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Do you have a good relationship with your parents

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Learning Disabled Light Bbw
  03/15/26
Dad left when I was a toddler, Dont see/speak to him at all ...
narrow-minded bright nursing home
  03/15/26
sorry friend. what happened with yer mum?
Learning Disabled Light Bbw
  03/15/26
Nothing, thats the sad part Had a normal childhood, we just...
narrow-minded bright nursing home
  03/15/26
rofl
effete theater
  03/15/26
tommy what exactly is your relationship with your parents? a...
Domesticated dingle berry
  03/15/26
i dont even know if they are alive and i dont care. i wish t...
effete theater
  03/15/26
how is this even possible. didnt you have some umc upbringin...
Domesticated dingle berry
  03/15/26
yes but my parents were indian shit, i shld have realized so...
effete theater
  03/15/26
what specifically did they do to piss you off so much.
Domesticated dingle berry
  03/15/26
they made him indian
narrow-minded bright nursing home
  03/15/26
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effete theater
  03/15/26
just constant negativity and shit, complete assholes. just i...
effete theater
  03/15/26
i have a great relationship with your mom
Slimy Gas Station Friendly Grandma
  03/15/26
i had a brief relationship with your dad at the bathhouse
Galvanic party of the first part
  03/15/26
he did tell me about meeting a lawyer with a micropenis rece...
Slimy Gas Station Friendly Grandma
  03/15/26
Nope
hateful judgmental ceo trump supporter
  03/15/26
sorry brother. care to expound?
Learning Disabled Light Bbw
  03/15/26
Dad is a raging narcissist. Should have gone no-contact ...
hateful judgmental ceo trump supporter
  03/15/26
Lol
Wonderful Poppy Laser Beams Abode
  03/15/26
:/ expound brother
Learning Disabled Light Bbw
  03/15/26
what does this actually mean for an adult I could just no...
dead hall
  03/15/26
cr this is insane
narrow-minded bright nursing home
  03/15/26
eye of the beholder i guess. but i was going for "not a...
Learning Disabled Light Bbw
  03/15/26
Why would you ever contact them
Wonderful Poppy Laser Beams Abode
  03/15/26
because they'll literally be dead and I don't want to soil m...
dead hall
  03/15/26
Seems kinda retarded
Wonderful Poppy Laser Beams Abode
  03/15/26
you don't know me
dead hall
  03/15/26
I know you can make it on your own without pathetically call...
Wonderful Poppy Laser Beams Abode
  03/15/26
azns do it and they've had the same imperial succession for ...
dead hall
  03/15/26
I dont get this Youre calling them so that they cant &quo...
narrow-minded bright nursing home
  03/15/26
yes I am honoring them per the bible it doesn't take effort....
dead hall
  03/15/26
this is actually tcr Goyim think honoring parents is havi...
cowardly hideous business firm
  03/16/26
Yeah Im Sephardic so this tracks. And the Revenge you get on...
dead hall
  03/16/26
No (dad), cordial but not close (mom) — but tons of cu...
Demanding deer antler windowlicker
  03/15/26
why no for dad was he like 'this kid is a Joke i dgaf'
dead hall
  03/15/26
I used to internalize it but have received enough clarity wi...
Demanding deer antler windowlicker
  03/15/26
did you go to Therapy haha
dead hall
  03/15/26
Not formally. I kinda self-treated though. Does that make it...
Demanding deer antler windowlicker
  03/15/26
you sound Liberal af either way
dead hall
  03/15/26
his dad died in the 9/11 attacks (he was one of the hijacker...
effete theater
  03/15/26
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narrow-minded bright nursing home
  03/15/26
you mean you provide for mom?
Learning Disabled Light Bbw
  03/15/26
They are still married. I Venmo him a certain amount every m...
Demanding deer antler windowlicker
  03/15/26
they live literally next door and we're constantly wavering ...
duck-like hyperactive messiness
  03/15/26
Dad died a while ago and haven't spoken to mom in many years...
exhilarant lay
  03/15/26
Why havent you spoken
narrow-minded bright nursing home
  03/15/26
my mom just blames everything on others, nothing ever positi...
exhilarant lay
  03/15/26
ur caste?
effete theater
  03/15/26
mom died years ago pretty good relationship with my dad
confused mischievous sanctuary sweet tailpipe
  03/15/26
Yes every holiday our huge family gathers at their big rambl...
Crimson Box Office Trust Fund
  03/15/26
Closer to my dad than ever. We talk on the phone at least on...
Elite resort place of business
  03/16/26
better than most people ITT apparently
Magical Meetinghouse
  03/16/26
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maniacal onyx gaping range
  03/16/26


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Date: March 15th, 2026 11:21 AM
Author: Learning Disabled Light Bbw



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Date: March 15th, 2026 11:29 AM
Author: narrow-minded bright nursing home

Dad left when I was a toddler, Dont see/speak to him at all

Mom I send money too but we dont talk much and dont have a meaningful relationship

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49745168)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 11:43 AM
Author: Learning Disabled Light Bbw

sorry friend. what happened with yer mum?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49745196)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 12:54 PM
Author: narrow-minded bright nursing home

Nothing, thats the sad part

Had a normal childhood, we just don't talk or really see each other

Im the only son and I have two sisters who pretty much take up all her time, theyre banshees and constantly cause her aggro with their irl problems and theyre decayign/falling apart in their mid 30s, one has no job and is a tax + other has a shitty job, both unmarried. Mom also is caring for my ailing grandma in her 90s atm overseas so that doesnt help

I just try to support her financially and reduce stress but I am sort of alienated since Ive mainly been surrounded by women mostly my whole life and kinda dont wana deal with the insanity of it

I never call her, I have nothing to talk about/report, its fucked idk. She always says she wants me to call her but its like wtf would I say even. My mom is still young (50s)

Just dont really know how to have a relationship with my mom without just shitting out some kids and then making it about my new family?

Some guys call their mom on facetime and shit and laugh like hyenas and idk how they manage it, I just dotn have that level with her, everything is just so high stakes all the time , hard to explain, we never have normal convos about day to day stuff,.

Its either KIDS or MARRIAGE? or MONEY or ITS THE END OF THE WORLD RIGHT NOW WHAT ARE YOU GONNA DO ABOUT IT.

Idk

No dad doesnt help me navigating all this shit either, going NC just seems easier, fucked up



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Date: March 15th, 2026 11:42 AM
Author: effete theater

rofl

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49745190)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 11:43 AM
Author: Domesticated dingle berry

tommy what exactly is your relationship with your parents? are they alive?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49745194)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 1:51 PM
Author: effete theater

i dont even know if they are alive and i dont care. i wish they had died 40 years ago

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49745508)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 1:56 PM
Author: Domesticated dingle berry

how is this even possible. didnt you have some umc upbringing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49745528)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:14 PM
Author: effete theater

yes but my parents were indian shit, i shld have realized sooner how furked up indians are. looking back jfc what shitty ppl, lack any empathy at all

i know one is det, hoaping the other is too, furk them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49745596)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:35 PM
Author: Domesticated dingle berry

what specifically did they do to piss you off so much.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49745679)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:36 PM
Author: narrow-minded bright nursing home

they made him indian

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49745681)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 3:07 PM
Author: effete theater



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Date: March 15th, 2026 3:08 PM
Author: effete theater

just constant negativity and shit, complete assholes. just imagine the most arrogant whiny manipulative pajeet with no ability to care abt anyone or anything

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Date: March 15th, 2026 11:50 AM
Author: Slimy Gas Station Friendly Grandma

i have a great relationship with your mom



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49745209)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 11:54 AM
Author: Galvanic party of the first part

i had a brief relationship with your dad at the bathhouse

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49745217)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 11:57 AM
Author: Slimy Gas Station Friendly Grandma

he did tell me about meeting a lawyer with a micropenis recently



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Date: March 15th, 2026 12:29 PM
Author: hateful judgmental ceo trump supporter

Nope

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49745288)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 12:33 PM
Author: Learning Disabled Light Bbw

sorry brother. care to expound?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49745296)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 12:42 PM
Author: hateful judgmental ceo trump supporter

Dad is a raging narcissist.

Should have gone no-contact 20 years ago. Not saying permanent estrangement would necessarily have been the ticket. Rather, some periods of NC - with the obvious implication that it could become permanent - would have done both of us a lot of good.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49745319)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 12:38 PM
Author: Wonderful Poppy Laser Beams Abode

Lol

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Date: March 15th, 2026 1:57 PM
Author: Learning Disabled Light Bbw

:/ expound brother

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49745532)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 1:59 PM
Author: dead hall

what does this actually mean for an adult

I could just not call them for years and they'd never call me imo and also idc

If I call them or text them they pick up

so basically it's like any relationship where the person "wants you to know" that they dgaf

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49745538)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:02 PM
Author: narrow-minded bright nursing home

cr this is insane

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49745552)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:04 PM
Author: Learning Disabled Light Bbw

eye of the beholder i guess. but i was going for "not a decidedly antagonistic relationship."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49745564)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:08 PM
Author: Wonderful Poppy Laser Beams Abode

Why would you ever contact them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49745571)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:11 PM
Author: dead hall

because they'll literally be dead and I don't want to soil myself by making their extreme selfishness codified and ratified by forgetting and not remembering that cowgod ever existed just bc they would rather sit in a chair and stare at a wall than deal with my Loser shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49745582)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:13 PM
Author: Wonderful Poppy Laser Beams Abode

Seems kinda retarded

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49745593)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:34 PM
Author: dead hall

you don't know me

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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:50 PM
Author: Wonderful Poppy Laser Beams Abode

I know you can make it on your own without pathetically calling patents that don't like you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49745721)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:55 PM
Author: dead hall

azns do it and they've had the same imperial succession for 2700 years

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49745736)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 4:20 PM
Author: narrow-minded bright nursing home

I dont get this

Youre calling them so that they cant "get away" with forgetting about you ? or youre "saving" them from being total assholes by giving them the opportunity to not be assholes by calling them?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49745964)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 4:21 PM
Author: dead hall

yes I am honoring them per the bible it doesn't take effort. then when i leave they're like "if only he knew how much he sucked" and idc. sephardim follow old testament. i also believe in eye for an eye but none of the jesus shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49745968)



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Date: March 16th, 2026 12:59 AM
Author: cowardly hideous business firm

this is actually tcr

Goyim think honoring parents is having to agree with them and having some emotional dynamic, the hebrew in the original translation is basically helping to serve them as they need and almost like a ketubah vow of food, shelter and clothing at all times

its helped my relationship with them not looking for some disney connection that wil never happen, just check in to make sure theyre good and see them as often as both parties can deal

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49747174)



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Date: March 16th, 2026 10:43 AM
Author: dead hall

Yeah Im Sephardic so this tracks. And the Revenge you get on the “Toxic Narcissist” idiots who had sex aka parents who did a bad job means nothing when they’re Corpses.

Imagine if King David was like “my dad was a Narcissist.” He wouldn’t even be in the bible lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49747803)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:00 PM
Author: Demanding deer antler windowlicker

No (dad), cordial but not close (mom) — but tons of cultural baggage to be there, provide, etc. Can’t go full estrangement like whitey

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49745544)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:02 PM
Author: dead hall

why no for dad was he like 'this kid is a Joke i dgaf'

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49745553)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:10 PM
Author: Demanding deer antler windowlicker

I used to internalize it but have received enough clarity with age to know that he was and is completely incapable and unprepared for being a father.

Having a shit dad is disorienting and often leaves you feeling rudderless, but imho it has made me more self-dependent and resolute than most. But I really did a lot of work on myself to get here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49745577)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:11 PM
Author: dead hall

did you go to Therapy haha

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49745588)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:13 PM
Author: Demanding deer antler windowlicker

Not formally. I kinda self-treated though. Does that make it less valid, idc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49745591)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:34 PM
Author: dead hall

you sound Liberal af either way

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49745671)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:15 PM
Author: effete theater

his dad died in the 9/11 attacks (he was one of the hijackers)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49745598)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:03 PM
Author: narrow-minded bright nursing home



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:06 PM
Author: Learning Disabled Light Bbw

you mean you provide for mom?

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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:11 PM
Author: Demanding deer antler windowlicker

They are still married. I Venmo him a certain amount every month. Have bought him cars, etc. I do it thinking it will benefit my mom as well.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49745586)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:54 PM
Author: duck-like hyperactive messiness

they live literally next door and we're constantly wavering between fighting or getting along great. l'chaim!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49745733)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 4:59 PM
Author: exhilarant lay

Dad died a while ago and haven't spoken to mom in many years, same with my brother. Wouldn't say it's ideal

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49746077)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 5:00 PM
Author: narrow-minded bright nursing home

Why havent you spoken

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49746079)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 5:34 PM
Author: exhilarant lay

my mom just blames everything on others, nothing ever positive from her, like ever. had some tough shit happening in my life and she didn't bother to reach out. brother moved to an emerging market years ago and became unbearable, basically insulting everyone in the family to give him money for some start up ideas, while he never paid anything back and would buy and lose/break shit like expensive cameras, watches, etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49746145)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 5:40 PM
Author: effete theater

ur caste?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49746160)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 5:03 PM
Author: confused mischievous sanctuary sweet tailpipe

mom died years ago pretty good relationship with my dad

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49746082)



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Date: March 15th, 2026 6:06 PM
Author: Crimson Box Office Trust Fund

Yes every holiday our huge family gathers at their big rambling shabby chic lake house and we wear chunky sweaters and play games, cook huge meals, playfully razz each other, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49746221)



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Date: March 16th, 2026 12:38 AM
Author: Elite resort place of business

Closer to my dad than ever. We talk on the phone at least once a week and text now. It's been 18000000

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49747162)



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Date: March 16th, 2026 10:44 AM
Author: Magical Meetinghouse

better than most people ITT apparently

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2/#49747809)



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Date: March 16th, 2026 10:46 AM
Author: maniacal onyx gaping range



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