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Date: May 1st, 2018 2:46 PM Author: Aphrodisiac reading party telephone Background http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&mc=194&forum_id=2#35908976
I need your help deciding my next move. For the sake of this exercise, assume divorcing/killing wife or running away are not an option.
My wife wants to move away from SoCal when her contract expires at the end of June. I told my wife that the ONLY place I would consider relocating is Colorado because it is closer to my family and friends and would give us a support network. She has agreed to move to Colorado and now I have to plan my next move. I have an interview tomorrow for a job in Boulder with a guy I used to work with, but if that doesn’t pan out I don’t know how hard it is going to get a job out of state. I think the Boulder job would be a big pay cut. If we move in July, my wife could work from home and cover our expenses while I take care of our daughter and look for a job. She thinks she can get another WFH job.
What do you think I should do?
Option A. Move to Colorado even if I don’t have a job lined up Option B. Stay in California until I can find a job in Colorado. Option C. Stay in California and just rent a place in OC until we have had more time to think through what we want to do. |
Date: May 1st, 2018 2:47 PM Author: maroon disturbing base B (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35959900) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 2:48 PM Author: Aphrodisiac reading party telephone Yeah, I thinks so too. Just worried about missing my window to move to the state I want to live in. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35959908) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 2:47 PM Author: vermilion school Option D. I think he needs to commit murder suicide and STFU already - literally never listens to anyone's advice (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35959901) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 2:49 PM Author: Aphrodisiac reading party telephone Everyone's advice is I should blow up my family, go through an emotionally and financially ruinous divorce and miss out on seeing my daughter grow up. I don't want to do that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35959924) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 2:50 PM Author: vermilion school Gee, wonder why literally everyone is giving you this advice (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35959938) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 4:10 PM Author: passionate address legal warrant Literally stockholm syndrome for your kidnappers. Just fucking pull the ripcord dude. Make a new life for yourself on a beach in Thailand or Mexico (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35960632) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 2:50 PM Author: red native A. Take the opportunity to move now before she changes her mind. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35959930) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 2:50 PM Author: vermilion school (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35959933) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 3:02 PM Author: Soul-stirring henna sneaky criminal area (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35960049) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 2:50 PM Author: Hairraiser Milk Parlour assuming no other external time constraints (lease expiring or whatever), B seems cr. always best to keep jerb until new jerb turns up (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35959932) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 2:55 PM Author: Aphrodisiac reading party telephone Agreed, but both my lease and wife's contract expire on June 30. We would need to sign another lease and move. I also worry about the stability of my current job. My company has been laying people off and I worry about getting let go. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35959990) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 2:57 PM Author: Hairraiser Milk Parlour then if you have minimum 6 months of savings to ride out possible unemployment, make the move now even without jerb. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35960009) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 2:58 PM Author: Aphrodisiac reading party telephone We have the savings and my wife would still work (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35960016) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 3:00 PM Author: Hairraiser Milk Parlour then move nigga and also i recommend reading this thread too: http://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965394&mc=1&forum_id=2 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35960030) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 2:53 PM Author: indigo stain Didnt you just move like a year ago or less becuase your wife really wanted to move to SoCal?? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35959965) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 2:54 PM Author: Aphrodisiac reading party telephone Yes and it has been a disaster (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35959975) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 2:55 PM Author: indigo stain Whered you move from? Whats wrong with SoCal according to your wife? Odds shes gonna find something wrong with Colorado in a year and want to move again? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35959989) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 2:57 PM Author: Aphrodisiac reading party telephone Moved from Austin. Too expensive, no support network or friends, traffic, too many minorities etc. She probably will, but I could just refuse and then I will at least be in a lower COL place where I want to live. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35959999) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 2:57 PM Author: vermilion school They moved from Texas as she only graduated med school less than a year ago and has already quit or lost her job like 2-3 times (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35960000) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 2:57 PM Author: lascivious fanboi Yo don't have to murder, but U should Suicide (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35959998) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 2:57 PM Author: vermilion school (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35960006) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 2:57 PM Author: Aphrodisiac reading party telephone Okay, go ahead and suicide (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35960010) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 2:58 PM Author: lascivious fanboi Fixed brother I hope u seriously give this some thought (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35960015) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 2:59 PM Author: Aphrodisiac reading party telephone Why the hate? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35960020) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 4:11 PM Author: lascivious fanboi Brother you have a weak constitution. Stand up for urself and smite that harpy bitch (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35960640) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 3:00 PM Author: vermilion school (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35960037) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 2:57 PM Author: appetizing hunting ground elastic band (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35960003) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 2:57 PM Author: Metal hospital coffee pot stay in Cali until you find a job. don't worry about trying to time the move for when your lease ends. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35960007) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 3:01 PM Author: Federal offensive stage stock car move to cleveland with me and luis dummy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35960045) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 3:02 PM Author: Soul-stirring henna sneaky criminal area A. She wants to move and you want to move. You are currently aligned with this crazy woman on a choice you also prefer. Everyone on this board is such a pussy about jobs. You guys will survive long enough for you to find a job in Boulder. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35960046) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 3:03 PM Author: misunderstood stirring deer antler faggotry Fan boat, tearing through the Everglades, packed heavy with counterfeit cigs, i’m Driving, misery behind us, screaming towards glory (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35960058) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 3:05 PM Author: Aphrodisiac reading party telephone (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35960082) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 4:07 PM Author: red native (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35960604) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 4:11 PM Author: Jet supple psychic hall (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35960637) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 3:03 PM Author: Well-lubricated Kitchen Place Of Business Stopped here
“For the sake of this exercise, assume divorcing/killing wife or running away are not an option.” |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 3:05 PM Author: misunderstood stirring deer antler faggotry (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35960090) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 4:07 PM Author: sienna plaza Move to Boulder and don’t look back. Worse case scenario get a grad cert. applied Shakespeare looks practical. Or Six Sigma Statistical Practitioner if you want to do something fun.
https://www.colorado.edu/graduateschool/programs/graduate-certificates |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 4:07 PM Author: red native (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35960600) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 4:09 PM Author: Soul-stirring henna sneaky criminal area TITCR, but I fear he will fuck this up. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35960618) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 4:09 PM Author: Mind-boggling Clown Leave California. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35960612) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 4:09 PM Author: shivering mexican trust fund B (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35960619) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 4:10 PM Author: Fragrant Slippery Piazza You need to stay in Cali just to begin establish a track record of not being a cuck who does whatever your deranged wife wants. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35960624) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 4:27 PM Author: Cordovan out-of-control casino coldplay fan Nobody is interested in actually voting on what you should do with your life when you let your wife run it anyway and have no say in the matter. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35960776) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 4:31 PM Author: Well-lubricated Kitchen Place Of Business Crr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35960797) |
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Date: May 1st, 2018 4:35 PM Author: Aphrodisiac reading party telephone Moving to Colorado was my demand (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35960819) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2018 11:29 AM Author: Smoky Market A (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35965811) |
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Date: May 4th, 2018 9:50 AM Author: red native 180 username (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35979975) |
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Date: May 4th, 2018 9:50 AM Author: sienna plaza How did your interview go? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35979970) |
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Date: May 4th, 2018 3:22 PM Author: sienna plaza (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35982307) |
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Date: May 4th, 2018 3:29 PM Author: Aphrodisiac reading party telephone Went well, but I don't want the job. It would be too much of a step down from what I have been doing. There should be better options for me out there. I think we are just going to rent an apartment here and I will continue to look for jobs. Once I find something better, we can break our lease and move because my wife works remotely. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35982361) |
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Date: May 4th, 2018 3:32 PM Author: Soul-stirring henna sneaky criminal area 90+ percent chance that when you find something better, she will refuse to move to where you want to go (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35982391) |
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Date: May 4th, 2018 3:32 PM Author: Aphrodisiac reading party telephone Bullshit. 80% tops. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35982393) |
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Date: May 4th, 2018 3:36 PM Author: racy immigrant Option A, with the given factors.
You'll like the people much better in CO than in CA.
Boulder is actually kind of expensive though. Not sure there will be huge cost savings on housing. It will be good to be closer to family though. |
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Date: May 4th, 2018 3:39 PM Author: Aphrodisiac reading party telephone I will for sure like the people better. I know Boulder is extremely expensive and am passing on that job. I am looking for something in Denver or Colorado Springs. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35982440) |
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Date: May 4th, 2018 3:46 PM Author: sienna plaza GL brother (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35982506) |
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Date: May 4th, 2018 3:54 PM Author: Aphrodisiac reading party telephone TY (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#35982600) |
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Date: May 16th, 2018 1:39 PM Author: ruddy boyish parlor community account D. Write a believable storyline before an AI takes your job. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&forum_id=2#36062481) |