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How long can you date late 20s girl when you know you won't wife her?

and you're 34. What's the protocol for dating a 29 year old...
Misunderstood scourge upon the earth kitchen
  06/22/18
Does she think its leading to something? If so, then you ...
Razzle massive address kitty cat
  06/22/18
i suspect she doesn't know where it's leading and she hasn't...
Misunderstood scourge upon the earth kitchen
  06/22/18
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Cracking Carmine Ticket Booth Pozpig
  06/22/18
As long as she has a veritable form of birth control.
soul-stirring medicated jew
  06/22/18
nuvaring. creampies 2-3x per week really kills the motivatio...
Misunderstood scourge upon the earth kitchen
  06/22/18
I don’t know. I’ve been seeing a 27 year old and I told her ...
ruddy irradiated telephone
  06/22/18
25 is a much different fact pattern than 29.
Razzle massive address kitty cat
  06/22/18
Edit, I meant 27
ruddy irradiated telephone
  06/22/18
More analagous then
Razzle massive address kitty cat
  06/22/18
27 is pretty young still especially in a major metro with lo...
Misunderstood scourge upon the earth kitchen
  06/22/18
Maybe, I don’t know. She says she definitely wants kids so m...
ruddy irradiated telephone
  06/22/18
If shes fucked over 10 guys shes waived her right to complai...
provocative degenerate hunting ground
  06/22/18
crrrr get one of those chemical castration pills and get ...
mustard bateful range newt
  06/22/18
i didn't ask but i'd put the over/under at 15. she's volunte...
Misunderstood scourge upon the earth kitchen
  06/22/18
lol what the fuck is this treeman's son or what?
mustard bateful range newt
  06/22/18
Flame jumped the shark here
Razzle massive address kitty cat
  06/22/18
not flame. every time you see a chick's profile that says &q...
Misunderstood scourge upon the earth kitchen
  06/22/18
alright so you met a bisexual on a fuckapp and she came off ...
charcoal pit gaming laptop
  06/22/18
she's sweet and smiles a lot. very loving person. thought ch...
Misunderstood scourge upon the earth kitchen
  06/22/18
...
mustard bateful range newt
  06/22/18
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Fluffy Odious Son Of Senegal Deer Antler
  06/22/18
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mauve shitlib crotch
  06/22/18
idk why xo freaks out about women having slept around before...
charcoal pit gaming laptop
  06/22/18
I poasted about this for weeks last year. Virginity is so un...
mustard bateful range newt
  06/22/18
browser fucked up meant to respond above
Misunderstood scourge upon the earth kitchen
  06/22/18
ehh i think that take is in the wrong direction virginity...
charcoal pit gaming laptop
  06/22/18
ty for bumping your poast
charcoal pit gaming laptop
  06/22/18
"the personality type of the sort of person who poasts ...
Misunderstood scourge upon the earth kitchen
  06/22/18
everyone on XO except rarities like Charles are dorky and na...
charcoal pit gaming laptop
  06/22/18
narcissistic hedonists sounds about right. how would yo...
Misunderstood scourge upon the earth kitchen
  06/22/18
in terms of "removed from a woman who's had maybe 5 sex...
charcoal pit gaming laptop
  06/22/18
I would feel way worse about wasting the time of some early ...
sable fanboi
  06/22/18
maybe if you're in the deep south but definitely not the cas...
Misunderstood scourge upon the earth kitchen
  06/22/18
That's their problem. Total lunacy IMO.
sable fanboi
  06/22/18
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Misunderstood scourge upon the earth kitchen
  06/24/18


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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:18 AM
Author: Misunderstood scourge upon the earth kitchen

and you're 34. What's the protocol for dating a 29 year old chick who's been around but the sex is good? Rationally, you know there's no way you'd have her be the wife of your children?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288727)



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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:20 AM
Author: Razzle massive address kitty cat

Does she think its leading to something?

If so, then you should end it or make it clear you dont see it going anywhere.

Do this now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288732)



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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:28 AM
Author: Misunderstood scourge upon the earth kitchen

i suspect she doesn't know where it's leading and she hasn't raised the issue yet (we've been dating for almost 2 months now). she's the type of girl who probably got too clingy in the past and been burned.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288760)



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Date: June 22nd, 2018 2:20 AM
Author: Cracking Carmine Ticket Booth Pozpig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288925)



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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:22 AM
Author: soul-stirring medicated jew

As long as she has a veritable form of birth control.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288737)



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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:25 AM
Author: Misunderstood scourge upon the earth kitchen

nuvaring. creampies 2-3x per week really kills the motivation to date other girls.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288747)



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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:24 AM
Author: ruddy irradiated telephone

I don’t know. I’ve been seeing a 27 year old and I told her I won’t have kids and probably won’t marry, yet she still texts me and wants to see me all the time. Probably best strategy is to get all cucky and lovelorn and beta so she runs away. But if she’s targeting you as a provider you’re probably fucked and need to just end it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288740)



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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:25 AM
Author: Razzle massive address kitty cat

25 is a much different fact pattern than 29.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288742)



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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:25 AM
Author: ruddy irradiated telephone

Edit, I meant 27

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288745)



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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:28 AM
Author: Razzle massive address kitty cat

More analagous then

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288762)



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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:28 AM
Author: Misunderstood scourge upon the earth kitchen

27 is pretty young still especially in a major metro with lots of shrews.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288763)



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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:31 AM
Author: ruddy irradiated telephone

Maybe, I don’t know. She says she definitely wants kids so maybe she just sees me as a fling. Women really do separate men into providers and fucks, if you actually want to get married for some reason then don’t be the “marriage guy” with some floozy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288773)



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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:29 AM
Author: provocative degenerate hunting ground

If shes fucked over 10 guys shes waived her right to complain about being strung along

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288768)



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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:30 AM
Author: mustard bateful range newt

crrrr

get one of those chemical castration pills and get off it when she dumps you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288771)



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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:33 AM
Author: Misunderstood scourge upon the earth kitchen

i didn't ask but i'd put the over/under at 15. she's volunteered that she's had a one night stand, been burned by tinderchad after fucking him too soon, and also hooked up with chicks and a tranny (maybe multiple, female to male, no penis).

i was chill about it but let her know that's not what i usually go for and thought she was a bit more innocent when we first started dating. since then, i've just been going along with it and she's fairly low maintenance.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288781)



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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:34 AM
Author: mustard bateful range newt

lol what the fuck

is this treeman's son or what?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288787)



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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:34 AM
Author: Razzle massive address kitty cat

Flame jumped the shark here

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288790)



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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:36 AM
Author: Misunderstood scourge upon the earth kitchen

not flame. every time you see a chick's profile that says "heteroflexible," pansexual or bisexual, this is what it looks like.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288800)



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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:38 AM
Author: charcoal pit gaming laptop

alright so you met a bisexual on a fuckapp and she came off as "innocent" to you?

jumped the shark here

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288804)



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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:47 AM
Author: Misunderstood scourge upon the earth kitchen

she's sweet and smiles a lot. very loving person. thought chicks with slutty pasts were a bit edgier, jaded and masculine.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288847)



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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:38 AM
Author: mustard bateful range newt



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288809)



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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:39 AM
Author: Fluffy Odious Son Of Senegal Deer Antler



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288815)



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Date: June 22nd, 2018 2:01 AM
Author: mauve shitlib crotch



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288882)



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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:30 AM
Author: charcoal pit gaming laptop

idk why xo freaks out about women having slept around before potentially married them. sure, theres all of those statistics about how previous sexual partners makes divorce more likely, but everyone should seriously consider the strategy of just trying to figure out how to be one of the couples where the woman has had 10+ previous partners that is a part of the 30% or whatever that never divorces. the personality type of the sort of person who poasts here is the same sort of person's options that are only going to be used up whores. not even due to availability but just mere compatibility. i seriously doubt anyone here would be able to fall in love with our collective idealization of a traditional, virginal wife. if anything, for the sorts of people here, sluts will make for better mothers and more stable marriages than "heroic" women.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288769)



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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:40 AM
Author: mustard bateful range newt

I poasted about this for weeks last year. Virginity is so undesirable in modern society that a 20 year old virgin has to be so severely ill-suited for life in general that there's no way they'd make a good parent.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288824)



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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:41 AM
Author: Misunderstood scourge upon the earth kitchen

browser fucked up meant to respond above

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288826)



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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:42 AM
Author: charcoal pit gaming laptop

ehh i think that take is in the wrong direction

virginity is desirable if you're a virgin. no one XO is going to have a stable marriage with a virgin because XO is full of hedonistic low impulse dorks and not Mormon missionaries.

in terms of parenting I think a lot of it hinges on the stability of the marriage and how cohesive the value set is between the parents.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288831)



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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:54 AM
Author: charcoal pit gaming laptop

ty for bumping your poast

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288863)



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Date: June 22nd, 2018 1:48 AM
Author: Misunderstood scourge upon the earth kitchen

"the personality type of the sort of person who poasts here is the same sort of person's options that are only going to be used up whores. not even due to availability but just mere compatibility. i seriously doubt anyone here would be able to fall in love with our collective idealization of a traditional, virginal wife. if anything, for the sorts of people here, sluts will make for better mothers and more stable marriages than "heroic" women."

care to elaborate? you might be on to something here. been on tons of dates and she's the only one who i seem to be compatible with.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288849)



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Date: June 22nd, 2018 2:04 AM
Author: charcoal pit gaming laptop

everyone on XO except rarities like Charles are dorky and narcissistic hedonists. the type of people who keep their virginity on the basis of religious belief are essentially the opposite of this--they're usually not very self absorbed, they have tremendous impulse control, etc. there's no overlap in personality traits and certainly no overlap in values.

in short i think a good way to think of it is basically assume you have all of the same basic personality traits but was born female and then extrapolate what your life history would be like as a result. the more dissimilar the girl you're interested in from that projection is the less likely it is you'll have a functional relationship.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288886)



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Date: June 22nd, 2018 2:14 AM
Author: Misunderstood scourge upon the earth kitchen

narcissistic hedonists sounds about right.

how would you define "abject whore"? i consider myself in the upper quartile of whoredom but not much higher. i've maybe had 25-30 sex partners. do you consider yourself so far removed from a woman who's had maybe 5 sex partners mostly long term bfs and by her late 20s? do you think she would not be interested in you?

i sure as shit don't want to date the female version of me. would you say most attractive girls who are also not huge sluts are impossible to relate to for a typical XOer since the amount of impulse control they've had to exhibit means they will have nothing in common?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288912)



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Date: June 22nd, 2018 2:17 AM
Author: charcoal pit gaming laptop

in terms of "removed from a woman who's had maybe 5 sex partners mostly long term bfs and by her late 20s" i'd say probably not but it depends on the person.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288919)



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Date: June 22nd, 2018 2:30 AM
Author: sable fanboi

I would feel way worse about wasting the time of some early 20s girl who wanted a marriage track relationship. After 25 the jig is up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288948)



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Date: June 22nd, 2018 2:37 AM
Author: Misunderstood scourge upon the earth kitchen

maybe if you're in the deep south but definitely not the case in NYC/DC/SF where shrews are all career-oriented and only looking to settle down by 29-32.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288963)



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Date: June 22nd, 2018 2:38 AM
Author: sable fanboi

That's their problem. Total lunacy IMO.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36288968)



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Date: June 24th, 2018 10:59 PM
Author: Misunderstood scourge upon the earth kitchen



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4007799&forum_id=2#36303992)