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Anyone notice a change in their male friendships
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Date: January 26th, 2019 11:31 AM Author: The Intersectionality of Disney\'s new DuckTales My bros used to be dudes I could trust no matter what. But now with the advent of pc culture they are becoming more catty and less reliable (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37666820) |
Date: January 26th, 2019 11:33 AM Author: ARE Reptile I don’t have any friends. I do have bros I’m blackmailing into betraying their country and I’ve noticed this about them too. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37666831) |
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Date: January 26th, 2019 12:05 PM Author: longwangpoontang (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37666985) |
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Date: January 26th, 2019 2:48 PM Author: cornpop I believe the first part (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37667827) |
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Date: November 29th, 2019 6:42 PM Author: life-long alcoholic (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#39191232) |
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Date: November 29th, 2019 10:06 PM Author: Morbidly Obese Sex Robot Yeah, Sky is blue, 1+1=2, Are Reptile is a friendless loser. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#39191869) |
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Date: November 29th, 2019 11:13 PM Author: SomeOtherGhost (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#39192144) |
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Date: January 27th, 2019 1:38 PM Author: Chesa Boudin (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37672878) |
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Date: November 29th, 2019 10:10 PM Author: your comely bro (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#39191875) |
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Date: January 26th, 2019 11:34 AM Author: evan39 There is no such thing as a male "friendship" after thirty. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37666838) |
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Date: January 26th, 2019 11:55 AM Author: Shitlaw Cicero (Dork Enlightenment) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37666938) |
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Date: January 26th, 2019 2:08 PM Author: The Intersectionality of Disney\'s new DuckTales Fuck bro... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37667596) |
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Date: January 26th, 2019 2:26 PM Author: .,.,,,.,,.,,,,,...,,,....,,..,, Why does that change after 30? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37667699) |
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Date: January 26th, 2019 2:51 PM Author: GOY GUN NUT Marriage and kids (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37667845) |
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Date: January 26th, 2019 2:50 PM Author: H.R. Puffendorf Didn't used to be this way (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37667838) |
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Date: January 26th, 2019 2:51 PM Author: tyrone (π©π©π©) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37667840) |
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Date: January 27th, 2019 1:38 PM Author: Heteronormative, Cisgendered Bro (Het+Cis) Flame. Still good bros with a couple of dudes I've known since kindergarten, despite our radically different life outcomes. Also good friends with a bunch of dads at my kids' school who I met after 30 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37672881) |
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Date: November 29th, 2019 11:01 PM Author: venkatesh subramanian :( (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#39192073) |
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Date: January 26th, 2019 2:12 PM Author: Dr. Samniqueka Halsey (Dr. Thunder) i have a lot of friends who have distanced themselves from me because they've gone all-in with extreme liberalism and i have not. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37667620) |
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Date: January 26th, 2019 2:13 PM Author: The Intersectionality of Disney\'s new DuckTales Why is it that people were more sensible at 19 than they are at 29? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37667627) |
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Date: January 26th, 2019 2:25 PM Author: Dr. Samniqueka Halsey (Dr. Thunder) it's a sign of the times.
more than almost anything, people innately crave an IDENTITY. this is why young people with no direction and few friends often turn to gangs, cults, and terrorist groups -- because they desperately want to BELONG to something.
people also deeply crave reassurance of their own SUPERIORITY and that they are DOING THE RIGHT THING with their lives.
in 2019 America, liberalism is a cult that reassures its members of their MORAL, INTELLECTUAL, and SOCIAL superiority.
and you can easily signal your membership to this ENLIGHTENED GROUP via SOCIAL MEDIA, where numerous others can virtue signal their own memberships to this ELITE CLUB and reassure each other of their SUPERIORITY.
members of this club do not deign to besmirch themselves by mingling with those of lesser status and opposing beliefs, lest they be judged for their company. additionally, they do not want to hear anything that may question the legitimacy of the thought processes they have fully adopted. |
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Date: January 26th, 2019 2:37 PM Author: fidelio (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37667767) |
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Date: January 26th, 2019 2:52 PM Author: GOY GUN NUT Mfcr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37667847) |
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Date: January 27th, 2019 2:29 PM Author: Chesa Boudin scholarship (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37673080) |
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Date: November 26th, 2019 1:06 AM Author: patient A N O M I E (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#39173651) |
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Date: November 26th, 2019 1:33 AM Author: Dr. Cool (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#39173708) |
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Date: November 29th, 2019 10:03 PM Author: TS Jewish Actor (ππΊπ©π»π€) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#39191856) |
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Date: January 26th, 2019 2:26 PM Author: rise, luis (retired) Yes but Expexted a thread about aging and becoming distant from friends after marriage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37667700) |
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Date: January 27th, 2019 2:50 PM Author: alzabo (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37673209) |
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Date: November 26th, 2019 2:49 AM Author: rise, luis (luis) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#39173821) |
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Date: January 26th, 2019 3:45 PM Author: .....,,.,.,.,..,.,.,,,,,.,.,.,.,.,.,,. Sexless bros are now feminist allies in sad, obvious attempts to get laid. It's a shame. No honor anymore. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37668085) |
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Date: January 26th, 2019 3:53 PM Author: Real Estate No. Been friends with same guys for 25+ years. About 10 of us. All from NYC - all live within an hour or so (Westchester, Brooklyn, Long Island for the guys married with kids). Keep it real- still talk about women, blacks, Arabs etc. as freely as we always did. Nothing is off limits. Helps that it’s a nice mix. Two fire fighters, IT help desk guy, fashion photographer/trust fund baby, teacher, etc. - no one is a pussy. Even the non Trump supporter Democrats in our group are not pussies and have not lost their values or opinions. Feel sorry for other guys my age who are so lost and misguided. I’d like to think we have maintained our own identities through these large culture shifts because of our deep friendship and commitment to maintaining our social circle. I also realize that every single one of us has a strong relationship with our parents and have a strong male influence in our fathers. Also very limited social media use. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37668130) |
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Date: January 26th, 2019 3:56 PM Author: Taylor Swift is not a hobby she is a lifestyle I have a similar experience, but it's only four guys now. We talk as freely as ever. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37668143) |
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Date: January 27th, 2019 1:42 PM Author: There's always a link in SF Same, 4 solid bros as well. The Mexican of the bunch is 180, when I asked him how he made it through USAJobs to get his position he was like "checked hispanic". (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37672895) |
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Date: January 26th, 2019 3:56 PM Author: dha tux (guy from bay ridge) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37668146) |
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Date: January 26th, 2019 4:00 PM Author: Real Estate Ayyyy we got a detective here or somethin (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37668165) |
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Date: January 26th, 2019 3:55 PM Author: TS Wilbur Mercer (Crypto Musk Ox) sex changes things, no doubt I have noticed it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37668134) |
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Date: November 26th, 2019 2:17 AM Author: TS Wilbur Mercer (CleShitlawGuru) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#39173767) |
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Date: January 26th, 2019 3:56 PM Author: gibberish Average male today has the grip strength of his grandfather (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37668142) |
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Date: January 26th, 2019 3:56 PM Author: Taylor Swift is not a hobby she is a lifestyle Grandfather at 80, maybe (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37668145) |
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Date: January 27th, 2019 2:55 AM Author: ;;::;;;::;;.;;,::;;;;;; Yes, he means right now. Not grandfather in his prime. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37671258) |
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Date: January 27th, 2019 2:38 AM Author: patient Yes It's tied to female hypergamy, like many ills Men want or even need to placate women to find and keep a partner. It feminizes them and changes their de facto loyalty from their male friends to women, specifically to the woman they settle down with. So men who once may have been close friends become distrusting of one another, or are often viewed as competition. And I've seen this too many times--adult male "friends" often only stick around to use you as a way to access women and won't hesitate to try to homewreck if they see an opportunity And of course: fewer shared experiences, little incentive to form bonds when fast easy dopamine hits are right in your pocket, rootlessness making it not worth the investment to build friendships that might just dissolve months later when they get a new job |
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Date: January 27th, 2019 12:12 PM Author: patient (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37672423) |
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Date: January 27th, 2019 1:37 PM Author: the specter of diaper (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37672874) |
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Date: January 27th, 2019 2:41 AM Author: Sotomayor McCheese with the advent of getting married and having shrew wives they're becoming catty (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37671228) |
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Date: January 27th, 2019 1:27 PM Author: black letter bastard Yes - my closest formerly moderate to conservative friends have bought the shitlib agenda wholesale and now think I'm public enemy #1. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37672811) |
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Date: January 27th, 2019 1:52 PM Author: patient Same. I'm still angry about it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37672939) |
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Date: January 27th, 2019 2:34 PM Author: black letter bastard These are formerly nonpolitical, normal white dudes from middle class to upper middle class families, who think I'm insane for voting Trump. Oddly, their shrew wives and gfs seem less irritated by my politics than they do. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37673103) |
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Date: November 29th, 2019 10:14 PM Author: Uranist (Bande-au-ciel!! ) I’ve noticed this too. The wives/gfs often don’t seem to care much at all and don’t want to talk about it, or aren’t reactive. The women are now the men. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#39191885) |
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Date: January 27th, 2019 1:33 PM Author: ~~(> ' ' )> (ππ¨π΄) Loyalty is strength.
Strength is toxic. |
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Date: January 27th, 2019 1:34 PM Author: GOY SUPERSTAR Yeah but I just stopped talking to those fucking losers. The "never let politics influence your relationships" stock line is so dumb and wrong. Why would I ever want to hang out with (white) guys who have become convinced that white people are evil and we need to have open borders? It's just gay and weird and creepy and pathetic
It sucks that you lose so many people to cowardice and brainwash, but if anything it's just more of a reason to stay true to your principles. If nobody grows a spine and tells these guys to stop being such groveling faggots, then there's zero hope for anything ever getting better |
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Date: November 29th, 2019 11:08 PM Author: venkatesh subramanian fag (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#39192117) |
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Date: January 27th, 2019 1:36 PM Author: Hysterical bitchmade deepstate faggot Lost a close friend to TDS. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37672871) |
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Date: January 27th, 2019 2:37 PM Author: Refunkulus (never count out a MUSCLE NUT) Same (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37673116) |
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Date: January 27th, 2019 2:46 PM Author: 30-something sitting in a Pizza Hut reminiscing (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37673177) |
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Date: November 26th, 2019 1:15 AM Author: \'\'\'\'\'\'\' Details pls (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#39173678) |
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Date: November 26th, 2019 1:47 AM Author: Ded Moroz TM..,..;;. (π¦) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#39173731) |
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Date: November 26th, 2019 1:34 AM Author: Dr. Cool (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#39173709) |
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Date: November 26th, 2019 2:02 AM Author: cryptosexual #metoo (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#39173749) |
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Date: November 29th, 2019 10:03 PM Author: TS Jewish Actor (ππΊπ©π»π€) Read this as TLS (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#39191852) |
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Date: November 29th, 2019 11:08 PM Author: venkatesh subramanian Keep talking shit about steez (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#39192118) |
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Date: January 27th, 2019 3:02 PM Author: PMC Striver (uspo) i never hung out with people who took politics seriously so none of my friendships were lost because of stupid culture war shit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37673276) |
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Date: January 27th, 2019 3:16 PM Author: GOY (uspo) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#37673354) |
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Date: November 26th, 2019 1:28 AM Author: top-law-schools (uspo) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#39173699) |
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Date: November 26th, 2019 1:40 AM Author: Dr. Samniqueka Halsey (Dr. Thunder) I find it more that my married male friends have completely disappeared, which I get, & lonely incel guys try to cling on to me. It’s a combination of I feel bad for them, so I’ll listen, & also I do a lot better with women, so they think they might get one by association. But I like being alone. I don’t like getting texts. I hate small talk. I get bombarded with enough communications per day at work. I don’t want more when I leave. I don’t understand the need people have for constant human interaction.
I realize this poast is hypocritical. |
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Date: November 26th, 2019 1:51 AM Author: Maori woman performing defiant haka after 35 the only good friends are the ones you take psychedelics with (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#39173734) |
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Date: November 26th, 2019 2:03 AM Author: Dr. Samniqueka Halsey (Dr. Thunder) My friends list at nearly 40:
A smart, funny, overweight 37 y/o virgin who smokes pot in a tent in his basement.
A Jew & his fob Chinese wife.
A childhood friend suffering from Trump Derangement Syndrome who assumes I’m lib.
A mid-40s couple whom I’ve given thousands of dollars in free legal advice for dealing with their own divorces (they’re actually my favorites, though).
A late 60s friend of my dead father.
Various bartenders, who like me because I tip well
A bunch of black dudes who I got into watching Frasier because they are always smoking weed at the 37 y/o virgin’s house
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Date: November 29th, 2019 6:41 PM Author: Rampart (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#39191228) |
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Date: November 29th, 2019 10:45 PM Author: ;;::;;;::;;.;;,::;;;;;; Cool, but those bartenders aren't your friends. They're just doing their job. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#39191998) |
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Date: November 26th, 2019 1:57 AM Author: Frank Lloyd Wrong I'm down to 1 friend left (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#39173742) |
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Date: November 26th, 2019 2:02 AM Author: frog and toad both striking out at WhittierLaw OCI (NoopNoop) lmao, I don't have any lib male friends. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#39173750) |
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Date: November 26th, 2019 2:18 AM Author: Gay Actor Michael Douglas I moved out of state shortly after graduating so i've lost touch with practically all of my old friends. In my early 20s i had a couple bros travel up to my city to hangout a few times. Into my mid-late 20s alot of my bros started pairing off, i missed a couple of their weddings. now i dont even get invited to stuff anymore. its crushingly depressing.
things happen so slow you don't even realize you're drifting apart. |
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Date: November 26th, 2019 3:02 AM Author: The whistleblower is ERIC CIAMARELLA i recently started making an effort to reconnect with old friends after several years as a total shut-in internet addict. it's pretty awkward and anxiety-provoking territory because they have all been clearly sucked into the shitlib propaganda vortex to some degree, though nowhere near to the level of the SJW lunatics we like to highlight here on XO. i get the sense that they don't fully agree with those people but have no actual arguments against their beliefs that are within the Overton window, so they just kind of ignore them for the most part, and just laugh them off and change the topic whenever they come up in conversation somehow. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#39173829) |
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Date: November 26th, 2019 3:05 AM Author: PMC Striver the anxiety probably comes from you just getting weirder and more awkward and them growing up a bit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#39173834) |
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Date: November 26th, 2019 3:06 AM Author: The whistleblower is ERIC CIAMARELLA oh, that is certainly a major part of it, and substance abuse doesn't help either
also i'm not the one that would bring any of this shit up
edit: upon further reflection, i'm still pretty damn sure that they are wrong about their dumb political beliefs and that i am capable of hiding my power level IRL |
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Date: November 29th, 2019 9:58 PM Author: cowgod (web.archive.org/web/20181230045958/http://www.cliquetheory.com) Lol this thread sucks imho. Only idiots care about liberal arts irl. Just befriend Nerds and Jocks and Scumbags, you'll completely avoid these kind of Loser problems.
Also, people aren't predisposed to having "friendships," they are predisposed to having Cliques. Since Jocks/Nerds/Scumbags all have a particular MO and are either chasing some kind of Victory/Engineering thing/pussy/adventure/adrenaline rush, friendship doesn't really come into play. The sort of arrested development that leads to adult men wanting to have "friends" is one of those Loser traits. Leave it to Losers to sabotage this perverse desire of theirs with, of all things, liberal arts. Lol |
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Date: November 29th, 2019 10:20 PM Author: Uranist (Bande-au-ciel!! ) Cot damn, I’m ready to believe (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#39191902) |
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Date: November 29th, 2019 10:24 PM Author: cowgod (web.archive.org/web/20181230045958/http://www.cliquetheory.com) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#39191919) |
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Date: November 29th, 2019 10:24 PM Author: ...,,.,....,....,...,.,, I’ve grown distant from many friends. It’s a combination of a spreading insane TDS among people + family obligations + weakening social bonds due to GC + people finding communities online like on xo (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#39191917) |
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Date: November 29th, 2019 11:10 PM Author: venkatesh subramanian i thought TDS = the daily stormer (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4187248&forum_id=2#39192132) |