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Wife left: tell me about seeking arrangements

Don’t want to risk hookers and i eventually want to tr...
cyan glittery corner gaping
  09/22/25
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Territorial brindle mediation
  09/23/25
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Territorial brindle mediation
  09/23/25
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Territorial brindle mediation
  09/23/25
I'm not sure you're gonna be able to command top dollar cons...
Stirring boiling water
  09/22/25
If they can’t handle me at my worst they don’t d...
cyan glittery corner gaping
  09/22/25
Your refusal to state your height speaks volumes.
Stirring boiling water
  09/22/25
6’2” 220 (terrible build) Slight receding...
cyan glittery corner gaping
  09/23/25
why did your wife leave you?
twisted theater cuckold
  09/22/25
Wife had a mid life crisis. We married young but waited to h...
cyan glittery corner gaping
  09/23/25
if you have a chance to bludgeon yourself retarded with rust...
crawly bisexual juggernaut
  09/22/25
Grinder.com
Beady-eyed clown
  09/22/25
I don't believe OP is gay, though
Stirring boiling water
  09/23/25
There are some gems on SA if you’re willing to wade th...
beta laser beams
  09/23/25
Search for the seeking arrangement poaster’s threads. ...
contagious irate indian lodge
  09/23/25
wow
cocky theatre
  09/23/25
What's ur $$$$$ situation and geography? DESCRIBE ur terr...
excitant chestnut shrine
  09/23/25
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Territorial brindle mediation
  09/23/25
"Don’t want to risk hookers" I've got som...
Greedy mauve university selfie
  09/23/25
There’s some pros on there for sure but there’s ...
beta laser beams
  09/23/25
It is all literally sex for money.
Greedy mauve university selfie
  09/23/25
They're not hookers. They're just seeking Mutually Benefi...
Stirring boiling water
  09/23/25
Actual professional hookers seem less risky than this.
frum regret french chef
  09/23/25
How so?
beta laser beams
  09/23/25
They're not going to do something dumb like call or text you...
frum regret french chef
  09/23/25
I’d rather deal with an amateur hooker than a professi...
beta laser beams
  09/23/25
professional hookers are in business bcs they are profession...
Pearly infuriating therapy pocket flask
  09/23/25
…?
beta laser beams
  09/23/25
Do not take advice from this poaster. He is dumb.
Vermilion fragrant hissy fit patrolman
  09/23/25
I’m speaking from experience, are you?
beta laser beams
  09/24/25
that's why you give them a burner number and not your real n...
Stirring boiling water
  09/23/25
Also this
beta laser beams
  09/23/25
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Pink orchestra pit hairy legs
  09/23/25
What does this sentence mean: “ start autistically get...
contagious irate indian lodge
  09/23/25
I think he means dedicate your life to hobbies or scholarshi...
beta laser beams
  09/23/25
...
Pink orchestra pit hairy legs
  09/23/25
...
cocky theatre
  09/23/25
The time required to match/vet and potential for headaches t...
Vermilion fragrant hissy fit patrolman
  09/23/25
Or he can go to church and find a decent woman to date/marry
Electric Legend
  09/23/25
1) he says he doesn’t want to marry, 2) dating is very...
Vermilion fragrant hissy fit patrolman
  09/24/25
You will be amazed at how often their cars break down, famil...
nubile friendly grandma brunch
  09/23/25
...
Stirring boiling water
  09/24/25
lol, sounds ghastly
Greedy mauve university selfie
  09/24/25
SA is a huge waste of time. Just hire hookers every now and ...
buff sanctuary
  09/23/25
...
Pink orchestra pit hairy legs
  09/23/25
It is until you get caught in a sting.
Stirring boiling water
  09/24/25
There is no value in this. It died the same way dating apps...
flushed vibrant piazza
  09/24/25
SA Poaster Here... I got into a more serious relationship...
maniacal mad cow disease
  10/21/25
What kind of PPM should I be looking at for high col city?
cyan glittery corner gaping
  10/21/25
WHITE MEN DONT PAY FOR SEX DURR DURR
odious grizzly resort
  11/02/25
Reminder: nyuug isn't a Korean citizen, only has US Passport...
odious grizzly resort
  01/13/26
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odious grizzly resort
  01/13/26
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nyuug
  06/08/26
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nyuug
  06/08/26
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nyuug
  06/08/26
This is like the worst parts of dating plus still having to ...
cyan glittery corner gaping
  01/21/26
These women are nuts
cyan glittery corner gaping
  01/24/26
why not just go hunting the Bumblesauruses?
Long PlayroomPoon Clown Conniption
  06/08/26


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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:05 PM
Author: cyan glittery corner gaping

Don’t want to risk hookers and i eventually want to try dating again but it’s been too long with the wife.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49291749)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: Territorial brindle mediation

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49293910)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:50 AM
Author: Territorial brindle mediation

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49293939)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:40 PM
Author: Territorial brindle mediation

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49296549)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:08 PM
Author: Stirring boiling water

I'm not sure you're gonna be able to command top dollar considering your:

- age;

- height;

- remaining hair

But give it a go!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49291759)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:17 PM
Author: cyan glittery corner gaping

If they can’t handle me at my worst they don’t deserve me at my best

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49291776)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 4:15 PM
Author: Stirring boiling water

Your refusal to state your height speaks volumes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49291944)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:00 AM
Author: cyan glittery corner gaping

6’2”

220 (terrible build)

Slight receding with a widows peak. I don’t look balding yet but I’ve got some worries.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49293643)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 4:15 PM
Author: twisted theater cuckold

why did your wife leave you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49291946)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:04 AM
Author: cyan glittery corner gaping

Wife had a mid life crisis. We married young but waited to have kids so I’m not sure what her problem is.

I work too much is part of it.

She didn’t cuck me before separation but I assume she has by now.

So I’m done.

Don’t really want another wife while my kids are young.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49293651)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 5:11 PM
Author: crawly bisexual juggernaut

if you have a chance to bludgeon yourself retarded with rust caked pipes, do that over and over instead

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49292139)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 5:40 PM
Author: Beady-eyed clown

Grinder.com

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49292243)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:22 PM
Author: Stirring boiling water

I don't believe OP is gay, though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49295397)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:18 AM
Author: beta laser beams

There are some gems on SA if you’re willing to wade through the trash. Ideal would be to find a cute-ish 20-25 yo girl who will have sex for $500 a pop that you can see twice a month or so. There’s a lot of flakes, I suggest quickly moving conversation to “hey let’s meet up for a drink, are you free tonight?” to see if they are serious / interested or not.

Don’t talk about money / sex on the app, wait to meet up and feel things out in person. Hopefully you have a least a little game.

Also, get in shape.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49293677)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:20 AM
Author: contagious irate indian lodge

Search for the seeking arrangement poaster’s threads. All the scholarship you need.

The short version is if you are moderately good looking you’ll do great. Tell them up front you are looking for pay per meet. You will undoubtedly have some kooky situations. Ultimately, you will grow tired of it and your soul will be diminished.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49293681)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:21 PM
Author: cocky theatre

wow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49296963)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: excitant chestnut shrine

What's ur $$$$$ situation and geography?

DESCRIBE ur terrible physique and honestly rate ur facial aesthetics and genetic makeup

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49293908)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: Territorial brindle mediation

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49293911)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:16 PM
Author: Greedy mauve university selfie

"Don’t want to risk hookers"

I've got some bad news about SA

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49294299)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:54 PM
Author: beta laser beams

There’s some pros on there for sure but there’s also some college girls looking for an allowance

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49294402)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 2:57 PM
Author: Greedy mauve university selfie

It is all literally sex for money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49295292)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:23 PM
Author: Stirring boiling water

They're not hookers.

They're just seeking Mutually Beneficial arrangements, tee-hee

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49295402)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:57 PM
Author: frum regret french chef

Actual professional hookers seem less risky than this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49294413)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:59 PM
Author: beta laser beams

How so?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49294425)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 1:18 PM
Author: frum regret french chef

They're not going to do something dumb like call or text you at the wrong time or go nuts on you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49294503)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:15 PM
Author: beta laser beams

I’d rather deal with an amateur hooker than a professional one, the pros are more likely to be sketchy, have a criminal record, drug use, poverty, STDs, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49295355)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 4:23 PM
Author: Pearly infuriating therapy pocket flask

professional hookers are in business bcs they are professional, not on drugs, germ-free, take credit cards where as amateurs are all dirty druggies with std's they dont even know about, "oh that itch/rash/sore/fever, i thought it was cuz I havent showered in 5 days".

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49295517)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:25 PM
Author: beta laser beams

…?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49296355)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:43 PM
Author: Vermilion fragrant hissy fit patrolman

Do not take advice from this poaster. He is dumb.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49296572)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:09 AM
Author: beta laser beams

I’m speaking from experience, are you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49297045)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:23 PM
Author: Stirring boiling water

that's why you give them a burner number and not your real name.

Rookie

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49295406)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 4:13 PM
Author: beta laser beams

Also this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49295494)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 1:00 PM
Author: Pink orchestra pit hairy legs



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49294429)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:14 PM
Author: contagious irate indian lodge

What does this sentence mean: “ start autistically getting to a surrogate activity”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49296185)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:26 PM
Author: beta laser beams

I think he means dedicate your life to hobbies or scholarship instead of wasting time on women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49296383)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:55 PM
Author: Pink orchestra pit hairy legs



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49296940)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:22 PM
Author: cocky theatre



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49296966)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:39 PM
Author: Vermilion fragrant hissy fit patrolman

The time required to match/vet and potential for headaches that can come from the fake dating with SA always seemed like a big negative to me. That single non-parent dude in CO who was lining them up 3 per night and poasted all those pics and sex diaries seemed like the right way to SA. Ie it’s a tool suited to single middle aged dudes with a lot of time to search for a daddy issues Cinderella. But for a single dad with young kids it seems awful. Requires time you don’t have and energy/stress you should spare yourself. If you want to fuck a hot chick, pay over $500/hr (usually $800 in a big city), get a burner, use a fake name, set up a fake LinkedIn and treat yourself to a high end escort every once in a while. No reason that would prevent you from dating later on or concurrently, in fact I’d argue it would improve your performance because you won’t depend on dating for sex, you’ll have more time and you will be more rational in your assessments of potential long term candidates.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49296544)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:16 PM
Author: Electric Legend

Or he can go to church and find a decent woman to date/marry

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49296958)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 3:24 AM
Author: Vermilion fragrant hissy fit patrolman

1) he says he doesn’t want to marry, 2) dating is very hard as a single parent with little kids, 3) the only women at church who see a single dad wrangling two kids and think to themselves “ohh I wonder if he’s single or his wife just has a stomach bug” are 300+ lbs. You’re right that mongering is a soul-rotting practice, but he’s the rare dude where the soul rot is worth the trade for the convenient access to sex with a woman who is otherwise far too attractive for him to ever have a chance with.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49297191)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:47 PM
Author: nubile friendly grandma brunch

You will be amazed at how often their cars break down, family members/pets have costly medical emergencies, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49296638)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:51 AM
Author: Stirring boiling water



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49297113)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 2:08 PM
Author: Greedy mauve university selfie

lol, sounds ghastly

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49298625)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:07 PM
Author: buff sanctuary

SA is a huge waste of time. Just hire hookers every now and then.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49296951)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:10 PM
Author: Pink orchestra pit hairy legs



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49296954)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:50 AM
Author: Stirring boiling water

It is until you get caught in a sting.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49297112)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:03 AM
Author: flushed vibrant piazza

There is no value in this. It died the same way dating apps died. The hot chicks are on instagram and if they need extra cash post on onlyfans. The dude who posted here about SA posted a lot of 30s women. Why bother with that?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49297025)



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Date: October 21st, 2025 5:03 PM
Author: maniacal mad cow disease

SA Poaster Here...

I got into a more serious relationship with a chick I met off a dating app... We ended up having a bunch of mutual friends in common and went from there so I haven't been on SA in ages... I also started doing great on the apps (this takes a bit of time as the algo ranks you and can be frustrating/discouraging at first so be patient), so I got off SA completely.

However, for your situation I think it's fine, just use a google voice burner number and ideally don't take them to where you live until you've hooked up with them at least once and aren't getting any sketchy or crazy vibes. I only say that because you have kids. I met up with plenty of chicks straight at my house straight away, including late at night and it was fine but if I had kids I wouldn't do that.

If you search SA on here you'll get all my poasts which have quite a bit of scholarship on the matter. Ideally you find 1 or 2 you actually have some fun hanging out with who are great in bed and you just keep them on rotation whenever you're free.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49364680)



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Date: October 21st, 2025 5:44 PM
Author: cyan glittery corner gaping

What kind of PPM should I be looking at for high col city?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49364751)



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Date: November 2nd, 2025 7:21 PM
Author: odious grizzly resort

WHITE MEN DONT PAY FOR SEX DURR DURR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49396314)



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Date: January 13th, 2026 6:54 PM
Author: odious grizzly resort

Reminder: nyuug isn't a Korean citizen, only has US Passport

http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3466376&forum_id=2#32188261



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49587124)



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Date: January 13th, 2026 7:08 PM
Author: odious grizzly resort



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49587194)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 12:38 AM
Author: nyuug



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49921692)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 12:54 AM
Author: nyuug



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49921779)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 8:00 PM
Author: nyuug



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49923921)



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Date: January 21st, 2026 5:33 PM
Author: cyan glittery corner gaping

This is like the worst parts of dating plus still having to pay.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49607174)



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Date: January 24th, 2026 9:40 AM
Author: cyan glittery corner gaping

These women are nuts

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49614072)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 5:55 AM
Author: Long PlayroomPoon Clown Conniption ( )

why not just go hunting the Bumblesauruses?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2/#49921905)