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Having kids and getting a divorce seems credited

Got a couple divorced friends who have a kid. They each hav...
White public bath
  09/17/18
except for the fact that it's shitty for the kids then yes i...
flesh comical site nibblets
  09/17/18
nope, kids are happy and fine.
White public bath
  09/17/18
nope.
hairraiser chocolate kitchen quadroon
  09/17/18
yup, just had em over yesterday. they're great
White public bath
  09/17/18
the "divorce fucks up kids for life" thing is seve...
supple avocado preventive strike cuck
  09/17/18
my wife's parents divorced when she was 18 and has definitel...
flesh comical site nibblets
  09/17/18
I have been thinking about this a lot lately. I probably spe...
fuchsia abnormal abode
  09/17/18
there's maybe like two divorced of counsel milfs in the enti...
Stimulating principal's office
  09/17/18
ljl @ the looming divorce disaster for TC. This guy will be ...
bearded spectacular church
  09/17/18
I spend a lot of time thinking about this possibility as wel...
fuchsia abnormal abode
  09/17/18
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narrow-minded cyan theater
  09/17/18
This is unbelievably toxic
Buck-toothed background story
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Hairless plaza hominid
  09/17/18
it's a smart thing to do for people who don't care about hur...
vibrant learning disabled death wish
  09/17/18
lol exactly wtf is this
Carnelian parlor
  09/17/18
not at all. The kids of the people I know are very happy an...
White public bath
  09/17/18
if its near 50/50 custody and the parents are civil, it's no...
vibrant learning disabled death wish
  09/17/18
I'm going to blow ur mind: if ur goal is to maximize opportu...
vivacious menage
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vibrant learning disabled death wish
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Spruce Fragrant Stead
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slap-happy fear-inspiring windowlicker
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Carnelian parlor
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Stirring foreskin
  09/17/18
nah ding man having kids brings a joy and fulfillment to ...
White public bath
  09/17/18
Having kids is a joy, but a sacrifice too. If you're not wil...
vivacious menage
  09/17/18
nah, as long as the parents are decent, the kids turn out fi...
White public bath
  09/17/18
I take it you don't have kids brother
vivacious menage
  09/17/18
don't assume my dude
White public bath
  09/17/18
(postradamus’ pregnant mom as she gets blackout drunk watchi...
slap-happy fear-inspiring windowlicker
  09/17/18
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narrow-minded cyan theater
  09/17/18
harsh but fair
obsidian pea-brained headpube sneaky criminal
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Hairless plaza hominid
  09/17/18
as a divorcemo take it from me that it goes the other way th...
Stimulating principal's office
  09/17/18
meh it seems cool to have a couple weekends a month to yours...
White public bath
  09/17/18
I know it *seems* that way but I am telling you it *isn't* t...
Stimulating principal's office
  09/17/18
Missing stuff like x-mas with them (not just the day itself,...
Dashing rigor
  09/17/18
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fuchsia abnormal abode
  09/17/18
Have you factored in Child Support into this equation? I...
Spruce Fragrant Stead
  09/17/18
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Stimulating principal's office
  09/17/18
yeah this is the only rub for the people I know, their ex...
White public bath
  09/17/18
I don't know how you aren't consumed by rage about this. If ...
fuchsia abnormal abode
  09/17/18
why don't you care about your potential kids
obsidian pea-brained headpube sneaky criminal
  09/17/18
(My dead mother)
Boyish Bistre Crotch Address
  09/17/18
After I had a kid my life really just became about them. I d...
Scarlet bateful trailer park cuckold
  09/17/18
think about all the frustration and time wasted trying to g...
White public bath
  09/17/18
so you can go "have fun"? jfc you're a woman
obsidian pea-brained headpube sneaky criminal
  09/17/18
Yeah it's called when your kid turns 11 and starts junior hi...
Scarlet bateful trailer park cuckold
  09/17/18
your soul has already withered away by then from night after...
White public bath
  09/17/18
The hardest part is coming to the realization you'll never a...
Dashing rigor
  09/17/18
if this is so pleasurable it'll fuck up the rest of your lif...
obsidian pea-brained headpube sneaky criminal
  09/17/18
23 year old me would have kicked you in the dick for suggest...
Dashing rigor
  09/17/18
23 year old me would probably be passed out in the bathroom ...
obsidian pea-brained headpube sneaky criminal
  09/17/18
buddhists and stoics understand this too all sensory pleasu...
low-t state
  09/17/18
U should still do this but not fuck
puce water buffalo
  09/17/18
jfc just admit you're a raging shitlib and be done with it, ...
low-t state
  09/17/18
OP=Casey Anthony
vivacious menage
  09/17/18
Toxicity level off the charts
magical coldplay fan cumskin
  09/17/18
key is to do it when the kids are young so they grow up thin...
Wine house
  09/17/18
it's normal in 2018
narrow-minded cyan theater
  09/17/18
High level of toxicity on display here
Lake Liquid Oxygen Immigrant
  09/17/18


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Date: September 17th, 2018 10:47 AM
Author: White public bath

Got a couple divorced friends who have a kid. They each have significant others. They get to pass the kid off to the ex-spouse and have 180 non-kid time to do fun shit with their bf/gf.

Meanwhile in regular relationships a husband and wife can't do shit together without securing childcare or have to lug the kid around everywhere.

Divorcemos FTW

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824562)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:04 AM
Author: flesh comical site nibblets

except for the fact that it's shitty for the kids then yes it would be totally cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824660)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:37 AM
Author: White public bath

nope, kids are happy and fine.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824875)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 1:21 PM
Author: hairraiser chocolate kitchen quadroon

nope.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825631)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 1:41 PM
Author: White public bath

yup, just had em over yesterday. they're great

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825753)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 1:38 PM
Author: supple avocado preventive strike cuck

the "divorce fucks up kids for life" thing is severely overblown - it only really has a chance of happening if the kids are 6 or younger and can't understand why daddy is suddenly gone 5-6 days/week.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825735)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 3:29 PM
Author: flesh comical site nibblets

my wife's parents divorced when she was 18 and has definitely left a scar

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36826614)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:18 AM
Author: fuchsia abnormal abode

I have been thinking about this a lot lately. I probably spend 5-10% of my day dreaming about being single and being able to do whatever the fuck I want with my free time. Would spend a lot of time hiking, being outside, and banging divorced OC MILFs.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824746)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:35 AM
Author: Stimulating principal's office

there's maybe like two divorced of counsel milfs in the entire country. I actually know one and she is quite milfy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824861)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 12:10 PM
Author: bearded spectacular church

ljl @ the looming divorce disaster for TC. This guy will be bald, broke, divorced, and completely alone in <5 years

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825101)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 1:46 PM
Author: fuchsia abnormal abode

I spend a lot of time thinking about this possibility as well. Except the bald part. I will never lose my hair.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825784)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 1:50 PM
Author: narrow-minded cyan theater



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825818)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:18 AM
Author: Buck-toothed background story

This is unbelievably toxic

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824754)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:30 AM
Author: Hairless plaza hominid



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824821)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:29 AM
Author: vibrant learning disabled death wish

it's a smart thing to do for people who don't care about hurting their children or spending time with them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824810)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:29 AM
Author: Carnelian parlor

lol exactly wtf is this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824815)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:36 AM
Author: White public bath

not at all. The kids of the people I know are very happy and well-adjusted. And the parents really value the time they have with them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824866)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:39 AM
Author: vibrant learning disabled death wish

if its near 50/50 custody and the parents are civil, it's not the worst thing in the world.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824888)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:30 AM
Author: vivacious menage

I'm going to blow ur mind: if ur goal is to maximize opportunities for hedonism, you can do even better by not having kids at all

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824824)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:31 AM
Author: vibrant learning disabled death wish



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824829)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:32 AM
Author: Spruce Fragrant Stead



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824838)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:32 AM
Author: slap-happy fear-inspiring windowlicker



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824840)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:33 AM
Author: Carnelian parlor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824846)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:34 AM
Author: Stirring foreskin



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824853)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:35 AM
Author: White public bath

nah ding man

having kids brings a joy and fulfillment to your life. but having to be around them 24/7 starts to get irritating. being able to hand them off to a reliable party and having adult time is pretty 180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824857)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:35 AM
Author: vivacious menage

Having kids is a joy, but a sacrifice too. If you're not willing to sacrifice then you deserve the fucked up kids you will inevitably create

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824863)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:37 AM
Author: White public bath

nah, as long as the parents are decent, the kids turn out fine too. They are actually exposed to more experiences since they have two sets of parents, more or less.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824874)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:37 AM
Author: vivacious menage

I take it you don't have kids brother

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824877)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:40 AM
Author: White public bath

don't assume my dude

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824896)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:36 AM
Author: slap-happy fear-inspiring windowlicker

(postradamus’ pregnant mom as she gets blackout drunk watching iron man 5 and shits her pants in the movie theater seats)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824870)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:46 AM
Author: narrow-minded cyan theater



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824924)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:51 AM
Author: obsidian pea-brained headpube sneaky criminal

harsh but fair

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824959)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:44 AM
Author: Hairless plaza hominid



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824913)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:36 AM
Author: Stimulating principal's office

as a divorcemo take it from me that it goes the other way tho. you miss your kids when they're not around and would trade all that free time for time with the kids. plus you feel like a loser when you're for example eating lunch somewhere on a sunday and your family isn't around. a man should have a large brood around him at most times

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824873)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:38 AM
Author: White public bath

meh it seems cool to have a couple weekends a month to yourself to have fun, blow off steam and do hoodrat shit, and then when you get the kids again you really appreciate them because you've got to miss them a little

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824885)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:42 AM
Author: Stimulating principal's office

I know it *seems* that way but I am telling you it *isn't* that way. that is, I am living the life you are envisioning, with just more time with my kids each week than I think you are describing. you want it to be one way, but it's the other

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824906)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:42 AM
Author: Dashing rigor

Missing stuff like x-mas with them (not just the day itself, but the lead up: Santa visits, the night before when they are AMPED UP) sounds 120 though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824907)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:46 AM
Author: fuchsia abnormal abode



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824927)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:43 AM
Author: Spruce Fragrant Stead

Have you factored in Child Support into this equation?

It's not fun paying my ex-wife $1,200 a month tax free child support, despite having 50/50 custody. My ex-wife probably thinks your idea is great though. She gets "GNO" and free time for two weeks straight. And she gets paid to go out and party with the CS money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824910)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:46 AM
Author: Stimulating principal's office



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824926)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:47 AM
Author: White public bath

yeah this is the only rub

for the people I know, their ex-spouses both have decent careers and make similar money to them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824930)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 2:27 PM
Author: fuchsia abnormal abode

I don't know how you aren't consumed by rage about this. If I get divorced, I will still probably end up paying child support even though by wife makes a ton of money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36826125)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:46 AM
Author: obsidian pea-brained headpube sneaky criminal

why don't you care about your potential kids

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824917)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:48 AM
Author: Boyish Bistre Crotch Address

(My dead mother)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824935)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:54 AM
Author: Scarlet bateful trailer park cuckold

After I had a kid my life really just became about them. I don't care about myself anymore (and maybe I never did). I wouldn't go out of my way to create a situation where my kid is not under the same roof as me every single day -- and definitely not because it gave me more time to pursue hobbies or go on dating apps. That's idiotic.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824987)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:56 AM
Author: White public bath

think about all the frustration and time wasted trying to get your toddler to sleep night after night...wouldn't it be cool to have a little break from that every now and them?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825001)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:56 AM
Author: obsidian pea-brained headpube sneaky criminal

so you can go "have fun"? jfc you're a woman

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825006)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:57 AM
Author: Scarlet bateful trailer park cuckold

Yeah it's called when your kid turns 11 and starts junior high. I'll have plenty of breaks then.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825012)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:58 AM
Author: White public bath

your soul has already withered away by then from night after night of wiping your toddler's shitty anus

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825023)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 12:00 PM
Author: Dashing rigor

The hardest part is coming to the realization you'll never again grind on some little spinner while "promiscuous girl" thumps and your buddies are doing shots. If you chase that dragon you'll end up in a dark place.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825037)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 12:02 PM
Author: obsidian pea-brained headpube sneaky criminal

if this is so pleasurable it'll fuck up the rest of your life, you probably shouldn't be doing it in the first place

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825049)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 12:04 PM
Author: Dashing rigor

23 year old me would have kicked you in the dick for suggesting that

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825059)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 12:05 PM
Author: obsidian pea-brained headpube sneaky criminal

23 year old me would probably be passed out in the bathroom unable to suggest anything

shitcons might've been right about degeneracy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825062)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 12:12 PM
Author: low-t state

buddhists and stoics understand this too

all sensory pleasure is dangerous to a degree

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825113)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 12:12 PM
Author: puce water buffalo

U should still do this but not fuck

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825109)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 12:06 PM
Author: low-t state

jfc just admit you're a raging shitlib and be done with it, why don't you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825070)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 12:45 PM
Author: vivacious menage

OP=Casey Anthony

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825358)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 1:36 PM
Author: magical coldplay fan cumskin

Toxicity level off the charts

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825718)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 1:37 PM
Author: Wine house

key is to do it when the kids are young so they grow up thinking it's normal to have one mom and 3 dads.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825733)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 1:47 PM
Author: narrow-minded cyan theater

it's normal in 2018

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825793)



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Date: September 17th, 2018 1:50 PM
Author: Lake Liquid Oxygen Immigrant

High level of toxicity on display here

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825816)