i can't stop thinking about the gym guy...can someone tell me what to do?
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Date: July 26th, 2021 10:48 PM Author: Jade Dog Poop
pls...tyia
help me out
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847196) |
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Date: July 26th, 2021 10:50 PM Author: Jade Dog Poop
no
we stare into each other's eyes when we work out together, even when we're not talking
why would we do that if we're not into each other?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847212) |
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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:08 PM Author: Jade Dog Poop
LOLLL
6'2 255 and i lift HEAVY
i've got a covid gut, i'll not deny that. i'm not "fat"
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847288) |
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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:11 PM Author: Jade Dog Poop
i kinda did a while ago (or asked him for coffee) and he agreed
then we started texting more and i asked him again and he's like "i don't drink coffee"
who the hell knows man? i thought maybe he was turned off by something i said, but we still are talking and stuff at the gym/through text
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847298) |
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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:20 PM Author: Jade Dog Poop
yes
wrote him a love letter years ago (obviously did not send)
i've seen many hot guys with great bodies over the years. he has something no other guy has. i don't know what it is, i can't put it into words. i'm hooked.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847350) |
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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:21 PM Author: Jade Dog Poop
he is more than gym eye candy for me
i want to build a relationship with him, not just fuck him
and if he keeps looking at me, that means i'm gym eye candy for him. right?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847358) |
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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:29 PM Author: Jade Dog Poop
he plays a sport that i've never played before...it'd be too weird to ask him to show me how to play lol
i'll think of something
the jogging idea might work actually...gotta think about it more
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847401) |
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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:37 PM Author: Jade Dog Poop
it does require that. i do have hand-eye coordination. i played a sport that required a ton of it
he does not seem gay at all. but the eye staring that we've each done over the years gives it away. i actually had an inkling 4 years ago that he was into me...he was walking out of the gym, i was on the stairmaster (this was back when i was incredibly jacked as shit), and our eyes locked as he was leaving for a good 5 seconds
i should have made my move promptly thereafter but, of course, i did not. it's been 4 years of this torture/nonsense and finally i've reached my breaking point
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847456) |
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Date: July 27th, 2021 1:46 AM Author: Jade Dog Poop
It sounds worse than it is
For most of this time I’ve simply denied my feelings for him, which is my modus operandi
When the gyms were shut down in my area, however, that’s when the feelings came rushing to the surface
Now everyday since is a new kind of torture
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847969) |
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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:36 PM Author: Titillating Hideous Base
Then be a man and address them directly, knowing there is a substantial risk he won’t feel as you do.
Don’t pull this weird rapey shit of start touching him without saying anything.
You just say something like so I’ve been coming here a long time and am interested in you and was wondering if you wanted to get coffee/go jogging sometime. And no pressure if you can’t make it but I figured I would ask. Something like that will get the ball moving so you have a resolution one way or the other
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847446) |
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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:47 PM Author: Jade Dog Poop
"As things currently stand you do not seem mentally capable of handling that possibility"
probably cr
my life is such utter dogshit these days
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847511) |
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Date: July 27th, 2021 12:05 AM Author: Titillating Hideous Base
That’s probably correct but I didn’t say this so you could have another pity party.
It is so you can realize that as long as this remains the case, in fact you wouldn’t deserve to be with him anyway. It is essential for you to have the frame of it not mattering too much if it works out or doesn’t when dating, especially at the beginning, and truly believe it. If you don’t have this mindset then desperation will emanate and anyone worthwhile will detect it and be turned off.
And if I can clearly sense it through mere text, I have a feeling it is detectable IRL. What you really need is to fix your mind before you focus on things like dating
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847590) |
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Date: July 27th, 2021 12:07 AM Author: Jade Dog Poop
well you can see it thorugh text because i'm talking about it more openly on here
i doubt he can tell when i text him. i've learned to hide things well over the years
but yes, i need to get my mind right
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847600) |
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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:58 PM Author: Green Hominid
I’m 99% sure your flame but I’ll play along
1 I’m pretty sure this scenario would never happen with irl gays which is why this is flame
2 as a straight bro you I’d advise you that you jusf have to go for it. who cares if he says no? Us straight bros get rejected all the time. It’s Nbd. Shoot your shot faggit
3 the only potential downside is that you cannot engage this fantasy anymore because you find out he’s either not gay or not interested. But tbh after some intial weirdness you can just get that back anyway because he’ll decide it’s flattering and you’ll decide he’s still into you and just repressing either his true sexuality or his interest
4 just shoot your shot man it’s always worth it. Fuck it
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847563) |
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Date: July 27th, 2021 1:57 AM Author: house-broken crawly multi-billionaire
IMO there's nothing particularly 'worse' with being an active homosexual than it is to wholeheartedly engage in any other sin. E.g. gluttony seemingly gets a free pass these days despite a huge chunk of America being fat fucks.
We all fall short and deserve hell.
Not sure how to process this concept with those that desire fag "marriage" though.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42848016) |
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Date: July 27th, 2021 12:02 PM Author: racy spruce telephone
you didn't answer the question of "what is wrong with being gay"
We can save some time i guess:
you: it's a sin
me: what's a sin
you: something God doesnt want us to do
me: how do you know
you: its in this book
me: who wrote the book?
you: God
me: no, some jews
you: God told the jews what to write
me: how do you know
you: it says so in the book
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42849803) |
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