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Why does XO hate on online dating?

In major cities, very few couples meet IRL. It's all online.
Cracking international law enforcement agency
  12/14/18
Absolutely untrue. Of the ~20 couples I hang out with re...
Crusty casino
  12/14/18
it’s a wasteland
sick charismatic dilemma stain
  12/14/18
because all of the functional couples that meet online are f...
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Diverse lodge pistol
  12/14/18
is this supposed to be an endorsement of OLD? it just sucks ...
Pearly shitlib dingle berry
  12/14/18
The data shows that the vast majority of millennial couples ...
Cracking international law enforcement agency
  12/14/18
I assume you meant "millennial couples meet online"...
Magenta swashbuckling range
  12/14/18
what if all your friends are married
coiffed adventurous senate
  12/14/18
that's why you have to lock it down in late 20s before every...
Magenta swashbuckling range
  12/14/18
i'm late 20's and everyone is already paired off, fuck
coiffed adventurous senate
  12/14/18
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Wonderful Twisted Institution Generalized Bond
  12/14/18
who cares, doesn't mean it doesn't suck.
Pearly shitlib dingle berry
  12/14/18
inorganic dating is poison
coiffed adventurous senate
  12/14/18
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Wonderful Twisted Institution Generalized Bond
  12/14/18
you're ugly
Cracking international law enforcement agency
  12/14/18
probably, but more autistic and awkward than ugly, i assure ...
coiffed adventurous senate
  12/14/18
Prime candidate for internet You found your job on intern...
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misanthropic bronze gay wizard
  12/14/18
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coiffed adventurous senate
  12/15/18
I have done both, and the 3 LTRs I got from irl organic meet...
Magenta swashbuckling range
  12/14/18
lol
Bespoke balding parlor
  12/14/18
think it would take long to find an app chick who wants to d...
maniacal citrine associate
  12/14/18
It hasn't worked out well for xo
Bespoke balding parlor
  12/14/18
I don't think all online dating is bad, you just have to con...
tan friendly grandma pervert
  12/14/18
I'm a YUGE proponent of niche/more complex apps. Shit even O...
comical immigrant
  12/14/18
OKC is a weird hybrid because they transitioned to the swipe...
Magenta swashbuckling range
  12/14/18
The only caveat is that if you're under 6' tall and making l...
tan friendly grandma pervert
  12/14/18
I could not meet anyone irl to save my life. It was a thread...
autistic talking windowlicker house
  12/14/18
Is BF like kind of thick (or eventual thick) urban type, or ...
tan friendly grandma pervert
  12/14/18
She is tall and has long legs. She's a good 2-3" taller...
autistic talking windowlicker house
  12/14/18
haha wow holy shit, how do you feel when she wears heels?
Magenta swashbuckling range
  12/14/18
She doesn't give a shit so why should I? When she wears heel...
autistic talking windowlicker house
  12/14/18
do you not feel the palpable derision of 6'3" bros at t...
Magenta swashbuckling range
  12/14/18
lol no. Watching them try would be lulzy.
autistic talking windowlicker house
  12/14/18
could you hold your own in a fight?
Magenta swashbuckling range
  12/14/18
Are you new here?
autistic talking windowlicker house
  12/14/18
not at all, but I can't effectively remember personal detail...
Magenta swashbuckling range
  12/14/18
My horse stance is second to none.
autistic talking windowlicker house
  12/14/18
MY black fiance
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  12/14/18
There are way more men than women on these online apps, you ...
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  12/14/18
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Cracking international law enforcement agency
  12/14/18
It's basically a video game where broken women reject needy ...
misanthropic bronze gay wizard
  12/14/18
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laughsome locale
  12/15/18
delete this
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  01/01/19
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Date: December 14th, 2018 5:25 PM
Author: Cracking international law enforcement agency

In major cities, very few couples meet IRL. It's all online.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409039)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 7:52 PM
Author: Crusty casino

Absolutely untrue.

Of the ~20 couples I hang out with regularly, only 1 met online. These are people in late 20s early 30s. Live in big city.

EDIT: Make that 0/20. I was mixing up my buddy's current GF with his ex GF.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409738)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 5:26 PM
Author: sick charismatic dilemma stain

it’s a wasteland

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409043)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 5:27 PM
Author: misanthropic bronze gay wizard

because all of the functional couples that meet online are frail betakikes with boitits and their equally soulless bucktoothed gook fuckpuppet counterparts

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409049)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 5:46 PM
Author: Free-loading Aqua Hunting Ground Theatre



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409159)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 5:49 PM
Author: Sexy dead field turdskin

bucktoothed gook fuckpuppets without souls would be a great moniker.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409174)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: Diverse lodge pistol



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409242)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 5:27 PM
Author: Pearly shitlib dingle berry

is this supposed to be an endorsement of OLD? it just sucks and the "couples" who meet on it are laughable.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409050)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 5:48 PM
Author: Cracking international law enforcement agency

The data shows that the vast majority of millennial couples meet online. LJL@meeting in bars/clubs. No one does that anymore.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409169)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: Magenta swashbuckling range

I assume you meant "millennial couples meet online"

the 3 LTRs I referenced below were initiated 1) at work (HS), 2) mutual friend (UG), and 3) nationally competitive UG EC

outside of college, seems the only reliable method is mutual friends

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409196)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: coiffed adventurous senate

what if all your friends are married

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409205)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 5:56 PM
Author: Magenta swashbuckling range

that's why you have to lock it down in late 20s before everyone is paired off already

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409212)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 5:56 PM
Author: coiffed adventurous senate

i'm late 20's and everyone is already paired off, fuck

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409214)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: Wonderful Twisted Institution Generalized Bond



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409219)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 6:02 PM
Author: Pearly shitlib dingle berry

who cares, doesn't mean it doesn't suck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409248)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 5:28 PM
Author: coiffed adventurous senate

inorganic dating is poison

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409054)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 5:51 PM
Author: Wonderful Twisted Institution Generalized Bond



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409186)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 5:58 PM
Author: Cracking international law enforcement agency

you're ugly

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409226)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 5:59 PM
Author: coiffed adventurous senate

probably, but more autistic and awkward than ugly, i assure you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409235)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 11:09 PM
Author: lemon titillating hospital dog poop

Prime candidate for internet

You found your job on internet

You found your house on internet

You found your friends on internet

You found god on internet

Find your wife on internet

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37410517)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 11:09 PM
Author: misanthropic bronze gay wizard



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37410518)



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Date: December 15th, 2018 2:24 PM
Author: coiffed adventurous senate

fuuuuck

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37412439)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 5:32 PM
Author: Magenta swashbuckling range

I have done both, and the 3 LTRs I got from irl organic meetings were FAR, FAR more successful overall (although they obviously didn't work out in the end). Every time I've dated a girl I met on an app, she per se ends up being a slut

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409080)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 5:47 PM
Author: Bespoke balding parlor

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409166)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 11:14 PM
Author: maniacal citrine associate

think it would take long to find an app chick who wants to date but have BBC on the side?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37410528)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 5:47 PM
Author: Bespoke balding parlor

It hasn't worked out well for xo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409161)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 5:50 PM
Author: tan friendly grandma pervert

I don't think all online dating is bad, you just have to consider what form of it you're using. If it's a pure swipe ap, you know by default that instant appearance is 100% someone's deciding factor vs. say Match where height, race, income, and education are available.

Happily married for 9+ years thanks to Match.com

*sponsored poast*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409182)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 5:52 PM
Author: comical immigrant

I'm a YUGE proponent of niche/more complex apps. Shit even OKC gives you more details.

You can narrow down to a good pool of people and you should have things in common.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409192)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: Magenta swashbuckling range

OKC is a weird hybrid because they transitioned to the swipe model, but still have much longer bio opportunities that you should take advantage of (both in your own profile and when evaluating chicks)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409224)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 5:59 PM
Author: tan friendly grandma pervert

The only caveat is that if you're under 6' tall and making less than $150k in a place like SF (that used to be Match's highest income bracket) you're probably not going to do all that well. But this applies to IRL as well.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409233)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: autistic talking windowlicker house

I could not meet anyone irl to save my life. It was a thread on xo that got me to try online dating.

I spent a lot of time creating my profile and continually edited it.

Went on eight dates before I met my black fiancee; she was the 8th. Six out of the eight went for a second date.

I was starting to date a little Mexican chick I met on Coffee Meets Bagel when I dumped her for my black fiancee who I met on Bumble.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409220)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: tan friendly grandma pervert

Is BF like kind of thick (or eventual thick) urban type, or more that lean East African build? I was a sprinter in HS so I feel you on WOC; though not to the extent that EPAH goes overboard. Thin East Africans & Island blacks like from Trinidad are where it's at for me, along with mixed ones.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409240)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 6:04 PM
Author: autistic talking windowlicker house

She is tall and has long legs. She's a good 2-3" taller than me. Definitely more towards the leaner East African side.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409254)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 6:08 PM
Author: Magenta swashbuckling range

haha wow holy shit, how do you feel when she wears heels?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409268)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 6:13 PM
Author: autistic talking windowlicker house

She doesn't give a shit so why should I? When she wears heels she looks sexy as fuck and I'm proud to be with her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409285)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 6:14 PM
Author: Magenta swashbuckling range

do you not feel the palpable derision of 6'3" bros at the bar who immediately get the impression that they could steal her from you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409293)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 6:15 PM
Author: autistic talking windowlicker house

lol no. Watching them try would be lulzy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409297)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 6:16 PM
Author: Magenta swashbuckling range

could you hold your own in a fight?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409303)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 6:19 PM
Author: autistic talking windowlicker house

Are you new here?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409318)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 6:20 PM
Author: Magenta swashbuckling range

not at all, but I can't effectively remember personal details of every megapoaster who irl-threads

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409327)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 6:21 PM
Author: autistic talking windowlicker house

My horse stance is second to none.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409330)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 6:10 PM
Author: razzle-dazzle feces faggot firefighter

MY black fiance

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409277)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 7:47 PM
Author: Fragrant Charcoal Den

There are way more men than women on these online apps, you do the math

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37409721)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 11:04 PM
Author: Cracking international law enforcement agency



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37410505)



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Date: December 14th, 2018 11:56 PM
Author: misanthropic bronze gay wizard

It's basically a video game where broken women reject needy and hopeless beta males while so they can get fucked and then rejected by psychopathic men and none of the players ever win.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37410675)



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Date: December 15th, 2018 2:10 PM
Author: laughsome locale

holy shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37412367)



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Date: January 1st, 2019 1:53 PM
Author: heady school stock car

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(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37507639)



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Date: January 1st, 2019 1:48 PM
Author: Passionate jade point national security agency



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Date: January 1st, 2019 1:54 PM
Author: Ultramarine genital piercing

Bad phenotypes + seething rage at the bragging/success of poasters with good phenotypes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4156087&forum_id=2#37507646)