-Total duration; 4 hours 15 minutes

-We spent about two hours bowling and talking, then went and got dinner at a chicken place. The chicken place was very badly-run and got both of our orders wrong.

-I got torched in the first two bowling games, but showed steady improvement and actually won the third game while setting a personal record. I learned a lot about bowling as she is quite the enthusiast.

-Conversation was easy. She was laughing pretty constantly throughout the evening. She's a Star Wars fan so I drew upon my knowledge of EU absurdities to great effect. Also talked a lot about Fire Emblem and she told me about her anime-related cosplays while giving suggestions for stuff I could do when whittier tp drags my ass to Otakon.

-Didn't do much physical escalation though I did open with a hug and used bowling events as an excuse for high-fives and fist bumps and shit. Closed with a hug.

-Maybe this was flame on her part but she definitely seemed interested in a second date; she started talking about "next time" about halfway through and specifically asked what I had in mind for next time at the end. On the other hand, she did say what I suggested wouldn't work but I believe her claim that it doesn't fit her work schedule.

-She offered me a ride home (I Ubered) but instead I walked home all 7.5 miles for my health (I'm still about 2 miles out as of this writing).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3969216&forum_id=2#35990184)

Regardless dope af dude. Hit her with dat BANTER and cop that second date

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3969216&forum_id=2#35990383)

how are you feeling about the date, yourself and her?

rate teh date on a scale from 1-5

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3969216&forum_id=2#35990194)

I do wish he would see this girl again cuz its not like he has any other online dates lined up, but I respect his desire to not waste the girl's time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3969216&forum_id=2#35990200)

do you want to see her again

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3969216&forum_id=2#35990202)

I don't really want to pursue a relationship but she was fun to talk to. I could genuinely see myself being friends with her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3969216&forum_id=2#35990230)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3969216&forum_id=2#35990231)

we're in discord if you wanna come hang out when you get home

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3969216&forum_id=2#35990263)

Plus, heroic exercise.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3969216&forum_id=2#35990386)

She was offering to go out of her way to be nice to you. She might've even kissed you at the end. It was basic escalation on her part.

*facepalm*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3969216&forum_id=2#35990421)

Do you think she threw the game?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3969216&forum_id=2#35990469)

either way he's got a 10 year lease on her head now. that is like the ultimate neg what bro wouldn't want to get his dick sucked?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3969216&forum_id=2#35990505)

>>Didn't do much physical escalation though I did open with a hug and used bowling events as an excuse for high-fives and fist bumps and shit. Closed with a hug.

what's allowed pre-marital? beyond the stereotype about catholic HS girls giving it in the ass to save themselves for marriage, what is actually allowed?

strict jewish law doesnt allow men and women to touch at all. how far will you go?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3969216&forum_id=2#35990844)

the jewish view is that: 1) any kind of touching leads to sin (sex) and 2) all these minor forms of contact cloud your judgment about whether you like the person

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3969216&forum_id=2#35993797)

freudian psychiatry finally makes sense

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3969216&forum_id=2#35994795)

does catholicism consider anal/oral to be onanism if you dont cum? talmud says it's fine if you dont cum

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3969216&forum_id=2#35996349)

if you're not interested in something physical tell her before 2nd date and make sure she's ok with just being friends.

don't be a jerk

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3969216&forum_id=2#35990906)

You need to be upfront with her about what you're looking for, unless you know that she also happens to be a strict devout Catholic.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3969216&forum_id=2#35993978)

In this day and age though do you think even most people who call themselves "conservative Catholics" are as strict as Charles is? I mean no making out til marriage...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3969216&forum_id=2#35994019)

Maybe add that you dont want to waste her time if she is looking for a boyfriend

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3969216&forum_id=2#35994148)

Charles, this girl spent 4.5 hours with you and also sent you a message first. don’t be so casual with this kind of attraction towards you and in any case you could also use practice with subsequent dates

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3969216&forum_id=2#35994407)

That's how dating is done in the real world.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3969216&forum_id=2#35994477)

Maybe something like "I want to be friends, and to prove I'm not bullshitting wanna do X thing?"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3969216&forum_id=2#35994493)