why do young people 16yo-26yo who fail a goal take it so seriously?
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Date: April 17th, 2018 12:38 AM Author: insane quadroon
at that age you still think of life as a linear progression and you can't really conceive of the idea of second chances
in high school I literally thought my life would be over if I failed one test
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Date: April 17th, 2018 12:39 AM Author: silver senate hunting ground
brains not completely formed, feeling emotions too strongly
your adolescent years (which for young males, start later and last longer) are etched into you like stone out of all magnitude relative to their real importance
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Date: April 17th, 2018 12:43 AM Author: Big outnumbered office puppy
I'm about to be unemployed after putting in the 3 most difficult years of my life to boost my earning potential
not in this age bracket as of two weeks ago though so it's water off my duck-like back
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Date: April 17th, 2018 1:20 AM Author: Razzmatazz shaky twinkling uncleanness
but maybe they're right to take these failures seriously.
i think adults are compelled to rationalize a lot of our failures and uncontrollable circumstances simply as a method of self-preservation. didn't get that cool job? oh well not everyone can be a doctor! wife sleeps around? well, that just how women are these days! etc. etc. Many of us are forced into mediocrity or truly horrible circumstances relative to where we could have been, and to admit as much would be world-destroying. so we are clearly biased. perhaps these kids are the only ones thinking logically.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3951339&forum_id=2#35857073)
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Date: April 18th, 2018 7:18 PM Author: motley bistre stock car bawdyhouse
It's basic psychology and parenting fundamentals - when you're this sheltered and your greatest fear is the great threat of racism and Islamophobia pervading the right rather than having to go off to war, or not having seen child mortality rates as they were in e.g. 19th century, these failure become world shattering.
Children today are raised with every physical and emotional threat imaginable removed from their paths along the way. It's entirely possible to raise children today in such a way that these failures could be the first negative emotions they are exposed to.
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Date: April 18th, 2018 11:25 PM Author: chestnut windowlicker
Because they haven't been beaten down by life repeatedly yet and still take it seriously.
Newsflash: it only gets worse.
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