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Date: April 25th, 2018 8:00 PM Author: sapphire school toaster
Over the last 24 hours, CharlesXII has raised $120 from XO poasters to finance his paid dating site profiles. Charles is humbled by this outpouring of support and wants to pass on that he's incredibly grateful to all of his fans and well-wishers. You can donate BTC at 3QYLKs9iaHYv7sggSqPn2EhpzNb29UXfq6 and ETH at 0x152254596a939FC4d44dcA04e0F5F06836555d2c
CharlesXII has upgraded his OKCupid profile to A-List. I'm pleased to report that we have learned the identity of FIVE girls who "liked" his profile.
Three of these girls were heathen degenerates that Charles has no interest in dating. One was an obese pansexual, one was bi, and one identified as a "vampire" - these have been dismissed from further consideration. We are currently pursuing three girls on OKC:
(1) a girl with a very weird pet. We won't out what it is, but it's something in the raccoon or opossum tier of rarity.
(2) An African-American girl who likes video games.
(3) A petite, very attractive blonde Catholic girl who is very family focused.
Charles has already, or will shortly send messages to all three of these women. Again, they have all viewed his profile and hit "liked"
Separately, I can confirm that Charles has sent an email to an IRL girl he met at a church function. Said email makes an offer of going to do an outdoors activity together.
I'm now available for questions.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959999&forum_id=2#35920613) |
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Date: May 12th, 2018 1:16 AM Author: silver spectacular liquid oxygen temple
Prior to entering the NFL, Davenport allegedly broke into the dorm room of a Barry University woman and defecated in a laundry basket on April 1, 2002.[6] A woman sleeping in the room told police she was startled by a strange grunting sound and observed Davenport in a squatted position, evacuating his bowels and voiding into a laundry hamper in her closet.[7][8] In a plea bargain, his felony charge of second-degree burglary and misdemeanor count of criminal mischief were dropped in exchange for his completing 100 hours of community service.[9] Davenport maintained his innocence after the hearing, demanding outside of the courthouse, "Where's the evidence? Where's the manure? I know I didn't do it – I just wanted to get it over with."[10]
During his career, Davenport was given the nicknames "Dookie"[11] and "The Dump Truck."[12] While playing for the Packers, a portable commode was placed inside of his locker during training camp as a rookie hazing prank,[13] and a spirited letter writing campaign to the Green Bay team equipment manager asked in jest that he be issued jersey Number Two for practice,[14] which is still referenced during the opening of the "D-List" show on WAUK ESPN 540 in Milwaukee.[15] All are plays on the incident.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959999&forum_id=2#36034950)
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Date: April 25th, 2018 8:07 PM Author: razzle maize hell
1, not really, and we have very little in common. However, she liked me so Krampus is strongly encouraging me to message/set up a date just for the sake of practice.
2 is a little more appealing across the board but once again it'd probably just be for practice.
Only 3 + irl church girl are truly interesting I'd say.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959999&forum_id=2#35920666) |
Date: April 25th, 2018 9:20 PM Author: infuriating internet-worthy hall
judging by that UWS thread you're like the nicest person on this board (not racist, care what happens to people poorer than you)
what brings you to this shithole
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959999&forum_id=2#35921090) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 9:30 PM Author: sapphire school toaster
there's always been casual racism on XO, what's changed now is how aggressive the racists are. they used to stick to their own threads. Now, not only do they make 3-4x the number of racist threads, but they'll barge into other threads and be like "DID YOU KNOW I HATE BLACK PEOPLE???"
but, alas, on a good day when the toxic race realism posters are not around, this can still be a great place to talk about the International Federation of Naked Bodybuilders and the relative prestige of MBA programs
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959999&forum_id=2#35921134)
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Date: April 25th, 2018 10:41 PM Author: filthy crackhouse yarmulke
"Over the last 24 hours, CharlesXII has raised $120 from XO poasters to finance his paid dating site profile"
lol, isn't that 3 ppl?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959999&forum_id=2#35921599) |
Date: April 26th, 2018 7:04 PM Author: sapphire school toaster
he just got "LIKED" by a Catholic girl with a 96% match!
we need to pressure him into messaging her. he seems put off by the fact that she is a bit chubby.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959999&forum_id=2#35927436) |
Date: May 11th, 2018 1:58 PM Author: razzle maize hell
Update- Church chick has just CANCELED out of hike tomorrow. Rate dunhere status based on this email message:
"Hey, Charles, I know I was planning to go tomorrow with [parish group] but I just got off a long stretch of days / nights at work and I have to go back on Sunday, so it just doesn't seem like a good idea survival-wise. My body is too ready to shut down for a few hours at least. :P
Sorry I can't come this time. I will see you another time soon, I hope?
God bless!"
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959999&forum_id=2#36030548) |
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Date: May 11th, 2018 2:00 PM Author: sapphire school toaster
so what should he do here:
Option 1: wait until another church event is performed, invite her to that
Option 2: flip the script and ask her out to a non-church thing
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959999&forum_id=2#36030563) |
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Date: May 11th, 2018 2:06 PM Author: wonderful mentally impaired casino
Honestly, seems reasonable.
Also lets you know where you stand. I don't think your done here just yet. Give her a quick "very understandable, will get back with you later in the week to reschedule something different/more fun. *Thumbs up emoji*"
Call her on Wednesday at the earliest. If she negs you, your done here and never contact her again unless she contacts you first.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959999&forum_id=2#36030610) |
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Date: May 11th, 2018 2:12 PM Author: cracking boistinker
Cr
If she was absolutely not interested in spending time w him
1- she wouldnt have initiated the facebook add
2- she would have said "i cant come, but thanks for invite"
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959999&forum_id=2#36030656)
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Date: May 11th, 2018 2:40 PM Author: Demanding box office
This.
Charles is absolutely not done here.
And he should suggest another date.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959999&forum_id=2#36030861) |
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Date: May 11th, 2018 2:15 PM Author: wonderful mentally impaired casino
I always give at least 1 second chance. Shit happens and I get it.
I don't like the date he had planned though. Dates need to be one-on-one, at night.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959999&forum_id=2#36030678)
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Date: May 11th, 2018 3:37 PM Author: razzle maize hell
Aaaaaand she is free next weekend.
Now what do I do?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959999&forum_id=2#36031239) |
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Date: May 11th, 2018 3:46 PM Author: filthy crackhouse yarmulke
he can
1. bring food he cooked himself and talk about his health/fitness goals
2. historybuff it up
at the same time. seems very 180.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959999&forum_id=2#36031299) |
Date: May 15th, 2018 11:47 PM Author: razzle maize hell
Update: Got canceled on.
"Charles,
I really wanted to go when we set this up but I am just not interested anymore. I think it would be unfair of me to not let you know now.
[Girl]"
Shit sucks, bros.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959999&forum_id=2#36059317) |
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Date: May 15th, 2018 11:56 PM Author: Provocative lodge
no, there have been 3 separate girl storylines recently:
- bowling chick who offered him a ride home. He said he wasn't attracted to her so didn't pursue further
- the chick in question, whom he met at one church event and invited on the hike, she declined, then they rescheduled for a walk, now she's rejecting him
- MOST INTERESTING: chick he met on the church hike and then played board games with who sounds virtuous as fuckkkk
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959999&forum_id=2#36059383) |
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Date: May 16th, 2018 10:26 AM Author: nubile onyx elastic band
Dear Charles,
Was really excited to spend some time together discussing medieval literature, but I kept thinking about your receding hairline and it made my vagina dryer than the Sahara desert.
Very truly Yrs
etc etc
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959999&forum_id=2#36061139) |
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Date: May 16th, 2018 10:38 AM Author: razzle maize hell
Between the acceptance and rejection my only FB stuff was commenting in a discussion thread about China demanding the Gap change a t-shirt they were selling. In general I don't post much on FB but it's possible she could have crawled through my history and disliked what she found, I guess.
I guess the vibe dying is possible. Here was the order of events:
-Meet in late April
-A week later, notice church hike coming up, invite her to go, she says she will
-One day before hike she cancels citing how tired she'd be on Sunday, but says she'd like to see me again soo.
-I counteroffer by suggesting something later and she seems interested and says her weekend is free.
-I suggest lunch and a walk on the Mall, she says "That sounds perfect =)"
-I say that's great and send her my phone # for coordination purposes, obviously inviting her to reply with her own.
-She doesn't respond at all and then cancels on me last night. The end.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959999&forum_id=2#36061229) |
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Date: May 16th, 2018 10:38 AM Author: Demanding box office
happens all of the time.
part of the process.
i've bailed on girls, they've bailed on me.
never feels good in the moment, that's human nature, but eventually you learn it's just for the best and move on.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959999&forum_id=2#36061228) |
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Date: May 17th, 2018 11:44 AM Author: wonderful mentally impaired casino
I'll second this.
Getting over rejection is one of the biggest hurdles any man can overcome. I've said it in previous threads, but this is actually a good thing.
Charles, we've all been rejected and it sucks. For me, it actually sucks worse sometimes when the chick isn't even hot. With a really hot chick, you're almost expecting it. With an average chick it can cut right into your ego.
The important thing here is that you just keep getting on the horse. You will get rejected again, surely, but the sting is a bit less each time. Before long, you'll unknowingly be impervious to rejection's sting and you'll be the one rejecting.
Like someone else said, if you've got a lot of chicks in the hopper, the less you care. (CW says the same thing). Keep building the hopper.
some women will surprise you. You will be more attracted to some women after getting to know them than you had planned, and other women after talking to them, you'll realize you want nothing to do with them again.
At least this chick was decent and sent you a note, that's better than the 90% of women that will flat out ghost you.
All in all, a good learning experience.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959999&forum_id=2#36069034) |
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Date: May 18th, 2018 2:15 PM Author: wonderful mentally impaired casino
Once again you do not understand women.
The principles are the same, no matter the woman. Charles is not a Pick Up Artist, we can all agree. I presume that he hasn't dated a lot in his life and doesn't have a lot of crucial experience with the opposite sex.
Corey Wayne could teach him a few easy things that will help him out a lot and not shoot himself in the foot. Particularly, staying aloof, not appearing overly-eager, not being jealous, etc., etc. Sure there are outliers among women, but generally (95%) are fundamentally the same, no matter their religion or principles.
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Date: May 17th, 2018 11:46 AM Author: wonderful mentally impaired casino
Never do coffee/lunch dates according to CW.
Always pick dates that could potentially lead to sex. You don't need to get laid, but the potential needs to be there for the woman to take you seriously. This is what Chad does. Chad doesn't do lunch/coffee dates.
I've never had good success with lunch/coffee dates, you set yourself up for failure right away because the "date" seems more like an intellectual endeavor as opposed to a raw passionate pursuit.
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Date: May 18th, 2018 1:45 PM Author: Demanding box office
I have a lot of online dating experience -- not so much in the last few years, because I've been dealing with my own personal issues, but from '09 to '14. A lot of that was in the DC area.
When I first started I had just come out of a long-term rel'p, hadn't dated in many years, and had no idea what I was doing. Online dating was pretty new at the time, too. I would do dinner dates, etc.
Anyway, with a little practice I learned a lot.
I learned to never do dinner first dates, never do coffee first dates, never do any "activity" first dates. Simply drinks & see if you hit it off. If you don't, after a drink one of you says it was nice meeting you, thanks, but I have to go, and that's it.
Dinner is too awkward, forced, and expensive for someone you have never met before. Coffee -- way too formal for a first date, and in a situation where two people are nervous, the last thing you want is a face-to-face discussion under the stimulation of caffeine, which also makes you have to use the bathroom. Seems like a business meeting, not a date. "Activity" dates are way too try hard and awkward for a first date. You aren't really going to get to know a person when the focal point is some kind of activity, like a landmark or museum tour or a hike. And I cringed at the "picnic" suggestion above. That's way, way too try-hard and forced for a first date. The woman is going to want to escape and feel like she can't the entire time.
The reality is that the girl is going to be nervous, and the best thing to do is loosen her inhibitions in a relaxed setting where she feels free to bail at any time if she wants. A date shouldn't feel like work -- it's something she is doing on her free time away from work. Buy her a drink, see if there's a connection, and be prepared to move on to the next one if she isn't. More than anything, you *cannot* give the vibe that you are super interested in her before you've even met her, and that's what activity dates and meal dates signal. Instant turn off.
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Date: May 18th, 2018 5:15 PM Author: Demanding box office
depends on how much interaction you had with the person IRL. usually it won't have been much. at least not in a 1 on 1, feeling-each-other-out to see if there's a potential romantic relationship type of situation. so i'd say very rarely is it the right move to jump to non-drinks.
if the chick doesn't drink, yes, of course, the rules change. in fact, if you are adamant about avoiding drinking, you may want to target some women who don't drink. i will warn you, though, that it will probably make the first date tougher, as nerves and inhibitions are high. i can't say i have much experience with a NODRINK first date, though. i've only had a couple, like coffee, and they never worked. maybe you could try trivia night, though that probably lasts too long. i'd still steer clear of a physical activity first date or tour-type thing. maybe get some ice cream, and then if it seems like it's going well you can see if she wants to walk to a monument or something. i don't know; this isn't my area of dating expertise; maybe others can chime in on what best to do with non-drinkers on a first date.
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