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Storytime: an old friend hit me up and I remembered why he sucked

I used to think he was cool back in the day. But now he's ju...
ruddy dilemma boistinker
  04/10/24
you need to explain why with facts
dark business firm clown
  04/10/24
Ok back in the day when we were young he seemed pretty cool....
ruddy dilemma boistinker
  04/10/24
living rustically and slaying arthoes by moonlight tp
histrionic location jewess
  04/10/24
Now explain why he sucks because so far he sounds 180
histrionic location jewess
  04/10/24
he's friends w hatp
Bonkers internal respiration shrine
  04/10/24
Sounds more like hatp is his chronicler and bard
histrionic location jewess
  04/10/24
There was definitely some truth to this when we were younger...
ruddy dilemma boistinker
  04/10/24
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cerebral unhinged space
  04/10/24
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Bateful Menage
  04/10/24
He got married a while ago so no more arthoe chasing. He hit...
ruddy dilemma boistinker
  04/10/24
devastating.
Cobalt self-absorbed property
  04/10/24
This sounds a lot like the experience of talking to this a k...
Lake curious fat ankles
  04/10/24
That's sad man. Having schitzo friend must be tough. There w...
ruddy dilemma boistinker
  04/10/24
Yeah dude sounds NPD for sure. His poor wife must be a hus...
Lake curious fat ankles
  04/10/24
She's Jewish
ruddy dilemma boistinker
  04/10/24
evocative thread ty
silver brunch headpube
  04/10/24
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ruddy dilemma boistinker
  04/10/24
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Arrogant Legend Parlor
  04/10/24
maybe he was just trying to promote his album. this is the m...
Mustard center
  04/11/24
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dark business firm clown
  04/11/24
downturn and hitting-up 3rd bench friends
Turquoise preventive strike indian lodge
  04/10/24
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abusive aquamarine love of her life school
  04/10/24
...
Lake curious fat ankles
  04/10/24
...
cerebral unhinged space
  04/10/24
Savage
ruddy dilemma boistinker
  04/10/24
I think you're probably a good friend tho ngl
cerebral unhinged space
  04/10/24
I'm obviously a good friend even to people who don't treat m...
ruddy dilemma boistinker
  04/10/24
You wrote a blog poast about him, I would be flattered
cerebral unhinged space
  04/10/24
If I knew you irl and more specifically if we were paramours...
ruddy dilemma boistinker
  04/10/24
It's okay though I will save my charm for someone more deser...
ruddy dilemma boistinker
  04/10/24
you can try to woo her at my pig roast
Mustard center
  04/11/24
There's no way she's coming
ruddy dilemma boistinker
  04/11/24
she'll come. she can hide in plain sight and pretend to be a...
Mustard center
  04/11/24
Lmao yeah I'm sure no one will notice FizzKidd tp awkwardly ...
ruddy dilemma boistinker
  04/11/24
pretty much whatever he wants tp
Up-to-no-good office
  04/10/24
so basically, your life was like Saltburn (2023) tp
Up-to-no-good office
  04/10/24
Never heard of it but yes I had a pretty eccentric and illus...
ruddy dilemma boistinker
  04/10/24


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Date: April 10th, 2024 2:25 AM
Author: ruddy dilemma boistinker

I used to think he was cool back in the day. But now he's just retarded. Taking qs.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47570020)



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Date: April 10th, 2024 2:33 AM
Author: dark business firm clown

you need to explain why with facts

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47570026)



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Date: April 10th, 2024 2:40 AM
Author: ruddy dilemma boistinker

Ok back in the day when we were young he seemed pretty cool. He was artistic and creative and he lived this authentic vagabond lifestyle like he was trying to emulate On the Road or travel around like Bob Dylan on train cars without any money. Probably the most noteworthy thing about him is he was a top tier pussy getter. Especially with arthoes and basically any bleeding heart liberal type of woman would open here legs for him almost instantly. So I thought that was cool it itself. He was a sort of mythic being who did lots of cool shit and was sort of unimpeachable on living rustically and slaying arthoes by moonlight. He had an aura about him and was a guy everybody wanted to know. I felt special in a sense that he liked talking to me. We used to talk all the time for hours. I think on some level he viewed me as a key witness to his exploits, like if there were ever a VH1 Behind the Music episode about him he'd want me to vocalize what I saw. That being said I couldn't ever really keep up with his lifestyle, being way more conservative and straight-laced. It's like that scene in Mad Men where Don gets writer's block and he goes to smoke weed with some arthoes living an alternative lifestyle in the Village. I was the straightest guy he knew, and he was the most outré friend in my life. This all transpired in our 20s and then we drifted apart. Until he messaged me the other day.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47570028)



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Date: April 10th, 2024 2:51 AM
Author: histrionic location jewess

living rustically and slaying arthoes by moonlight tp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47570035)



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Date: April 10th, 2024 2:51 AM
Author: histrionic location jewess

Now explain why he sucks because so far he sounds 180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47570036)



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Date: April 10th, 2024 2:54 AM
Author: Bonkers internal respiration shrine

he's friends w hatp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47570039)



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Date: April 10th, 2024 2:57 AM
Author: histrionic location jewess

Sounds more like hatp is his chronicler and bard

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47570045)



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Date: April 10th, 2024 12:05 PM
Author: ruddy dilemma boistinker

There was definitely some truth to this when we were younger. He would recount banging a young woman he met on the train on the way to an Animal Collective concert and I would go, "haha, holy shit."

But he hasn't been That Guy in many years. And he just kind of sucks now. There was once a feeling of reciprocity in the friendship, but no more.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47570717)



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Date: April 10th, 2024 6:25 AM
Author: cerebral unhinged space



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47570143)



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Date: April 10th, 2024 12:04 PM
Author: Bateful Menage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47570712)



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Date: April 10th, 2024 11:46 AM
Author: ruddy dilemma boistinker

He got married a while ago so no more arthoe chasing. He hit me up randomly with a disingenuous buttering up talking about how much he cared about me and the old times. It was thinly veiled and easy to see through. It was clear he messaged me just because he wanted to talk about himself. Just came across as a narcissist. He did a lot of humble bragging about having some high profile white collar job (he has no degree so I can't imagine what it is). And then he sent me a link to some EP he released on Spotify with like 11 total plays and it was godawful. He wouldn't shut up about his album and how he had sunk two hundred hours into producing and mixing and mastering it. It was really garbage too. Impossible to listen to. But apparently the full extent of him caring about talking to me was to tell me about his shitty record no one will ever listen to, how incredibly industrious and hardworking he is, and his mysterious prestigious job which I can't imagine what it possibly is. It was the weirdest out of the blue 'I'm so successful now look at me' but he's obviously, at best, some sort of wagecuck with an email job and a nagging wife. And his record stinks and no amount of bragging about how hard he worked on it or how he taught himself mixing could make it any better. So yeah it was evident he just wanted an outlet to talk about himself and I really don't think he's that cool. All the wild man days are behind him. It was like running into Mystery decades after PUA ended and he's just some middle aged wagecuck who loves talking about himself. I won't entertain him further.

Something flavor: he used phrases like "my extracting vocation" (tp)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47570627)



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Date: April 10th, 2024 11:49 AM
Author: Cobalt self-absorbed property

devastating.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47570639)



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Date: April 10th, 2024 12:16 PM
Author: Lake curious fat ankles

This sounds a lot like the experience of talking to this a kid I know from growing up who really is more of a friend of a friend in that he was my best friends neighbor from down the street, except he flunked out of high school and is a bipolar schizophrenic. He calls everyone from high school and wastes a day or two of everyone’s time being batshit insane because he’s gone off his meds. It used to be more frequent, like a couple times a year, but for the last decade plus it’s like every 2-3 years. Thankfully I have been either way down or totally off the list of people who get a direct call from him during these episodes since Soph year of college because I always put off calling him back, and would usually not manage to do it until he was on an involuntary hold. None of us ever thought he was particularly cool, though, and we knew when we were 14 that he was nuts. The sad part with him looking back is that he was so obviously fucked and his parents were in hardcore denial and the fact that he had us as friends that cared about him seemed to enable their denial and sustain their false hope that he would grow out of it or whatever.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47570771)



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Date: April 10th, 2024 12:20 PM
Author: ruddy dilemma boistinker

That's sad man. Having schitzo friend must be tough. There was one schitz in my hs but I didn't know him well. He dropped out and changed his name. My buddy in the OP isn't nuts he's just a gloating narcissist but he hasn't achieved anything and is just a loser.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47570789)



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Date: April 10th, 2024 6:08 PM
Author: Lake curious fat ankles

Yeah dude sounds NPD for sure. His poor wife must be a husk of a person.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47571638)



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Date: April 10th, 2024 6:19 PM
Author: ruddy dilemma boistinker

She's Jewish

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47571675)



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Date: April 10th, 2024 12:18 PM
Author: silver brunch headpube

evocative thread ty

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47570779)



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Date: April 10th, 2024 3:50 PM
Author: ruddy dilemma boistinker



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47571228)



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Date: April 10th, 2024 6:27 PM
Author: Arrogant Legend Parlor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47571691)



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Date: April 11th, 2024 9:56 AM
Author: Mustard center

maybe he was just trying to promote his album. this is the male version of mlm bitches randomly hitting up people from high school to "reconnect" and tell them about an "amazing opportunity."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47573465)



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Date: April 11th, 2024 1:13 AM
Author: dark business firm clown



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47572997)



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Date: April 10th, 2024 3:26 AM
Author: Turquoise preventive strike indian lodge

downturn and hitting-up 3rd bench friends

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47570056)



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Date: April 10th, 2024 6:04 AM
Author: abusive aquamarine love of her life school



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47570116)



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Date: April 10th, 2024 12:17 PM
Author: Lake curious fat ankles



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47570776)



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Date: April 10th, 2024 5:19 PM
Author: cerebral unhinged space



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47571488)



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Date: April 10th, 2024 5:59 PM
Author: ruddy dilemma boistinker

Savage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47571614)



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Date: April 10th, 2024 6:00 PM
Author: cerebral unhinged space

I think you're probably a good friend tho ngl

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47571618)



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Date: April 10th, 2024 6:04 PM
Author: ruddy dilemma boistinker

I'm obviously a good friend even to people who don't treat me (or anyone) well. But I'm not sticking my neck out for that guy again. He's worn out his welcome.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47571628)



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Date: April 10th, 2024 6:10 PM
Author: cerebral unhinged space

You wrote a blog poast about him, I would be flattered

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47571643)



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Date: April 10th, 2024 6:21 PM
Author: ruddy dilemma boistinker

If I knew you irl and more specifically if we were paramours I would compose volumes about you and our tryst with as much passion and zeal as a late 18th and early 19th century Romantic philosophe. I would write poems about you like I was Baudelaire or Rimbaud. I would call my receuil, "L'enfant de la physique."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47571680)



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Date: April 10th, 2024 7:41 PM
Author: ruddy dilemma boistinker

It's okay though I will save my charm for someone more deserving

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47572069)



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Date: April 11th, 2024 9:56 AM
Author: Mustard center

you can try to woo her at my pig roast

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47573468)



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Date: April 11th, 2024 10:12 AM
Author: ruddy dilemma boistinker

There's no way she's coming

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47573504)



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Date: April 11th, 2024 10:23 AM
Author: Mustard center

she'll come. she can hide in plain sight and pretend to be a friend unrelated to xo.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47573531)



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Date: April 11th, 2024 10:45 AM
Author: ruddy dilemma boistinker

Lmao yeah I'm sure no one will notice FizzKidd tp awkwardly standing around talking about physics, weightlifting, koi fish, and the pope while oggling Handsomes

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47573649)



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Date: April 10th, 2024 6:21 PM
Author: Up-to-no-good office

pretty much whatever he wants tp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47571681)



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Date: April 10th, 2024 6:26 PM
Author: Up-to-no-good office

so basically, your life was like Saltburn (2023) tp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47571688)



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Date: April 10th, 2024 6:44 PM
Author: ruddy dilemma boistinker

Never heard of it but yes I had a pretty eccentric and illustrious life imo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5515604&forum_id=2#47571805)