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NYT: Brooklyn sex club promising continuous consent rocked by rape allegations

https://www.nytimes.com/2024/03/10/nyregion/hacienda-sex-clu...
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Date: March 23rd, 2024 10:04 AM
Author: French Toilet Seat

https://www.nytimes.com/2024/03/10/nyregion/hacienda-sex-club-consent.html

Who saw that coming?!

Also I'll save you some reading and include the best part:

And four people said that one former Hacienda resident — who went by the scene name Scary Ben — punched or brutally bit them during sex or removed condoms without consent.

Scary Ben’s behavior so concerned a group of female residents at Hacienda in 2012 that they convened a meeting to discuss him. When a Hacienda organizer learned of it, he took no action against the man, whose real name is Ben Doray, but excoriated the women in an email chain that included the Sparksfires.

“All it takes is for one motivated individual at one of these ‘symposiums’ to seek council of an attorney and sue us,” the organizer wrote, according to emails obtained by The Times. “They are discussing issues of nonconsent and risky behavior.”

Mr. Doray was still living in one of the brownstones about two years later, when another resident, Kristin Stadelmann-Ferreira, said he raped her in her room at the Hacienda Villa on Troutman Street.

She said Mr. Doray, a surrealist clown and burlesque performer who was known at Hacienda for his intense spanking demonstrations, forced her to have sex while she was wearing a tampon.

Ms. Stadelmann-Ferreira, who was romantically involved with Mr. Doray, said she told leadership about the episode but was ignored, in part, she said, because of her own erratic behavior. Shortly after the encounter with Mr. Doray, Ms. Stadelmann-Ferreira, who has schizophrenia, said she had a breakdown and ran naked onto Troutman Street. She was hospitalized for psychiatric care.

Mr. Doray, a surrealist clown and burlesque performer who was known at Hacienda for his intense spanking demonstrations

Ms. Stadelmann-Ferreira, who was romantically involved with Mr. Doray

Ms. Stadelmann-Ferreira, who has schizophrenia, said she had a breakdown and ran naked onto Troutman Street.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5507921&forum_id=2#47518973)



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Date: March 23rd, 2024 10:06 AM
Author: Metal Kitty Incel

https://circustalk.com/profile/benjamin-doray

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Date: March 23rd, 2024 4:09 PM
Author: Jet Odious Associate Lay

Mr. Doray, a surrealist clown and burlesque performer who was known at Hacienda for his intense spanking demonstrations, forced her to have sex while she was wearing a tampon.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5507921&forum_id=2#47519857)



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Date: March 24th, 2024 1:44 AM
Author: apoplectic internet-worthy location wagecucks

oh my

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Date: March 23rd, 2024 10:18 AM
Author: Iridescent Mildly Autistic Point Fortuitous Meteor

All the News that's Fit to Print

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Date: March 23rd, 2024 10:19 AM
Author: ocher filthy site



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Date: March 23rd, 2024 11:02 AM
Author: Azure impertinent organic girlfriend theatre

a surrealist clown and burlesque performer tp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5507921&forum_id=2#47519117)



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Date: March 24th, 2024 10:46 AM
Author: avocado liquid oxygen

a surrealist clown and burlesque performer who was known at Hacienda for his intense spanking demonstrations tp

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Date: March 23rd, 2024 11:29 AM
Author: Beady-eyed Bawdyhouse

Pics of Kristin Stadelmann-Ferreira?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5507921&forum_id=2#47519141)



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Date: March 23rd, 2024 11:35 AM
Author: aquamarine concupiscible spot

Nice

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5507921&forum_id=2#47519155)



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Date: March 23rd, 2024 11:36 AM
Author: tan flickering headpube

Lmao article just got more and more absurd

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5507921&forum_id=2#47519158)



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Date: March 23rd, 2024 11:44 AM
Author: lavender stage

Cant wait for the Netflix documentary

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5507921&forum_id=2#47519182)



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Date: March 23rd, 2024 3:00 PM
Author: razzle pit

Scary Ben sobbing profusely as the door to the playroom locks: "I wanted continous consent, but not like this. Not by him."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5507921&forum_id=2#47519701)



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Date: March 23rd, 2024 4:10 PM
Author: Jet Odious Associate Lay



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Date: March 24th, 2024 4:14 PM
Author: chocolate passionate giraffe



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Date: March 23rd, 2024 3:06 PM
Author: Burgundy wrinkle

LOL @ that picture

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Date: March 24th, 2024 9:55 AM
Author: thriller stag film people who are hurt



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Date: March 24th, 2024 10:06 AM
Author: Diverse translucent nursing home

“Think about this first generation of sex party organizers/sex positive communities as the very first modern explorers of a whole new continent or planet,” said Zhana Vrangalova, a sex educator and former Hacienda member. “There are always more casualties in those early expeditions until the terrain and its dangers become more familiar.”Credit...Maansi Srivastava/The New York Times

https://static01.nyt.com/images/2024/01/10/multimedia/00ny-hacienda-03-hzgb/00ny-hacienda-03-hzgb-superJumbo.jpg?quality=75&auto=webp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5507921&forum_id=2#47521897)



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Date: March 24th, 2024 10:11 AM
Author: Diverse translucent nursing home

The Co-Founder, Kenneth Play (pictured) who was previously named 'the world's greatest sex hacker' by GQ Magazine, was accused of sexual misconduct over the years at Hacienda

https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2024/03/11/19/82332343-13184029-image-a-122_1710185780890.jpg

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13184029/Brooklyn-hacienda-soho-house-sex-rape.html

Still no pics of Ms Stadelmann

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5507921&forum_id=2#47521907)



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Date: March 25th, 2024 9:37 AM
Author: Azure impertinent organic girlfriend theatre

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Date: March 24th, 2024 10:25 AM
Author: swashbuckling digit ratio orchestra pit

Reads like a whoremaxxer parody

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5507921&forum_id=2#47521933)



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Date: March 24th, 2024 4:13 PM
Author: chocolate passionate giraffe

Raped by a clown after providing continual consent tp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5507921&forum_id=2#47522604)