i can't stand it either, that's why all my relationships fail. the constant emotional maintenance and babysitting is maddening

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709432)

and the problem lies with us - all women are like this, so it's us who have to figure out how to deal with it. the thought of 50 years of this until i die is just horrifying though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709583)

normie women are literally children in adult bodies with zero self control or common sense or ability to understand anything other than a caricature of the male condition

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709632)

my GF is a VERY together looking girl with a great job paying $250k. mentally she is a fucking whackjob. makes her a freak in bed, but tries my patience

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709692)

Hey Jim, just following-up on your last message!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36737827)

Generally, yes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709424)

once you're in a place that requires you devote your internet R&R to deliberating against her, it's too late

let the heifer loose

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709425)

and takes on a story of its own

shitlibby as all hell, but the way you tell the story about her will change how you think about her

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709462)

They just have this sick superego thing that prevents them from fully accepting it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709608)

1). Ultra alpha female - professional job, driven, works out a lot, strong demeanor both emotionally and physically. Emotionally cold as ice and will make a shitty long term partner and/or mother. Won’t spazz about little shit but also not that fun. This is more of a joint venture or partnership relationship.

2.) Smart and warm but not 1 - good job, not tremendously driven, prone to spending large swaths of time in bed or relaxing. Emotionally quite warm and prone to the type of mistakes you describe (and or meltdowns). Overall a very good partner and will be a good mom.

3). Idiot - usually younger; legitimately dumb, might go out 7 times a week and post 38 Instagram stories while doing so. Incapable of anything other than eventual alcoholism or pill addiction. Gossips like crazy at country club if Upper tier over rose for hours all weekend. Can probably be a partner or mother with big time paid help.

I think you marry 2. As a man, you have to just intervene and calm them down when they get nutty and be stable. I don’t know if these things are ever “fixed” but they can be improved upon.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709612)

In the meantime, do you really want to be the guy to break it to her that she isn’t going to hack it? I think probably very little upside to that and the potential for a lot of resentment.

Just see how things shake out. A girl with a little drive that is doing well (enough) professionally is nothing but a good thing. THe xoxo view that these girls should all be teachers or SAHMs is ridiculous and the bastion of those likely unable to get laid in the first place.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709818)

I have seen the worldly -deep type that is flighty but confident - they just don’t stick around long unless you, too, are the flighty type. I think these are capable of great things but never saw it come to fruition.

I have also seen the girls that are adrift and will glom on to whatever they can. These folks are without a rudder or constitution and should be avoided. They signal by posting quotes on social media, fall in love rapidly and are narcissistic. Avoid avoid avoid.

The number 2 girl above is actually really great. You learn that authentic/warm/optimistic/happy >>>>> just about anything else (assuming a baseline of intellect, etc.).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4064268&forum_id=2#36709694)