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Message to me, wife, out of town brother, his wife: Would...
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
Your dad is 180 and alpha
disgusting ticket booth
  05/07/18
...
Diverse abusive cumskin blood rage
  05/07/18
Now YOURE trying to piss me off.
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
Goddamn he just burns me the fuck up sometimes. Yeah, I...
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
didn't realize we were brothers
hairraiser incel halford
  05/07/18
SO MAD BROS!!!! I'm not hiding anything--I just don't lik...
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
We've got a wall painting project going on, the furniture is...
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
Just be a dick to your dad for no reason
stimulating range shitlib
  05/07/18
I'm not being a dick! He made the invite! I'm always doing...
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
Do you get your strong sense of familial duty from your athe...
stimulating range shitlib
  05/07/18
Christians on balance have a strong sense of familial duty, ...
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
“Honor thy father and mother”
Misunderstood School Cafeteria
  05/07/18
W respect to this quote: isn't that jewish as well? Am I n...
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
Adopting the Christian faith doesn't mean you become the emp...
stimulating range shitlib
  05/07/18
this is complete nonsense. Irrelevant on every single poin...
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
You shouldn't talk to your father that way, and you do becau...
stimulating range shitlib
  05/07/18
nope. and nope. But thanks for piping up trying to push yo...
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
Your a hateful person
stimulating range shitlib
  05/07/18
on the contrary. Quite.
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
You can't have a conversation with your father without getti...
stimulating range shitlib
  05/07/18
We talk to our parents, and they talk to us, like we are sti...
cracking step-uncle's house newt
  05/07/18
I have conversations w my father every day, bro. Yes, the o...
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
I fail to see how suggesting that your relationships are col...
stimulating range shitlib
  05/07/18
there've been about five times where you have tried to get a...
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
Just to be clear you've now deflected my responses as irrele...
stimulating range shitlib
  05/07/18
your one of the biggest time wastes on this board. literall...
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
I can't begin to imagine what a productive board member amou...
stimulating range shitlib
  05/07/18
did that shit just come out of your mouth
razzle pink twinkling uncleanness double fault
  05/07/18
very prole goyu
Motley menage wagecucks
  05/07/18
whats prole about it? seriously, looking for some amusement...
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
mass
Motley menage wagecucks
  05/07/18
oh, yeah. the most bullshitty thing about it is he NEVER di...
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
Its clear that he is trying to fill a void left by his wife ...
Underhanded parlor
  05/07/18
I'm not low T nor do I give him any grief at all for now bei...
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
Parents just left after a 180 weekend visit. Dad helped m...
Misunderstood School Cafeteria
  05/07/18
Did you invite them? It's only a cantankerous dad in my c...
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
Yeah, they asked when they could visit.
Misunderstood School Cafeteria
  05/07/18
cr. Did they ask on behalf of other family members as well,...
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
Lol, but arent big family get togethers fun? All the cousins...
Misunderstood School Cafeteria
  05/07/18
Yeah. they are--they can be fun. No doubt. I'm for it on ...
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
I should also ask, would they get pissy and try to insult yo...
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
lol, very spaceporny thread
cream market
  05/07/18
I thought your mom died. Did he get remarried already?
cracking step-uncle's house newt
  05/07/18
no--no way man. not remarried. I wish he would date though...
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
he lost the love of his life. how the hell could he replace ...
Fragrant apoplectic den dysfunction
  05/07/18
I'm not! I didn't even take the bait.
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
go to mass and honor your mother, dude. for your father's sa...
Fragrant apoplectic den dysfunction
  05/07/18
I honor my mother every day, and I honor my father every day...
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
fair enough man :( sounds like a sad situation
Fragrant apoplectic den dysfunction
  05/07/18
yeah. hence the xo bitching.
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
makes sense, just seems really sad to wish he remarried. you...
Fragrant apoplectic den dysfunction
  05/07/18
We talk about it every week. He wants to date, then he does...
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
JFC now because I didn't answer his last email he sent me an...
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
lol, his text seemed fine you're being too critical
Cyan mind-boggling international law enforcement agency philosopher-king
  05/07/18
yeah, maybe. we just have a prickly relationship.
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
I told him that wasn't true he's been over a lot. and also ...
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
so, u invite asians into your house but not your own flesh a...
rusted organic girlfriend library
  05/07/18
I invite dad over frequently --I try to keep it chill and in...
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
he literally bangs an asian...no wait...nvm
Cyan mind-boggling international law enforcement agency philosopher-king
  05/07/18
spaceporn has a chilly relationship with an overbearing fath...
Jade odious stage
  05/07/18
his dad hasn't been to his house in over a year..he's not th...
Cyan mind-boggling international law enforcement agency philosopher-king
  05/07/18
no--dad has been over my house like 12 times in the past yea...
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
"i'm always doing shit i don't want to do for my dad ev...
razzle pink twinkling uncleanness double fault
  05/07/18
yes, its absolutely true. Do YOU want to fucking watch DRIV...
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
I WOULD DO WHAT MY FATHER WANTED TO DO ON WEEKENDS, AND WOUL...
razzle pink twinkling uncleanness double fault
  05/07/18
So do I, you preposterous faggot X2. I DO those things. Ge...
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
clearly you don't. for instance, your gave a bunch of exampl...
razzle pink twinkling uncleanness double fault
  05/07/18
CLEARLY I DO, RETARD! LEarn to fucknig read. I DO all thos...
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
LOL go smoke some weed
Cyan mind-boggling international law enforcement agency philosopher-king
  05/07/18
I wILL, goddamn it.
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
why not just smoke weed with your dad
Cyan mind-boggling international law enforcement agency philosopher-king
  05/07/18
he'd get mad...and then like never drop the subject.
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
seemed like, in the OP, you were talking about your father w...
razzle pink twinkling uncleanness double fault
  05/07/18
okay then. Yeah, I do all the stuff. I'll even do the ...
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
your dad is old and likely won't live for much longer - just...
Cyan mind-boggling international law enforcement agency philosopher-king
  05/07/18
white people counting the days till they can force their par...
Light titillating really tough guy heaven
  05/07/18
how would you rank your duties to parents, spouse, and child...
Fragrant apoplectic den dysfunction
  05/07/18
primary is to spouse and children, but making some time for ...
Light titillating really tough guy heaven
  05/07/18
Of course dad gets special consideration now. Of course I'm...
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
i agree with your there, but you should have some fucking pa...
Light titillating really tough guy heaven
  05/07/18
i think traditional western arrangement is kids > spouse ...
Fragrant apoplectic den dysfunction
  05/07/18
actually I usually go over to his place for dinner friday ni...
bull headed volcanic crater stock car
  05/07/18
lol that's charming
Fragrant apoplectic den dysfunction
  05/07/18
and then file a law$$$uit when they die of scabies over year...
Cyan mind-boggling international law enforcement agency philosopher-king
  05/07/18
ctrl+f "lawn" 120
Diverse abusive cumskin blood rage
  06/05/18


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Date: May 7th, 2018 1:32 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

Message to me, wife, out of town brother, his wife:

Would like to invite everyone over on Saturday, May12. It would be pot-luck, Bring your favorite dish. Sunday May 13 is Mother's day and I would go to mass on Sunday. You can join me if you like. Please confirm.

Dad

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Me:

I can do Saturday probably but not sunday.

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Dad:

May we come over to your house instead?

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ME:

Lol no. Yr House, dad!

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Dad:

Why not? Time we do something at your house.

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Me:

Nope. Yr house. Sorry!

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Dad:

Ok. You must have something to hide.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999394)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 1:33 PM
Author: disgusting ticket booth

Your dad is 180 and alpha

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999397)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 1:33 PM
Author: Diverse abusive cumskin blood rage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999404)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 1:34 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

Now YOURE trying to piss me off.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999409)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 1:34 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

Goddamn he just burns me the fuck up sometimes.

Yeah, I don't like how critical he is of everything every time he comes over. I'm not raising my kid right, there's too many toys, the house is a mess, the toilets need to be cleaned, the yard is a national embarrassment and all my neighbors must hate me, time to sell that old car, did you get that bonus, Yeah! Meanwhile brothers kids--both HEAVY--eating every ten minutes --no. I cant stand it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999406)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 2:07 PM
Author: hairraiser incel halford

didn't realize we were brothers

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999664)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 1:37 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

SO MAD BROS!!!!

I'm not hiding anything--I just don't like his snoopy ass bullshit all the damn time. This is why His own damn sister wont talk to him any more.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999431)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 1:43 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

We've got a wall painting project going on, the furniture is all over the place, I don't want wife to have to hassle w three kids, the sister in law has been told by teachers two years in a row to GET A TUTOR for their kids but wont, I want to leave early the next morning for canoeing and cant if I have my brothers family over--honestly, all dad does is build up resentment and shame. GOD!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999490)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 1:45 PM
Author: stimulating range shitlib

Just be a dick to your dad for no reason

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999502)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 1:45 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

I'm not being a dick! He made the invite! I'm always doing shit I don't want to do just to help him since mom died.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999508)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 1:46 PM
Author: stimulating range shitlib

Do you get your strong sense of familial duty from your atheism?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999515)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 1:47 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

Christians on balance have a strong sense of familial duty, do they?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999532)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 1:48 PM
Author: Misunderstood School Cafeteria

“Honor thy father and mother”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999541)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 1:54 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

W respect to this quote:

isn't that jewish as well?

Am I not nonetheless honoring my father in this instance by doing the thing that he wants--i.e. getting together? how about in other instances?

Is there a limit or a reasonable range under which this is interpreted? Does this mean do crazy shit at their command while they insult you all day?

Isnt there something in there about not driving your children to distraction?

Isnt there something in there about leaving mother and father behind?

W respect to christers generally, I think they are more or less the same as most other groups w respect to actual family devotion and loyalty. lip service may be something else.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999585)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 1:54 PM
Author: stimulating range shitlib

Adopting the Christian faith doesn't mean you become the empirically average Christian in all attributes. Hopefully you'd do it properly, considering your massive iq and all. But keep attacking the low hanging fruit. That's the best way to come to a reasoned opinion.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999583)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 1:56 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

this is complete nonsense. Irrelevant on every single point possibly raised.

I suspect the "high-level Christian" whatever that is would do exactly the same thing i'm doing, with exactly the same set of priorities as Ive expressed and continue to express. no hocus pocus needed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999595)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 1:58 PM
Author: stimulating range shitlib

You shouldn't talk to your father that way, and you do because you have no sense of salvation. Good luck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999604)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 1:58 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

nope. and nope. But thanks for piping up trying to push your gibberish again.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999613)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 2:00 PM
Author: stimulating range shitlib

Your a hateful person

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999623)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 2:01 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

on the contrary. Quite.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999630)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 2:06 PM
Author: stimulating range shitlib

You can't have a conversation with your father without getting furious. You can't even respond to a post responding to your solicitation for input without strawmanning that response and steelmanning your own. Being a lawyer has decimated your brain to the point where you're either bitterly fighting or in a manic state of psuedointellectual fairytale.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999661)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 2:14 PM
Author: cracking step-uncle's house newt

We talk to our parents, and they talk to us, like we are still 16 years old. I forget where I saw this, maybe Family Feud.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999738)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 2:16 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

I have conversations w my father every day, bro. Yes, the ones I poast on xo are annoying conversations--I don't poast the normal ones we have all the time! Duh!

I don't know what the rest of what you are trying to say is intended to convey--its just gibberish.

It does seem like now your pissed at me in general because I've shown you up before when you try to push some "wise owl" cryptic gibberish on xo.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999762)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 2:22 PM
Author: stimulating range shitlib

I fail to see how suggesting that your relationships are colored by psychological extremes constitutes gibberish. this is a straightforward position that you can defend against on its merits, but it is patently coherent.

and please link to where you "showed me up". I've never walked away from a conversation with you in which it seemed like you addressed any substantive points, let alone showed them to be in error.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999833)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 2:26 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

there've been about five times where you have tried to get away w poasting some cryptic nonsense and it becomes patently clear you haven't thought thru what you are saying or even understand the basic principles. As for links, no, I'm not going to go thru links and pull them up and link them. I'm not sitting in a dorm room sipping a soda w all the time in the world.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999868)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 2:29 PM
Author: stimulating range shitlib

Just to be clear you've now deflected my responses as irrelevant, gibberish and now nonsense. You must recognize that this doesn't amount to "showing me up", except in your legal- methodologically riddled mind, right?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999909)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 2:31 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

your one of the biggest time wastes on this board. literally and completely unproductive. maybe someone will get some benefit out of my responses to you on occasion, but I'm tired of throwing pearls before swine in dealing w your self-righteous nonsense.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999942)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 2:33 PM
Author: stimulating range shitlib

I can't begin to imagine what a productive board member amounts to

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999964)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 6:05 PM
Author: razzle pink twinkling uncleanness double fault

did that shit just come out of your mouth

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#36001913)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 1:46 PM
Author: Motley menage wagecucks

very prole goyu

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999513)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 1:46 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

whats prole about it? seriously, looking for some amusement.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999516)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 1:48 PM
Author: Motley menage wagecucks

mass

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999535)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 1:58 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

oh, yeah. the most bullshitty thing about it is he NEVER did church at all when we were growing up. We literally NEVER attended any church function anywhere under any faith whatsoever.

My grandmother would visit him and ask to go to mass and he would joke w her about getting a "snack and some juice."

But now that mom died, he needs to be part of another group w ingroup/outgroup characteristics--so...here we goooo. I never give him a hard time about it, but its totally and completely ridiculous.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999607)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 2:08 PM
Author: Underhanded parlor

Its clear that he is trying to fill a void left by his wife dying bro. This is absolutely not something you should pick at.

Your problem is that your a low-T beta who doesn't set the proper boundaries and then explodes inappropriately when people dont follow unstated rules.

You have two options here:

1) You let your dad vent or criticize and chalk it up to your dad being your dad and that nobody is perfect and atleast he cares. Don't allow yourself to get mad.

2) You tell him in a calm and collected manner that he refrain from criticizing your house or how you raise your child in your presence. Furthermore, when he breaks this request (which he will because it is a habit now) you calmly remind him and indicate that him doing this so often makes it unpleasant to have him around.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999672)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 2:18 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

I'm not low T nor do I give him any grief at all for now being "catholic"

As for number 1, that's what I do.

He is incapable of change with respect to Number 2. Trust me--he doesn't learn from mistakes. Old people just keep doing the same shit no matter how many times you make it clear you hate it. The only viable option is number 1 which is what I do.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999782)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 1:48 PM
Author: Misunderstood School Cafeteria

Parents just left after a 180 weekend visit.

Dad helped me install a fan.

Mom took wife out shopping for baby stuff.

I Cooked dinner for everyone one night, the other they took us out.

Sorry about your familial challenges, brah.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999534)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 1:59 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

Did you invite them?

It's only a cantankerous dad in my case. Who wont shut the fuck up about mom 24 / 7. Who tells me every time I see him that he cried at some point in the past week. Who tells me my kid needs Haircut, I need haircut, who wont do shit w grandkid.

A bit different, I think.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999616)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 2:01 PM
Author: Misunderstood School Cafeteria

Yeah, they asked when they could visit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999628)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 2:03 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

cr. Did they ask on behalf of other family members as well, or just themselves? Like, hey can we come over--and let's have your sibling and their kids come over too--in five days--its your turn to host.

I think I know the answer. Your parents are acting like civilized people.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999639)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 2:04 PM
Author: Misunderstood School Cafeteria

Lol, but arent big family get togethers fun? All the cousins can run around while the adults drink and chill?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999651)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 2:12 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

Yeah. they are--they can be fun. No doubt. I'm for it on Saturday. Kid has soccer game but we can skip that if it means he can spend time w his little cousins.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999712)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 2:24 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

I should also ask, would they get pissy and try to insult you w a dig if you for some reason said no?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999849)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 1:55 PM
Author: cream market

lol, very spaceporny thread

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999591)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 2:11 PM
Author: cracking step-uncle's house newt

I thought your mom died. Did he get remarried already?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999699)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 2:19 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

no--no way man. not remarried. I wish he would date though. it would take the edge off.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999797)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 2:23 PM
Author: Fragrant apoplectic den dysfunction

he lost the love of his life. how the hell could he replace that? don't be mean to your dad, bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999845)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 2:24 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

I'm not! I didn't even take the bait.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999851)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 2:25 PM
Author: Fragrant apoplectic den dysfunction

go to mass and honor your mother, dude. for your father's sake.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999860)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 2:27 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

I honor my mother every day, and I honor my father every day. But I'm going canoeing on Sunday w my kid. It's gonna be 180 and we are both looking forward to it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999885)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 2:30 PM
Author: Fragrant apoplectic den dysfunction

fair enough man :( sounds like a sad situation

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999923)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 2:32 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

yeah. hence the xo bitching.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999946)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 2:34 PM
Author: Fragrant apoplectic den dysfunction

makes sense, just seems really sad to wish he remarried. your mother isn't coming back, but maybe it's important to him that he bears that alone? have you talked to him about this?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#35999971)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 2:38 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

We talk about it every week. He wants to date, then he doesn't want to date, he wants to, but doesn't. like that. ive always said, whatever you want dad! Whatever would be best for you. it might be nice to have someone around for dinner and stuff. At the same time, you'll have new stuff to deal w. I'm totally supportive, either way.

I'm really mild to him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#36000019)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 5:49 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

JFC now because I didn't answer his last email he sent me another one, this time accusingly, "It's been more than one year since you invited me to your house."

JFC. I just had him over there over the Xmas holidays! And I always invite him to do stuff w me and my kid. If he's so hot on wanting to snoop around, he could volunteer to baby sit the kid for once in his life.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#36001802)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 5:56 PM
Author: Cyan mind-boggling international law enforcement agency philosopher-king

lol, his text seemed fine

you're being too critical

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#36001852)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

yeah, maybe. we just have a prickly relationship.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#36001863)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

I told him that wasn't true he's been over a lot. and also we would invite him over soon just not this weekend which is a bad weekend for houseguests.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#36001855)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 5:59 PM
Author: rusted organic girlfriend library

so, u invite asians into your house but not your own flesh and blood?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#36001879)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

I invite dad over frequently --I try to keep it chill and informal--grill sausage or something.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#36001889)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: Cyan mind-boggling international law enforcement agency philosopher-king

he literally bangs an asian...no wait...nvm

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#36001892)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 6:04 PM
Author: Jade odious stage

spaceporn has a chilly relationship with an overbearing father, geez who could have guessed

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#36001905)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 6:05 PM
Author: Cyan mind-boggling international law enforcement agency philosopher-king

his dad hasn't been to his house in over a year..he's not that overbearing. he's just a lonely widow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#36001910)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 6:07 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

no--dad has been over my house like 12 times in the past year. I don't know what he's talking about. He's just confused. I'll see him on Saturday. Jeez!!



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#36001925)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 6:07 PM
Author: razzle pink twinkling uncleanness double fault

"i'm always doing shit i don't want to do for my dad ever since mom died, jfc" - spaceporn

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#36001928)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 6:10 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

yes, its absolutely true. Do YOU want to fucking watch DRIVING MISS DAISY play at local theater production on a beautiful Sunday? Do YOU want to have family "pizza party" at mom's gravesite on her birthday? These are just two examples.

Edit: *of shit I do w my dad because he wants me to.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#36001955)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 6:12 PM
Author: razzle pink twinkling uncleanness double fault

I WOULD DO WHAT MY FATHER WANTED TO DO ON WEEKENDS, AND WOULD DO SO ESPECIALLY IF MY MOTHER WERE DEAD, YOU PREPOSTEROUS FAGGOT

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#36001970)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 6:13 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

So do I, you preposterous faggot X2. I DO those things. Get over yourself.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#36001979)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 6:14 PM
Author: razzle pink twinkling uncleanness double fault

clearly you don't. for instance, your gave a bunch of examples, including OP, of shit you either don't do or mightily resist.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#36001985)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 6:16 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

CLEARLY I DO, RETARD! LEarn to fucknig read. I DO all those things, including shit I massively DONT want to DO. I SAT my ass w ALL the GRAYHEADED LADIES FROM THE LOCAL BETH SHALOM and my dad and watched fucking DRIVING MS> DAISY for three fucking hours on a Sunday afternoon! I do shit w him ALL THE FUCKING TIME. Instead of hanging out FRIDAY nights, I'm OVER AT DAD's, EVEN when he shits on my job. Now Get the fuck outta here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#36002010)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 6:18 PM
Author: Cyan mind-boggling international law enforcement agency philosopher-king

LOL go smoke some weed

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#36002022)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 6:18 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

I wILL, goddamn it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#36002024)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 6:21 PM
Author: Cyan mind-boggling international law enforcement agency philosopher-king

why not just smoke weed with your dad



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#36002051)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 6:28 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

he'd get mad...and then like never drop the subject.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#36002095)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 6:20 PM
Author: razzle pink twinkling uncleanness double fault

seemed like, in the OP, you were talking about your father wanting to have a gathering at your place, and you denied him, right? yes or no?

then, i think, it was perfectly reasonable for me to suppose--before you edited--that you were talking about other things (like OP) that your dad wants to do but you similarly refuse (e.g., a pizza party). then you threw in an edit, of course, which changes the meaning. that's fine, but mine wasn't an unreasonable reading.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#36002038)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 6:24 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

okay then.

Yeah, I do all the stuff. I'll even do the Saturday thing this weekend even though lol I know dad is going to completely forget that it's "mothers' day" for the mother of my child and the mother of my neice and nephew as well and they might prefer doing something else. I'm all about reasonable accommodations.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#36002064)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 6:24 PM
Author: Cyan mind-boggling international law enforcement agency philosopher-king

your dad is old and likely won't live for much longer - just do whatever the fuck he wants brother



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#36002068)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 6:14 PM
Author: Light titillating really tough guy heaven

white people counting the days till they can force their parents into nursing homes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#36001986)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 6:15 PM
Author: Fragrant apoplectic den dysfunction

how would you rank your duties to parents, spouse, and children?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#36001994)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 6:18 PM
Author: Light titillating really tough guy heaven

primary is to spouse and children, but making some time for your father who is probably in the depths of unimaginable loneliness is not too much to ask of you or your spouse and children.

Make them do something boring and shitty to see your dad. But hey, this weekend is item #87987 of the never ending domestic or career bullshit that eats the weeks until our parents are dead.

That said, if his dad is insisting on coming over versus having the family visit him, that is stupid. This is more about the OP's attitude towards his widower dad generally - like such an inconvenience.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#36002031)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 6:22 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

Of course dad gets special consideration now. Of course I'm going to see him this weekend. And he did a good job when I brought my monster over to his place last Friday night--he tried to interact w the kid.

The first connection, tbf, should always be between H&W. Then kid. then parents. That is the healthiest approach. Sorry confucianmos. That said, in application what usually happens is kid takes front seat when kid should take second seat to relationship between h&w.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#36002057)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 6:26 PM
Author: Light titillating really tough guy heaven

i agree with your there, but you should have some fucking patience in your heart for your fucking dad, not grudgingly show up when he begs you and then bitch about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#36002083)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 6:27 PM
Author: Fragrant apoplectic den dysfunction

i think traditional western arrangement is kids > spouse > parents, but people began to prioritize the joy of spousal love for whatever reason in the 60's and 70's (hence all the one true love crap). thinking about your grieving dad is really depressing though, just invite him over every week for dinner one night, dammit it can't be that hard.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#36002084)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 6:29 PM
Author: bull headed volcanic crater stock car

actually I usually go over to his place for dinner friday nights. It's easier because he has the time during the day to prep something--or we go from his house to an oldster restaurant nearby. (And spend 45 minutes perusing the same menu every time lol)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#36002103)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 6:31 PM
Author: Fragrant apoplectic den dysfunction

lol that's charming

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#36002111)



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Date: May 7th, 2018 6:18 PM
Author: Cyan mind-boggling international law enforcement agency philosopher-king

and then file a law$$$uit when they die of scabies over years

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#36002030)



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Date: June 5th, 2018 10:03 AM
Author: Diverse abusive cumskin blood rage

ctrl+f "lawn"

120

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3970427&forum_id=2#36186618)