Last night, she was hanging out with her coworkers (who hate her, btw) even though we were supposed to hang out. I wound up leaving to see my other friends, and then flipped out and texted her after I was very drunk. I rubbed in the fact that I paid for *everything* -- she wound up getting her phone taken from her by her coworkers. I was also annoyed because she pretty much told me she's blocking me after she leaves. It's like the most ridiculous thing ever.

I have never been so hurt by someone in my life. And this comes after someone else I cared about deeply left me after four years, so it's doubly frustrating. I think it all stems from the fact that she knows I'm a TRUMPmo and she can't get over that. She's a hardcore shitlib.

I've never hit rock bottom like this before.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4664380&forum_id=2#41204558)

You should really watch some Corey Wayne videos, not joking.

Move on, get in shape, and forget about her. I know this is easier said than done.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4664380&forum_id=2#41204613)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AKNgZW34gUU

All his videos basically say the same thing, over and over again, but in different ways.

The more you watch them, the more deprogrammed you become. Once it makes sense, and you put it into practice, the happier you become. It's funny how not really giving a shit, and living for yourself makes you moar attractive to women. Romance movies are a complete farce.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4664380&forum_id=2#41204645)

don't chase -- be the one who is chased

if the chick u like isn't chasing you a bit, then don't go for her, or improve urself until she does that

there are plenty of fish in the sea and an abundance of choices is the best antidote against heartache

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4664380&forum_id=2#41204803)

You don’t get it. She doesn’t really see you as a person. She’s been conditioned to think of you as a subhuman. She resents you and views you with contempt as you shell out cash on her. She probably gets a rush out of talking shit about you to her equally brainwashed coworkers. This also gives her extra status points with that group. All you are doing is degrading yourself by continuing to have such interactions with her

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4664380&forum_id=2#41205040)

Now I make a quarter milly and she’s married to a high school English teacher ljl

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4664380&forum_id=2#41205472)

1. Attention is currency. You have irrevocably blown this with her, but learn this for the next one: your attention is a source of oxytocin for her -- never give it to her unless she is earning it. Women need attention like they need oxygen, and your attention should be conditional -- bad behavior and she loses it. Text her less than she texts you, be unreachable when you feel like it, and cut off attention when she does things you don't like. Never have a steeply negative balance sheet, and over any serious span of time (e.g. a month) the balance sheet should be in your favor.

2. Never EVER chase. Give her a chance to hop on board with you, but if she doesn't, you don't care. Your life should be great, with or without her. You do not need her, she needs you. (As a corollary, if she does not actively add value to your life, she is not worth the time and should be discarded.) This is why you should never alter your goals for a woman unless what you want has truly changed -- and I don't mean wanting her to stay; she should support you in whatever your mission is, or she's gone.

3. Your leadership is essential. View relationships as analogous to a car: you must be actively driving. If you are not, the car will crash. She knows this, so when you take your hands off the wheel and your attention from the road, she will reach over and try to drive from the passenger seat -- and she will resent you for it. If it's bad enough, she'll switch seats with you, but soon she will get out of the car entirely and find someone else to ride with -- because she doesn't want to have to drive. This is why women like men that tell them what to do (assuming their value is high enough) -- it indicates they're active and competent drivers of the relational car. When you ask a chick out, just tell her you'll pick her up at a certain time and what to wear, or tell her to meet you somewhere at a certain time and what to wear -- do not negotiate dates, you look like indecisive and submissive.

4. Set standards. You can take two approaches to this:

A) Set standards, explain the standard once if she fails at it, and then dump her if it happens again. There are some very high value guys I know who take this approach and it works well for them. It requires having a good filter for women, though, and having pretty good avenues of finding ones that already come close to your standards.

B) Train them. Find a chick with high potential, and train her to what you want her to be. This only works if you're leading though. See https://www.trp.red/p/humansockpuppet/754 and https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3pltm2/humansockpuppets_guide_to_managing_your_bitches/ for more on this.

5. Always be willing to walk away. This is essentially #2 but centered more on the maintenance of the relationship -- if she falls below standards, tries to assert control where she shouldn't, or in any other way demonstrates that she's not suitable, walk. Immediately. Do not try to fix lost causes.

6. You have to be high value, which means you need good frame. Frame is just another way you communicate value; women can see external indicators of value -- how jacked you are, how wealthy you are -- but frame tells them what's inside you and whether that's valuable. This is really best explained in the sentence, "I do what I want." She wants you to do something you don't want to? Don't. She's shittesting you by being insulting? Dismiss her, she doesn't exist. Frame encompasses everything I've said above, and it explains why this relationship failed -- every single thing I've learned of it indicates your frame is nonexistent. If she doesn't respect you, it's over and has no chance of success. In order for all of this to work, you need to have your shit together. Get jacked, have a good job, etc. Frame is one facet -- and probably the most important one -- but it's a necessary but insufficient condition for success.

Your next steps need to be:

- never interact with this chick again

- hit the gym

- chase non-pussy or gym related goals

- go on some dates (not on Tinder -- the pussy bubble is nowhere more inflated than on swipe apps) and practice

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4664380&forum_id=2#41206940)

Just a few points: She’s autistic and I was *trying* to train her to be what I wanted (a neutotypical high-IQ chick). That didn’t exactly work, as you can see.

Oddly, she has referred to me as “controlling” when I take the wheel in the relationship. Of course, this all started after she resumed talking to the British guy she’s moving to be with. He’s going to kick her ass to the curb, and I will very likely be off-market by that time.

Landing now & will edit this and add more after.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4664380&forum_id=2#41206990)

If she doesn't like you being in charge, who fucking cares? find a chick that does. This one is already unsalvageable anyway. She gets nothing from you -- no texts, no calls, no in-person: nothing.

will respond to the edit here

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4664380&forum_id=2#41207051)

Basically, she is just ungrateful and spoiled. She was a Fulbright Scholar, but wound up working in a restaurant because I’d guess she snapped in college and went total shitlib. I was able to look past that, however.

She would constantly complain about me to coworkers—people I know and will see again. They all look at me differently now because they only got her side of the story. They have no idea how much I’ve spent on her (close to $10k).

Ever since this faggot British guy came into her life, it’s been a living nightmare living with her. Suddenly, everything changed. That’s when I realized I was being cheated on & things ended. I was kind of hoping to be able to get back together, however, because she’s truly one of the smartest people I’ve ever met. I was able to look past the shitlibbery and everything, because I love her. Her whole family is hardcore republican, too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4664380&forum_id=2#41207949)

If she complains about you once to someone else that's an instant disqualifier, dump her ass instantaneously.

Don't look past shitlibbery, don't look past red flags. Once you see one, toss her. It will end up biting you otherwise.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4664380&forum_id=2#41210517)

Another thing, every woman that cheats calls her “man” controlling.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4664380&forum_id=2#41208842)

he's run flame before.....he had you guys thinking he believed himself to be an objective 8.5

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4664380&forum_id=2#41207379)