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How long can you date late 20s girl when you know you won't wife her?
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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:18 AM Author: soggy fortuitous meteor and you're 34. What's the protocol for dating a 29 year old chick who's been around but the sex is good? Rationally, you know there's no way you'd have her be the wife of your children? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288727) |
Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:20 AM Author: chestnut coffee pot fat ankles Does she think its leading to something?
If so, then you should end it or make it clear you dont see it going anywhere.
Do this now. |
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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:28 AM Author: soggy fortuitous meteor i suspect she doesn't know where it's leading and she hasn't raised the issue yet (we've been dating for almost 2 months now). she's the type of girl who probably got too clingy in the past and been burned. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288760) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2018 2:20 AM Author: comical chest-beating hominid selfie (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288925) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:22 AM Author: white university jewess As long as she has a veritable form of birth control. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288737) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:25 AM Author: soggy fortuitous meteor nuvaring. creampies 2-3x per week really kills the motivation to date other girls. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288747) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:24 AM Author: slap-happy talented partner I don’t know. I’ve been seeing a 27 year old and I told her I won’t have kids and probably won’t marry, yet she still texts me and wants to see me all the time. Probably best strategy is to get all cucky and lovelorn and beta so she runs away. But if she’s targeting you as a provider you’re probably fucked and need to just end it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288740) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:25 AM Author: chestnut coffee pot fat ankles 25 is a much different fact pattern than 29. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288742) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:25 AM Author: slap-happy talented partner Edit, I meant 27 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288745) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:28 AM Author: chestnut coffee pot fat ankles More analagous then (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288762) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:28 AM Author: soggy fortuitous meteor 27 is pretty young still especially in a major metro with lots of shrews. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288763) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:31 AM Author: slap-happy talented partner Maybe, I don’t know. She says she definitely wants kids so maybe she just sees me as a fling. Women really do separate men into providers and fucks, if you actually want to get married for some reason then don’t be the “marriage guy” with some floozy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288773) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:29 AM Author: 180 travel guidebook If shes fucked over 10 guys shes waived her right to complain about being strung along (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288768) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:30 AM Author: flesh idea he suggested crrrr
get one of those chemical castration pills and get off it when she dumps you |
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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:33 AM Author: soggy fortuitous meteor i didn't ask but i'd put the over/under at 15. she's volunteered that she's had a one night stand, been burned by tinderchad after fucking him too soon, and also hooked up with chicks and a tranny (maybe multiple, female to male, no penis).
i was chill about it but let her know that's not what i usually go for and thought she was a bit more innocent when we first started dating. since then, i've just been going along with it and she's fairly low maintenance. |
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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:34 AM Author: flesh idea he suggested lol what the fuck
is this treeman's son or what? |
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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:34 AM Author: chestnut coffee pot fat ankles Flame jumped the shark here (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288790) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:36 AM Author: soggy fortuitous meteor not flame. every time you see a chick's profile that says "heteroflexible," pansexual or bisexual, this is what it looks like. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288800) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:38 AM Author: Smoky Pit alright so you met a bisexual on a fuckapp and she came off as "innocent" to you?
jumped the shark here |
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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:47 AM Author: soggy fortuitous meteor she's sweet and smiles a lot. very loving person. thought chicks with slutty pasts were a bit edgier, jaded and masculine. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288847) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:38 AM Author: flesh idea he suggested (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288809) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:39 AM Author: Mint provocative shitlib (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288815) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2018 2:01 AM Author: Transparent fear-inspiring blood rage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288882) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:30 AM Author: Smoky Pit idk why xo freaks out about women having slept around before potentially married them. sure, theres all of those statistics about how previous sexual partners makes divorce more likely, but everyone should seriously consider the strategy of just trying to figure out how to be one of the couples where the woman has had 10+ previous partners that is a part of the 30% or whatever that never divorces. the personality type of the sort of person who poasts here is the same sort of person's options that are only going to be used up whores. not even due to availability but just mere compatibility. i seriously doubt anyone here would be able to fall in love with our collective idealization of a traditional, virginal wife. if anything, for the sorts of people here, sluts will make for better mothers and more stable marriages than "heroic" women. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288769) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:40 AM Author: flesh idea he suggested I poasted about this for weeks last year. Virginity is so undesirable in modern society that a 20 year old virgin has to be so severely ill-suited for life in general that there's no way they'd make a good parent. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288824) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:41 AM Author: soggy fortuitous meteor browser fucked up meant to respond above (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288826) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:42 AM Author: Smoky Pit ehh i think that take is in the wrong direction
virginity is desirable if you're a virgin. no one XO is going to have a stable marriage with a virgin because XO is full of hedonistic low impulse dorks and not Mormon missionaries.
in terms of parenting I think a lot of it hinges on the stability of the marriage and how cohesive the value set is between the parents. |
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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:54 AM Author: Smoky Pit ty for bumping your poast (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288863) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:48 AM Author: soggy fortuitous meteor "the personality type of the sort of person who poasts here is the same sort of person's options that are only going to be used up whores. not even due to availability but just mere compatibility. i seriously doubt anyone here would be able to fall in love with our collective idealization of a traditional, virginal wife. if anything, for the sorts of people here, sluts will make for better mothers and more stable marriages than "heroic" women."
care to elaborate? you might be on to something here. been on tons of dates and she's the only one who i seem to be compatible with.
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Date: June 22nd, 2018 2:04 AM Author: Smoky Pit everyone on XO except rarities like Charles are dorky and narcissistic hedonists. the type of people who keep their virginity on the basis of religious belief are essentially the opposite of this--they're usually not very self absorbed, they have tremendous impulse control, etc. there's no overlap in personality traits and certainly no overlap in values.
in short i think a good way to think of it is basically assume you have all of the same basic personality traits but was born female and then extrapolate what your life history would be like as a result. the more dissimilar the girl you're interested in from that projection is the less likely it is you'll have a functional relationship. |
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Date: June 22nd, 2018 2:14 AM Author: soggy fortuitous meteor narcissistic hedonists sounds about right.
how would you define "abject whore"? i consider myself in the upper quartile of whoredom but not much higher. i've maybe had 25-30 sex partners. do you consider yourself so far removed from a woman who's had maybe 5 sex partners mostly long term bfs and by her late 20s? do you think she would not be interested in you?
i sure as shit don't want to date the female version of me. would you say most attractive girls who are also not huge sluts are impossible to relate to for a typical XOer since the amount of impulse control they've had to exhibit means they will have nothing in common?
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Date: June 22nd, 2018 2:17 AM Author: Smoky Pit in terms of "removed from a woman who's had maybe 5 sex partners mostly long term bfs and by her late 20s" i'd say probably not but it depends on the person. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288919) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2018 2:30 AM Author: Peach windowlicker I would feel way worse about wasting the time of some early 20s girl who wanted a marriage track relationship. After 25 the jig is up. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288948) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2018 2:37 AM Author: soggy fortuitous meteor maybe if you're in the deep south but definitely not the case in NYC/DC/SF where shrews are all career-oriented and only looking to settle down by 29-32. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288963) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2018 2:38 AM Author: Peach windowlicker That's their problem. Total lunacy IMO. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288968) |
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Date: June 24th, 2018 10:59 PM Author: soggy fortuitous meteor (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36303992) |