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How many of you are or interact with sycophantic people?

Do you have to deal with sycophantic, manipulative people wh...
Fragrant flatulent school cafeteria
  04/20/24
I deal with one, it's a sibling. The only way I can deal wit...
Fragrant flatulent school cafeteria
  04/20/24
Give some examples of these people in your life
stirring violet shitlib
  04/20/24
My half-brother. He struggled with numerous self-esteem ...
Fragrant flatulent school cafeteria
  04/20/24
You mean the ones that suck up to the person in charge and d...
lavender pit juggernaut
  04/20/24
Right, those types. Now imagine that the person incorporated...
Fragrant flatulent school cafeteria
  04/20/24
Agree with everything they say, they hate that. Them: You...
lavender pit juggernaut
  04/20/24
i used to work for one. my manager reported directly to the ...
big french chef ladyboy
  04/20/24
are you the same guy whose sibling found religion?
Rebellious Tanning Salon Son Of Senegal
  04/20/24
No, that's a different guy
Fragrant flatulent school cafeteria
  04/20/24
I work in upper middle management so I’d say that is t...
Fishy trust fund
  04/20/24
Explain. You mean everyone does this to get ahead?
Fragrant flatulent school cafeteria
  04/20/24
The standard type definitely does. It’s a little nause...
Fishy trust fund
  04/20/24
This is why being in bigcorp or biglaw is a big mistake. You...
Fragrant flatulent school cafeteria
  04/20/24


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Date: April 20th, 2024 11:04 AM
Author: Fragrant flatulent school cafeteria

Do you have to deal with sycophantic, manipulative people whether at work or in your family on a daily basis?

If so, how do you deal with them?

How about those who admit to being one of these types? Why do you need to be this way?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5519666&forum_id=2#47597240)



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Date: April 20th, 2024 11:05 AM
Author: Fragrant flatulent school cafeteria

I deal with one, it's a sibling. The only way I can deal with it is literally avoiding him at all costs. There's no other way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5519666&forum_id=2#47597243)



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Date: April 20th, 2024 11:05 AM
Author: stirring violet shitlib

Give some examples of these people in your life

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5519666&forum_id=2#47597244)



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Date: April 20th, 2024 11:11 AM
Author: Fragrant flatulent school cafeteria

My half-brother.

He struggled with numerous self-esteem issues growing up, so his mother taught him how to ingratiate himself with others. Unfortunately, he began to apply this tactic not only with influential people but also with ordinary people to foster social cliques.

He basically mastered the art of making others feel indebted to him and they end up aligning with him on stuff. This bolsters his sense of self-importance and superiority.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5519666&forum_id=2#47597259)



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Date: April 20th, 2024 11:07 AM
Author: lavender pit juggernaut

You mean the ones that suck up to the person in charge and defend them on every point, like a pit bull, no matter how stupid or ridiculous?

I avoid as much as possible, or just smile and walk away.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5519666&forum_id=2#47597248)



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Date: April 20th, 2024 11:12 AM
Author: Fragrant flatulent school cafeteria

Right, those types. Now imagine that the person incorporated this into his personality like a cancer and uses it in family settings and around relatives/friends too, not only at work.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5519666&forum_id=2#47597263)



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Date: April 20th, 2024 11:18 AM
Author: lavender pit juggernaut

Agree with everything they say, they hate that.

Them: Your idea is stupid, how dare you!

You: Gosh, your right, how can I see things your way.

Them: Well, first off you are blah blah blah...

You: (smile and walk away nodding in agreement)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5519666&forum_id=2#47597281)



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Date: April 20th, 2024 11:12 AM
Author: big french chef ladyboy

i used to work for one. my manager reported directly to the CEO, who was an out-of-touch billionaire. he fed lies to the CEO to grow his career while treating his direct reports like shit, causing enormous turnover. i quit after less than a year.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5519666&forum_id=2#47597261)



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Date: April 20th, 2024 11:13 AM
Author: Rebellious Tanning Salon Son Of Senegal

are you the same guy whose sibling found religion?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5519666&forum_id=2#47597264)



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Date: April 20th, 2024 11:14 AM
Author: Fragrant flatulent school cafeteria

No, that's a different guy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5519666&forum_id=2#47597267)



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Date: April 20th, 2024 11:14 AM
Author: Fishy trust fund

I work in upper middle management so I’d say that is the norm

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5519666&forum_id=2#47597266)



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Date: April 20th, 2024 11:14 AM
Author: Fragrant flatulent school cafeteria

Explain. You mean everyone does this to get ahead?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5519666&forum_id=2#47597268)



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Date: April 20th, 2024 11:18 AM
Author: Fishy trust fund

The standard type definitely does. It’s a little nauseating. But it’s clearly very effective. It’s a lot harder to get ahead just based on sheer quality of work than playing politics correctly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5519666&forum_id=2#47597282)



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Date: April 20th, 2024 11:23 AM
Author: Fragrant flatulent school cafeteria

This is why being in bigcorp or biglaw is a big mistake. You have to gtfo.

Now imagine having the fucker incorporate this into friends and family.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5519666&forum_id=2#47597301)