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Theory: attachment disorders warp the dating market

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big fortuitous meteor
  04/21/18
MODS!!!
bronze shrine
  04/21/18
Yeah pretty much. This is why I'm fucked.
Cordovan boistinker
  04/21/18
I'm pretty sure I'm avoidant and want to fix this. One of t...
big fortuitous meteor
  04/21/18
scholarship
hairraiser whorehouse
  04/21/18
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excitant menage
  04/21/18
MGTOW
Slate comical main people goal in life
  04/21/18
hahahahaha holy shit
adventurous school cafeteria
  04/21/18
the dating market creates attachment disorders
Curious locale
  04/21/18
Chicken and the egg
big fortuitous meteor
  04/21/18
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dead national wrinkle
  04/22/18
What is an “attachment disorder”?
exciting olive lay
  04/21/18
anything other than MGTOW
Claret bearded national security agency
  04/21/18
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big fortuitous meteor
  04/21/18
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Amethyst Volcanic Crater Gunner
  04/21/18
I would be surprised if your figure for proportion of people...
Spruce brunch pocket flask
  04/21/18
can you elaborate on attachment styles? i think i am also...
vivacious azn
  04/21/18
There's a million resources on attachment styles in relation...
big fortuitous meteor
  04/21/18
Behold!
poppy splenetic bbw
  04/21/18
garbage dating market and other forces operate on your 2/3r...
Erotic Umber Sound Barrier
  04/21/18
Not bad other than your statistics are retarded and make no ...
self-absorbed insane scourge upon the earth
  04/22/18
cr only makes sense insofar as women getting passed around ...
Erotic Umber Sound Barrier
  04/22/18
credited, but a little extreme w/ the last two sentences. al...
sooty boyish dopamine
  04/22/18
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khaki hell giraffe
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Date: April 21st, 2018 2:37 AM
Author: big fortuitous meteor



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Date: April 21st, 2018 2:45 AM
Author: bronze shrine

MODS!!!

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Date: April 21st, 2018 9:25 AM
Author: Cordovan boistinker

Yeah pretty much. This is why I'm fucked.

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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:13 PM
Author: big fortuitous meteor

I'm pretty sure I'm avoidant and want to fix this. One of the best ways to do so is to find someone who can securely attached, but they're becoming more rare as I get older

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Date: April 21st, 2018 2:42 AM
Author: hairraiser whorehouse

scholarship

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Date: April 21st, 2018 8:54 AM
Author: excitant menage



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Date: April 21st, 2018 5:03 AM
Author: Slate comical main people goal in life

MGTOW

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Date: April 21st, 2018 8:28 AM
Author: adventurous school cafeteria

hahahahaha holy shit

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Date: April 21st, 2018 8:32 AM
Author: Curious locale

the dating market creates attachment disorders

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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:13 PM
Author: big fortuitous meteor

Chicken and the egg

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Date: April 22nd, 2018 10:37 AM
Author: dead national wrinkle



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Date: April 21st, 2018 8:58 AM
Author: exciting olive lay

What is an “attachment disorder”?

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Date: April 21st, 2018 9:00 AM
Author: Claret bearded national security agency

anything other than MGTOW

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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:14 AM
Author: big fortuitous meteor



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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:16 AM
Author: Amethyst Volcanic Crater Gunner



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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:23 AM
Author: Spruce brunch pocket flask

I would be surprised if your figure for proportion of people with secure attachment styles was right. It's also a staggeringly vauge concept, to the point were even those to whom the binary distinction applies are still going to have relationship ending psychological tendencies

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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:21 PM
Author: vivacious azn

can you elaborate on attachment styles?

i think i am also avoidant, i tend to reach for flaws in a person (or even in myself) as a reason to reject them. i push them away to see whether they come back, and i do this repeatedly until they don't come back, and then i feel sad about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3955566&forum_id=2#35891695)



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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:33 PM
Author: big fortuitous meteor

There's a million resources on attachment styles in relationships. I would google it and read the clinical/psychological articles rather than any shitty buzzfeed links

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attachment_theory

https://www.atlantacenterforcoupletherapy.com/relationships-the-avoidant-style/

https://blogs.psychcentral.com/imperfect/2017/03/avoidant-attachment-style-change/

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-mysteries-love/201503/how-change-your-attachment-style%3famp



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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:23 PM
Author: poppy splenetic bbw

Behold!

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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:35 PM
Author: Erotic Umber Sound Barrier

garbage

dating market and other forces operate on your 2/3rds

LJL

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Date: April 22nd, 2018 1:38 AM
Author: self-absorbed insane scourge upon the earth

Not bad other than your statistics are retarded and make no sense

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Date: April 22nd, 2018 2:02 AM
Author: Erotic Umber Sound Barrier

cr

only makes sense insofar as women getting passed around on tinder get real fucked up

otherwise, worthless poast

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Date: April 22nd, 2018 2:06 AM
Author: sooty boyish dopamine

credited, but a little extreme w/ the last two sentences. also, a lot of people who were nerds or without social skills in high school/college "reliving" their youth and having lots of random hookups, chasing validation in their 20's on hookup apps

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3955566&forum_id=2#35892458)



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Date: April 22nd, 2018 10:29 AM
Author: khaki hell giraffe



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