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ITT: rate the milestones of my marriage by year

Y0 - wedding/honeymoon; several other trips including to WPB...
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/09/20
This is the strongest post/ moniker synergy that I have ever...
Very tactful underhanded hall striped hyena
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house-broken love of her life
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Poppy slippery house
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laughsome hunting ground gas station
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Self-centered Out-of-control Stage Sandwich
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hilarious state prole
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jet submissive goal in life
  04/10/20
was there an abortion or miscarriage in y5?
Scarlet useless brakes international law enforcement agency
  04/09/20
Choriocarcinoma :-(
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/09/20
impressively fecund need more trips to nola
Pale razzmatazz jew
  04/09/20
I agree. Man, the eating down there is so good. Also, stay...
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/09/20
jesus this is boring. reproduce, consume, push paper
sickened space
  04/09/20
he also did a lot of poasting
Pale razzmatazz jew
  04/09/20
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Hairraiser step-uncle's house feces
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No realizing your homosexuality?
Boyish mint address associate
  04/09/20
180
Big Massive Parlor Volcanic Crater
  04/09/20
Also, great vacation choices.
Very tactful underhanded hall striped hyena
  04/09/20
cr nothing faggy
Pale razzmatazz jew
  04/09/20
Oklahoma trip was fun, but in a kooky way, also kind of lulz...
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/09/20
describe your wife physically at time of marriage and now. n...
Big Massive Parlor Volcanic Crater
  04/09/20
She is about 5’3”. At the time of our wedding sh...
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/09/20
Sounds 180, man. You have a good life.
Scarlet useless brakes international law enforcement agency
  04/09/20
you MAED it. 5'3" 125 is not bad at all. may even be be...
Big Massive Parlor Volcanic Crater
  04/09/20
I went from BIGLAW to In-house to Gov’t. I make 1/3 o...
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/09/20
thats decent NW. should be enough for a comfortable retireme...
Big Massive Parlor Volcanic Crater
  04/09/20
wife will have an 80% pension, and my pension should be wort...
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/09/20
Doesn't having such a big pension reduce SS?
Scarlet useless brakes international law enforcement agency
  04/09/20
Maybe, I don’t know. Also, I was over $700k in NW 6 we...
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/09/20
No. It just means most of his ss will be taxed. Only pension...
Excitant Heaven Boistinker
  04/09/20
oh yah forgot pension its 180. whats ur after tax househ...
Big Massive Parlor Volcanic Crater
  04/09/20
So last year our AGI was about $135k Put away $12k in Roth ...
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/09/20
thats seems low. i can see your point now. 135K with 3 kids ...
Big Massive Parlor Volcanic Crater
  04/09/20
Brother, I gave you AGI numbers. In a typical month we spe...
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/09/20
8000/9000 a month? wtf. are u talking about household expens...
Big Massive Parlor Volcanic Crater
  04/09/20
I mean my tax return says my agi is $135k. Obviously we make...
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/09/20
break down your monthly expenses
Big Massive Parlor Volcanic Crater
  04/09/20
~$4,000 - childcare ~$2,500 - mortgage, taxes, insurance ...
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/09/20
2500 is too much for the shit u listed unless u splurged on ...
Big Massive Parlor Volcanic Crater
  04/09/20
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domesticated shrine turdskin
  04/09/20
There is a lot in this category: Monthly allocation for aut...
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/09/20
how often does your wife give up anal?
sickened space
  04/09/20
My wife and I rarely, if ever have sex.
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/09/20
why not
sickened space
  04/09/20
We have our kids. Family is full. So there’s no need t...
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/09/20
not horny?
sickened space
  04/09/20
At the end of the day I am just tired and want to go to slee...
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/09/20
perfect moniker
sickened space
  04/09/20
your life sounds a lot like mine - normal.
Scarlet useless brakes international law enforcement agency
  04/09/20
"Honda Odyssey" Strong moniker/car choice syner...
indigo water buffalo center
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(guy who parks his used luxury SUV next to train tracks)
medicated theater
  04/10/20
Yes, but it is 180 luxury performance SUV. Absolutely love ...
indigo water buffalo center
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do ur kids have any redeeming qualities?
sickened space
  04/09/20
Yeah, I think so.
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/09/20
list
sickened space
  04/09/20
My oldest is a lot of fun. He’s a joker. Pretty brig...
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/09/20
ok, ur flame
sickened space
  04/09/20
???
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/09/20
you enjoy this life? no sex, mediocre children, boring job, ...
sickened space
  04/09/20
Job is actually pretty stressful, though not really challeng...
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/09/20
lol at this shrewery
Pale razzmatazz jew
  04/10/20
how is this shrewy? this guy is a poor, low t wage cuck fagg...
sickened space
  04/10/20
I am feeling pedantic so I will break down the shrewiness of...
Pale razzmatazz jew
  04/10/20
mediocre children - not a fan of quitting at life at 39, but...
sickened space
  04/10/20
My kids are all I’ve got man.
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/10/20
that’s 100% by choice, and 100% not in your kids best ...
sickened space
  04/10/20
So what should I do to turn it all around?
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/10/20
fuck your wife at the very least also, i’m p sure ...
sickened space
  04/10/20
So your advice for a dadmo is “have more kids!” ...
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/10/20
cum on her tits or use a condom faggot
sickened space
  04/10/20
Lol, I’ll pass
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/10/20
lol big fucking surprise you have daddy issues
Trip gaming laptop
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"not a fan of quitting at life at 39" agree but...
Pale razzmatazz jew
  04/10/20
no it’s not. u didn’t read my post
sickened space
  04/10/20
you're advice ITT is, explicitly, "be like Alec Baldwin...
Pale razzmatazz jew
  04/10/20
no it’s not
sickened space
  04/10/20
State the race of you and your wife.
cerebral dun hell masturbator
  04/09/20
White. Episcopalian. Been in this country since the motherfu...
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/09/20
180 then. Diong gods work making white babies. That said...
cerebral dun hell masturbator
  04/09/20
I take that back. Those are non-shrew vacations.
cerebral dun hell masturbator
  04/09/20
Are you a lawyer
appetizing institution
  04/09/20
Oh yes, licensed in SCOTUS, a COA, and 2 US District Courts ...
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/09/20
180
appetizing institution
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how do you remember all of these fucking vacations
Lime stag film goyim
  04/09/20
I paid for all of them brother.
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/09/20
maybe your brain just works differently. i can't remember i...
Lime stag film goyim
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I remember every transaction that requires the expenditure o...
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/09/20
How many times have you fucked chicks (or trannies) that wer...
cerebral dun hell masturbator
  04/09/20
OP embarrassed to admit he's low T.
cerebral dun hell masturbator
  04/09/20
Sorry for the slow response brother! I’d rather poast...
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/09/20
?
cerebral dun hell masturbator
  04/09/20
My T is so low, I refer to my attempts at intercourse as &ld...
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/09/20
Who were the guy(s) knocking up your wife this much?
Odious Dark Travel Guidebook Office
  04/09/20
I’m not sure, but I signed the card for all 4 of them,...
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/09/20
You have a good mentality. You are relatively at peace.
Concupiscible glassy bawdyhouse kitty
  04/09/20
Thanks bro. Taking it one day at a time.
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/09/20
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Concupiscible glassy bawdyhouse kitty
  04/09/20
I rate this as a 180 life to date
puce mediation voyeur
  04/09/20
Thank you bro
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/09/20
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Congrats. Biggest changes in personality in your wife pre-k...
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Brother, we are both completely different people now that we...
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/09/20
how did you make the decision to have 3 kids
laughsome hunting ground gas station
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I have 4 kids
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/09/20
I didn't read it all very carefully. OK - how did you decide...
laughsome hunting ground gas station
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After we got married, I told my wife that I wanted to have c...
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/09/20
what's the fundamental difference between someone like you v...
laughsome hunting ground gas station
  04/09/20
Lol, having children is the most important thing that a man ...
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/09/20
what’s the point w kids
sickened space
  04/09/20
May I suggest a song? Lonestar - My Front Porch Lookin&rsqu...
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/09/20
this is an incredibly loserish outlook. basically saying, i ...
sickened space
  04/10/20
I never understood this argument. The point is that you liv...
indigo water buffalo center
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I don’t think life was meant to solely pursue hedonism...
Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field
  04/09/20
Plenty of people die without kids, plenty of people live shi...
indigo water buffalo center
  04/09/20
LOL. Some people regret it? How many people regret it vs lov...
Diverse twinkling uncleanness boltzmann
  04/10/20
A huge percentage of dads dgaf about it. They did it becaus...
indigo water buffalo center
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TCR. Men in generally simply do not form the kind of connect...
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Uh, you could say I'm well on my way to being a dad. Net wo...
indigo water buffalo center
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Autistic yet poetic ITT.
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Date: April 9th, 2020 5:16 PM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

Y0 - wedding/honeymoon; several other trips including to WPB in Fla., Amelia Island/Fernandina in Fla., to Arizona, to the Rockies

Y1 - knock wife up; trips to New Orleans, Savannah

Y2 - child no 1; buy house

Y3 - trip to Europe for 3 weeks with the little one in tow; knock up wife

Y4 - child no 2; trip to Destin, Fla. w/ family; trip to Hilton Head, SC w/ family

Y5 - knock up wife; trip to Bald Head Island w/ family; get laid off

Y6 - on unemployment; new job; knock up wife

Y7 - child no 3; trip to California; trip to Maine; knock up wife

Y8 - child no 4; get laid off; unemployed;

Y9 - Fine new job; trip to Oklahoma with family

Y10 - coronavirus pandemic

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39978198)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 5:24 PM
Author: Very tactful underhanded hall striped hyena

This is the strongest post/ moniker synergy that I have ever seen.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39978257)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 5:26 PM
Author: sickened space



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Date: April 9th, 2020 6:00 PM
Author: house-broken love of her life



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39978483)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 6:55 PM
Author: Poppy slippery house



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39978901)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 9:01 PM
Author: Concupiscible glassy bawdyhouse kitty



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Date: April 9th, 2020 10:11 PM
Author: indigo water buffalo center



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Date: April 9th, 2020 10:36 PM
Author: laughsome hunting ground gas station



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Date: April 9th, 2020 10:37 PM
Author: Self-centered Out-of-control Stage Sandwich



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Date: April 9th, 2020 11:14 PM
Author: hilarious state prole



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39980716)



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Date: April 10th, 2020 6:03 AM
Author: jet submissive goal in life



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Date: April 9th, 2020 5:18 PM
Author: Scarlet useless brakes international law enforcement agency

was there an abortion or miscarriage in y5?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39978216)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 5:20 PM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

Choriocarcinoma :-(

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39978236)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 5:21 PM
Author: Pale razzmatazz jew

impressively fecund

need more trips to nola

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39978241)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 5:24 PM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

I agree. Man, the eating down there is so good.

Also, stayed at the Westin with a wonderful view of the crescent in the river. One morning just ordered breakfast up to the room and just spent like 2 hours talking to my wife, drinking coffee, while watching the sun come up over Algiers Point. It was pretty credited.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39978256)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 5:22 PM
Author: sickened space

jesus this is boring. reproduce, consume, push paper

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39978244)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 5:23 PM
Author: Pale razzmatazz jew

he also did a lot of poasting

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39978247)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 5:24 PM
Author: mentally impaired chad meetinghouse



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Date: April 9th, 2020 5:30 PM
Author: Hairraiser step-uncle's house feces



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Date: April 9th, 2020 5:24 PM
Author: Boyish mint address associate

No realizing your homosexuality?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39978258)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 5:25 PM
Author: Big Massive Parlor Volcanic Crater

180

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Date: April 9th, 2020 5:25 PM
Author: Very tactful underhanded hall striped hyena

Also, great vacation choices.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39978261)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 5:26 PM
Author: Pale razzmatazz jew

cr nothing faggy

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Date: April 9th, 2020 5:27 PM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

Oklahoma trip was fun, but in a kooky way, also kind of lulzy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39978269)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 5:29 PM
Author: Big Massive Parlor Volcanic Crater

describe your wife physically at time of marriage and now. not fat?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39978274)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 5:31 PM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

She is about 5’3”. At the time of our wedding she was 105.

Now she is probably 125.

I still love her. She’s great with our kids. I love driving the whole lot of em around with me in the Honda Odyssey.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39978286)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 5:38 PM
Author: Scarlet useless brakes international law enforcement agency

Sounds 180, man. You have a good life.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39978326)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 5:41 PM
Author: Big Massive Parlor Volcanic Crater

you MAED it. 5'3" 125 is not bad at all. may even be better depending on your ass preference

how did u handle unemployment? did she work? or do u live in some super low COL place like MS/LA

also are you chilled out and will let kids take loans for college and stuff or are you worried about saving enough?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39978350)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 5:45 PM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

I went from BIGLAW to In-house to Gov’t.

I make 1/3 of what I used to.

Wife works as a teacher.

Money is extremely tight now, and there are lots of stressors, but I am getting more and more comfortable with my life. I like my little family.

Always worried about what’s going to happen to my family, and making enough, but doing the best we can. It’s a real struggle at times.

Edit: as an FYI - I am 39 and NW is about $530,000

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39978377)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 5:52 PM
Author: Big Massive Parlor Volcanic Crater

thats decent NW. should be enough for a comfortable retirement if you just let it sit in VOO/VTI for 20 years. probably be worth 2M by then

govt (assuming at least GS13) + teacher should be comfortably middle class outside the west coast/north east cities.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39978414)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 5:59 PM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

wife will have an 80% pension, and my pension should be worth ~$150k/yr, plus SS, plus retirement savings so not too shabby. Just poor right now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39978460)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 6:36 PM
Author: Scarlet useless brakes international law enforcement agency

Doesn't having such a big pension reduce SS?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39978745)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 6:38 PM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

Maybe, I don’t know. Also, I was over $700k in NW 6 weeks ago. Life comes and goes quick and fast. Everything is subject to change, you just have to hold on tight and enjoy the ride.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39978764)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 11:15 PM
Author: Excitant Heaven Boistinker

No. It just means most of his ss will be taxed. Only pensions earned from work that doesn’t contribute to ss are set off against ss

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39980723)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 7:11 PM
Author: Big Massive Parlor Volcanic Crater

oh yah forgot pension its 180.

whats ur after tax household income and expenses now? it cant be that bad. also consumption is flame. happy family and health condition is 10000x more important to happiness than affording nicer hotels, business class or fancy cars

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979038)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 7:14 PM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

So last year our AGI was about $135k

Put away $12k in Roth IRAs (not backwoods) and another $20k in 457bs. Got stimmed today to the tune of $4400.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979068)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 7:26 PM
Author: Big Massive Parlor Volcanic Crater

thats seems low. i can see your point now. 135K with 3 kids is going to be difficult except in rural arkansas. pretty much any decent sized city in any state is going to be tough

if you are a govt lawyer after big law you should be making at least 100K. ur wife is only making 35K?

in a typical year your take home after all deductions and retirement savings should be around 5.5K per month. minus 2K~3K for housing/utilities/property tax so u are barely making it with around 3K for childcare, food, entertainment, gas and other expenses



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979152)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 7:31 PM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

Brother, I gave you AGI numbers.

In a typical month we spend between $8,000 and $9,000 a month.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979179)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 7:33 PM
Author: Big Massive Parlor Volcanic Crater

8000/9000 a month? wtf. are u talking about household expenses or including money u put in IRA/savings plan

if its just household expenses what are u spending it on? how do u even manage? credit card debt?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979195)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 7:38 PM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

I mean my tax return says my agi is $135k. Obviously we make a lot more than that, but have contributions to pension and 457 accounts as well as tax deductions.

Have you never filed your taxes before brother?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979218)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 8:02 PM
Author: Big Massive Parlor Volcanic Crater

break down your monthly expenses

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979378)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 8:38 PM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

~$4,000 - childcare

~$2,500 - mortgage, taxes, insurance

~$1,000 - food

~$2,500 - car, utilities, services, other shopping, misc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979615)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 8:58 PM
Author: Big Massive Parlor Volcanic Crater

2500 is too much for the shit u listed unless u splurged on expensive cars and have big car payments



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979808)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 10:34 PM
Author: domesticated shrine turdskin



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39980440)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 10:39 PM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

There is a lot in this category:

Monthly allocation for auto insurance (I pay annually)

Monthly allocation for registration fees/auto maintenance

Internet

Natural gas

Electricity

Water

Mobile phones

Gasonline

Any shopping my wife does that isnt for food

Things like soccer shots for my kids

Netflix, Disney+, audible, amazon prime, etc

Monthly bill for hvac Rehaul we did

Car notes

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39980484)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 6:15 PM
Author: sickened space

how often does your wife give up anal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39978602)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 6:16 PM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

My wife and I rarely, if ever have sex.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39978609)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 6:17 PM
Author: sickened space

why not

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39978612)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 6:17 PM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

We have our kids. Family is full. So there’s no need to bang it out anymore.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39978616)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 6:18 PM
Author: sickened space

not horny?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39978626)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 6:19 PM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

At the end of the day I am just tired and want to go to sleep.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39978630)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 6:20 PM
Author: sickened space

perfect moniker

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39978640)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 6:22 PM
Author: Scarlet useless brakes international law enforcement agency

your life sounds a lot like mine - normal.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39978660)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 10:13 PM
Author: indigo water buffalo center

"Honda Odyssey"

Strong moniker/car choice synergy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39980295)



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Date: April 10th, 2020 8:44 AM
Author: medicated theater

(guy who parks his used luxury SUV next to train tracks)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39982067)



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Date: April 10th, 2020 3:56 PM
Author: indigo water buffalo center

Yes, but it is 180 luxury performance SUV. Absolutely love that car. I just hope I love my Cybertruck as much.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39985117)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 6:54 PM
Author: sickened space

do ur kids have any redeeming qualities?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39978882)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 7:09 PM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

Yeah, I think so.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979013)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 7:09 PM
Author: sickened space

list

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979015)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 7:10 PM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

My oldest is a lot of fun.

He’s a joker.

Pretty bright.

Always teasing his brothers and sister.

I think he’ll be great at sales someday.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979025)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 7:12 PM
Author: sickened space

ok, ur flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979041)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 7:13 PM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

???

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979051)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 7:15 PM
Author: sickened space

you enjoy this life? no sex, mediocre children, boring job, minivan

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979077)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 7:17 PM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

Job is actually pretty stressful, though not really challenging. Pay is low.

Kids are not mediocre, they are awesome. Minivan is awesome.

Sex is overrated as fuck.

On balance, I’d say I’ve managed to keep it all in balance.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979088)



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Date: April 10th, 2020 6:38 AM
Author: Pale razzmatazz jew

lol at this shrewery

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39981861)



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Date: April 10th, 2020 7:36 AM
Author: sickened space

how is this shrewy? this guy is a poor, low t wage cuck faggot. doing one thing right (having kids) doesn’t make up for being a complete loser otherwise

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39981949)



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Date: April 10th, 2020 7:55 AM
Author: Pale razzmatazz jew

I am feeling pedantic so I will break down the shrewiness of this phrase in detail: "you enjoy this life? no sex, mediocre children, boring job, minivan." It hits the three main isms of the shrew culture: materialism, careerism, and gunnerism.

"mediocre children" - this is the extreme shrew tell. it's not even possible for kids to be mediocre because that implies they're supposed to be accomplished, like a ten year old winning some gay violin contest. this is shrew mindset at its peak.

"boring job" - implies that a primary goal in life is to have an exciting job; the shrewiness of this sentiment is obvious.

"minivan" - a focus on the material aspect; oh if u had a better car then your life would be cool. ljl.

the no sex complaint is valid if true.

I'm not holding up waiting around to die's life as some golden exemplar, merely addressing the nature of these particular criticisms.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39981975)



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Date: April 10th, 2020 8:07 AM
Author: sickened space

mediocre children - not a fan of quitting at life at 39, but i guess if you’re nurturing some math savant who will cure cancer, ops completely listless attitude toward everything none kid related would be justified

boring job - merely saying that his none kid life is listless, pro forma laziness. boring job is fine if it pays well enough that his wife doesn’t have to work so she can raise the kids

minivan - not a cost/prestige/cool thing. rather a reflection of how his identity as a father has subsumed how he presents himself to the world. it’s like going out in public looking like shit and wearing sweats and saying hey i’m a dad, sorry no time to put myself together

re the three isms, you misread my criticisms. i’m not criticizing op bc he isn’t rich or prestigious, i’m criticizing him bc he’s hanging his hat on being a father but using the excuse of how invested he is in being a dad to excuse his failure to do things that would make his kids lives better (earn more to keep his wife home, hustle/pursue something/put yourself together so their kids have male figure in thier life who has an identity beyond a doting quasi mom). i’m criticizing him for not being a fucking man

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39981990)



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Date: April 10th, 2020 8:28 AM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

My kids are all I’ve got man.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39982027)



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Date: April 10th, 2020 8:34 AM
Author: sickened space

that’s 100% by choice, and 100% not in your kids best interests. i’m saying this as somebody who had a dad like you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39982040)



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Date: April 10th, 2020 8:37 AM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

So what should I do to turn it all around?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39982047)



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Date: April 10th, 2020 8:43 AM
Author: sickened space

fuck your wife at the very least

also, i’m p sure ur flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39982063)



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Date: April 10th, 2020 8:49 AM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

So your advice for a dadmo is “have more kids!”

Family’s full dude.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39982079)



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Date: April 10th, 2020 8:52 AM
Author: sickened space

cum on her tits or use a condom faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39982088)



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Date: April 10th, 2020 8:54 AM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

Lol, I’ll pass

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39982095)



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Date: April 10th, 2020 9:49 AM
Author: Trip gaming laptop

lol big fucking surprise you have daddy issues

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39982246)



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Date: April 10th, 2020 9:38 AM
Author: Pale razzmatazz jew

"not a fan of quitting at life at 39"

agree but if your idea of quitting at life is the failure to pursue some badass highpowered highpaying career (which you hilariously call "being a fucking man, dude!") that's shrewism plain & simple.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39982216)



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Date: April 10th, 2020 1:03 PM
Author: sickened space

no it’s not. u didn’t read my post

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39983493)



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Date: April 10th, 2020 1:56 PM
Author: Pale razzmatazz jew

you're advice ITT is, explicitly, "be like Alec Baldwin from Glengarry Glen Ross"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39983884)



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Date: April 10th, 2020 5:43 PM
Author: sickened space

no it’s not

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39986071)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 7:15 PM
Author: cerebral dun hell masturbator

State the race of you and your wife.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979073)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 7:15 PM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

White. Episcopalian. Been in this country since the motherfucking Mayflower.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979079)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 7:18 PM
Author: cerebral dun hell masturbator

180 then. Diong gods work making white babies.

That said, LJL at thinking of shrew vacations as milestones.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979098)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 7:18 PM
Author: cerebral dun hell masturbator

I take that back. Those are non-shrew vacations.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979101)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 7:18 PM
Author: appetizing institution

Are you a lawyer

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979096)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 7:19 PM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

Oh yes, licensed in SCOTUS, a COA, and 2 US District Courts ofs

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979108)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 7:20 PM
Author: appetizing institution

180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979112)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 7:29 PM
Author: Lime stag film goyim

how do you remember all of these fucking vacations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979170)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 7:32 PM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

I paid for all of them brother.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979186)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 7:34 PM
Author: Lime stag film goyim

maybe your brain just works differently. i can't remember in which year things occurred, though i guess i've probably taken way more trips.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979199)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 7:39 PM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

I remember every transaction that requires the expenditure of cash, brother.

I’m slightly autistic like that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979223)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 7:32 PM
Author: cerebral dun hell masturbator

How many times have you fucked chicks (or trannies) that were't your wife?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979190)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 7:44 PM
Author: cerebral dun hell masturbator

OP embarrassed to admit he's low T.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979265)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 7:49 PM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

Sorry for the slow response brother!

I’d rather poast than peg!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979303)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 7:52 PM
Author: cerebral dun hell masturbator

?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979319)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 7:54 PM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

My T is so low, I refer to my attempts at intercourse as “pegging” which is a term that genetic females use to refer to fucking others with a fake penis.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979329)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 7:43 PM
Author: Odious Dark Travel Guidebook Office

Who were the guy(s) knocking up your wife this much?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979255)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 7:43 PM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

I’m not sure, but I signed the card for all 4 of them, so they are mine.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979263)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 9:04 PM
Author: Concupiscible glassy bawdyhouse kitty

You have a good mentality. You are relatively at peace.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979851)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 9:30 PM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

Thanks bro. Taking it one day at a time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39980006)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 9:35 PM
Author: Concupiscible glassy bawdyhouse kitty



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39980032)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 9:09 PM
Author: puce mediation voyeur

I rate this as a 180 life to date

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39979893)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 9:30 PM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

Thank you bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39980001)



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Date: April 10th, 2020 6:51 AM
Author: Racy Sepia Son Of Senegal



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39981874)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 9:36 PM
Author: Orchid Charismatic Boiling Water Pozpig

Congrats. Biggest changes in personality in your wife pre-kids versus post-kids.

Your biggest change in personality?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39980040)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 10:31 PM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

Brother, we are both completely different people now that we are running a household and raising kids together.

I would say that we have become more cautious, less thrill-seeking, less oriented toward going out and more focused on keeping the whole show together and on the road, performing each night.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39980426)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 10:40 PM
Author: laughsome hunting ground gas station

how did you make the decision to have 3 kids

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39980486)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 10:41 PM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

I have 4 kids

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39980492)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 10:41 PM
Author: laughsome hunting ground gas station

I didn't read it all very carefully. OK - how did you decide to do that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39980495)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 10:44 PM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

After we got married, I told my wife that I wanted to have children and I didn’t want her taking birth control.

She was pretty much in the same boat. From the start she wanted 3 kids.

Well we had the 3, and I said I would get a vasectomy.

I didn’t.

I still haven’t.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39980518)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 10:45 PM
Author: laughsome hunting ground gas station

what's the fundamental difference between someone like you vs. an earl/tmf type who needs to sock away $1M per kid before they give their swimmers a chance?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39980530)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 10:54 PM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

Lol, having children is the most important thing that a man can do. What is the point without family?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39980586)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 11:09 PM
Author: sickened space

what’s the point w kids

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39980673)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 11:13 PM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

May I suggest a song?

Lonestar - My Front Porch Lookin’ In

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39980706)



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Date: April 10th, 2020 7:31 AM
Author: sickened space

this is an incredibly loserish outlook. basically saying, i love my kids so that excuses me being a beta cuck failure in every way. “great father? fuck you, go home and play with your kids” the world is filled with dads who fuck their wives, don’t drive odyssey’s, and aren’t low earning wage slaves

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39981943)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 11:13 PM
Author: indigo water buffalo center

I never understood this argument. The point is that you live your life and enjoy it. If your life is just dealing with a bunch of other people's bullshit and you're miserable, then what is the point?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39980705)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 11:15 PM
Author: Overrated fiercely-loyal private investor field

I don’t think life was meant to solely pursue hedonism brother.

I am an Episcopalian, and I have some sense of the past, and our traditions, and legions lived, found meaning, and died without walking the white beaches of the Maldives or smoking crack cocaine, brother.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39980725)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 11:18 PM
Author: indigo water buffalo center

Plenty of people die without kids, plenty of people live shitty lives, etc. The point is to ultimately do what makes you happy with your life over the long term (obviously, I don't mean just doing a bunch of drugs because long term, that's a bust). It isn't the same for everyone. Some people love being a dad and having kids. Some also hate it and regret it. I don't know which I'll be, btw.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39980743)



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Date: April 10th, 2020 12:15 AM
Author: Diverse twinkling uncleanness boltzmann

LOL. Some people regret it? How many people regret it vs love it?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39981112)



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Date: April 10th, 2020 9:07 AM
Author: indigo water buffalo center

A huge percentage of dads dgaf about it. They did it because it happened and it was what they were "supposed to do." Many of them ignore everything other than some pro forma effort and write checks. Others outright bail. Very few make it a key point in their lives.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39982130)



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Date: April 10th, 2020 9:13 AM
Author: Hateful costumed really tough guy library

TCR. Men in generally simply do not form the kind of connection with their kids that women get. First of all, your kids will simply NOT love you as much as they love MOM pretty much regardless of what you do. That mother-child bond is just genetically stronger than the father-child bond. I love my kids. My kids love me. But I am not delusional enough to think that they love me as much as they love my wife. Humans aint wired for equal love here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39982143)



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Date: April 9th, 2020 11:10 PM
Author: indigo water buffalo center

Uh, you could say I'm well on my way to being a dad. Net worth is only $700k!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39980683)



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Date: April 10th, 2020 12:20 AM
Author: fighting location

Autistic yet poetic ITT.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39981128)



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Date: April 10th, 2020 9:09 AM
Author: Hateful costumed really tough guy library

You seem to get laid off a lot, bro....Work on that. Median job tenure now is like 5+ years. Very weird to lose jobs every other year like that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4503672&forum_id=2#39982136)