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Normal to prefer masturbation over sex with wife?

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Ocher filthpig roast beef
  05/20/22
in my older age I can’t stand the feeling of an orgasm...
light preventive strike generalized bond
  05/20/22
Jfc
offensive jet yarmulke useless brakes
  05/21/22
I've gone thru periods like this but only v there is some we...
Carmine school cafeteria
  05/20/22
That’s pretty mainstream now
light preventive strike generalized bond
  05/20/22
other than those periods, youre cool with just fuckin the sa...
Ocher filthpig roast beef
  05/20/22
Link?
offensive jet yarmulke useless brakes
  05/21/22
Describe your wife’s appearance and the tightness of h...
Stirring den
  05/20/22
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drunken legal warrant nursing home
  05/20/22
no
Swollen floppy stock car home
  05/20/22
i'm like this, my wife too. it's just so much easier.
Flushed Half-breed
  05/20/22
Its just understood and theres no resentment? What your wife...
Ocher filthpig roast beef
  05/20/22
i think she wishes we had sex more often but she accepts tha...
Flushed Half-breed
  05/20/22
so its more on your end and she does it as a response to you...
Ocher filthpig roast beef
  05/20/22
yeah that's fair. i have no interest in fucking her.
Flushed Half-breed
  05/20/22
is she overweight? age?
Swollen floppy stock car home
  05/20/22
nah she's still pretty thin, not super fit like when we met ...
Flushed Half-breed
  05/20/22
i've been with my wife for 12 years, married to her for 7 ye...
Swollen floppy stock car home
  05/20/22
good for you two.
Flushed Half-breed
  05/20/22
Bad for me, bc I get turned down for sex a couple days a wee...
Swollen floppy stock car home
  05/20/22
2-4x is really not bad though IMO. Look around on XO - tons...
rough-skinned hunting ground
  05/20/22
Yeah i dont think its about objective physical attractivenes...
Ocher filthpig roast beef
  05/20/22
yeah i mean if some hot new slut came into my life i'd be fu...
Flushed Half-breed
  05/20/22
Life is miserable isn’t it
medicated insanely creepy tank
  05/20/22
for the most part.
Flushed Half-breed
  05/20/22
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Monikor
  08/26/26
COVID killed it for sure. You can't be around someone nearly...
swashbuckling shrine
  05/20/22
my wife and i both worked from home for about 15 months duri...
Swollen floppy stock car home
  05/20/22
*2 years of marriage
crimson box office rigor
  05/21/22
rare honesty
Pink lay wrinkle
  05/20/22
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yapping transparent sex offender liquid oxygen
  05/20/22
you are a slave, a perfect subject for Zuck's "metavers...
slap-happy parlour
  05/20/22
oh ok *gets dick hard to fuck aging woman who just griped...
Ocher filthpig roast beef
  05/20/22
(*gets dick hard for digital image of woman he will never to...
slap-happy parlour
  05/20/22
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Pink lay wrinkle
  05/20/22
Women view sex as a “give” and they want to take...
ebony background story market
  05/20/22
not all relationships degrade into transactionalism
slap-happy parlour
  05/20/22
Go get married and report back after a couple years, sucker
ebony background story market
  05/20/22
I've been married well over a decade
slap-happy parlour
  05/20/22
And how often do you have sex? You’re trying to argue...
ebony background story market
  05/20/22
frequently & yes. presumably you were in a relationsh...
slap-happy parlour
  05/20/22
xo posters are betabucks losers that women only fuck for res...
chartreuse aphrodisiac people who are hurt faggotry
  05/20/22
Relationships are not the same as marriage & you’r...
ebony background story market
  05/20/22
why would I lie to you? what have I ever done on XO that wou...
slap-happy parlour
  05/20/22
lol cmon man
Ocher filthpig roast beef
  05/20/22
You’re pumo scum you tell me
ebony background story market
  05/20/22
pumanimals are not pumos, come on
slap-happy parlour
  05/20/22
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Free-loading excitant incel cuckoldry
  05/20/22
So, you need to understand where xo Melvins are comimg from....
Free-loading excitant incel cuckoldry
  05/20/22
well this response for one
Pink lay wrinkle
  05/20/22
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Ocher filthpig roast beef
  05/20/22
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ebony background story market
  05/20/22
I'm genuinely confused, it's not like I have some history on...
slap-happy parlour
  05/20/22
who cares about your "history," its about the shit...
Ocher filthpig roast beef
  05/20/22
what did he say, that frequent sex with a wife is possible? ...
Swollen floppy stock car home
  05/20/22
OP isnt about whether you can "possibly" fuck your...
Ocher filthpig roast beef
  05/20/22
idgi. i am in the same boat as pumanimal. i know from exper...
Swollen floppy stock car home
  05/20/22
would you say its normal to prefer that over masturbation? ...
Ocher filthpig roast beef
  05/20/22
yes, i think it's normal. by 'possible' i mean that i pr...
Swollen floppy stock car home
  05/20/22
fair
Ocher filthpig roast beef
  05/20/22
if you think what I'm saying is so obviously untrue, I feel ...
slap-happy parlour
  05/20/22
When i need it to be fast, absolutely. But if i have 30 minu...
Free-loading excitant incel cuckoldry
  05/20/22
I look forward to masturbating later while I'm having sex wi...
Bat-shit-crazy olive toaster church
  05/21/22
you sound like a bitch boi
Laughsome Jap
  05/21/22
100% true for me. My wife is old and overweight and insists ...
Sable ticket booth
  05/21/22
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Ocher filthpig roast beef
  05/21/22
and cheat when I can tp
lfo
  08/26/26
I dont even feel like fumming but my body forces me to like ...
coalition of rabbis
  08/26/26


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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:44 AM
Author: Ocher filthpig roast beef



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44543233)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:45 AM
Author: light preventive strike generalized bond

in my older age I can’t stand the feeling of an orgasm. too intense. It just irritates me and puts me in a shitty mood

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44543235)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:33 PM
Author: offensive jet yarmulke useless brakes

Jfc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44551901)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:45 AM
Author: Carmine school cafeteria

I've gone thru periods like this but only v there is some weird fetish that appealed to me. For a few weeks, I was really into chicks high on meth having sex. I know, sick fuck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44543237)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:46 AM
Author: light preventive strike generalized bond

That’s pretty mainstream now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44543242)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:53 AM
Author: Ocher filthpig roast beef

other than those periods, youre cool with just fuckin the same woman over the visual stimulation of a wider range of chicks?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44543679)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:34 PM
Author: offensive jet yarmulke useless brakes

Link?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44551907)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:48 AM
Author: Stirring den

Describe your wife’s appearance and the tightness of her puss

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44543244)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:55 AM
Author: drunken legal warrant nursing home



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44543693)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:55 AM
Author: Swollen floppy stock car home

no

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44543698)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:02 AM
Author: Flushed Half-breed

i'm like this, my wife too. it's just so much easier.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44543739)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:04 AM
Author: Ocher filthpig roast beef

Its just understood and theres no resentment? What your wife fantasize about?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44543750)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:06 AM
Author: Flushed Half-breed

i think she wishes we had sex more often but she accepts that it's a normal part of marriage. none of her friends fuck their spouses anymore either. and even when we do it's kind of comical, like, what the fuck are we doing we feel like siblings?

i don't know what she fantasizes about but she watches porn.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44543759)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:10 AM
Author: Ocher filthpig roast beef

so its more on your end and she does it as a response to your lack of drive?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44543778)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: Flushed Half-breed

yeah that's fair. i have no interest in fucking her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44543844)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:32 AM
Author: Swollen floppy stock car home

is she overweight? age?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44543883)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:35 AM
Author: Flushed Half-breed

nah she's still pretty thin, not super fit like when we met but not fat at all. we've just fought so much over the years that i don't have any desire for her anymore. she feels more like a roommate that i have to constantly negotiate with. also maybe some of it is due to COVID and spending literally 24/7 together for 2 years. we're 40.

but again, it's totally normal not to fuck anymore after 10 years of marriage. hell most people stop after 3 or 4 years. it just gets old man and familiarity breeds contempt.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44543899)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:43 AM
Author: Swollen floppy stock car home

i've been with my wife for 12 years, married to her for 7 years and i still want to fuck her daily. in practice we only manage 2-4 times per week, largely bc her sex drive is less than mine and life isn't easy with two kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44543956)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:48 AM
Author: Flushed Half-breed

good for you two.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44544022)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:04 PM
Author: Swollen floppy stock car home

Bad for me, bc I get turned down for sex a couple days a week

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44544124)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 3:09 PM
Author: rough-skinned hunting ground

2-4x is really not bad though IMO. Look around on XO - tons of these guys' wives won't fuck them at all.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44545213)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:43 AM
Author: Ocher filthpig roast beef

Yeah i dont think its about objective physical attractiveness. Just arguing and hashing out all the real life shit doesn't do anything to increase sexual desire compared to some hot chick whose psychological hangups you know nothing about lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44543961)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:48 AM
Author: Flushed Half-breed

yeah i mean if some hot new slut came into my life i'd be fucking her several times a day, but eventually we'd get to the same point. it's all so tiresome.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44544016)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:54 AM
Author: medicated insanely creepy tank

Life is miserable isn’t it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44544062)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:55 AM
Author: Flushed Half-breed

for the most part.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44544063)



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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:52 AM
Author: Monikor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#50093926)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:17 PM
Author: swashbuckling shrine

COVID killed it for sure. You can't be around someone nearly 24/7 and keep a spark going. You just become roommates or siblings. She's been sick this week, so we've started sleeping in different rooms and it's been 180. I feel great when I wake up in the morning.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44544182)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 3:05 PM
Author: Swollen floppy stock car home

my wife and i both worked from home for about 15 months during COVID. but yeah, we sleep in separate rooms at least 3 or 4 times a month and it helped.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44545191)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:28 PM
Author: crimson box office rigor

*2 years of marriage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44551859)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:34 AM
Author: Pink lay wrinkle

rare honesty

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44543890)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 1:52 PM
Author: yapping transparent sex offender liquid oxygen



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44544744)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:14 AM
Author: slap-happy parlour

you are a slave, a perfect subject for Zuck's "metaverse," a terminal faggot who prefers the simulacrum to the real

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44543794)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:22 AM
Author: Ocher filthpig roast beef

oh ok

*gets dick hard to fuck aging woman who just griped about the work entailed in raising 2 kids, bitched about her coworkers, and detailed the intricacies of properly loading the dishwasher*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44543836)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: slap-happy parlour

(*gets dick hard for digital image of woman he will never touch tenderly penetrated by two dicks he begins to secretly wish were inside him*)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44543848)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:34 AM
Author: Pink lay wrinkle



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44543894)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: ebony background story market

Women view sex as a “give” and they want to take from you after it

That’s why it’s not worth it half the time

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44543845)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:28 AM
Author: slap-happy parlour

not all relationships degrade into transactionalism

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44543864)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:30 AM
Author: ebony background story market

Go get married and report back after a couple years, sucker

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44543875)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:39 AM
Author: slap-happy parlour

I've been married well over a decade

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44543932)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:40 AM
Author: ebony background story market

And how often do you have sex? You’re trying to argue with a straight face she doesn’t use sex to extract resources?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44543938)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:49 AM
Author: slap-happy parlour

frequently & yes.

presumably you were in a relationship where this *didn't* happen at some point, right?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44544027)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:50 AM
Author: chartreuse aphrodisiac people who are hurt faggotry

xo posters are betabucks losers that women only fuck for resources.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44544035)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:51 AM
Author: ebony background story market

Relationships are not the same as marriage & you’re a liar, hth

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44544042)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:53 AM
Author: slap-happy parlour

why would I lie to you? what have I ever done on XO that would make me come off as a liar. please tell me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44544055)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:57 AM
Author: Ocher filthpig roast beef

lol cmon man

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44544083)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:58 AM
Author: ebony background story market

You’re pumo scum you tell me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44544088)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: slap-happy parlour

pumanimals are not pumos, come on

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44544107)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:05 PM
Author: Free-loading excitant incel cuckoldry



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44544128)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 2:18 PM
Author: Free-loading excitant incel cuckoldry

So, you need to understand where xo Melvins are comimg from. They don't choose women based on being a good fit. In fact, they think the women who are like them (intelligent and disinterested in getting dolled up) are the bane of this world. So, instead they date whores. Since they never even attempt to have a real relationship, it's transactional. And since they are so repulsive, the women constantly feel like they've been screwed in this deal, and get more bitter and angry and exploitative of their pathetic excuse of a husband.

Don't feel bad that these people can't understand our lives.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44544916)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:00 PM
Author: Pink lay wrinkle

well this response for one

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44544097)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: Ocher filthpig roast beef



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44544103)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: ebony background story market



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44544105)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:03 PM
Author: slap-happy parlour

I'm genuinely confused, it's not like I have some history on the boart of being a braggart, then I could understand.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44544120)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:06 PM
Author: Ocher filthpig roast beef

who cares about your "history," its about the shit youre saying

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44544134)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:09 PM
Author: Swollen floppy stock car home

what did he say, that frequent sex with a wife is possible? depends how you define frequent, but multiple times per week is certainly possible even after years of marriage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44544146)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:15 PM
Author: Ocher filthpig roast beef

OP isnt about whether you can "possibly" fuck your wife a couple times a week

question is about preference

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44544174)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:18 PM
Author: Swollen floppy stock car home

idgi. i am in the same boat as pumanimal. i know from experience it's possible to prefer and engage in frequent sex with your wife after years of marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44544188)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:20 PM
Author: Ocher filthpig roast beef

would you say its normal to prefer that over masturbation?

dont know where "possible" became the standard

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44544205)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:23 PM
Author: Swollen floppy stock car home

yes, i think it's normal.

by 'possible' i mean that i prefer sex with my wife over masturbation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44544220)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:27 PM
Author: Ocher filthpig roast beef

fair

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44544237)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:16 PM
Author: slap-happy parlour

if you think what I'm saying is so obviously untrue, I feel sorry for you, and will say a prayer for you, pumo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44544175)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 2:19 PM
Author: Free-loading excitant incel cuckoldry

When i need it to be fast, absolutely. But if i have 30 minutes to spare, i like going to pound town

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44544919)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 4:28 AM
Author: Bat-shit-crazy olive toaster church

I look forward to masturbating later while I'm having sex with my wife

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44548580)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 10:00 PM
Author: Laughsome Jap

you sound like a bitch boi

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2/en-en#44552039)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:41 PM
Author: Sable ticket booth

100% true for me. My wife is old and overweight and insists that I finger her for like an hour before I can go inside. It's just not worth that much work for low-quality sex. I'd rather just quickly jack off before bed and cheat when I can.

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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:55 PM
Author: Ocher filthpig roast beef



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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:52 AM
Author: lfo

and cheat when I can tp

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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:54 AM
Author: coalition of rabbis

I dont even feel like fumming but my body forces me to like eating or breathing

Def don't want sex anymore

Barely can even get hard for wife

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