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have any of your major life assumptions been seriously wrong?

like you always assumed you wouldn't have kids but then you ...
passionate regret
  04/19/18
every one of my life assumptions has been wrong
self-absorbed jap
  04/19/18
name one
passionate regret
  04/19/18
i assumed i would eventually find someone i truly loved
self-absorbed jap
  04/19/18
well you still have time so you don't know this is wrong
passionate regret
  04/19/18
seems unlikely at this point
self-absorbed jap
  04/19/18
Spend more time on xo
magical contagious meetinghouse prole
  04/19/18
(hehe)
underhanded national half-breed
  04/20/18
...
yellow misanthropic goal in life juggernaut
  04/20/18
i assumed that a lot of people in my lifer weren't psychotic...
anal fat ankles jew
  04/19/18
who's psychotic
passionate regret
  04/19/18
...
splenetic dragon
  04/20/18
lmao where to even start
titillating hominid
  04/19/18
where were you most wrong
passionate regret
  04/19/18
my assumption that success is a function of education
titillating hominid
  04/19/18
that seems like a prole or boomer assumption. were you prole...
passionate regret
  04/19/18
immigrant parents who told me all I needed to do in life was...
titillating hominid
  04/19/18
Boomers.
Concupiscible Awkward Ceo Library
  04/19/18
(every xo poaster)
crystalline razzmatazz pistol karate
  04/20/18
started out being with the first person I ever kissed. Were...
filthy boltzmann ratface
  04/19/18
have you ever had a phase where you were like OK, I'm going ...
passionate regret
  04/19/18
I did for a while, sure. Then just started doing all the th...
filthy boltzmann ratface
  04/19/18
Do you regret leaving your partner of 10 years?
Cracking base
  04/19/18
no
filthy boltzmann ratface
  04/20/18
Damn didn't realize we had similar histories. My first one l...
Big skinny woman
  04/20/18
"I'll enjoy being a corporate lawyer"
hairraiser community account chapel
  04/19/18
are you still a corporate lawyer?
passionate regret
  04/19/18
yes
hairraiser community account chapel
  04/19/18
maybe you'll hate similarly paying jobs just as much, then y...
passionate regret
  04/19/18
hot take!
hairraiser community account chapel
  04/19/18
I had shit values for most of my life and nearly destroyed i...
azure range
  04/19/18
Doesn't sound so bad.
Concupiscible Awkward Ceo Library
  04/19/18
...
azure range
  04/20/18
on the plus side, here's an assumption I'm glad was wrong: I...
titillating hominid
  04/19/18
xo not a lot of money so <300k, or actual not a lot of mo...
self-absorbed jap
  04/19/18
XO not a lot of money I make like $125k/yr and am very ha...
titillating hominid
  04/19/18
...
self-absorbed jap
  04/19/18
only 3x the median income!
crystalline razzmatazz pistol karate
  04/20/18
...
Dashing Nursing Home Weed Whacker
  04/20/18
i assume my mother will live to 90+ (cause family history of...
passionate regret
  04/19/18
my mom got cancer at 51 with a 50/50 prognosis. really came ...
self-absorbed jap
  04/19/18
fuck man. gl to u and your mom.
passionate regret
  04/19/18
...
self-absorbed jap
  04/19/18
my mother in law died of cancer in her early 60s and spent h...
glittery orchid sweet tailpipe
  04/19/18
...
self-absorbed jap
  04/19/18
I almost quit a job because my sis in law had brain cancer a...
filthy boltzmann ratface
  04/19/18
...
Hateful Twinkling Uncleanness Azn
  04/20/18
...
Dashing Nursing Home Weed Whacker
  04/20/18
if you told me 20 years ago that i would literally being cre...
Milky Bat-shit-crazy Lodge Boistinker
  04/19/18
would 18 year old nyuug be surprised at your currently livin...
passionate regret
  04/19/18
no even at 18 i knew i wanted to live in the fatherland b...
Milky Bat-shit-crazy Lodge Boistinker
  04/19/18
When I was younger I assumed that adults had some secret kno...
Nubile erotic gaping
  04/19/18
and what did you learn
self-absorbed jap
  04/19/18
What do you think
Nubile erotic gaping
  04/19/18
...
self-absorbed jap
  04/19/18
well u grew up to be a catty bitch, so there, u made it
Bistre Bateful Bawdyhouse Mad Cow Disease
  04/19/18
...
Motley garrison
  04/20/18
I was the opposite of hedonistic in my teens and early 20s. ...
floppy balding space
  04/19/18
a lot of good replies in this thread, yours and others
self-absorbed jap
  04/20/18
I incorrectly assumed that I would have a reasonably normal ...
Concupiscible Awkward Ceo Library
  04/19/18
but u have kitty doods
self-absorbed jap
  04/19/18
Took one for a walk just last night. http://i.xomf.com/cz...
Concupiscible Awkward Ceo Library
  04/20/18
This is precious
ebony roommate
  04/20/18
He loves walks, but he doesn't like other people very much, ...
Concupiscible Awkward Ceo Library
  04/20/18
Mine just kinda wanders around. I think he likes it but I wo...
ebony roommate
  04/20/18
We have a system. Sidewalks are like highways. They're for h...
Concupiscible Awkward Ceo Library
  04/20/18
used to think abortion was wrong. now i realize it's vital t...
Stirring rehab
  04/19/18
Until about 21 I was a big Christmo and even when I stopped ...
Wild gas station patrolman
  04/19/18
Women. I'm like that one guy who trusted bears, went out to...
Galvanic nudist jewess multi-billionaire
  04/19/18
...
floppy balding space
  04/20/18
...
Nighttime Thriller Hunting Ground Hall
  04/20/18
Yes, I've made as much money in crypto as I thought I'd see ...
180 hell marketing idea
  04/20/18
I'm down 30% since February.
Galvanic nudist jewess multi-billionaire
  04/20/18
Yeah I'm still down from there too but still have LIFE CHANG...
180 hell marketing idea
  04/20/18
I got in late. Like, I bought in February. I'm having fun ...
Galvanic nudist jewess multi-billionaire
  04/20/18
What is "life changing" money
Histrionic Elite Area
  04/20/18
you tell me
180 hell marketing idea
  04/20/18
I believed, fervently, that if I worked hard in school and a...
Rambunctious Sex Offender Ladyboy
  04/20/18
Yeah I assumed picking a job to make a good amount of money ...
carmine sinister kitty cat
  04/20/18
Ooof
Lavender station
  04/20/18
thought people were running shtick but turns out they really...
Red cruise ship crotch
  04/20/18
So far, no assumptions I've held past 15 or so. If I actu...
startling brindle international law enforcement agency halford
  04/20/18
the Chad virgin volcel Charles vs the Virgin post-virginity ...
Red cruise ship crotch
  04/20/18
...
startling brindle international law enforcement agency halford
  04/20/18
...
floppy balding space
  04/20/18
...
azure range
  04/20/18
lmao. many
Salmon Odious Dog Poop
  04/20/18
...
Brass curious ticket booth laser beams
  04/20/18
That school matters to your success in life--> LOL NO Th...
Histrionic Elite Area
  04/20/18
"I want to be a mooch and have money without being forc...
Concupiscible Awkward Ceo Library
  04/20/18
I didn't realize how many NPDs are around - esp in aging whi...
Histrionic Elite Area
  04/20/18
Short list: 1. i am exceptional 2. my uniqueness means...
Gold address factory reset button
  04/20/18
number 4 is important and neglected by are culture
Nighttime Thriller Hunting Ground Hall
  04/20/18
I used to assume that any negative interaction I had with an...
Spectacular Umber Tank
  04/20/18
I assumed the wealthy kids I went to an elite boarding schoo...
Beady-eyed Clear Stead
  04/20/18
Lots of things about parents. Your parents want the best fo...
mind-boggling trailer park
  04/20/18
explain the hard work line, it seems for you it has consiste...
jade hospital
  04/20/18
she's seen plenty of hardworking people dashed against the r...
Embarrassed to the bone black personal credit line
  04/20/18
...also she's a self-hating asian who is bizarrely attemptin...
Red cruise ship crotch
  04/20/18
...
jade hospital
  04/20/18
If I just try hard and use my god-given smarts, I will MAEK ...
violet faggot firefighter
  04/20/18
Whoops.
Concupiscible Awkward Ceo Library
  04/20/18
That people aren't gossiping and talking about you (they are...
jade hospital
  04/20/18
name brand school would get me "in" it has impr...
Judgmental swashbuckling heaven dopamine
  04/20/18
(UNC Wilmington grad)
Vigorous background story
  04/20/18
mods
Judgmental swashbuckling heaven dopamine
  04/20/18
I thought senior level leaders at big companies were alll hi...
costumed shitlib
  04/20/18
lol this
Obsidian puppy
  04/20/18
...
Cracking base
  04/20/18
...
Judgmental swashbuckling heaven dopamine
  04/20/18
thought i was smart when i was young. i am not.
Embarrassed to the bone black personal credit line
  04/20/18
it's like they always say: there's nothing wrong with being ...
Red cruise ship crotch
  04/20/18
I wanted to be a teacher and married at age 22 with kids. ...
Bat Shit Crazy Lemon Partner
  04/20/18
how was school choice so destructive in your life?
glittery orchid sweet tailpipe
  04/20/18
going to an "elite" striver school pretty much mea...
Bat Shit Crazy Lemon Partner
  04/20/18
this hasn't been my experience. did you not make friends in ...
glittery orchid sweet tailpipe
  04/20/18
yes. dozens. They are all nihilistic single bros living in o...
Bat Shit Crazy Lemon Partner
  04/20/18
i don't understand the absence of a network of alums in a ma...
glittery orchid sweet tailpipe
  04/20/18
I'm not in NYC or DC and that's where 90% of people I know w...
Bat Shit Crazy Lemon Partner
  04/20/18
if you made dozens of friends in college, i guess i don't qu...
glittery orchid sweet tailpipe
  04/20/18
well, it's both age and a new zeitgeist. You can't organical...
Bat Shit Crazy Lemon Partner
  04/20/18
you can still maek it friend
glittery orchid sweet tailpipe
  04/20/18
no, I cannot. it's all ogre. surrender to the darkness.
Bat Shit Crazy Lemon Partner
  04/20/18
All of them. I cannot make a good decision to save my life.
aromatic stag film
  04/20/18
Or a good post
Big skinny woman
  04/20/18
i want to take you out for drinks sometime
Judgmental swashbuckling heaven dopamine
  04/20/18
somewhat ironic that you earn money by posturing as a person...
canary razzle degenerate
  04/20/18
I have a follow up question for those who responded itt: If...
Cracking base
  04/20/18
you can't teach anyone these things. they can only be learn...
Drab whorehouse
  04/20/18
I had a very long relationship with my first girlfriend/wife...
Big skinny woman
  04/20/18
MGTOW
Apoplectic Resort Black Woman
  04/21/18


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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:04 PM
Author: passionate regret

like you always assumed you wouldn't have kids but then you did have kids?

or you always assumed you'd be a wagecuck but then you because crypto god?

i'm talking really big stuff.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878531)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:05 PM
Author: self-absorbed jap

every one of my life assumptions has been wrong

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878536)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:05 PM
Author: passionate regret

name one

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878540)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:06 PM
Author: self-absorbed jap

i assumed i would eventually find someone i truly loved

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878554)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:08 PM
Author: passionate regret

well you still have time so you don't know this is wrong

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878558)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:08 PM
Author: self-absorbed jap

seems unlikely at this point

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878562)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:46 PM
Author: magical contagious meetinghouse prole

Spend more time on xo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878801)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:14 AM
Author: underhanded national half-breed

(hehe)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35880859)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 8:31 PM
Author: yellow misanthropic goal in life juggernaut



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35885238)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:05 PM
Author: anal fat ankles jew

i assumed that a lot of people in my lifer weren't psychotic, and i was wrong.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878541)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:05 PM
Author: passionate regret

who's psychotic

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878545)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 2:53 PM
Author: splenetic dragon



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35882751)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:06 PM
Author: titillating hominid

lmao where to even start

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878550)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:08 PM
Author: passionate regret

where were you most wrong

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878561)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:08 PM
Author: titillating hominid

my assumption that success is a function of education

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878567)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:09 PM
Author: passionate regret

that seems like a prole or boomer assumption. were you prole?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878574)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:09 PM
Author: titillating hominid

immigrant parents who told me all I needed to do in life was go to the best schools and get good grades

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878577)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:44 PM
Author: Concupiscible Awkward Ceo Library

Boomers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878788)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:19 AM
Author: crystalline razzmatazz pistol karate

(every xo poaster)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35880875)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:08 PM
Author: filthy boltzmann ratface

started out being with the first person I ever kissed. Were together for 10 years.

Struck it out on my own.

short term relationship after short term relationship...have now realized that I'm better just being single and okay with it.

Never thought that would be the case.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878559)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:10 PM
Author: passionate regret

have you ever had a phase where you were like OK, I'm going to go, find a BF, then make him my husband!?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878581)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:13 PM
Author: filthy boltzmann ratface

I did for a while, sure. Then just started doing all the things I thought I needed in a partner to be stable.

Ended up doing it on my own. Now, I don't see the plus side of "needing" someone.

Obviously, it would have been easier having someone along for the ride. Now I've done it and the "coupling" aspect has since passed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878596)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:44 PM
Author: Cracking base

Do you regret leaving your partner of 10 years?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878792)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:56 AM
Author: filthy boltzmann ratface

no

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879190)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 8:24 PM
Author: Big skinny woman

Damn didn't realize we had similar histories. My first one lasted even longer. I'm not giving up though. I basically accomplished and acquired a bunch of stuff and now my life is perfectly set up to just slot someone young, attractive, and a bit aimless into it. Like I'd literally just have to consolidate half of a closet. The few times I've been on dates with actual adults it's like "whoah, this would be a huge pain in the ass."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35885192)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:09 PM
Author: hairraiser community account chapel

"I'll enjoy being a corporate lawyer"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878576)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:10 PM
Author: passionate regret

are you still a corporate lawyer?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878584)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:11 PM
Author: hairraiser community account chapel

yes

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878586)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:12 PM
Author: passionate regret

maybe you'll hate similarly paying jobs just as much, then you weren't really wrong?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878590)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:12 PM
Author: hairraiser community account chapel

hot take!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878592)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:12 PM
Author: azure range

I had shit values for most of my life and nearly destroyed it on numerous occasions through destructive self-obsession and hedonism

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878593)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:42 PM
Author: Concupiscible Awkward Ceo Library

Doesn't sound so bad.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878766)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:51 AM
Author: azure range



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879150)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:12 PM
Author: titillating hominid

on the plus side, here's an assumption I'm glad was wrong: I didn't think I could be happy if I wasn't making a lot of money. this turned out to be very wrong.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878594)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:13 PM
Author: self-absorbed jap

xo not a lot of money so <300k, or actual not a lot of money

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878602)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:14 PM
Author: titillating hominid

XO not a lot of money

I make like $125k/yr and am very happy. Lots of XO poasters make moar than me and seem miserable.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878607)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:16 PM
Author: self-absorbed jap



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878620)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:20 AM
Author: crystalline razzmatazz pistol karate

only 3x the median income!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35880883)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 11:50 AM
Author: Dashing Nursing Home Weed Whacker



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35881517)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:13 PM
Author: passionate regret

i assume my mother will live to 90+ (cause family history of doing so and she's skinny azn female). i'd be so fucking devastated if she got some aggressive cancer diagnosis at 55. i assume we'll have tons of time together later so it's fine right now that I do not see her often.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878599)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:16 PM
Author: self-absorbed jap

my mom got cancer at 51 with a 50/50 prognosis. really came out of nowhere. i felt like things would go on forever, then one month she had a sore throat that wouldn't go away -- and it was cancer. she did end up living, but i will be honest with you, i have never recovered from this. things have seemed a little unreal since then. i wonder if i will ever go back to feeling normal.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878618)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:17 PM
Author: passionate regret

fuck man. gl to u and your mom.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878623)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:22 PM
Author: self-absorbed jap



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878657)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:17 PM
Author: glittery orchid sweet tailpipe

my mother in law died of cancer in her early 60s and spent her last year with us shuttling to dozens of doctors and chemo appointments, living in pain, and petrified of dying.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878622)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:17 PM
Author: self-absorbed jap



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878625)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:20 PM
Author: filthy boltzmann ratface

I almost quit a job because my sis in law had brain cancer and I wanted to take a few weeks off to help out.

They live far away from me. My VP was all no about it. I did it anyway and still work here.

You have to live in the present and be there when you can. Fuck jobs and money when you have someone important to you going through it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878640)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:26 AM
Author: Hateful Twinkling Uncleanness Azn



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35880915)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 11:50 AM
Author: Dashing Nursing Home Weed Whacker



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35881519)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:18 PM
Author: Milky Bat-shit-crazy Lodge Boistinker

if you told me 20 years ago that i would literally being creampieing norwegian girls in oslo ida said youre crazy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878627)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:19 PM
Author: passionate regret

would 18 year old nyuug be surprised at your currently living in korea and planning to do so for the long term (i assume?)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878631)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:43 PM
Author: Milky Bat-shit-crazy Lodge Boistinker

no even at 18 i knew i wanted to live in the fatherland

but i certainly did not expect to become korean chingis

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878777)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:19 PM
Author: Nubile erotic gaping

When I was younger I assumed that adults had some secret knowledge and there was a mysterious meaning behind life and human behavior. Then I became an adult myself...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878634)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:19 PM
Author: self-absorbed jap

and what did you learn

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878638)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:20 PM
Author: Nubile erotic gaping

What do you think

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878641)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:22 PM
Author: self-absorbed jap



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878654)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:23 PM
Author: Bistre Bateful Bawdyhouse Mad Cow Disease

well u grew up to be a catty bitch, so there, u made it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878658)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:05 AM
Author: Motley garrison



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35880806)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:37 PM
Author: floppy balding space

I was the opposite of hedonistic in my teens and early 20s.

I was under the impression that finding *true love* would be some kind of transcendent experience. I thought that if you took hot teenage sex and multiplied it by the kind of mutual caring and adoration that comes with a long term relationship... that was what healthy adult relationships were like.

I have yet to experience anything even close to what I thought "love" would be like. Furthermore, my attraction to teens hasn't waned whatsoever. My attraction to peers is... adequate?

I hold out hope that I will eventually find a certain degree of happiness in a relationship, but it isn't going to be anything like I envisioned and I'm mad at my younger self for having too long of a focus

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878733)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:00 AM
Author: self-absorbed jap

a lot of good replies in this thread, yours and others

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878870)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:39 PM
Author: Concupiscible Awkward Ceo Library

I incorrectly assumed that I would have a reasonably normal future: house, partner, a future worth that wasn't a black pit of nothing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878748)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:55 PM
Author: self-absorbed jap

but u have kitty doods

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878842)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 3:13 PM
Author: Concupiscible Awkward Ceo Library

Took one for a walk just last night.

http://i.xomf.com/czwhy.jpg

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35882953)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 3:42 PM
Author: ebony roommate

This is precious

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35883155)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 3:53 PM
Author: Concupiscible Awkward Ceo Library

He loves walks, but he doesn't like other people very much, so we go at night.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35883248)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 4:03 PM
Author: ebony roommate

Mine just kinda wanders around. I think he likes it but I worry I’m just taunting him with false freedom.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35883321)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 4:13 PM
Author: Concupiscible Awkward Ceo Library

We have a system. Sidewalks are like highways. They're for high speed cruising, where he walks/trots ahead nearly as fast as I can walk. Grass, rocks, and other landscaping are for chilling out and exploring. It works most of the time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35883388)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:46 PM
Author: Stirring rehab

used to think abortion was wrong. now i realize it's vital to keeping nigger population in check

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878796)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:49 PM
Author: Wild gas station patrolman

Until about 21 I was a big Christmo and even when I stopped that it took a few years to become normal wrt women etc. Made my HS and college years way less fun than they should've been. I'm aspie btw

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878814)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:59 PM
Author: Galvanic nudist jewess multi-billionaire

Women. I'm like that one guy who trusted bears, went out to live with bears, and survived for years until one day all of his preconceived notions about the world were crushed upon a grizzly eating him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878862)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:21 AM
Author: floppy balding space



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878970)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:25 AM
Author: Nighttime Thriller Hunting Ground Hall



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35880908)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:25 AM
Author: 180 hell marketing idea

Yes, I've made as much money in crypto as I thought I'd see when I was like 45, and now I have zero motivation in grad school and wonder about getting out of wagecucking altogether by either trading for the rest of my days or getting in the startup game

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878998)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: Galvanic nudist jewess multi-billionaire

I'm down 30% since February.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879021)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:31 AM
Author: 180 hell marketing idea

Yeah I'm still down from there too but still have LIFE CHANGING money

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879024)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:44 AM
Author: Galvanic nudist jewess multi-billionaire

I got in late. Like, I bought in February. I'm having fun with all the trading though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879111)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:24 AM
Author: Histrionic Elite Area

What is "life changing" money

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35880904)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 2:48 PM
Author: 180 hell marketing idea

you tell me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35882707)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:33 AM
Author: Rambunctious Sex Offender Ladyboy

I believed, fervently, that if I worked hard in school and at work and treated everyone with respect I would soon become wealthy and respected myself

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879030)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:55 AM
Author: carmine sinister kitty cat

Yeah I assumed picking a job to make a good amount of money was a smart decision.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879184)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:59 AM
Author: Lavender station

Ooof

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879218)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:57 AM
Author: Red cruise ship crotch

thought people were running shtick but turns out they really were just that much dumber than i

this whole time

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879194)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 1:07 AM
Author: startling brindle international law enforcement agency halford

So far, no assumptions I've held past 15 or so.

If I actually end up in an LTR I guess that would qualify.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879294)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 1:50 AM
Author: Red cruise ship crotch

the Chad virgin volcel Charles vs the Virgin post-virginity datecucking Charles

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879535)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 2:33 AM
Author: startling brindle international law enforcement agency halford



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879771)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 2:40 AM
Author: floppy balding space



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879795)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:11 AM
Author: azure range



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35880840)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 1:22 AM
Author: Salmon Odious Dog Poop

lmao. many

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879373)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:23 AM
Author: Brass curious ticket booth laser beams



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35880893)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:24 AM
Author: Histrionic Elite Area

That school matters to your success in life--> LOL NO

That I want to be a financially independent, career woman --> LOL NO. I want to be a mooch and have money without being forced to work.

I never really thought or cared about money before working. Then I worked and realize I hate working high paying jobs, so now I just want free money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35880900)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:33 PM
Author: Concupiscible Awkward Ceo Library

"I want to be a mooch and have money without being forced to work."

Where's RSF?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884448)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:26 AM
Author: Histrionic Elite Area

I didn't realize how many NPDs are around - esp in aging white women. I didn't realize just how much mental illness exists in the world.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35880920)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:31 AM
Author: Gold address factory reset button

Short list:

1. i am exceptional

2. my uniqueness means probabilities do not apply. So what if fewer than one-hundredth of one percent of people can maek it as a novelist or artist of some type. That does not apply to me

3. Meaningful, well-paid careers are not something you need to begin planning for and pursuing as a teenager. I can drink and fuck around through my 20s and figure something out later

4. There will always be a pool of marriage-able women, no rush

5. women, at heart, are reasonable like men

6. there comes a time when you "figure shit out" and then just maintain, rather than constantly finding yourself on an incline, confused

But most importantly, like I wrote in number 1... i was sure THE ODDS DONT APPLY TO ME

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35880949)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 11:58 AM
Author: Nighttime Thriller Hunting Ground Hall

number 4 is important and neglected by are culture

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35881570)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 2:02 PM
Author: Spectacular Umber Tank

I used to assume that any negative interaction I had with anyone was due to MY shortcoming. Did not occur to me until mid twenties that some negative interactions were THEIR fault, and THEY are the ones with shitty personalities.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35882299)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 2:12 PM
Author: Beady-eyed Clear Stead

I assumed the wealthy kids I went to an elite boarding school with would all grow up to be successful masters of the universe. In reality, most of them are trust fund babies with dumb jobs ranging from wannabe author to wanna be yogi to wannabe start up founder. Only about 5% of the class has managed to make anything of themselves by 35.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35882376)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 2:15 PM
Author: mind-boggling trailer park

Lots of things about parents. Your parents want the best for you. Your parents know what they’re doing. Your parents love you.

Working hard means you will succeed.

Being smart means you will succeed.

You can make a lot of mistakes when you’re under 30 without consequences.

Liking your spouse and children is always easy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35882403)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 4:06 PM
Author: jade hospital

explain the hard work line, it seems for you it has consistently paid off

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35883338)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:26 PM
Author: Embarrassed to the bone black personal credit line

she's seen plenty of hardworking people dashed against the rocks while her own success is larger than her work ethic

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884386)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:28 PM
Author: Red cruise ship crotch

...also she's a self-hating asian who is bizarrely attempting to suddenly run "chill" shtick since she married "handsome" (a bald cable repairman).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884408)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 4:49 PM
Author: jade hospital



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35883722)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 3:01 PM
Author: violet faggot firefighter

If I just try hard and use my god-given smarts, I will MAEK it!

LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35882823)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 3:15 PM
Author: Concupiscible Awkward Ceo Library

Whoops.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35882981)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 3:54 PM
Author: jade hospital

That people aren't gossiping and talking about you (they are)

That women are reasonable like men (they're not)

Penis size is flame (it's not)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35883255)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 4:51 PM
Author: Judgmental swashbuckling heaven dopamine

name brand school would get me "in"

it has improved my career definitely but had nowhere near the impact i thought it would

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35883732)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 8:01 PM
Author: Vigorous background story

(UNC Wilmington grad)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35885084)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 8:29 PM
Author: Judgmental swashbuckling heaven dopamine

mods

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35885222)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 4:52 PM
Author: costumed shitlib

I thought senior level leaders at big companies were alll highly competent and intelligent people

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35883736)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:56 PM
Author: Obsidian puppy

lol this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884583)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 7:17 PM
Author: Cracking base



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884747)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 8:47 PM
Author: Judgmental swashbuckling heaven dopamine



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35885367)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:21 PM
Author: Embarrassed to the bone black personal credit line

thought i was smart when i was young. i am not.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884357)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:24 PM
Author: Red cruise ship crotch

it's like they always say: there's nothing wrong with being 6'1--its a damn fine height

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884371)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:35 PM
Author: Bat Shit Crazy Lemon Partner

I wanted to be a teacher and married at age 22 with kids.

holy crap I could not have missed that further. Pretty much fucked myself for life because I took the lower Ivy over the State School.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884458)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:42 PM
Author: glittery orchid sweet tailpipe

how was school choice so destructive in your life?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884492)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:45 PM
Author: Bat Shit Crazy Lemon Partner

going to an "elite" striver school pretty much means you will interact exclusively with mentally ill strivers. all horrible creatures.

After you graduate, you will be dumped in a GC major metro with absolutely no social network and regularly dream of total chaos communism as you count off the days until your fortuitous death

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884511)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:48 PM
Author: glittery orchid sweet tailpipe

this hasn't been my experience. did you not make friends in college?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884530)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:49 PM
Author: Bat Shit Crazy Lemon Partner

yes. dozens. They are all nihilistic single bros living in other major metro areas doing the same thing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884537)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:53 PM
Author: glittery orchid sweet tailpipe

i don't understand the absence of a network of alums in a major metro area. were you the only person among your friends to end up there? even if that's the case, surely it's not an endemic condition for ivy grads.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884559)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:54 PM
Author: Bat Shit Crazy Lemon Partner

I'm not in NYC or DC and that's where 90% of people I know went.

Almost certainly "alums" in my metro area, but it's not like we'd be friends. No one I know, at the very least. Alumni network = weird striver flame (an inherent problem of going to a striver school)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884569)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:59 PM
Author: glittery orchid sweet tailpipe

if you made dozens of friends in college, i guess i don't quite understand why you seem to be struggling to meet people afterwards.

also, it doesn't make sense to attend an ivy if your plan is to teach hs.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884605)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 7:00 PM
Author: Bat Shit Crazy Lemon Partner

well, it's both age and a new zeitgeist. You can't organically meet people anymore. In college, you could just go into a basement, get drunk, and chill with total strangers.

In modern 2018 America for an OLDMO, that's called rape.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884618)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 7:06 PM
Author: glittery orchid sweet tailpipe

you can still maek it friend

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884655)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 7:06 PM
Author: Bat Shit Crazy Lemon Partner

no, I cannot. it's all ogre. surrender to the darkness.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884658)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:56 PM
Author: aromatic stag film

All of them.

I cannot make a good decision to save my life.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884578)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 8:47 PM
Author: Big skinny woman

Or a good post

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35885365)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 8:48 PM
Author: Judgmental swashbuckling heaven dopamine

i want to take you out for drinks sometime

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35885373)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:31 PM
Author: canary razzle degenerate

somewhat ironic that you earn money by posturing as a person worth taking advice from

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35885957)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 7:23 PM
Author: Cracking base

I have a follow up question for those who responded itt: If you do have children either now ir later down the road (big if, considering the increasing amount of <><><>foreveralone<><><> both on xo and society in general) - how do you plan on teaching them some of the darker truths of this world when they're older? Or do you plan on letting them figure it out on their own?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884805)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 8:49 PM
Author: Drab whorehouse

you can't teach anyone these things. they can only be learned.

it's why human experience and wisdom is the same story repeated by individuals across history. every epiphany you have was had by someone just like you 3,000 years ago. someone else will be having the same one long after you're dead.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35885381)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 8:54 PM
Author: Big skinny woman

I had a very long relationship with my first girlfriend/wife and always operated under the assumption that it was unbreakable, regardless of what happened. Even when it wasn't going well, the idea of divorce wasn't within my spectrum of possibilities until it actually happened.

Later, I tended to assume my numerous failed internet dates were almost entirely my fault without adequate consideration of the fact that many of the chicks were lame.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35885409)



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Date: April 21st, 2018 10:50 AM
Author: Apoplectic Resort Black Woman

MGTOW

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35887816)