Effortpoast on the morality of releasing a Box voicemail from our last day
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Date: March 18th, 2022 1:15 PM Author: Confused sweet tailpipe
Quick recap:
She's already betrayed my trust in enormous ways, posted hundreds of emails, private documents, certain elements of my IRL identity, threatened to go absolutely full nuclear, played tons of BPD games antagonizing me. The VM would put into light for the first time the true character of our (post-)relationship and is genuinely shocking and disturbing.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5061992&forum_id=2).#44173017) |
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Date: March 18th, 2022 1:55 PM Author: Mint marvelous tanning salon round eye
that's not it. he's dangling it to torture/punish the box.
Once he posts it, the deed is done and he's got nothing over her. By posting about it and threatening, he's maintaining control over her and an ability to make her feel scared and anxious.
Once he posts, he gives that up which is why he never will.
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Date: March 18th, 2022 1:48 PM Author: nudist beady-eyed public bath regret
Everybody knows you're not going to release it, faggot. You're a simp who needs a hugbox any time he sees his ex girlfriend on social media. Nobody - I mean nobody - thinks you've got the goods. You don't. You don't have the goods. You don't have the balls, even if you did have the goods. You're just a brokenhearted, mentally ill wimp, and you're not gonna do a goddamn thing. Mark my words.
On my honor, I will literally eat shit on camera if Arkan comes through on this. I swear to God on all that is holy. I will eat a small piece of dog shit if he releases the voicemails by 8:00 EST tonight. I'll be wearing a mask so as not to out myself, but I promise I'll do it.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5061992&forum_id=2).#44173279) |
Date: March 18th, 2022 2:00 PM Author: Ocher French Chef
The case for not releasing, as I see it, is that:
(i) you obviously still care about her, and it's not a nice thing to do;
(ii) her spreading false messages about you or invading your privacy doesn't justify doing the same to her -- there's no winning scenario in the tit-for-tat game here, so it's best just not to play entirely (and, as a bonus, you get to be the bigger person);
(iii) continued attention on box just validates her and shows her that she's "won" in some way, since (she says, at least) she's okay walking away from you but you're still taking actions based on her (in negotiations of this sort, winner = one who can walk away);
(iv) as others have mentioned, it will prove nothing -- anybody with sense + who has had a BPD GF or two knows approximately what to expect;
(v) there's no reason to do it;
(vi) there's a small but not non-existent risk she will retaliate in some way, which could be irritating.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5061992&forum_id=2).#44173386) |
Date: March 18th, 2022 2:02 PM Author: bipolar meetinghouse haunted graveyard
I’m not sure what’s going to be in the VM that’s going to mean anything.
We’re all well aware that Box likely has a very crazy side after breakup. That isn’t news to us. Most females do. Some males do also as this thread proves.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5061992&forum_id=2).#44173401) |
Date: March 18th, 2022 7:14 PM Author: Milky aromatic fanboi ladyboy
Number one, there is nothing that Box could possibly say/do in these voice mails that will make her sound crazier than you do right now. I keep saying this, but let me repeat it: YOU ARE CRAZIER THAN YOUR BPD EX-GF. That should encourage you to stop poasting and get some serious therapy.
But since you almost certainly won't do that, I would say that you should not release the voice mails, because it will not benefit anyone if you do. Maybe you will make Box feel slightly embarrassed, but given that she regularly posts racy photos and talks about fucking hundreds of guys while taking a huge amount of abuse on this bort, I doubt she really cares that much. Meanwhile you continue your unhealthy obsession with an ex that you have already admitted is not good for you.
On the other hand, if the other poasters actually do put some money in an escrow account so that you will earn $50K+ by releasing the voice mails, then you should release them. Because $50K is worth more than any emotional damage this will do to either you or Box. Hell, if any other poasters actually put some money in escrow and I were Box, I would send you a couple voice mails to share in exchange for a cut of the profits.
I feel slightly guilty using your mental illness as a form of entertainment. But you sure have given me some great procrastination material today.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5061992&forum_id=2).#44175441) |
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