Big news: CharlesXII has scored his first date from OKCupid (Krampus)
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Date: April 27th, 2018 8:26 PM Author: Excitant elite gunner french chef
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HTH!
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Date: April 27th, 2018 8:49 PM Author: spectacular goyim range
180
Well done
Remember, chicks dig when you bowl overhand
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Date: April 27th, 2018 9:39 PM Author: amethyst spot haunted graveyard
So what Charles needs most is performance metrics and goals. He has told me that he needs to be able to measure how well he is doing. I'm hoping XO wisdom can provide some advice.
Obviously, the big metric will be whether or not the girl wants a second date. Apart from that, how will he KNOW that he is succeeding and building dating skills?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962044&forum_id=2#35935530) |
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Date: April 27th, 2018 11:14 PM Author: multi-colored incel lettuce
Signs of success:
Eye contact
Engaging conversation between frames
She smiles a lot
Eye contact
Advice: be calm, it’s ok to be lower energy in the sense that you’re not manic, but flow with the conversation/get to know how she ticks — and don’t be afraid to speak your mind but keep it light when talking about your views. If you hit patches of silence don’t panic, let the silence ride for 5-10 secs before making another line of conversation. As the dude it’s your job to control key moments of the date like that. If she makes a new line of conversation obviously roll with it.
Edit: drink and offer to buy her drinks there, this is crucial
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962044&forum_id=2#35935997) |
Date: April 27th, 2018 9:46 PM Author: adventurous orange locale
reminder, ask only questions on the date
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YOUg956XHpY
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Date: May 1st, 2018 3:17 AM Author: Exhilarant Gay Rehab
There's a pretty decent chance it will be, actually. After testing the dynamics of an early bowling alley date, I completely crossed them off the list. Unless you're a good bowler, you're going to emasculate yourself. Plus flopping around in gay shoes isn't going to set the right mood.
The best first date for a fuckin dork (best by chances of a second date, not getting laid) is something that involves walking around, followed by stopping for a drink, something light to eat, ice cream, yogurt, etc. Park, mall, museum, art gallery, whatever.
It works because if two people are naturally shy or awkward, the worst thing you can do is have them stare at each other from across a table right away. Walking around is a much better vibe and there will constantly be new topics of conversation organically arising. Then once the ice is broken for a while you go somewhere else.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962044&forum_id=2#35956879)
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Date: April 28th, 2018 10:08 AM Author: Yellow pocket flask
Make sure you tell her about the history of bowling in very vivid detail.
The earliest known forms of bowling date back to ancient Egypt. Remnants of balls used at the time were found among artifacts in ancient Egypt going back to the Egyptian protodynastic period in 3200 BC. Balls were made using the husks of grains, covered in material such as leather, and bound with string. Other balls made of porcelain have also been found, indicating that these were rolled along the ground rather than thrown due to their size and weight. Some of these resemble the modern day jack used in target bowl games. Bowling games of different forms are also noted by Herodotus as an invention of the Lydians in Asia Minor.
About 2,000 years ago, in the Roman Empire, a similar game evolved between Roman legionaries entailing the tossing of stone objects as close as possible to other stone objects, which eventually evolved into Italian Bocce, or outdoor bowling.
About 400 AD, bowling began in Germany as a religious ritual to cleanse oneself from sin by rolling a rock into a club (kegel) representing the heathen, causing bowlers to be called keglers
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Date: April 29th, 2018 11:30 AM Author: learning disabled sweet tailpipe
i would get messages and likes from all types of dudes
some were legit attractive MC to UMC dudes
some were trashy fat proles
i got a pretty wide mix of dudes, really
it was fairly overwhelming to sort through them all and try to figure out who i was actually interested in talking to and who i wasnt interested in. i can only imagine how a 7+ chick in a major metro feels when she receives hundreds of likes or messages a day. ugh, gross.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962044&forum_id=2#35943692) |
Date: April 29th, 2018 2:07 PM Author: spectacular goyim range
you're doing 180, or at least 175.
i've got a friend who in years has NEVER had a date from dating apps. You got 1 in 1 week. Think about that.
But Kramp said you want metrics on how you are doing -- I think that's the wrong mindset. You are viewing this as a board game, not real life. It's okay to let emotions get involved. I'm not sure you should be keeping score, or making spreadsheets about your dates. Especially because women tend, for whatever biological reason, not to be attracted to that persona. They like risk takers, not spreadsheet makers. (I'm coining that, btw.) I'd suggest not having these experiences in such a mechanical sense. I know it's a defense mechanism, but at some point you have to let your defenses down. Or don't. You're smarter than I am. Sometimes that can be a detriment.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962044&forum_id=2#35944564) |
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Date: April 29th, 2018 2:59 PM Author: spectacular goyim range
they lie on OKC, but, nonetheless, she seems like a good find.
a little worried charles will self-sabotage by acting standoffish, but that's part of the learning curve.
i like charles, a lot. he's a great poaster, incredibly talented. weird to care about another poaster's dating life, but i do. he's going to make mistakes. and one can't go through dating trying to avoid mistakes. i've been there.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962044&forum_id=2#35944829) |
Date: April 29th, 2018 4:33 PM Author: hairraiser shrine
Gotta make her laugh. If you want an advanced metric, how about transactions culminating in date's laugh per minute, Per hour, and per date.
Girls are generally (not always) incapable of understanding humor so laughing for them is just a way of saying "I'm having a good time."
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962044&forum_id=2#35945347) |
Date: April 29th, 2018 4:37 PM Author: hairraiser shrine
Some traps that could happen on a bowling date: small feet = getting a shoe size lower than expected. Guaranteed she will ask your shoe size. This is good if well endowed, bad if not. This is the only date where shoe size is guaranteed to come up.
Also there's the issue of ball weight. If you're physically weak (not sure if Charles works out) this will be highlighted when you struggle with a reasonably weighted ball. All else equal you don't want to be using a lighter ball than your date. This can be worked around with jokes and a good natured attitude but you also don't want to pick a ball that is too heavy then deny the it's too heavy. Thaats the easy trap to avoid.
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