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Normal to prefer masturbation over sex with wife?

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Trip gay wizard
  05/20/22
in my older age I can’t stand the feeling of an orgasm...
magical whorehouse
  05/20/22
Jfc
Rambunctious Alpha
  05/21/22
I've gone thru periods like this but only v there is some we...
Passionate territorial lodge fortuitous meteor
  05/20/22
That’s pretty mainstream now
magical whorehouse
  05/20/22
other than those periods, youre cool with just fuckin the sa...
Trip gay wizard
  05/20/22
Link?
Rambunctious Alpha
  05/21/22
Describe your wife’s appearance and the tightness of h...
Provocative filthy french chef
  05/20/22
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Puce pocket flask masturbator
  05/20/22
no
internet-worthy set partner
  05/20/22
i'm like this, my wife too. it's just so much easier.
Hilarious ruby institution
  05/20/22
Its just understood and theres no resentment? What your wife...
Trip gay wizard
  05/20/22
i think she wishes we had sex more often but she accepts tha...
Hilarious ruby institution
  05/20/22
so its more on your end and she does it as a response to you...
Trip gay wizard
  05/20/22
yeah that's fair. i have no interest in fucking her.
Hilarious ruby institution
  05/20/22
is she overweight? age?
internet-worthy set partner
  05/20/22
nah she's still pretty thin, not super fit like when we met ...
Hilarious ruby institution
  05/20/22
i've been with my wife for 12 years, married to her for 7 ye...
internet-worthy set partner
  05/20/22
good for you two.
Hilarious ruby institution
  05/20/22
Bad for me, bc I get turned down for sex a couple days a wee...
internet-worthy set partner
  05/20/22
2-4x is really not bad though IMO. Look around on XO - tons...
Vigorous headpube
  05/20/22
Yeah i dont think its about objective physical attractivenes...
Trip gay wizard
  05/20/22
yeah i mean if some hot new slut came into my life i'd be fu...
Hilarious ruby institution
  05/20/22
Life is miserable isn’t it
hairraiser brunch
  05/20/22
for the most part.
Hilarious ruby institution
  05/20/22
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aphrodisiac ultramarine trailer park
  08/26/26
COVID killed it for sure. You can't be around someone nearly...
spectacular mood heaven
  05/20/22
my wife and i both worked from home for about 15 months duri...
internet-worthy set partner
  05/20/22
*2 years of marriage
exciting dysfunction
  05/21/22
rare honesty
Jade cowardly mediation school
  05/20/22
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Razzmatazz ticket booth roast beef
  05/20/22
you are a slave, a perfect subject for Zuck's "metavers...
Scarlet outnumbered theater stage
  05/20/22
oh ok *gets dick hard to fuck aging woman who just griped...
Trip gay wizard
  05/20/22
(*gets dick hard for digital image of woman he will never to...
Scarlet outnumbered theater stage
  05/20/22
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Jade cowardly mediation school
  05/20/22
Women view sex as a “give” and they want to take...
Emerald marketing idea
  05/20/22
not all relationships degrade into transactionalism
Scarlet outnumbered theater stage
  05/20/22
Go get married and report back after a couple years, sucker
Emerald marketing idea
  05/20/22
I've been married well over a decade
Scarlet outnumbered theater stage
  05/20/22
And how often do you have sex? You’re trying to argue...
Emerald marketing idea
  05/20/22
frequently & yes. presumably you were in a relationsh...
Scarlet outnumbered theater stage
  05/20/22
xo posters are betabucks losers that women only fuck for res...
light talking locale
  05/20/22
Relationships are not the same as marriage & you’r...
Emerald marketing idea
  05/20/22
why would I lie to you? what have I ever done on XO that wou...
Scarlet outnumbered theater stage
  05/20/22
lol cmon man
Trip gay wizard
  05/20/22
You’re pumo scum you tell me
Emerald marketing idea
  05/20/22
pumanimals are not pumos, come on
Scarlet outnumbered theater stage
  05/20/22
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azure karate center
  05/20/22
So, you need to understand where xo Melvins are comimg from....
azure karate center
  05/20/22
well this response for one
Jade cowardly mediation school
  05/20/22
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Trip gay wizard
  05/20/22
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Emerald marketing idea
  05/20/22
I'm genuinely confused, it's not like I have some history on...
Scarlet outnumbered theater stage
  05/20/22
who cares about your "history," its about the shit...
Trip gay wizard
  05/20/22
what did he say, that frequent sex with a wife is possible? ...
internet-worthy set partner
  05/20/22
OP isnt about whether you can "possibly" fuck your...
Trip gay wizard
  05/20/22
idgi. i am in the same boat as pumanimal. i know from exper...
internet-worthy set partner
  05/20/22
would you say its normal to prefer that over masturbation? ...
Trip gay wizard
  05/20/22
yes, i think it's normal. by 'possible' i mean that i pr...
internet-worthy set partner
  05/20/22
fair
Trip gay wizard
  05/20/22
if you think what I'm saying is so obviously untrue, I feel ...
Scarlet outnumbered theater stage
  05/20/22
When i need it to be fast, absolutely. But if i have 30 minu...
azure karate center
  05/20/22
I look forward to masturbating later while I'm having sex wi...
Harsh windowlicker
  05/21/22
you sound like a bitch boi
Orchid indian lodge
  05/21/22
100% true for me. My wife is old and overweight and insists ...
Maniacal Spot
  05/21/22
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Trip gay wizard
  05/21/22
and cheat when I can tp
Hateful Candlestick Maker
  08/26/26
I dont even feel like fumming but my body forces me to like ...
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  08/26/26


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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:44 AM
Author: Trip gay wizard



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44543233)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:45 AM
Author: magical whorehouse

in my older age I can’t stand the feeling of an orgasm. too intense. It just irritates me and puts me in a shitty mood

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44543235)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:33 PM
Author: Rambunctious Alpha

Jfc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44551901)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:45 AM
Author: Passionate territorial lodge fortuitous meteor

I've gone thru periods like this but only v there is some weird fetish that appealed to me. For a few weeks, I was really into chicks high on meth having sex. I know, sick fuck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44543237)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:46 AM
Author: magical whorehouse

That’s pretty mainstream now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44543242)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:53 AM
Author: Trip gay wizard

other than those periods, youre cool with just fuckin the same woman over the visual stimulation of a wider range of chicks?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44543679)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:34 PM
Author: Rambunctious Alpha

Link?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44551907)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:48 AM
Author: Provocative filthy french chef

Describe your wife’s appearance and the tightness of her puss

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44543244)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:55 AM
Author: Puce pocket flask masturbator



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44543693)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:55 AM
Author: internet-worthy set partner

no

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44543698)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:02 AM
Author: Hilarious ruby institution

i'm like this, my wife too. it's just so much easier.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44543739)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:04 AM
Author: Trip gay wizard

Its just understood and theres no resentment? What your wife fantasize about?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44543750)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:06 AM
Author: Hilarious ruby institution

i think she wishes we had sex more often but she accepts that it's a normal part of marriage. none of her friends fuck their spouses anymore either. and even when we do it's kind of comical, like, what the fuck are we doing we feel like siblings?

i don't know what she fantasizes about but she watches porn.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44543759)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:10 AM
Author: Trip gay wizard

so its more on your end and she does it as a response to your lack of drive?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44543778)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: Hilarious ruby institution

yeah that's fair. i have no interest in fucking her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44543844)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:32 AM
Author: internet-worthy set partner

is she overweight? age?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44543883)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:35 AM
Author: Hilarious ruby institution

nah she's still pretty thin, not super fit like when we met but not fat at all. we've just fought so much over the years that i don't have any desire for her anymore. she feels more like a roommate that i have to constantly negotiate with. also maybe some of it is due to COVID and spending literally 24/7 together for 2 years. we're 40.

but again, it's totally normal not to fuck anymore after 10 years of marriage. hell most people stop after 3 or 4 years. it just gets old man and familiarity breeds contempt.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44543899)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:43 AM
Author: internet-worthy set partner

i've been with my wife for 12 years, married to her for 7 years and i still want to fuck her daily. in practice we only manage 2-4 times per week, largely bc her sex drive is less than mine and life isn't easy with two kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44543956)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:48 AM
Author: Hilarious ruby institution

good for you two.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44544022)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:04 PM
Author: internet-worthy set partner

Bad for me, bc I get turned down for sex a couple days a week

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44544124)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 3:09 PM
Author: Vigorous headpube

2-4x is really not bad though IMO. Look around on XO - tons of these guys' wives won't fuck them at all.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44545213)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:43 AM
Author: Trip gay wizard

Yeah i dont think its about objective physical attractiveness. Just arguing and hashing out all the real life shit doesn't do anything to increase sexual desire compared to some hot chick whose psychological hangups you know nothing about lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44543961)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:48 AM
Author: Hilarious ruby institution

yeah i mean if some hot new slut came into my life i'd be fucking her several times a day, but eventually we'd get to the same point. it's all so tiresome.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44544016)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:54 AM
Author: hairraiser brunch

Life is miserable isn’t it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44544062)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:55 AM
Author: Hilarious ruby institution

for the most part.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44544063)



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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:52 AM
Author: aphrodisiac ultramarine trailer park



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#50093926)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:17 PM
Author: spectacular mood heaven

COVID killed it for sure. You can't be around someone nearly 24/7 and keep a spark going. You just become roommates or siblings. She's been sick this week, so we've started sleeping in different rooms and it's been 180. I feel great when I wake up in the morning.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44544182)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 3:05 PM
Author: internet-worthy set partner

my wife and i both worked from home for about 15 months during COVID. but yeah, we sleep in separate rooms at least 3 or 4 times a month and it helped.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44545191)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:28 PM
Author: exciting dysfunction

*2 years of marriage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44551859)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:34 AM
Author: Jade cowardly mediation school

rare honesty

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44543890)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 1:52 PM
Author: Razzmatazz ticket booth roast beef



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44544744)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:14 AM
Author: Scarlet outnumbered theater stage

you are a slave, a perfect subject for Zuck's "metaverse," a terminal faggot who prefers the simulacrum to the real

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44543794)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:22 AM
Author: Trip gay wizard

oh ok

*gets dick hard to fuck aging woman who just griped about the work entailed in raising 2 kids, bitched about her coworkers, and detailed the intricacies of properly loading the dishwasher*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44543836)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: Scarlet outnumbered theater stage

(*gets dick hard for digital image of woman he will never touch tenderly penetrated by two dicks he begins to secretly wish were inside him*)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44543848)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:34 AM
Author: Jade cowardly mediation school



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44543894)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: Emerald marketing idea

Women view sex as a “give” and they want to take from you after it

That’s why it’s not worth it half the time

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44543845)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:28 AM
Author: Scarlet outnumbered theater stage

not all relationships degrade into transactionalism

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44543864)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:30 AM
Author: Emerald marketing idea

Go get married and report back after a couple years, sucker

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44543875)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:39 AM
Author: Scarlet outnumbered theater stage

I've been married well over a decade

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44543932)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:40 AM
Author: Emerald marketing idea

And how often do you have sex? You’re trying to argue with a straight face she doesn’t use sex to extract resources?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44543938)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:49 AM
Author: Scarlet outnumbered theater stage

frequently & yes.

presumably you were in a relationship where this *didn't* happen at some point, right?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44544027)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:50 AM
Author: light talking locale

xo posters are betabucks losers that women only fuck for resources.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44544035)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:51 AM
Author: Emerald marketing idea

Relationships are not the same as marriage & you’re a liar, hth

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44544042)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:53 AM
Author: Scarlet outnumbered theater stage

why would I lie to you? what have I ever done on XO that would make me come off as a liar. please tell me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44544055)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:57 AM
Author: Trip gay wizard

lol cmon man

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44544083)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:58 AM
Author: Emerald marketing idea

You’re pumo scum you tell me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44544088)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: Scarlet outnumbered theater stage

pumanimals are not pumos, come on

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44544107)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:05 PM
Author: azure karate center



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44544128)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 2:18 PM
Author: azure karate center

So, you need to understand where xo Melvins are comimg from. They don't choose women based on being a good fit. In fact, they think the women who are like them (intelligent and disinterested in getting dolled up) are the bane of this world. So, instead they date whores. Since they never even attempt to have a real relationship, it's transactional. And since they are so repulsive, the women constantly feel like they've been screwed in this deal, and get more bitter and angry and exploitative of their pathetic excuse of a husband.

Don't feel bad that these people can't understand our lives.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44544916)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:00 PM
Author: Jade cowardly mediation school

well this response for one

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44544097)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: Trip gay wizard



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44544103)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: Emerald marketing idea



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44544105)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:03 PM
Author: Scarlet outnumbered theater stage

I'm genuinely confused, it's not like I have some history on the boart of being a braggart, then I could understand.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44544120)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:06 PM
Author: Trip gay wizard

who cares about your "history," its about the shit youre saying

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44544134)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:09 PM
Author: internet-worthy set partner

what did he say, that frequent sex with a wife is possible? depends how you define frequent, but multiple times per week is certainly possible even after years of marriage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44544146)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:15 PM
Author: Trip gay wizard

OP isnt about whether you can "possibly" fuck your wife a couple times a week

question is about preference

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44544174)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:18 PM
Author: internet-worthy set partner

idgi. i am in the same boat as pumanimal. i know from experience it's possible to prefer and engage in frequent sex with your wife after years of marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44544188)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:20 PM
Author: Trip gay wizard

would you say its normal to prefer that over masturbation?

dont know where "possible" became the standard

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44544205)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:23 PM
Author: internet-worthy set partner

yes, i think it's normal.

by 'possible' i mean that i prefer sex with my wife over masturbation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44544220)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:27 PM
Author: Trip gay wizard

fair

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44544237)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:16 PM
Author: Scarlet outnumbered theater stage

if you think what I'm saying is so obviously untrue, I feel sorry for you, and will say a prayer for you, pumo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44544175)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 2:19 PM
Author: azure karate center

When i need it to be fast, absolutely. But if i have 30 minutes to spare, i like going to pound town

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44544919)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 4:28 AM
Author: Harsh windowlicker

I look forward to masturbating later while I'm having sex with my wife

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44548580)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 10:00 PM
Author: Orchid indian lodge

you sound like a bitch boi

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44552039)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:41 PM
Author: Maniacal Spot

100% true for me. My wife is old and overweight and insists that I finger her for like an hour before I can go inside. It's just not worth that much work for low-quality sex. I'd rather just quickly jack off before bed and cheat when I can.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44551937)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:55 PM
Author: Trip gay wizard



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#44552011)



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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:52 AM
Author: Hateful Candlestick Maker

and cheat when I can tp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#50093928)



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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:54 AM
Author: claret insanely creepy persian party of the first part

I dont even feel like fumming but my body forces me to like eating or breathing

Def don't want sex anymore

Barely can even get hard for wife

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en/#50093931)