I meet this guy who was definitely handsome but not particularly. Tall as shit though like 6”2 or 6”3 and pretty fit with long hair. I was talking to him for a while and he was pretty cool and seemed pretty normal and all the sudden this cute normal put together girl with noticeably large boobs under her shirt walks by and he just goes “Hey.” pointing at her “you, yeah, you. I like your boobs.” It wasn’t delivered very douche-ily; but obviously it’s an inherently douche-y thing to say

She stood there for a second as I stood in shock and asked “Do you want my number?” and he just answered “Sure” and she gave it to him.

She could easily have walked away without any consequence he wasn’t following or harassing her or anything she CHOSE and OFFERED to give him her number.

Afterward I was fucking dumbfounded and asked the guy WTF just happened and he was like “What? I complimented her and she gave me her number” and took a sip of his drink like it was nothing.

This goes against everything I know about dating and flirting and relationships and women and everything about humanity in general.

I know that some women are just into trashy guys or attracted to boldness or confidence but this is like a very attractive very sophisticated 22 year old woman who is presumably quite refined and intelligent considering the university she goes to.

What happened here? How did this work? If you are handsome and tall can you really get away with shit like this? He seemed genuinely unsurprised and casual throughout the whole thing even after the girl left so apparently it was normal for him.

WTF??!?!?!

Edit: To all the people saying “he’s handsome and tall, that explains it.” He was not much more handsome or fit than average and about the same height as me which is for whatever reason typical in our age group and school (not many men under 6”0).

And he was SO BOLD AND CASUAL. Like unbelievably. Clearly this line or similar is working for him A LOT.

And he did not know the girl and she looked like the absolute last type of person it would work on.

This situation is a lot more confounding then I think many of you are giving it credit for.

I was at a party… Not a particularly trashy or dingy one either. Just a bunch of smart professional seeming gpeople from a relatively upscale and prestigious university mingling and dancing casually.

I meet this guy who was definitely handsome but not particularly. Tall as shit though like 6”2 or 6”3 and pretty fit with long hair. I was talking to him for a while and he was pretty cool and seemed pretty normal and all the sudden this cute normal put together girl with noticeably large boobs under her shirt walks by and he just goes “Hey.” pointing at her “you, yeah, you. I like your boobs.” It wasn’t delivered very douche-ily; but obviously it’s an inherently douche-y thing to say

She stood there for a second as I stood in shock and asked “Do you want my number?” and he just answered “Sure” and she gave it to him.

She could easily have walked away without any consequence he wasn’t following or harassing her or anything she CHOSE and OFFERED to give him her number.

Afterward I was fucking dumbfounded and asked the guy WTF just happened and he was like “What? I complimented her and she gave me her number” and took a sip of his drink like it was nothing.

This goes against everything I know about dating and flirting and relationships and women and everything about humanity in general.

I know that some women are just into trashy guys or attracted to boldness or confidence but this is like a very attractive very sophisticated 22 year old woman who is presumably quite refined and intelligent considering the university she goes to.

What happened here? How did this work? If you are handsome and tall can you really get away with shit like this? He seemed genuinely unsurprised and casual throughout the whole thing even after the girl left so apparently it was normal for him.

WTF??!?!?!

Edit: To all the people saying “he’s handsome and tall, that explains it.” He was not much more handsome or fit than average and about the same height as me which is for whatever reason typical in our age group and school (not many men under 6”0).

And he was SO BOLD AND CASUAL. Like unbelievably. Clearly this line or similar is working for him A LOT.

And he did not know the girl and she looked like the absolute last type of person it would work on.

This situation is a lot more confounding then I think many of you are giving it credit for.

source: https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1c5lbmk/a_guy_i_was_with_at_a_party_told_a_girl_he_liked/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5518350&forum_id=2#47587662)

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It probably has more to do with the woman than it does him. It worked on her. This isn’t going to work for most women because it’s creepy. I don’t care how attractive a guy is, that would never work for me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5518350&forum_id=2#47587674)

large boobs under her shirt

large boobs under her shirt

large boobs under her shirt

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5518350&forum_id=2#47587714)

But that’s not Tall

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5518350&forum_id=2#47587784)

Title: Beware the Charismatic Sexist: My Experience with a Tall, Good Looking Man

Hey, folks of /r/dating,

I felt compelled to share my recent dating experience with a guy who seemed to have it all on the surface – tall, good looking, and charming. Yet, there's a darker side to him that I believe warrants some serious discussion.

Let me set the scene: I met this guy through mutual friends, and from the get-go, he exuded confidence and charisma. We hit it off, and soon we were going out on dates. However, as we spent more time together, I started noticing troubling behavior.

Despite his outward charm, he held some shockingly sexist views. He would make dismissive comments about women, belittling their intelligence and reducing them to mere objects of desire. Initially, I tried to brush it off, thinking perhaps he was just joking or being ironic. But as time went on, it became clear that these were his genuine beliefs.

What's even more concerning is that despite his sexist attitudes, he had no trouble attracting women. It seemed like his good looks and confidence were enough to overshadow his toxic behavior. Women would flock to him, seemingly oblivious to the underlying misogyny.

I found myself torn between his magnetic personality and the discomfort caused by his views. On one hand, he was incredibly charming and attentive, but on the other hand, I couldn't shake the feeling that I was compromising my values by being with him.

I ultimately decided to end things, but it left me questioning why some women are willing to overlook such blatant sexism in favor of a fleeting connection. Are we so conditioned to prioritize outward appearances that we ignore red flags? Or is there something deeper at play here?

I'd love to hear your thoughts and experiences on this matter. Have you ever encountered someone like this? How did you handle it? Let's open up the discussion and support each other through these challenging dating dilemmas.

Looking forward to your insights!Title: Beware the Charismatic Sexist: My Experience with a Tall, Good Looking Man

Hey, folks of /r/dating,

I felt compelled to share my recent dating experience with a guy who seemed to have it all on the surface – tall, good looking, and charming. Yet, there's a darker side to him that I believe warrants some serious discussion.

Let me set the scene: I met this guy through mutual friends, and from the get-go, he exuded confidence and charisma. We hit it off, and soon we were going out on dates. However, as we spent more time together, I started noticing troubling behavior.

Despite his outward charm, he held some shockingly sexist views. He would make dismissive comments about women, belittling their intelligence and reducing them to mere objects of desire. Initially, I tried to brush it off, thinking perhaps he was just joking or being ironic. But as time went on, it became clear that these were his genuine beliefs.

What's even more concerning is that despite his sexist attitudes, he had no trouble attracting women. It seemed like his good looks and confidence were enough to overshadow his toxic behavior. Women would flock to him, seemingly oblivious to the underlying misogyny.

I found myself torn between his magnetic personality and the discomfort caused by his views. On one hand, he was incredibly charming and attentive, but on the other hand, I couldn't shake the feeling that I was compromising my values by being with him.

I ultimately decided to end things, but it left me questioning why some women are willing to overlook such blatant sexism in favor of a fleeting connection. Are we so conditioned to prioritize outward appearances that we ignore red flags? Or is there something deeper at play here?

I'd love to hear your thoughts and experiences on this matter. Have you ever encountered someone like this? How did you handle it? Let's open up the discussion and support each other through these challenging dating dilemmas.

Looking forward to your insights!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5518350&forum_id=2#47588351)