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girls who say "you're not gonna ghost me, right"

has this happened to them before or do they like me and want...
smoky public bath
  04/23/18
just don't respond and ghost them
Frum forum
  04/23/18
They want to ghost you first
Buff Tanning Salon Reading Party
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duck-like high-end nowag yarmulke
  04/23/18
That's sad. Happens a lot. Or girls plaintively asking with ...
Out-of-control state
  04/23/18
yea have gotten that before too. it makes me feel slightly d...
smoky public bath
  04/23/18
This kind of thing made me realize personality really does m...
Out-of-control state
  04/23/18
the begging is 180
razzmatazz gay wizard
  04/23/18
It's sad and makes me feel terrible. Especially the last tex...
Out-of-control state
  04/23/18
Lol, no it is not
canary center
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wine theater philosopher-king
  04/23/18
You're being mentally ill. That's just a well-adjusted chick...
vivacious marketing idea
  04/23/18
That text is charming a day after. When it follows after 7 u...
Out-of-control state
  04/23/18
That's on you for providing us with incomplete information t...
vivacious marketing idea
  04/23/18
mods
green step-uncle's house half-breed
  04/23/18
This is more toxic than the Chad-sperm-in-brain threading
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Out-of-control state
  04/23/18
disagree. the hypothetical OP (assuming not flame) is clearl...
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  04/23/18
these girls like getting choked when you bang them
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Medicated pervert psychic
  04/23/18
that's literally all girls, bro
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Nudist Fantasy-prone Spot
  04/24/18
lol they are taking chads massive fat smelly cock within hou...
rusted idiot
  04/23/18
Yeah it’s the other way around
White Yapping Karate Hissy Fit
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painfully honest hospital bbw
  04/23/18
Cool story, pepito.
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Out-of-control state
  04/23/18
reminds me of the cringe-worthy scene in Her when he goes on...
Cordovan arousing regret mexican
  04/23/18
never understood how a horny dude doesn't just say yeah yeah...
exhilarant office useless brakes
  04/23/18
At some point you develop guilt doing this frequently
Out-of-control state
  04/23/18
a) he's clearly a super awkward guy in the movie, not incel,...
Cordovan arousing regret mexican
  04/23/18
It also sets her up as roadkill and somebody else's leftover...
Out-of-control state
  04/23/18
yeah, on the one hand, it's tempting to blame them for it an...
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bossy vibrant private investor potus
  04/24/18
Nothing I love more than a casual who loves me
Thriller skinny woman
  04/23/18
Never know what hit 'em
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  04/23/18
What do you think motivates a girl to say this? Do you think...
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  04/23/18
She's opening up and being vulnerable about her fear that yo...
Mint Sex Offender Shrine
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cream wonderful multi-billionaire
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Nudist Fantasy-prone Spot
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Startled Box Office
  04/24/18
It shows very poor judgement on their part to say this. If y...
bronze liquid oxygen masturbator
  04/23/18
If someone says this, they have been ghosted AT LEAST twice....
bronze liquid oxygen masturbator
  04/23/18
Why does being ghosted mean they’re bad people?
Buff Tanning Salon Reading Party
  04/23/18
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painfully honest hospital bbw
  04/23/18
It doesn’t mean they’re bad people, but they’re clingier as ...
bronze liquid oxygen masturbator
  04/23/18
It doesn't mean they're bad people. It's quite sad, unfortun...
Mint Sex Offender Shrine
  04/24/18
:(
Buff Tanning Salon Reading Party
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Startled Box Office
  04/24/18
ITT: a bunch of pencildicked cumskin dorks discuss sex whils...
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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:13 PM
Author: smoky public bath

has this happened to them before or do they like me and want me to stay with them or a combo of both? have had two girls in the last month say this to me in person by the end of the second date

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902183)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:14 PM
Author: Frum forum

just don't respond and ghost them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902188)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:15 PM
Author: Buff Tanning Salon Reading Party

They want to ghost you first

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902201)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:02 PM
Author: duck-like high-end nowag yarmulke



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904605)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:15 PM
Author: Out-of-control state

That's sad. Happens a lot. Or girls plaintively asking with big eyes if you want to see them again.

Smh modern society has destroyed women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902204)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:18 PM
Author: smoky public bath

yea have gotten that before too. it makes me feel slightly decent in the moment bc i know they like me but it makes me feel really guilty when i inevitably ghost/dump them. never seems to happen with girls i have a mutual like for though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902226)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:20 PM
Author: Out-of-control state

This kind of thing made me realize personality really does matter for women a lot. The begging is unattractive.

Ofc if the same girl expressed only passing interest I'd be all over her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902238)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:41 PM
Author: razzmatazz gay wizard

the begging is 180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902423)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:47 PM
Author: Out-of-control state

It's sad and makes me feel terrible. Especially the last text. "Well I had a great time meeting you! If you ever want to hang out sometime let me know :-)"

Poor girls. As terrible as dating is for men these days it psychologically far more brutal on women.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902465)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:52 PM
Author: canary center

Lol, no it is not

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902497)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:14 PM
Author: wine theater philosopher-king



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903903)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:13 PM
Author: vivacious marketing idea

You're being mentally ill. That's just a well-adjusted chick being polite and expressing interest in seeing you again.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903888)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:16 PM
Author: Out-of-control state

That text is charming a day after. When it follows after 7 unanswered texts with increasing time gaps and urgency.....

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903913)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 10:08 PM
Author: vivacious marketing idea

That's on you for providing us with incomplete information to analyze. In the hypothetical, as presented, the chick acted properly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35905109)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:48 PM
Author: green step-uncle's house half-breed

mods

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902470)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:19 PM
Author: buck-toothed kink-friendly crotch main people

This is more toxic than the Chad-sperm-in-brain threading

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902237)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:41 PM
Author: Out-of-control state



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902418)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:27 PM
Author: crystalline meetinghouse foreskin

disagree. the hypothetical OP (assuming not flame) is clearly discussing this from a CHAD perspective. So this only happens when individuals vastly misread the market and exclusively pursue Chad. So they bring this on themselves.

I similarly have little empathy for medianpwned students who strike out because they're only willing to work at V10.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904834)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:43 PM
Author: cream wonderful multi-billionaire

these girls like getting choked when you bang them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902432)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:06 PM
Author: Medicated pervert psychic



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903849)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:13 PM
Author: Cordovan arousing regret mexican

that's literally all girls, bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903896)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:13 PM
Author: exhilarant office useless brakes



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903899)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:53 PM
Author: cream wonderful multi-billionaire



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904153)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:53 PM
Author: cream wonderful multi-billionaire



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904152)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 12:49 AM
Author: Nudist Fantasy-prone Spot



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35906349)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:44 PM
Author: rusted idiot

lol they are taking chads massive fat smelly cock within hours of meeting you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902437)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:47 PM
Author: White Yapping Karate Hissy Fit

Yeah it’s the other way around

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902457)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:50 PM
Author: painfully honest hospital bbw



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902478)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:26 PM
Author: bronze liquid oxygen masturbator

Cool story, pepito.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904830)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:01 PM
Author: Out-of-control state



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903830)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:04 PM
Author: Cordovan arousing regret mexican

reminds me of the cringe-worthy scene in Her when he goes on the date with Olivia Wilde, starts making out with her, and then she stops and says "you're not just gonna fuck me and not call like the other guys, right?"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903839)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:13 PM
Author: exhilarant office useless brakes

never understood how a horny dude doesn't just say yeah yeah babe I think you're great

*fuck then ghost*

he'd not stop and be so faggy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903898)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:16 PM
Author: Out-of-control state

At some point you develop guilt doing this frequently

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903917)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:18 PM
Author: Cordovan arousing regret mexican

a) he's clearly a super awkward guy in the movie, not incel, but bad with IRL women

b) it is definitely a bonerkill of a line, especially in its crudity, immediately summoning mental images of her riding the cock carousel countless times. A true Chad might not care, but for any average guy, it's a big turn off

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903934)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:21 PM
Author: Out-of-control state

It also sets her up as roadkill and somebody else's leftovers.

Girls who use that line are already broken fundamentally and cannot be dated.

It's sad af. They aren't responsible for their bird brains being manipulated and shaped like this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903956)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:23 PM
Author: Cordovan arousing regret mexican

yeah, on the one hand, it's tempting to blame them for it and judge them harshly

on the other hand, it wasn't always this way. I mean, a slut in the 1940s deserved to be shunned because all of society/culture was incentivizing them to settle down early and be virtuous. Nowadays, their bird brains, as you noted, are bombarded literally 24/7 with the message of COCK COCK CUM, so I mostly feel bad for them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903968)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:25 PM
Author: Out-of-control state



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903980)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:15 AM
Author: bossy vibrant private investor potus



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35907747)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:07 PM
Author: Thriller skinny woman

Nothing I love more than a casual who loves me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903851)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:21 PM
Author: transparent exciting garrison

Never know what hit 'em

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903957)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:52 PM
Author: massive lilac generalized bond

What do you think motivates a girl to say this? Do you think they believe it will get someone who was on the fence to not ghost? Or that someone who would ghost would feel guilty and leave?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904148)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 8:21 PM
Author: Mint Sex Offender Shrine

She's opening up and being vulnerable about her fear that you'll pump and dump which is a natural progression to her letting you fuck her.

Yes, this is a major turn off and makes me view the girl as leftovers. It's a common line you get from girls who are 6s that are very fuckable in the eyes of top 20% dudes but not long term dateable.

These girls tend to lie around the 60th percentile and can short term date (ie fuck for a few months) guys in the 80th percentile but guys in the 80th percentile ultimately know they can do better (80th percentile women). It is this statistical mismatch between genders that really fucks things up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904380)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:25 PM
Author: Lemon contagious location preventive strike



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904823)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:25 PM
Author: cream wonderful multi-billionaire



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904829)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 12:51 AM
Author: Nudist Fantasy-prone Spot



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35906362)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 8:48 AM
Author: Startled Box Office



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35907171)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:28 PM
Author: bronze liquid oxygen masturbator

It shows very poor judgement on their part to say this. If you’re worried about someone ghosting you, ghost them first and play hard to get. Guys like the chase.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904840)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:27 PM
Author: bronze liquid oxygen masturbator

If someone says this, they have been ghosted AT LEAST twice. Run.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904831)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:30 PM
Author: Buff Tanning Salon Reading Party

Why does being ghosted mean they’re bad people?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904857)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:33 PM
Author: painfully honest hospital bbw



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904883)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:51 PM
Author: bronze liquid oxygen masturbator

It doesn’t mean they’re bad people, but they’re clingier as a result of being ghosted. It’s attachment theory 101.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35905016)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 2:15 AM
Author: Mint Sex Offender Shrine

It doesn't mean they're bad people. It's quite sad, unfortunately. It just means they overestimate their value as a long-term dating prospect.

They won't get much sympathy from non-Chads though for obvious reasons since non-Chads feel spurned by these girls. High value dudes may feel bad for them though because these girls will chase them and depending on their conscience, they'll either fuck and chuck, or politely turn them down. If the former, they're either sociopaths or will eventually stop after one too many guilt trips or finding a satisfactory long-term partner.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35906594)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 8:47 AM
Author: Buff Tanning Salon Reading Party

:(

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35907167)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 8:49 AM
Author: Startled Box Office



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35907173)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 4:28 AM
Author: Mauve deer antler

ITT: a bunch of pencildicked cumskin dorks discuss sex whilst NYUUG sportfucks their women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35906845)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:13 AM
Author: Medicated pervert psychic

Would have been peak experience, cum inducing if you jammed a gun into the belly and whispered, "....yes..."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35907732)