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Does life with your spouse get weird after 10+ years of marriage and kids?
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Date: March 14th, 2024 8:09 AM Author: unhinged wonderful ticket booth We’ve been married a long time and can’t have any more kids. On the backside of 40 and all. It kind of sucks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47492532) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 4:55 PM Author: Bateful azn locale Shut up about this friend but I love you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47494205) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 5:00 PM Author: Bateful azn locale Also this "age" shit is flame chronological age is flame and means different things for different people (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47494218) |
Date: March 14th, 2024 8:22 AM Author: exhilarant hall Seems like that would be the best time. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47492538) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 8:24 AM Author: unhinged wonderful ticket booth Why? Our net worth is a pathetic $1.5m. We could really use the infusions from our parents’ estates right about now. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47492540) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 8:32 AM Author: Laughsome silver plaza selfie Yes. Usually the wife loses all sexual interest in the husband. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47492551) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 8:34 AM Author: Magenta travel guidebook people who are hurt he lost it in the first 10 weeks tbf (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47492554) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 8:36 AM Author: wild prole base (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47492557) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 4:47 PM Author: 180 kitty son of senegal (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47494186) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 8:40 AM Author: unhinged wonderful ticket booth I have no interest in sex, brother. I have no joie de vivre. I feel the weight of the human condition bearing down upon all of my joints and it's a lot of fucking weight. Thinking I may need to take a vacation. |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 8:41 AM Author: wild prole base this is why your wife loves sexy time with CSLG (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47492567) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 8:46 AM Author: unhinged wonderful ticket booth I'm pretty certain she's not CSLG's type. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47492576) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 3:31 PM Author: Laughsome silver plaza selfie Such a waste for a guy who is 6’8” to have no interest in sex.
Even at your weight, would think you’d be able to get a lot of attention. |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 8:40 AM Author: wild prole base disco fries is orc-maxxing (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47492561) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 8:40 AM Author: unhinged wonderful ticket booth Explain this concept to me, brother. It makes no sense to me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47492564) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 8:41 AM Author: Twisted theater stage mad-dog skullcap Normally the complaint is the loss of sexual attraction, but in your case hasn’t it basically always been a non sexual relationship? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47492565) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 8:46 AM Author: unhinged wonderful ticket booth I mean we do have kids. Usually, once every couple of years the stars would align, and there would be a night, then about 37-38 weeks later, a child would be born. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47492573) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 8:50 AM Author: Twisted theater stage mad-dog skullcap Getting old is weird. I’m not a fan of it. I feel listless. You don’t have the energy or mentality to be a striver anymore and if you are good looking the thrill of the hunt for new women loses its appeal. So then you are left with this sense that you are on the downward spiral toward death and most of your peaks already happened. Nothing to even work toward. You probably have about the corp job you’re going to get and you have too many responsibilities to do something random. It’s over man, buckle in (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47492586) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 9:03 AM Author: unhinged wonderful ticket booth I don't know about that. It's a great thing when you realize you still have the ability to surprise yourself. |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 10:23 PM Author: Crimson juggernaut hominid cr! lots of runway left (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47495283) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 10:21 AM Author: Sapphire Digit Ratio Coldplay Fan Describes my situation perfectly (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47492790) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 9:42 AM Author: Mind-boggling seedy theater You seem depressed, and I think it's related to your physical health. Recognizing that it's easier said than done, but you need to get yourself right. If your spouse can't cover the obligations for 90 minutes, 4-5 times a week so you can go to the gym, hire a college student to cover them. Get yourself to the gym and get yourself in a sustainable diet. And I'm certain that every aspect of your life will improve. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47492673) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 9:47 AM Author: unhinged wonderful ticket booth I have a gym membership, but I haven't been in a month, brother. I should go back. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47492690) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 9:52 AM Author: Mind-boggling seedy theater You have plenty of money. Stop fantasizing about your parents or in-laws dying. More money isn't going to fix your issues unless you are planning on quitting working altogether to focus on your health and your family. And if you are opening in that you should do it now. Plus, the death of parents can be catastrophic. Even if you think you're going too be stoic about the passing of your own parents, your wife will likely be devastated when hers pass, which is going to place a whole host of new demands on you.
You need to be open with your wife about needing time and space to work out, and how can she help you achieve that. If she can't, hire someone who can give you that space.
Start there. Make sustainable changes to your diet, and go to the gym 2-3 days a week for low impact exercise. |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 10:31 AM Author: wild prole base why are you wasting your time giving this orc advice? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47492845) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 9:50 AM Author: glittery stead Getting older is really bizarre. You still feel the same way you did at 16, want the same things, but biological reality and the crushing weight of your obligations warp your life into this strange routine of service, exhaustion, stress and general unhappiness. The good part is that your supporting a family and having a successful career brings a tremendous feeling of satisfaction, and your life has real meaning, but it's a different kind of happiness then the joy of "I'm going to surf all day, hang with my friends, pound PBRs, and either get in a fight or spend the night fucking the bottom out of some slut." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47492695) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 3:34 PM Author: Cream startling lettuce Good points. And I really don't think or feel much different than I did at 16. Probably slightly dumber if anything. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47493978) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 5:04 PM Author: Bateful azn locale The age thing is flame .. especially if you're like me with no kids, spouse, family or obligations (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47494244) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 10:24 PM Author: Crimson juggernaut hominid (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47495290) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 9:54 AM Author: cruel-hearted cruise ship mother wife and i are both co-dependent and without kids around we both have a 180 time together. we genuinely enjoy each other's company and like doing shit together and are truly each other's bff's. kids add tons of stress and fighting though. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47492706) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 10:07 AM Author: Sable jew range will this endure when she's old and ugly? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47492739) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 10:09 AM Author: cruel-hearted cruise ship mother her face is good. hopefully she'll stay in good shape. she's still in great shape post kids, and works out 6 days a week. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47492747) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 10:09 AM Author: Pungent knife maybe, but life is not meant to be an orgy of pleasure-seeking and frivolity and 'dating' and 'dog momming' into your 50s. people need to grow up and accept this again. life is about duty. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47492746) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 10:14 AM Author: anal useless brakes really tough guy Whoah cr, friend! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47492760) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 8:08 PM Author: Boyish Blathering Library Striped Hyena But why do people need to do that? Who determines what life is meant to be? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47494758) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 10:47 PM Author: Crimson juggernaut hominid (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47495375) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 10:17 AM Author: anal useless brakes really tough guy It's pretty clear you've taken it as far as you can on your own
It's time to run a Christmo shtick, brother. Let Him take control of your life |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 10:31 AM Author: unhinged wonderful ticket booth Christ schtick like Prince Myshkin from Dostoyevsky's The Idiot, or Christ schtick like a mouth-breathing born-again goy toy? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47492846) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 10:48 AM Author: anal useless brakes really tough guy In ambiguous situations try to imagine what would Emilio tp do, and then do that (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47492926) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 10:28 AM Author: passionate jet-lagged menage How’s your T? Consider TRT? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47492830) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 10:29 AM Author: unhinged wonderful ticket booth I have no clue, brother. I don't go to the doctor and I don't have tests run. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47492838) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 4:57 PM Author: concupiscible weed whacker (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47494209) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 2:11 PM Author: bisexual heaven ape (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47493629) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 4:44 PM Author: indigo rehab international law enforcement agency also on backside of 40 and it's as good as one can expect
I have a drinking problem and she's bitchy but we still watch tv together before bed and fuck once a week |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 4:52 PM Author: Iridescent fragrant french chef I think that's when people decide to swing / be ok with each other fucking other people (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47494198) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 6:26 PM Author: Cowardly hilarious masturbator marketing idea Paging OldHLSDood (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47494479) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 6:31 PM Author: unhinged wonderful ticket booth I have a family of 6. I made burgers tonight for dinner. I ate one and my four year old son ate one, asked for two, but shunned the second one. My wife rejected them. My daughter rejected them. My first son said “maybe later” and then “I don’t want a burger” The baby can’t say yes or no. This is why it’s so hard being a dad these days. I can’t even make an earnest effort to make dinner and get an easy win. Everyone’s always bitching about something. Even OldHLSDude can just make burgers and everyone’s relatively satisfied. I’m shit upon for being a white cis male dad trying to bring up Gen Alpha kids and appease a millennial shrew wife. |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 6:31 PM Author: unhinged wonderful ticket booth Also, the burgers and fixings literally cost $40 and fed 2 people. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47494486) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 6:44 PM Author: indigo rehab international law enforcement agency get real (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47494542) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 9:47 PM Author: passionate jet-lagged menage maybe dont cook burgers if your family doesnt like them? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47495145) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 10:20 PM Author: unhinged wonderful ticket booth Here’s the thing about my family, I don’t know what they like and don’t like. They don’t tell me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47495269) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 10:21 PM Author: passionate jet-lagged menage maybe the problem is you Lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47495272) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 10:26 PM Author: wild prole base stop trying to reason or give the orc advice. He's been this way for 15+ years. "Woe is me!" |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 10:37 PM Author: unhinged wonderful ticket booth You seem like an idiot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47495340) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 10:38 PM Author: passionate jet-lagged menage he sounds like a self-centered dumbass with a victim mentality (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5503988&forum_id=2#47495344) |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 10:31 PM Author: Trip Scourge Upon The Earth Tanning Salon cq.
isnt weird for me yet but we're barely past 10 years and im younger than you with wife a few years younger than me. still sex-have almost every night
what's already weird is having older kids. parenting younger children is surprisingly easy if theyre healthy and you arent dumb |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 10:36 PM Author: unhinged wonderful ticket booth How old are your kiddos. Elementary school is weird. They are definitely young when they’re in Kinder and First Grade. But around 3rd or 4th grade, they’re getting taller, bringing home homework, remember everything you say or do. Something changes. They come in your room and you realize that now at 9 or 10 they are halfway grown up and well on their way to becoming who they will be. I still remember when I was 10. I got a stepdad and a bunch of shit to worry about. Now I’m on the backside of 40. |
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Date: March 14th, 2024 10:46 PM Author: Trip Scourge Upon The Earth Tanning Salon yep thats a realization ive had. oldest is third grade youngest is a year old.
i cant stand "kiddos" man. every time ive known someone with a child who ends up some trans or nonbinary thing they start calling it "my kiddo" instead of son/daughter |