Ex-roommate saga: how to send him the demand letter?
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Date: February 5th, 2022 7:24 PM Author: light vigorous chad
I put together a spreadsheet and - giving him some breaks - he owes me $7,520. I plan to sue him in Small Claims and have gathered evidence proving the total number (sublease plus various Facebook messages where he acknowledged how much he owes). But I have to do this first:
'Send a formal demand letter to the person you have a dispute with (also known as the “defendant” after you sue them). This means you should write a letter to the person, state how much money they owe you and why, and send it to them in writing, ideally priority mail with tracking. This is important even if you’ve already talked to them and they’ve refused to pay you the money, because when you go to court, you will tell the judge that you tried to ask for what you are owed and resolve it outside the court.'
I've prepared an adapted version of a letter generated by https://www.courts.ca.gov/11145.htm but I don't have his current address. I do know his workplace (it's 3 blocks away from my apartment). Should I deliver it in person? Is email OK? Do I have to hire someone to find his new address?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5025004&forum_id=2#43914389) |
Date: February 5th, 2022 7:40 PM Author: Honey-headed Wrinkle Spot
I don't know whether there's a case, rule, or statute that requires a particular form of delivery.
If not, I'd use a reasonable method (or methods) calculated to provide actual notice.
You could text images of the letter, DM him, send email, whatever. Do all of them if you want.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5025004&forum_id=2#43914494) |
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Date: February 5th, 2022 7:46 PM Author: light vigorous chad
Thanks!
I've sent him FB and IG messages (no formal demands with the total, but like, "pls pay me") that are still on unread. :/ Last he read my messages or replied to anything was Nov 22. I'll try sending screencaps (letter and spreadsheet) on those platforms, but I'm not optimistic about him opening them.
I'll also email.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5025004&forum_id=2#43914519) |
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Date: February 5th, 2022 8:09 PM Author: light vigorous chad
Nah, our only mutual friend is our other roommate and he doesn't have his address.
I guess I have a guy on insta who's good friends with him but idk if he'd sell him out lol
Idc about bitchy now I want my $7K
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5025004&forum_id=2#43914687) |
Date: February 5th, 2022 8:00 PM Author: Narrow-minded Box Office
get cslg to do this pro bono for the memes. please.
certified mail is the go to route if actual service is not required. most small claims courts have some information packet for pro se litigants that will include everything you need.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5025004&forum_id=2#43914626) |
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Date: February 5th, 2022 8:33 PM Author: light vigorous chad
Well, I think the most likely outcome is that once he gets sued, he'll find a way to come up with the money (probably his parents).
But also, in my last thread I found out I could literally sell his belongings, if nothing else: https://www.xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5022418&forum_id=2#43894316
I would fucking LOVE to distrain his Xbox out of spite ahhhhhhhhhh
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5025004&forum_id=2#43914818) |
Date: February 5th, 2022 8:52 PM Author: light vigorous chad
OK so I actually have a question about the letter itself. I just realized the thing the site generated doesn't quite make sense: https://imgur.com/a/N5FvoQK
First I say we can come up with a payment plan and to contact me by Feb 21; then I say I expect the money by Feb 21. Should I make the second date later, second number smaller, or re-word that part somehow?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5025004&forum_id=2#43914934) |
Date: February 5th, 2022 9:32 PM Author: light vigorous chad
OK so right now I'm going to email him the letter and send an image of it on instagram and over text (though he didn't have a mobile plan when he moved out so who knows if he does now).
Then, on Monday, I'm going to mail hard copies of the letter to my address (last known address) and to his workplace via priority, certified mail.
The letter demands the payment in full by Feb 28, 2022.
Thank you guys!
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5025004&forum_id=2#43915193) |
Date: February 7th, 2022 2:37 PM Author: light vigorous chad
OK so he wrote back saying he could pay me $2K tomorrow. Since he acknowledged receipt of the email, can I skip the step of mailing him the letter?
https://i.imgur.com/oxJIwMk.jpg
How would you guys proceed? I'm thinking of proposing a payment plan of $2500/mo (after he sends me the $2K) and having him sign something agreeing to it. And then we can go to court if he doesn't follow through.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5025004&forum_id=2#43924074) |
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Date: February 7th, 2022 3:00 PM Author: light vigorous chad
Makes sense as an overall strat but I don't know about taking it slow. It'll stretch out forever. He'll miss a payment and come to me begging for more time and he'll guilt me until I cave. And he'll do it again and again. I really think his parents have the money and that he can do the $2.5K if he NEEDS to.
"considering he's only managed to save $2k for you since nov"
He's only BOTHERED to save $2K for me. When he lived with me he was ordering Postmates for every meal while failing to follow through on our plan of $200 per paycheck. He was never actually trying. Maybe he is now, and I know $2500 is a lot even if he does prioritize paying me, but like, that's his problem.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5025004&forum_id=2#43924249) |
Date: February 9th, 2022 2:41 AM Author: light vigorous chad
Apparently he didn't have time to cash his checks today and will get the $2K to me on Thursday
Jfc
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5025004&forum_id=2#43935356) |
Date: February 9th, 2022 6:38 PM Author: light vigorous chad
https://imgur.com/a/f8lxjHf
"Sorry can't get you your 2 grand when I promised I would, but come to my party!" SMDH
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5025004&forum_id=2#43939523) |
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Date: February 9th, 2022 7:21 PM Author: Narrow-minded Box Office
lmfao how are you even planning on responding to this?
this is the type of mentality that so many deadbeats have. "oh you'll get your money i gotchu just a little tight right now. btw just copped a PS5 you wanna hop on and play some shit sometime?"
like, i don't even think they realize how infuriating their behavior is sometimes.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5025004&forum_id=2#43939771) |
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Date: February 9th, 2022 8:31 PM Author: Narrow-minded Box Office
"yeah i can probably swing buy, what's your address?"
"cool! it's 123 deadbeat lane."
"great! maybe i'll see you there. btw, can you have me a firm date when i can get the 2k?"
"yeah how about 2/14?"
"ok, awesome! and i don't want to make this ugly or anything, but if it's delayed again i'm filing on 2/15. after you get me the $2k we can work out a payment plan for the remainder. hope to see you at your party, i bet it'll be a blast! ❤️❤️❤️"
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5025004&forum_id=2#43940211) |
Date: February 11th, 2022 12:10 AM Author: light vigorous chad
Yoooo guys I got my money!
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Haha just kidding. This morning he asked if he could swing by today to pick up his mail, and I wrote back: "yay! please deposit the checks first since you have time. i am still WFH, should be home all day"
Left on unread.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5025004&forum_id=2#43948867) |
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Date: February 11th, 2022 2:45 AM Author: light vigorous chad
Yeah, I sent him this over the weekend: https://i.imgur.com/HFB3Z12.png
He wrote back on Monday saying that he could get me $2,000 the next day. I was like, "OK and then we'll talk about the remaining balance afterward." He's been making excuses and still hasn't sent it.
But at the VERY least, the letter ensures that I can sue him if I haven't gotten it by the 28th.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5025004&forum_id=2#43949225) |
Date: February 11th, 2022 5:27 PM Author: light vigorous chad
"Hey yea go ahead and forward those to me if you can. My addy is [address]. Hey I know I’ve owed you money for a little while now but I was wondering if it’d be cool to give me a little more time? I was wondering if you can extend it to sometime in March or April like originally in a previous message. Long story short, [last employer] checks bounced and I’ve been trying to borrow money from friends and so far nothing. I can give you what I have right now but my bday is like right around the corner and I wanted something to work with. What do you think? Can I maybe buy more time with $500?"
well at least i got an address...
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5025004&forum_id=2#43952586) |
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