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how to survive biglaw with avoidant tendencies?
| Citrine insanely creepy point | 07/13/18 |
| Irradiated Really Tough Guy Rigor | 07/17/18 |
| boyish messiness | 07/17/18 |
| aromatic ocher lettuce gaping | 07/17/18 |
| Citrine insanely creepy point | 07/17/18 |
| Avocado Insecure Church Building | 07/17/18 |
| Irradiated Really Tough Guy Rigor | 07/17/18 |
| Citrine insanely creepy point | 07/17/18 |
| Vigorous Crawly Resort | 07/17/18 |
| idiotic rambunctious hairy legs | 07/17/18 |
| boyish messiness | 07/17/18 |
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Date: July 13th, 2018 4:34 PM Author: Citrine insanely creepy point seems like this boart is full of avoidants. anyone successfully managed (or at least improved on) this tendency while working at a biglaw firm? thx (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4025197&forum_id=2#36421008) |
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Date: July 17th, 2018 7:58 PM Author: Irradiated Really Tough Guy Rigor borts original avoidantmo here taking qs (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4025197&forum_id=2#36448121) |
Date: July 17th, 2018 2:50 PM Author: boyish messiness Pg. 222: "The therapeutic prognosis for the avoidant personality is remarkably poor. The most basic characteristics of the avoidant run counter to the basic requirements of psychotherapy."
http://www.turkpsikiyatri.org/arsiv/personality.disorders.millon.pdf#388
Sorry, you are stuck with this. Maybe if you hadn't been such a humiliation that your parents actually liked being around you growing up, things would be different, but this is where we are.
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Date: July 17th, 2018 2:54 PM Author: aromatic ocher lettuce gaping Do you mean avoidant personality disorder? Or just having an anvoidant personality?
Either way, it's not a single thing and is not distinguishable from being low in trait extroversion and high in trait negative emotion while being too high in trait agreeableness to counteract it.
You need to focus on ways to get better with extroversion, and negative emotion and learn to not be so agreeable. There are lots of CBT and other therapeutic techniques that have been developed for these three. However, if you're all the way on the "personality disorder" part of the spectrum, the prognosis of you being helped significantly are low. |
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Date: July 17th, 2018 7:07 PM Author: Citrine insanely creepy point Ty (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4025197&forum_id=2#36447730) |
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Date: July 17th, 2018 2:56 PM Author: Avocado Insecure Church Building alcohol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4025197&forum_id=2#36445600) |
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Date: July 17th, 2018 7:58 PM Author: Irradiated Really Tough Guy Rigor adderall (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4025197&forum_id=2#36448120) |
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Date: July 17th, 2018 8:32 PM Author: Citrine insanely creepy point I take too much and isolate myself. Become even more avoidant. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4025197&forum_id=2#36448358) |
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Date: July 17th, 2018 8:33 PM Author: Vigorous Crawly Resort Makes me kinda social (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4025197&forum_id=2#36448365) |
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Date: July 17th, 2018 11:42 PM Author: idiotic rambunctious hairy legs (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4025197&forum_id=2#36449476) |
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Date: July 17th, 2018 11:59 PM Author: boyish messiness Not allowed. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4025197&forum_id=2#36449556) |