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Analyzing the white sexpat in East Asia.

Everyone knows the trope of the sexpat in SEA. Usually a mid...
drunken messiness affirmative action
  10/19/21
To be fair, TL;DR -- "They have to go back. Shut it ...
Bearded Shrine
  10/19/21
pretty accurate tbh
seedy temple telephone
  10/19/21
garbage screed
wonderful half-breed
  10/19/21
So a guy who can't fit in at home moves across the world to ...
charismatic volcanic crater
  10/19/21
brb updating my moniker to LBH
rebellious address
  10/19/21
"Yeah I'm kind of like Tom Cruise in The Last Samurai&q...
avocado national
  10/19/21
...
Diverse Dark State
  10/19/21
so basically, if you're a white nerdy type option sexpat:...
Vibrant Set Azn
  10/19/21
Sounds like fun!
Cracking institution
  10/19/21
the more i think about this, the more i realize this is the ...
charismatic volcanic crater
  10/21/21


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Date: October 19th, 2021 6:08 PM
Author: drunken messiness affirmative action

Everyone knows the trope of the sexpat in SEA. Usually a middle aged or older white man who relocates to SEA after retirement to live out his orientalist fantasies. Rarely though, is the East Asia sexpat talked about.

Unlike the SEA sexpat, the EA sexpat is typically younger when they relocate. Usually early to mid 20's after a study abroad.

Why does their interest in EA develop? It typically starts with anime, video games, or porn, this will lead many to study or even major in an east asian language. The language will be a big source of pride for many EA sexpats. For example, a sexpat in Japan will try to speak Japanese with any asian person there including asian americans.

Often their interest in moving to EA is the result of their failures with western women. They tend to be nerdy, social outcast types. This anger at white women will steer them towards only dating asian women who are not "Poisoned by feminism". They may start with asian american women or international students. This leads them to wanting more. For many of these men, asian women will be interested in them simply because they are white and represent the ideal "American" "British" or "Australian", etc man. This is the ultimate low effort move for them.

Their goal in life is to learn a EA language, move to that country, date and marry EA women from that country. They expect to be treated like locals, while also given special treatment like in The Last Samurai. They usually HATE the men of that country and see them as competition. They also think of themselves as white saviors for the oppressed EA women of that country.

Once they go to EA their ego explodes. They will be the "charisma man" stereotype and much worse.

Now here's the thing, they can accomplish the goal of dating and marrying an EA women within 1 month after moving there. It's not exactly a difficult goal. However this goal does not provide them career opportunities, no one wants to hire a sexpat without job skills. They usually find jobs english teaching or lower positions at EA companies.

This is where they hit the wall. These sexpats expect to be treated like kings in EA, while also being treated like locals. EA people are not so white worshipping as to promote a white guy to CEO just because he's white. He will be expected to answer to a Japanese boss. If the boss is male, he will HATE this. If the boss is female and doesn't submit to him, he will also hate this.

After this he will start to consider locals as "Racist". If a woman in a bar rejects his advances? Racist. Random local says "Hi" to him in English on the train? Racist. They start to cheat on their wives at this point, trying to salvage some "positive" thing about being white in EA.

Fast forward 20 years, and you will meet this sexpat at a foreigner bar. He will be drunkenly hitting on girls half his age, while complaining to any young white new generation sexpat about how backwards and racist that country is. He will never leave though, because he will lose his privileges.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4945517&forum_id=2#43298093)



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Date: October 19th, 2021 6:11 PM
Author: Bearded Shrine

To be fair,

TL;DR -- "They have to go back. Shut it all down. Multiculturalism is poison. Racemixing is horrible."

Thanks for sharing! Do you have a newsletter?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4945517&forum_id=2#43298102)



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Date: October 19th, 2021 6:10 PM
Author: seedy temple telephone

pretty accurate tbh

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Date: October 19th, 2021 6:12 PM
Author: wonderful half-breed

garbage screed

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Date: October 19th, 2021 6:14 PM
Author: charismatic volcanic crater

So a guy who can't fit in at home moves across the world to find better opportunities. Seems alpha.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4945517&forum_id=2#43298114)



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Date: October 19th, 2021 6:14 PM
Author: rebellious address

brb updating my moniker to LBH

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4945517&forum_id=2#43298115)



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Date: October 19th, 2021 6:17 PM
Author: avocado national

"Yeah I'm kind of like Tom Cruise in The Last Samurai"

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Date: October 19th, 2021 6:18 PM
Author: Diverse Dark State



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Date: October 19th, 2021 6:23 PM
Author: Vibrant Set Azn

so basically, if you're a white nerdy type

option sexpat: wind up at a dead end unfulfilling job with an uncaring boss in an unfair world, with a petite fit jap tradwife.

option amerikkkka: wind up at a dead end unfulfilling job with an uncaring boss in an unfair world, and be incel or fuck 300lb shrews on tinder.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4945517&forum_id=2#43298135)



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Date: October 19th, 2021 6:45 PM
Author: Cracking institution

Sounds like fun!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4945517&forum_id=2#43298191)



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Date: October 21st, 2021 4:44 PM
Author: charismatic volcanic crater

the more i think about this, the more i realize this is the alpha move your forefathers would've made.

Not able to make it at home - that's ok - go out and try your luck elsewhere.

Only a house slave would roll over and stay.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4945517&forum_id=2#43309303)