
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rusted french chef
  03/22/18
cr but how heartbreaking
Exciting really tough guy
  03/22/18
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marvelous unholy genital piercing office
  03/22/18
Have you spent some time pondering this hypothetical, brothe...
dull azn jap
  03/22/18
yep
marvelous unholy genital piercing office
  03/22/18
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Filthy old irish cottage
  03/22/18
toxic thread. i think it would be really hard to cut off a k...
Hairraiser Half-breed State
  03/22/18
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Lemon Curious Love Of Her Life Abode
  03/22/18
Obviously this would be devastating to the non-biological ch...
wonderful stubborn quadroon
  03/22/18
anyone who says they'd disown the kid either doesn't have ki...
Cerise ladyboy nowag
  03/22/18
Should he still pay child support for the child?
wonderful stubborn quadroon
  03/22/18
Fuck no!
marvelous unholy genital piercing office
  03/22/18
cr imagine the sociopathy not to kill the kid not even hum...
vivacious seedy hell gaming laptop
  03/22/18
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Aromatic flesh gaping
  03/22/18
that was my first thought. what would we do in nature?
electric brindle nibblets
  03/22/18
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trip trust fund
  03/22/18
Toxic. 50:50. Either you do or you don't.
marvelous unholy genital piercing office
  03/22/18
Probably. Men are suckers.
Citrine property
  03/22/18
ehh, a man is a sucker when he dates a chick with kids and t...
Hairraiser Half-breed State
  03/22/18
Hypo is actually easy imo since it stipulates man loves kid ...
Citrine property
  03/22/18
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rusted french chef
  03/23/18
Depends how others would judge me if I bailed out, and how h...
Twinkling rambunctious corner keepsake machete
  03/22/18
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pearly bossy useless brakes shitlib
  03/22/18
No, not a chance. But I’m a legit, diagnosed, sociopath and...
Blathering adventurous hairy legs
  03/22/18
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marvelous unholy genital piercing office
  03/22/18
No fucking way.
Cheese-eating reading party
  03/22/18
LJL. Every dad itt went and hugged his child-dood after read...
passionate home
  03/22/18
why am i marrying a divorcee to begin with
Violent puppy sound barrier
  03/22/18
??
Hairraiser Half-breed State
  03/22/18
does it have a tabula rasa?
Crystalline Legal Warrant
  03/22/18


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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:13 PM
Author: wonderful stubborn quadroon

HYPO: A man marries a woman, spawns 3 children, and the couple get divorced after 7 years. The man pays child support but retains split custodial rights. Five years after divorce, the man has a paternity test done and finds out 1 of the 3 children is not biologically his.

What would you do if in the man's shoes? Assume he still loves the child as his own.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661099)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:15 PM
Author: Lemon Curious Love Of Her Life Abode

As a new father, I can’t imagine not loving my daughter, or not taking care of her, if I found out in 7 years that she wasn’t mine.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661113)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:15 PM
Author: maroon garrison macaca

very intellectual

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661119)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:17 PM
Author: vivacious seedy hell gaming laptop



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661134)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:19 PM
Author: trip trust fund



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661156)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 11:23 PM
Author: Cheese-eating reading party



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35666520)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:17 PM
Author: wonderful stubborn quadroon

Assume it is 10 years later, and it is the middle child that is not biologically yours. Hypo is for a period of 12 years, assuming first born child was born in the first year of marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661136)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:19 PM
Author: hyperventilating irate gas station

i agree. if I found out my son was not mine, I could never disown him. Little dude loves me with all his heart and I cannot imagine hurting him that badly. I would commit suicide before abandoning him.

I wouldnt even tell his mother that I knew, for fear of how she would hurt him. I would play it cool as fuck until he was of a certain age, maybe around 21, to understand women's devious ways and then I would tell him what I learned and when I learned it.

I would prepare that he would focus a lot of shock and anger at me and that I would be hurt by his search for his "real" dad and all that, and give him about five years space to work shit out.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661149)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:29 PM
Author: rusted french chef



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661235)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 3:22 PM
Author: Exciting really tough guy

cr but how heartbreaking

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35662542)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 3:26 PM
Author: marvelous unholy genital piercing office



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35662572)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 4:35 PM
Author: dull azn jap

Have you spent some time pondering this hypothetical, brother?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35663176)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 4:49 PM
Author: marvelous unholy genital piercing office

yep

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35663254)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 3:43 PM
Author: Filthy old irish cottage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35662750)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:18 PM
Author: Hairraiser Half-breed State

toxic thread. i think it would be really hard to cut off a kid you both thought was yours for like 10 years, especially if the two siblings were both yours (i.e., the siblings could end up really mad at you for cutting off the third), and i'm someone who hates the idea of raising someone else's kid and would never in a million years adopt even if that were my only option for "kids".

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661140)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:19 PM
Author: Lemon Curious Love Of Her Life Abode



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661146)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:20 PM
Author: wonderful stubborn quadroon

Obviously this would be devastating to the non-biological child. It would also be devastating to the other 2 children.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661160)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:21 PM
Author: Cerise ladyboy nowag

anyone who says they'd disown the kid either doesn't have kids or is a sociopath.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661168)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:21 PM
Author: wonderful stubborn quadroon

Should he still pay child support for the child?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661174)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 3:19 PM
Author: marvelous unholy genital piercing office

Fuck no!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35662516)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:22 PM
Author: vivacious seedy hell gaming laptop

cr

imagine the sociopathy not to kill the kid

not even human

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661179)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:27 PM
Author: Aromatic flesh gaping



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661217)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:32 PM
Author: electric brindle nibblets

that was my first thought. what would we do in nature?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661244)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:27 PM
Author: trip trust fund



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661215)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:24 PM
Author: marvelous unholy genital piercing office

Toxic.

50:50. Either you do or you don't.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661193)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 3:29 PM
Author: Citrine property

Probably. Men are suckers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35662593)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 3:39 PM
Author: Hairraiser Half-breed State

ehh, a man is a sucker when he dates a chick with kids and then takes care of her kids.

the OP's hypo is really tough. by that point there would be a pretty special bond between the father and the kid. the two half-siblings makes it even more difficult, as it'd be hard to abandon the one without harming your relationship with the other two.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35662701)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 3:42 PM
Author: Citrine property

Hypo is actually easy imo since it stipulates man loves kid as his own. I just read it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35662733)



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Date: March 23rd, 2018 11:31 PM
Author: rusted french chef



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35675456)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 4:36 PM
Author: Twinkling rambunctious corner keepsake machete

Depends how others would judge me if I bailed out, and how hot she is.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35663187)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 4:39 PM
Author: pearly bossy useless brakes shitlib



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35663196)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 8:56 PM
Author: Blathering adventurous hairy legs

No, not a chance. But I’m a legit, diagnosed, sociopath and would probably just arrange for the whole family to die in a car crash.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35665199)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 9:34 PM
Author: marvelous unholy genital piercing office



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35665434)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 11:23 PM
Author: Cheese-eating reading party

No fucking way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35666525)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 11:25 PM
Author: passionate home

LJL. Every dad itt went and hugged his child-dood after reading this thread.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35666539)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 11:26 PM
Author: Violent puppy sound barrier

why am i marrying a divorcee to begin with

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35666545)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 11:47 PM
Author: Hairraiser Half-breed State

??

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35666784)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 11:49 PM
Author: Crystalline Legal Warrant

does it have a tabula rasa?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35666798)