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Date: April 25th, 2018 11:38 AM Author: plum hominid
My wife is now saying she “just doesn’t want to work for a while now” and has been going on rants about the indignities of wage cucking for a living. She alternates between saying that we need to forget about my career and move to somewhere rural with a low COL (where she will make the most money) and buy a house for cash so we aren’t beholden to employers to saying that she should just stay at home and maybe get a part-time gig in the future.
Really, I don’t have a problem with option number 2 if we can relocate to a lower COL state. But her list of states she will consider is vanishingly small. She found a job in my home state, which would be near my family and have a low COL, but it is too cold and high tax for her tastes. She wants to live someplace warm, with no or low state income taxes, that has lots of jobs for her that pay well and do not require call/weekends. Texas is too humid and expensive (in the few parts she would consider living, like Austin) and far from her family. Florida has a shitty job market and is filled with trashy people - requiring an expensive house to avoid them. Colorado is too cold and she doesn’t know anyone there. So basically she wants to move to someplace like Chattanooga and I guess I am supposed to open a small business or be a SAHD.
Context: http://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&mc=194&forum_id=2
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959425&forum_id=2#35916355) |
Date: April 25th, 2018 11:42 AM Author: Blue ticket booth elastic band
Women are hilarious about this.
When they're not working, they're finding themselves, empowered, etc. If you're without a job for a day and spend ten minutes playing video game, you're Peter Pan.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959425&forum_id=2#35916383) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 11:53 AM Author: rough-skinned exhilarant trust fund pocket flask
To be fair, women just value different things in men. They value men who can provide and are ambitious.
Men value hot chicks who like to fuck and who procreate.
We'd all be better off if we accepted what the other sex wants.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959425&forum_id=2#35916471) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 11:45 AM Author: rough-skinned exhilarant trust fund pocket flask
Eh, idk.
There's a difference between being in a stable middle class community vs being in a violent crime-ridden neighborhood or one filled with meth-addled trash.
You can certainly do the former, and given their potential income it will be pretty low COL to them
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959425&forum_id=2#35916411) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 11:49 AM Author: Cracking electric furnace hunting ground
Prole Maine trash is indistinguishable from other Mainites
just buy some land with maple trees and learn the syrup biz and build a break-even small batch syrup bidniz and enjoy everything at the law school reunions thinking you're preftigious af
i know someone who did something similar but it's a finca in panama instead, owning a plantation in foreign country sounds turbopreftigious
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959425&forum_id=2#35916452) |
Date: April 25th, 2018 11:46 AM Author: Garnet Talented Piazza
Emphasize the importance of balanced, patient reflection into such important choices. Mention that a rash decision about something like this could end up immensely diminishing your long-term happiness and income potential -- and that all you get in return is the short-term satisfaction of feeling like you're doing something decisively to address what is undoubtedly her current state of mild depression and anxiety punctuated by passing moments of panic.
The nice thing is that women are naturally better at not freaking out over being at home all day. It doesn't feel like it, but your bigger risk here, empirically -- assuming you're not a huge pussy who lets his wife make shitty life-altering decisions for both of you at the drop of a hat -- is that she settles in and decides to be a SAHM. As much as I used to want a SAHM (I had one growing up), I really really like the extra income coming in from my wife.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959425&forum_id=2#35916420) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 12:31 PM Author: lavender site
Lol at “mild depression and anxiety.” Clearly you haven’t seen his entire saga. Her entire MO is to freak out. His wife is bipolar and based on his description prob also has NPD.
You can’t reason with crazy and he’s chosen to stick it out supposedly for the sake of his daughter when it’s really because he’s a giant pussy who can’t take short term pain to get his daughter to a better place long term.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959425&forum_id=2#35916827)
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Date: April 25th, 2018 11:48 AM Author: Drunken resort travel guidebook
Chattanooga seems chill as fuck though. Great weather, close to an enormous national park, great white water rafting, and a chill beer/brewery culture
Getting a house on Lookout Mountain would be 180
Also an hour and a half (or less) from ATlanta and Nashville and Knoxville and Asheville.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959425&forum_id=2#35916443) |
Date: April 25th, 2018 1:46 PM Author: jet-lagged sable base
dude you have to stop being such a pussy. jesus christ. it's your fucking job to put your wife in her place and tell her what to do
if you really can't handle this, then just call up her dad and have him talk some sense into her
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959425&forum_id=2#35917552) |
Date: April 25th, 2018 2:23 PM Author: Supple milky pervert
My most significant relationship was with a girl with Borderline PD. I still miss her very much and would likely take her back despite it being a year since we split—she with me. Volatile women can be enchanting, and despite all her frequent and spectacular blowups I was captivated.
Jesus fucking Christ, TC. Thank you for reminding me how much better off I am single.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959425&forum_id=2#35917929) |
Date: April 25th, 2018 4:45 PM Author: flushed parlour newt
LOL Didn't I tell you yesterday that she likely won't work in the future and you didn't believe me?
NEWSFLASH: She's not going to work and if she does, it will be for a brief moment. If you have another kid, she will NEVER work again.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959425&forum_id=2#35919272)
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Date: April 25th, 2018 4:47 PM Author: flushed parlour newt
Here's my prediction for your future:
She won't work. You will bear the burden, accidentally get her pregnant (or maybe she will intentionally get pregnant again and use the second kid as an excuse to never work again). After she has her second baby, she will get fat and ugly (yet she will become more and more obsessed with maintaining her looks and pursue plastic surgery, etc.). You guys will move to flyover at some point, where she bitch and complain about your job not paying enough. At some point, you will likely want to cheat on her and maybe will - if she ever finds out she will either kill you or make your life a living hell for the rest of your life. The older she gets, the more controlling she'll get.
Also, at least 1 out of 2 of your kids will also have BPD.
Within a few years you will fall completely out of love with her, she will be ugly and won't make any money, and become more and more controlling and you'll wonder why you didn't listen to our advice in the first place. But at that point you will feel stuck and you will never leave her. Instead, you will die on your death bed wondering "what if", staring at the fat, ugly woman who controlled you for your entire life and who will outlive you for many years.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959425&forum_id=2#35919288) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 5:46 PM Author: shaky razzmatazz friendly grandma
So she'll pull in 200K
you make 150K?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959425&forum_id=2#35919740)
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Date: April 25th, 2018 6:36 PM Author: flushed parlour newt
lol, just a month ago you were posting about your VEGAS shenanigans where she went batshit crazy/threatened to throw your stuff out of the house when you did not respond to your phone for like 1 hour
you are so delusional (or suffer from memory loss), it's hilarious
i look forward to bumping this thread in a few years when i am proven right
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959425&forum_id=2#35920101)
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