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being funemployed is so chill. can't motivate myself to apply to jobs much
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Date: June 21st, 2026 9:28 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay is this how it starts?! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954369) |
Date: June 21st, 2026 9:46 PM Author: copper magical stag film useless brakes What line of work are you in? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954404) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 9:48 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay I'm a software engineer. I found out last October that I was being laid off in April but I put off applying for jobs right away so I could get my "transition bonus"
then my layoff date came. I applied for a couple weeks, got through a few rounds at some companies, got discouraged and am now traveling with family and CHILLING and POASTING. |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 10:13 PM Author: copper magical stag film useless brakes Age? Net Worth?
Honestly so much work is just fraud bullshit, so it's understandable that you aren't chomping at the bit to get back to it. |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 10:16 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay 35
I have about $50K in my bank accounts and $400K between two 401ks. no assets, not even a car.
yeah exactly. I've never been a high-intrinsic-motivation person, and - as is probably the case for 95% of poasters - I've never had to put "effort" into anything to perform well, so I never learned to. for my first job out of college I only sent out like five apps and pretty much immediately got a job. for my second and most recent, it was about a two-month process but I was employed while searching so there was no rush. |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 10:17 PM Author: contagious bonkers legal warrant skinny woman 🤔 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954484) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 10:19 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay whatchu 🤔ing about (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954489) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 10:20 PM Author: contagious bonkers legal warrant skinny woman its funny how close this is mapping for me. what are you motivated by? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954492) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 10:22 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay well when I'm genuinely interested in something I can put tons of time and effort into it. but I don't think that's ever happened professionally (and it was never necessary academically). you? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954500) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 10:29 PM Author: contagious bonkers legal warrant skinny woman same i dunno. i get myopically into things in private but still step back and dont understand why/what im doing. so i just let that fly professionally. if there's a problem to solve at work i can get pretty obsessive about solving it regardless of what it is. i guess my specific motivations are usually pointing thing out I think people don't see. in general i hate superficiality. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954508) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 10:38 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay can you explain the second sentence? I relate to the latter part of your poast. although your version of that is probably more profound - at my job, sometimes that just means coming up with a thorough and systematic approach to something other people may have approached in a less organized way.
I forgot to mention, professionally what motivates me is time pressure. I'll procrastinate something for a few days and when it gets to the point where I calculate it'll look REALLY bad if I don't finish soon, I'll put in a really long day or two and bang it out. and then I often receive praise for the quality of my work - which is funny because I think I only half deserve it and the other half is that people are primed to be impressed by it because it took longer than it was supposed to. lolol |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 10:43 PM Author: contagious bonkers legal warrant skinny woman yeah exactly. i relate to the time pressure thing but sort of self-impose deadlines, so i finish early and i think people don't have the same reaction. which in your case is incredibly strategic lol.
i think thats what i meant with the second sentence. i just like the feeling of tunnel vision for its own sake. its probably feeding some need for grandiosity, where i feel like im staking everything on this 1 project and i need to ignore everything else and commit everything to this.
if im reading you right that's kinda what you're saying around coming up with a systematic approach even if it might be overkill. its something about feeling like this problem needs an urgent, systematic solution and everything else can wait. love that feeling regardless of what it is. |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 10:52 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay it's 1800000 that you have a similar high-level approach to things (and I actually do take pride in that, myself) and that you don't even need to put yourself in a do-or-die situation to get it done. I wish I had that in me. are you comfortable saying generally what field you're in? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954582) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 11:29 PM Author: contagious bonkers legal warrant skinny woman i do computer (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954665) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 11:30 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay I am become computer (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954669) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 11:31 PM Author: contagious bonkers legal warrant skinny woman you've been poasting a lot lately its great (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954672) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 11:35 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay :))) see thread title lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954684) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 10:51 PM Author: slimy pistol den there's literally no point in doing anything unless you're under total all encompassing pressure to accomplish that thing, preferably under the threat of death if you fail (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954579) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 10:54 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay a little extreme but that's not too far from how my brain works, to be totally honest (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954588) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 10:57 PM Author: slimy pistol den i'm like that tacitus quote about how germans would just sit around not doing anything when they weren't at war
if it's not life or death or at least some kind of reasonably convincing facsimile of life or death why even bother lmao |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 11:00 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay lol, very relatable. for you, what constitutes a reasonably convincing facsimile? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954600) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 11:01 PM Author: slimy pistol den you don't know until you're already experiencing it. that's what's so crazy about this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954603) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 11:02 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay gotta get DAT adrenaline flowing (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954605) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 10:54 PM Author: contagious bonkers legal warrant skinny woman (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954591) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 10:56 PM Author: offensive gas station water buffalo This is men for you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954593) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 11:00 PM Author: slimy pistol den (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954601) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 10:23 PM Author: slimy pistol den you are literally a woman you can just ask men to give you money at any time if you need it and they will give it to you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954501) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 10:28 PM Author: Rose low-t library how are you with failure/rejection/adversity/etc?
one thing normies are definitely better at is struggling and settling. xo poas and pumos just don't get it.
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Date: June 21st, 2026 10:32 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay failure/rejection: I get emotionally attached to things sometimes and rejection hurts in that sense. like when I get through a few rounds of interviews at a company that genuinely seems like a good match, I kinda get my heart set on the job and get pretty bummed when I don't get it. but I don't take it personally or let it affect my confidence or anything. well, maybe for a day or so but I think that's pretty standard.
adversity: I've never had to face anything difficult in my life :/ |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 10:36 PM Author: Diverse Opaque People Who Are Hurt If you haven't faced adversity, you've never truly lived. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954525) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 11:11 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay in some sense I'm sure you're right, but I at least FEEL fulfilled because I have rewarding hobbies and interests (not poasting) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954624) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 10:31 AM Author: aromatic space voyeur most people here consider a couple years in biglaw "adversity" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49955220) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 4:06 PM Author: Boyish bipolar locale son of senegal How do you have less money than me? I've been an entry level government employee for my entire career btw. Maybe you should go to Law School? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49955813) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 4:10 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay idk, I just spend most of what I make; similarly to the other stuff I mentioned, I never really learned to be responsible with money because I never had to. I definitely order delivery way too much. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49955828) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 9:47 PM Author: contagious bonkers legal warrant skinny woman i have only been unemployed once in my life and it was the most nerve racking period i've ever experienced (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954406) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 9:50 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay I should be freaking out more than I am. I don't really keep a "budget" or track my "spending" so I don't know how many months of savings I have, probably like 6-9 depending on when/whether I get serious about not running out of money. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954413) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 9:51 PM Author: contagious bonkers legal warrant skinny woman jfc i need a klonopin just reading this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954418) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 9:51 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay lmao. I'm very Type B (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954420) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 9:52 PM Author: contagious bonkers legal warrant skinny woman i spend a lot of time writing and systematizing ways to become more type B. is that good? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954422) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 9:52 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay sounds cr to me, how's the execution side of it though? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954427) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 9:53 PM Author: contagious bonkers legal warrant skinny woman not good. im a paranoid neurotic at all times. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954430) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 9:55 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay :(
but you're a great poaster so it evens out |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 9:55 PM Author: contagious bonkers legal warrant skinny woman ok thank. godspeed w/ work we are 4 u (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954436) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 9:56 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay we are 4 u too :) re: becumming less neurotic (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954440) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 10:10 PM Author: Lake doobsian really tough guy dilemma 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954470) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 3:09 PM Author: Supple public bath faggotry (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49955712) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 9:51 PM Author: Scarlet Vibrant Filthpig working is bullshit and just a jew scam (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954421) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 9:52 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay yeah but I don't have enough savings to live off interest like you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954424) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 9:52 PM Author: offensive gas station water buffalo Would love to get back into gainful work but unfortunately I was robbed and nearly killed multiple times and haven't been able to recover since and if I was going to hazard a guess I'd say the same people trying to kill me with the biblical edict regarding work are the same people who robbed and nearly killed me and are "playing both sides" of that matter as it were to defraud me of my assets and then kill me lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954425) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 9:53 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay I'm genuinely sorry for what you've experienced but have you seen a doctor about whether you're potentially experiencing delusions/hallucinations because some of the stuff you poast is PP-confirmed not true (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954429) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 9:58 PM Author: offensive gas station water buffalo Hey jew you can stop now I'm going to tell the people how this stuff works and I'm going to do it as I see fit. You rob and scam people, isolate their perspectives, and then call it "schizophrenia". And in this case there are a lot of torah and other type jews on my side wondering why this guy who made stuff they liked suddenly isn't (making it) anymore And then they listen, and they find out for themselves, and this business regarding a simple and caring "mental health" safeguard we have in place being abused by people too-skilled at abusing it becomes apparent I will have no problem dropping this garbage and returning to normal but I'm not going to do it until my complaints have been addressed and rectified |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 10:22 PM Author: balding heady lettuce university I've been willing to listen and open minded but you just post a bunch of nonsensical slop and insults. Can you please just explain precisely what is going on in plain terms? Perhaps we can try to help. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954497) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 10:31 PM Author: offensive gas station water buffalo Hey guy it was proposed by "Emilio" or you know some Scamphardic prune of a heeb scammer that you should rape an ex of mine who is---quite literally devoted----to me and the bones of the world we made and who would be infinitely better of a partner to me than his whore daughter Doubt I believe this as written but this was the largely rejected proposition as I received it and sorry that you took beating after beating in the process of trying to make it stick |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 10:42 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay fyi cucumbers is just trolling you when he pretends to be your ex. PP-confirmed he's a dude.
Emilio is pretty obviously not an old guy |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 10:54 PM Author: offensive gas station water buffalo Cool dude I love ethnic scammers covering for each other thanks for sharing (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954590) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 10:45 PM Author: balding heady lettuce university Can you start from the beginning and list out all the characters involved? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954553) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 10:46 PM Author: contagious bonkers legal warrant skinny woman (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954555) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 10:29 AM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49955215) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 11:38 AM Author: Pearly duck-like tanning salon mad cow disease (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49955390) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 4:08 PM Author: Boyish bipolar locale son of senegal (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49955820) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 10:26 PM Author: Sticky Personal Credit Line Ceo I'd rather be unemployed than apply for jobs. But I've got enough dividends coming in to pay all my bills, so it's a bit of a different situation
I'll probably take a normal gig at some point this year just to stay on track for retirement |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 10:39 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay very 180 and crrrr that you've achieved that! yeah, if I were in that situation I'd just stop working and devote all of my time to my hobbies and interests (some creative, some SCHOLARLY). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954534) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 10:55 PM Author: odious milk do you just sit around all day gooning and beating your meat like it owes you money (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954592) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 10:57 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay no, I POAST, which is even worse (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954597) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 11:01 PM Author: Cruel-hearted galvanic french chef You should just retire and commit the rest of your life to poasting. Move back in with parents. Poasting is the light and the truth. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954604) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 11:04 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay I've been hanging out with my parents for like two weeks it's 180. did you see my HIKING PICS thread? https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876165&forum_id=2 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954608) |
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Date: June 21st, 2026 11:10 PM Author: Cruel-hearted galvanic french chef Will check it soon ty (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49954620) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 11:07 AM Author: copper magical stag film useless brakes Are you a man or a woman? Can't actually tell from your poasting. $50k is not nearly enough to sustain yourself for long. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49955326) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 11:11 AM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay I am a Poaster first, a Woman second (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49955335) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 11:21 AM Author: copper magical stag film useless brakes Just find some simp provider. I appreciate that you like to poast, but it is such a reminder of how women basically get to play act throughout life because you have an actual "Get out of jail" free card through your vagina.
Whether or not you would admit this, there are countless "career focused" women who spend a decade-plus on their "careers," often in high enough paying jobs. Only to have basically nothing to show for it. They spend the money on their "passions" (travel) and don't plan long-term because they know they can just opt out at almost any point in time.
It's not even explicit. It's just there in the background. |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 11:26 AM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay I'm in a relationship for LOVE and the guy doesn't make much $$. even if this doesn't work out, I can't imagine prioritizing how much a guy earns. to me, it would feel like "settling" to be with someone for any reason other than personal compatibility.
yeah I've never cared about my career; I just work to make money to have fun outside of work. I spend pretty recklessly, not just on myself but also on friends, mutual aid, charity, etc. not sure if that means I fall into the category you're talking about or not. |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 11:34 AM Author: Cruel-hearted galvanic french chef Sex with women for feelings (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49955383) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 11:36 AM Author: copper magical stag film useless brakes Great, then get married.
You sound more self-aware than most women in this general regard, assuming you are being truthful. But "I just work to make money to have fun outside of work" is basically what I'm talking about. No planning for the future because you don't really have to in the way that a man does.
You at least don't seem to act like "My Career" is so Important, which is what many (many) women pretend to do (consciously or not) until they realize that really getting ahead is actually difficult. Post-30, usually, when the low hanging fruit of just showing up and doing tasks won't get you any further. |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 11:41 AM Author: Pearly duck-like tanning salon mad cow disease Like most women that "seem self-aware" or come off as cool, chill, and downright dude-like: she is insane and has broke the brains of many men that were highly motivated to wife her up and provide whatever she wanted. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49955398) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 11:46 AM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay I'm honestly not really insane anymore but obviously that's an accurate characterization of my past (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49955414) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 11:54 AM Author: Pearly duck-like tanning salon mad cow disease I hope this is true. Many manic pixie types wind up chilling out enough to have somewhat stable, happy lives. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49955424) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 11:55 AM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay crrrr
I have maybe one BPD tantrum every two years now; before, it was multiple times a week |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 12:08 PM Author: copper magical stag film useless brakes lol yes obviously true. I have known many women like this and it saddens me to watch the ones that never settle down. Life comes and hits them like a brick fucking wall when they hit 40 in the most brutal way possible. And they never, ever, ever see it coming. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49955458) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 12:18 PM Author: Pearly duck-like tanning salon mad cow disease She had some thread about freezing her eggs recently and is now confidently and without qualification saying she "definitely won't have kids."
That wall looming is the glimpses of self-awareness you see in her poasts belie a much deeper, profounder blindness.
But we're wasting our breath as this has been explained to her ad nauseum for two decades, and as the truth of these warnings have begun to manifest she's still poasting about how her beauty "might run out someday maybe teehee" as a middle-adged, unemployed woman living in a deliberately non-committal situationship. |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 12:19 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay what I said ITT is perfectly consistent with what I said in the egg freezing thread. even the title AND the first sentence of that thread acknowledge that I don't want to reproduce: https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868567&forum_id=2
I am 100% sure I don't want to reproduce; I plan to foster/adopt a child instead. BUT I froze my eggs to keep that door open as a plan B in case something changes s.t. I'm unable to foster/adopt AND I really want to be a parent AND it's too late to conceive naturally.
ITT I said it in the context of not needing to rush. that's true, because even if something unforeseeable happens and I somehow change my mind, I have the eggs. |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 12:21 PM Author: Pearly duck-like tanning salon mad cow disease "I'm definitely not going to reproduce"
Explain to me how this is "perfectly consistent" with someone who just recently paid five figures to freeze her eggs. |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 12:27 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay stealth edited to explain
yes, if you're autistic, "definitely not going to" is inconsistent with the minuscule possibility that I end up being unable to foster/adopt and want to be a parent badly enough that I choose to go through the very unappealing process of bringing a new life into this world. but my points stand that (1) I am positive I don't want to reproduce; and (2) there's no need to rush to get married for the purpose of reproduction |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 12:46 PM Author: Pearly duck-like tanning salon mad cow disease It's not autistic to point out the that saying you definitely won't do something while taking substantial steps to preserve that option is incompatible.
As Ames said: you are delusional and actively denying reality.
Same thing with foster or adopt. You will not do either of these things. The reason I know this is that you're unemployed (have time and opportunity) to dip your toe into volunteering here and you aren't.
It's the same reason you find it necessary to point out you're not spending money on "pure hedonoism." You want to believe that you're serious about doing these noble things, but you know you're not, and that dissonance is distressful for you. I suggest that you either start doing things or accept that you're not the person you imagine yourself to be. Otherwise that wall is going to slap you hard like Ames said (you are currently being slapped by it actually). |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 2:35 PM Author: Cruel-hearted galvanic french chef Welcome back gunneratttt (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49955644) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 2:36 PM Author: contagious bonkers legal warrant skinny woman (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49955646) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 2:37 PM Author: slimy pistol den (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49955647) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 2:47 PM Author: Pearly duck-like tanning salon mad cow disease How tf is anything I said related to that insipid jeet? You're just throwing out random insults. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49955655) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 3:03 PM Author: Cruel-hearted galvanic french chef You sound exactly like him sometimes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49955695) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 3:08 PM Author: copper magical stag film useless brakes I didn't think this, but he was always willing to go deep into sub-threads. So it's possible they saw you do a sub-thread and thought the same.
TBH I always thought sub-threads have their place. |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 3:11 PM Author: Cruel-hearted galvanic french chef It's because they have similar views on women.
It's also hilarious that bow tie niggas who is probably Boner Police thinks gunneratttt is actually a jeet and fell for that shit. He's not as smart as he thinks he is! |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 3:16 PM Author: Pearly duck-like tanning salon mad cow disease Gujerreddit is 100% a jeet. Who is this? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49955726) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 3:22 PM Author: Pearly duck-like tanning salon mad cow disease Oh wait I guess this is HATP simping for the Jewess that cucked him.
FWIW I'm being blunt to TBTP because that's the only thing an online person can do to moe the needle towards the goals she claims she aspires to. I would love if she started her debate channel or started doing foster care. But she won't. And me saying that to challenge her is the only thing I can do that might persuade her to (but it won't.). |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 3:27 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay ty for the tough love. I'm definitely going to do the debate channel. fostering is my plan but it's not 100%. that's why I generally say "I plan to" instead of "I'm going to"... but I use them interchangeably sometimes because it's the internet
I definitely can't afford to actually foster right this moment, and I'd rather do it when married, but you're right that I should volunteer for foster kids instead of just donating money to them. I'm on a mailing list for such opportunities but need to actually follow through; as I described ITT, I have poor executive function. actually one time I signed up for a career event for foster kids but it got canceled rip |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 3:31 PM Author: Pearly duck-like tanning salon mad cow disease You'll be in a boat back to Israel in a few years and I hope you can perform whatever role barren women do on the Kibbutz. You will be doing compulsory foster care, which is what Yahweh intended for you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49955746) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 3:32 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay 180. if I ever go to Israel it'll be as a suicide bomber. I hope my Canary Mission agent doesn't see this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49955749) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 4:04 PM Author: Cruel-hearted galvanic french chef "States exhibit 102, did you witness the defendant make this statement at 3:32 pm on AutoAdmit.com"
"No I did not."
"No further questions." |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 4:04 PM Author: Cruel-hearted galvanic french chef I hoap u got all your feelings out today saar (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49955806) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 4:10 PM Author: Pearly duck-like tanning salon mad cow disease Is this HATP? What happened to you? Btw BP is a great poaster. How tf do you write 180 white nationalist rants and then get MAF when your heeb mlady is besmirched? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49955825) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 4:30 PM Author: Cruel-hearted galvanic french chef G-d works in mysterious ways (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49955870) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 9:39 PM Author: contagious bonkers legal warrant skinny woman when you put it that was this is hilarious. obviously RIP to those dudes in peace (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49957020) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 10:33 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay not ALL of their brains got broken... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49957151) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 10:35 PM Author: contagious bonkers legal warrant skinny woman i studied BPD in Women during my MDiv. Everyone involved is Broken. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49957153) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 10:39 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay did you study how most BPD people stabilize and become Normal within a decade? something crazy like over 90% iirc. it got this stigma in the 90s and 2000s with Girl, Interrupted and shit and everyone was all "omg they're hopeless" and then it turned out most of us just Outgrow it. not to minimize the damage done in the meantime or anything (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49957160) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 10:51 PM Author: contagious bonkers legal warrant skinny woman Yes i theorized this in relation to Satan as described by Bateson (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49957180) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 10:54 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay tell me more. ty for new moniker from me trying to figure out what this means (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49957187) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 11:05 PM Author: contagious bonkers legal warrant skinny woman the Accuser's double bind creates the Witch. I didn't theorize the resolution beyond hand waving at Christ. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49957214) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 11:07 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay cr, this thread (not our subthread) turned into a double bind and made me the witch (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49957216) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 11:09 PM Author: contagious bonkers legal warrant skinny woman When fortuitous savior (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49957220) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 11:10 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay cq (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49957223) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 11:45 AM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay yeah, I think he'd probably want to. but we're also content enjoying our time together as it is. when we met, we'd both already decided that we loved our lives and would be fine being single forever. we might at least move in together soon to save $$ since currently we're together most days but switch off whose apartment we stay at. I'm definitely not going to reproduce, so there's no rush to get married in the context of an existing relationship, and the only reason to rush if I become single again is that I'll lose my beauty eventually.
I stealth edited one sentence in to clarify that spending "to have fun" isn't just spending on myself but also includes being generous to my friends who make less, giving to people in need, stuff like that. not pure, shallow hedonism. |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 12:03 PM Author: copper magical stag film useless brakes Like so many women, and increasingly "men," you sound like you don't understand that time will pass and you will age. You might say you understand this, but nothing you've said proves any level of real understanding.
Anytime someone says I'd "be fine being single forever," I assume they just cannot actually comprehend the passing of time and the fact that they will not be young forever. Sure, dicking around and doing whatever shit you did when you were single is fun when you are 20 - 30 or so...but wait until you get to 40. And then all the sudden everyone else has paired up and, in many cases, started families.
Obviously I am wasting my time even saying any of this. |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 12:05 PM Author: Pearly duck-like tanning salon mad cow disease (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49955456) |
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Date: June 24th, 2026 3:21 AM Author: Olive antidepressant drug 180 classic box spin on her financial retardation: "I blow all my money being an awesome benevolent and socially enlightened helper to friends and broader society alike!"
I feel as if there must be decent overlap between your statement and highly online women who threatened to kill their college roommates. |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 11:08 AM Author: aromatic space voyeur AI has liquified what little "skill" I had, really not looking forward to interviewing whenever my current gravy train runs out
just do sales, bro. seems chill. |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 11:13 AM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay tbf you've been thinking you're on the verge of getting fired from this job for the better part of a decade lol
I would suck at sales. I am going to give SOCIAL MEDIA a try though. it's my last hoap for escaping the WAGE CAGE |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 5:12 PM Author: Lime abusive indian lodge bots can apply for you dude (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49956073) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 5:21 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay fair pushback, but I'm too unmotivated to make bots apply for me too :( (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49956099) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 5:58 PM Author: Lime abusive indian lodge i vibe coded a bot to find jobs and tailor resumes, am at last round now. it's 180, no joke. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49956279) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 6:02 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay 1800000 congrats and best of luck! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49956303) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 9:09 PM Author: Lime abusive indian lodge thanks man, really hoping this works!! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49956881) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 5:59 PM Author: out-of-control chapel potus Let's unpack this. With pushbacks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49956289) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 6:01 PM Author: Pearly duck-like tanning salon mad cow disease (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49956300) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 6:02 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49956307) |
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Date: June 26th, 2026 5:10 PM Author: Supple public bath faggotry (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49964467) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 6:54 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay sent out 4 applications so far today, for a total of 51! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49956437) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 7:19 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay just got an email from a different company (not one of the ones I applied to), maybe because I just put my resume on Indeed? and set up a screener for Thurs morning! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49956474) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 8:02 PM Author: Cruel-hearted galvanic french chef (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49956632) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 8:19 PM Author: Sticky Personal Credit Line Ceo Moniker/post synergy off the charts
Congrats. Make sure to interview them too |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 8:48 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay crrrr. last time I was looking for a job, my friend sent me her list of "questions to ask interviewers" with like a million Qs and I pick and choose from those based on the company and discussion... the recruiters always compliment my Qs, but reactions are mixed in later rounds because some of them are genuinely hard to answer. but then if I have time I lighten things up with "what do you like to do outside of work?" and they usually enjoy answering that :) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49956813) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 8:52 PM Author: contagious bonkers legal warrant skinny woman i had some kid try to take over my interview with him recently. like 10 minutes in he goes, "if that's all your questions I have a bunch for you." It was insane (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49956820) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 8:53 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay LMAO that's alpha. I only launch into mine when asked (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49956822) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 8:54 PM Author: contagious bonkers legal warrant skinny woman he was not remotely hired (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49956824) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 8:55 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay "if I asked them" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49956828) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 8:56 PM Author: contagious bonkers legal warrant skinny woman lol i wanna see ur list i hate that part. i always have weird questions that make me seem insane. need normal people q's (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49956833) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 8:57 PM Author: Cruel-hearted galvanic french chef http://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=3941332&mc=168&forum_id=2 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49956837) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 8:58 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay lmfao (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49956841) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 9:00 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay here's the full list, like I said I really choose based on the vibes
" About the company • How many people are there? • How many people per department? • Are you profitable? - If not, how does this affect what you can do? What’s your planned timeline for becoming profitable? • How does the company grow? • Where do you see this company in a few years? • Are company financials transparent throughout the company? • What’s the single biggest issue or problem facing the team/department/company? What’s currently being done to address it? • What’s the biggest structural/organizational/process problem? • What's a mistake the company has made recently and how did they address it?
Values • Has there been a situation where someone raised an ethical concern? If so, how was it handled? If not, have there really not been any? • How are disagreements solved - both technical disagreements and other kinds? What happens when personalities clash? • What values drive decisions? Not the ones written in the handbook, but the actual ones used in practice
Culture • How do you determine if someone is a poor fit for your company and can you tell me about a time when you’ve had to let someone go? • What kinds of people are most successful here? • How are decisions influenced/made here?
Work/life • How many hours do people work in an average week? In your busiest weeks? • What time of day is the office normally mostly empty? • Do people work on the weekend? • How much vacation do people normally take?
About the team • Who else is on the team? • Who else will I be working with regularly? • How long has the team been around? • Why was it founded? • What’s on the roadmap? • What’s the team working on right now? • What’s the biggest pain point currently? • What are the most immediate projects that need to be addressed?
For the manager • What is your supervision style/work philosophy as a boss? • What did you do before? What brought you here? • What is your working style? How do you work and collaborate with team members? • How will a manager make the time to provide mentorship and guidance alongside their own work?
About the role • Why are you hiring for this role? / Why are you looking to fill this position now? • What does a typical day look like? • What does success look like? • How will my performance be reviewed? • What do you need someone in this role to really nail? • What are the biggest challenges someone in this position would face? • What are the performance expectations of someone in this position over the first year? • What types of skills is the team missing that you're looking to fill with a new hire?
Onboarding • What’s the onboarding process like? • How much time do you have for the adaptation process? • What are you responsible for and what decisions can you make on my own? • What will make you successful at this company and how will your manager evaluate your performance? • What kind of support can you expect from the company?
Negotiation • What does career development look like here? • Are there levels? What’s my level? • How and when do promotions happen? • How and when do raises happen? • Comp - How do you determine total comp (salary, equity, bonuses, benefits) - Base salary - Stock or equity - Signing bonus - Annual bonus/raise timeline (calendar year or personal) - Commuter benefits - Health insurance premiums - 401k " |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 9:02 PM Author: Cruel-hearted galvanic french chef The only questions I would ask:
"Are there free snacks?"
"If I came up with a revolutionary idea that transformed the entire company and made billions of dollars would I own any part of that idea or would you own it outright?" |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 9:07 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay the second one is legit. the first is usually on the job listing NOOB (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49956874) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 9:08 PM Author: Cruel-hearted galvanic french chef I want to hear it from the horse's mouth. You can never get too much clarity about the free snack situation. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49956877) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 9:13 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay good point. you can then ask follow-up Qs about WHICH snacks. my first job had snacks but they were pretty bad; aside from the yogurt that all got eaten early in the week, the only decent one was peanut butter pretzel bites, but I got tired AF of those after a few months (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49956904) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 9:22 PM Author: Cruel-hearted galvanic french chef "So let me ask you this, while we're being frank, in your 'opinion' *nauseatingly gesticulates scare quotes* would you say that a PREMIUM company would only have yogurt that was gone by the middle of the week and peanut butter pretzel bites that I will get sick of after a few months? To be clear I'm only asking in comparison to your vision of what a PREMIUM company to work for would do." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49956942) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 9:23 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay *nauseatingly gesticulates scare quotes* tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49956947) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 9:31 PM Author: Cruel-hearted galvanic french chef (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49957000) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 9:07 PM Author: contagious bonkers legal warrant skinny woman nice there are some good ones in here i hadn't thought of ty (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49956871) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 9:09 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay np! I've gotten some illuminating answers from the "ethical concern" one, like one time I asked the CTO that Q and he told me about how a C-level sexually harrassed someone at the annual on-site and they summarily fired him. I ended up working for that company (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49956880) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 9:10 PM Author: contagious bonkers legal warrant skinny woman holy shit lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49956886) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 9:10 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay lol I was blown away that he told me that, it was 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49956890) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 8:57 PM Author: Cruel-hearted galvanic french chef (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49956834) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 8:56 PM Author: Cruel-hearted galvanic french chef (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49956832) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 8:20 PM Author: contagious bonkers legal warrant skinny woman 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49956703) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 9:18 PM Author: Pearly duck-like tanning salon mad cow disease 🚨🚨🚨SIMPTACULAR SUBTHREAD🚨🚨🚨 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49956928) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 9:23 PM Author: contagious bonkers legal warrant skinny woman damn i wanna fuck box so bad maybe if i 180 her job poast she'll have sex with me online (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49956946) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 9:38 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49957017) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 9:44 PM Author: Pearly duck-like tanning salon mad cow disease (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49957040) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 10:40 PM Author: Gay underhanded hall sometime earlier this year i had an epiphany that my entire life has been a spectacle of a long form pervasive humiliation ritual where i earnestly study academics that are largely made up and work white collar for absolutely nothing of worth till a computer script replaces me
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 10:43 PM Author: Vigorous Amber Lay cr that's why you have to have hobbies and interests and not put all of your self-worth or Sense of Purpose into work (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49957170) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 10:45 PM Author: Gay underhanded hall im jewish i dont even have the biological capacity for that (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49957174) |
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Date: June 24th, 2026 3:24 AM Author: offensive gas station water buffalo they're only "made up" because you're homeless ricky (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49960213) |
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Date: June 24th, 2026 4:21 AM Author: Gay underhanded hall not just here but spiritually also (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876293&forum_id=2)#49960235) |