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Nosey, busbody people at work, how do you deal with them?

I had a small argument with a coworker, which wasn't a big d...
Snowy shaky mental disorder
  04/21/18
ignore these kind of things get forgotten quickly. avoid t...
Stimulating Indirect Expression Institution
  04/22/18
titcr
Snowy shaky mental disorder
  04/22/18
You can't. When I was starting my job, some of the younger c...
Razzle roast beef
  04/21/18
That's fucked up, man. Were they doing this with everyone or...
Snowy shaky mental disorder
  04/21/18
Just people they don't like or who aren't in their circle, w...
Razzle roast beef
  04/21/18
Did you keep the job, or did you lose it? How young are we t...
Snowy shaky mental disorder
  04/21/18
No way at all. I changed jobs.
Razzle roast beef
  04/21/18
How's the new job? Same/similar shit?
Snowy shaky mental disorder
  04/22/18
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vivacious location international law enforcement agency
  04/22/18
Can you not engage and do your job and not get crushed? That...
Snowy shaky mental disorder
  04/22/18
toxic people living in a toxic world
Stimulating Indirect Expression Institution
  04/22/18
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Snowy shaky mental disorder
  04/22/18
deny they were present. counter they're creepy and a lot of ...
Hateful coffee pot
  04/22/18


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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:34 PM
Author: Snowy shaky mental disorder

I had a small argument with a coworker, which wasn't a big deal and we settled it quickly.

So the woman who was sitting across caught part of it. She then went to ask my coworkers what had happened. She gathered all the details, and when she had a meeting with our boss, she brought it up, lol.

What kind of person does this? She had nothing to do with it, zero involvement, the shit ended in 2 seconds, and this bitch is now giving it a life of its own.

How do you deal with a shitsack like this?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3956228&forum_id=2#35891743)



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Date: April 22nd, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: Stimulating Indirect Expression Institution

ignore

these kind of things get forgotten quickly.

avoid this woman when at all possible

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3956228&forum_id=2#35891992)



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Date: April 22nd, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Snowy shaky mental disorder

titcr

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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:37 PM
Author: Razzle roast beef

You can't. When I was starting my job, some of the younger colleagues who had been there for 3-4 years were looking at my work and building a case of my mistakes to show my supervisor. Instead of telling me and giving me a chance to correct and improve as a new hire, they tried to show a pattern and show it to my supervisor. This is why work is so degrading. People are assholes everywhere and it will affect your money. I wish I could retire yesterday.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3956228&forum_id=2#35891757)



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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:41 PM
Author: Snowy shaky mental disorder

That's fucked up, man. Were they doing this with everyone or just with people they didn't like? Did they dislike you for some reason?

You're right, work environments suck and they affect your money. Ever taken revenge against anyone? I've lost huge amounts of money due to people who were pretty incompetent but who somehow were more tenured and had enough connections within the company to fuck anyone they wanted over.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3956228&forum_id=2#35891773)



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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:43 PM
Author: Razzle roast beef

Just people they don't like or who aren't in their circle, which includes the last two new hires who got dismissed. They've lost some credibility with upper management though given that we are already understaffed. There are people within their circle who make the same constant mistakes, but don't get reported. I think they do this due to either boredom or to divert attention from their own shortcomings

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3956228&forum_id=2#35891780)



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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:48 PM
Author: Snowy shaky mental disorder

Did you keep the job, or did you lose it? How young are we talking about?

I tried to fuck somebody over once and made a complaint all the way to VP levels, even SVP levels. This person was breaking every rule in the company and had already 10+ complaints from other people.

For whatever reason, they could not fire her. I still can't comprehend it, but she'd been at the company for 10 years, had a shitty as hell personality, was incompetent, did not reach her goals, but had some internal connections that allowed her to treat her job like it was her own business.

There's literally no way to get someone like that fired, amirite? Or at least in big shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3956228&forum_id=2#35891810)



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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:48 PM
Author: Razzle roast beef

No way at all. I changed jobs.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3956228&forum_id=2#35891819)



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Date: April 22nd, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: Snowy shaky mental disorder

How's the new job? Same/similar shit?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3956228&forum_id=2#35891935)



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Date: April 22nd, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: vivacious location international law enforcement agency



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Date: April 22nd, 2018 12:19 AM
Author: Snowy shaky mental disorder

Can you not engage and do your job and not get crushed? That's what I try to do all the time. Keep good relationships with higher-ups, keep to myself, try to be friendly when I'm forced to be with them, end of it.

The one time I couldn't take it was when despite doing all of the above, the bitch who was above me went out of her way to be horrible to every single person who was her subordinate. She ended up keeping only either the youngest, most inexperienced and easy to manipulate or the ones who kissed up to her. She effectively got rid of the most talented people who wouldn't take shit and kept a team of sheep who did mediocre work.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3956228&forum_id=2#35891956)



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Date: April 22nd, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: Stimulating Indirect Expression Institution

toxic people living in a toxic world

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Date: April 22nd, 2018 7:10 PM
Author: Snowy shaky mental disorder



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Date: April 22nd, 2018 7:11 PM
Author: Hateful coffee pot

deny they were present. counter they're creepy and a lot of girls were complaining about them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3956228&forum_id=2#35896042)