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Wife left: tell me about seeking arrangements

Don’t want to risk hookers and i eventually want to tr...
sticky godawful market
  09/22/25
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shivering faggotry
  09/23/25
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shivering faggotry
  09/23/25
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shivering faggotry
  09/23/25
I'm not sure you're gonna be able to command top dollar cons...
Misunderstood giraffe lay
  09/22/25
If they can’t handle me at my worst they don’t d...
sticky godawful market
  09/22/25
Your refusal to state your height speaks volumes.
Misunderstood giraffe lay
  09/22/25
6’2” 220 (terrible build) Slight receding...
sticky godawful market
  09/23/25
why did your wife leave you?
flushed theater stage marketing idea
  09/22/25
Wife had a mid life crisis. We married young but waited to h...
sticky godawful market
  09/23/25
if you have a chance to bludgeon yourself retarded with rust...
Lavender stage
  09/22/25
Grinder.com
puce at-the-ready double fault half-breed
  09/22/25
I don't believe OP is gay, though
Misunderstood giraffe lay
  09/23/25
There are some gems on SA if you’re willing to wade th...
bipolar vivacious affirmative action
  09/23/25
Search for the seeking arrangement poaster’s threads. ...
floppy address boistinker
  09/23/25
wow
Appetizing out-of-control stage idiot
  09/23/25
What's ur $$$$$ situation and geography? DESCRIBE ur terr...
hairraiser disgusting dragon hell
  09/23/25
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shivering faggotry
  09/23/25
"Don’t want to risk hookers" I've got som...
Lime multi-colored indian lodge shitlib
  09/23/25
There’s some pros on there for sure but there’s ...
bipolar vivacious affirmative action
  09/23/25
It is all literally sex for money.
Lime multi-colored indian lodge shitlib
  09/23/25
They're not hookers. They're just seeking Mutually Benefi...
Misunderstood giraffe lay
  09/23/25
Actual professional hookers seem less risky than this.
drunken electric codepig
  09/23/25
How so?
bipolar vivacious affirmative action
  09/23/25
They're not going to do something dumb like call or text you...
drunken electric codepig
  09/23/25
I’d rather deal with an amateur hooker than a professi...
bipolar vivacious affirmative action
  09/23/25
professional hookers are in business bcs they are profession...
opaque cracking goal in life
  09/23/25
…?
bipolar vivacious affirmative action
  09/23/25
Do not take advice from this poaster. He is dumb.
Vigorous red queen of the night
  09/23/25
I’m speaking from experience, are you?
bipolar vivacious affirmative action
  09/24/25
that's why you give them a burner number and not your real n...
Misunderstood giraffe lay
  09/23/25
Also this
bipolar vivacious affirmative action
  09/23/25
...
jet-lagged psychic stead
  09/23/25
What does this sentence mean: “ start autistically get...
floppy address boistinker
  09/23/25
I think he means dedicate your life to hobbies or scholarshi...
bipolar vivacious affirmative action
  09/23/25
...
jet-lagged psychic stead
  09/23/25
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Appetizing out-of-control stage idiot
  09/23/25
The time required to match/vet and potential for headaches t...
Vigorous red queen of the night
  09/23/25
Or he can go to church and find a decent woman to date/marry
Sable submissive rigor
  09/23/25
1) he says he doesn’t want to marry, 2) dating is very...
Vigorous red queen of the night
  09/24/25
You will be amazed at how often their cars break down, famil...
sinister razzle-dazzle center circlehead
  09/23/25
...
Misunderstood giraffe lay
  09/24/25
lol, sounds ghastly
Lime multi-colored indian lodge shitlib
  09/24/25
SA is a huge waste of time. Just hire hookers every now and ...
Galvanic mildly autistic rehab
  09/23/25
...
jet-lagged psychic stead
  09/23/25
It is until you get caught in a sting.
Misunderstood giraffe lay
  09/24/25
There is no value in this. It died the same way dating apps...
Angry Rigpig Patrolman
  09/24/25
SA Poaster Here... I got into a more serious relationship...
salmon 180 temple
  10/21/25
What kind of PPM should I be looking at for high col city?
sticky godawful market
  10/21/25
WHITE MEN DONT PAY FOR SEX DURR DURR
Peach space
  11/02/25
Reminder: nyuug isn't a Korean citizen, only has US Passport...
Peach space
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Peach space
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Peach space
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Peach space
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Peach space
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nyuug
  06/14/26
This is like the worst parts of dating plus still having to ...
sticky godawful market
  01/21/26
These women are nuts
sticky godawful market
  01/24/26
they also enjoy licking your nuts
...,....,,........
  06/17/26
why not just go hunting the Bumblesauruses?
Titillating green dilemma mood
  06/08/26


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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:05 PM
Author: sticky godawful market

Don’t want to risk hookers and i eventually want to try dating again but it’s been too long with the wife.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49291749)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: shivering faggotry

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49293910)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:50 AM
Author: shivering faggotry

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49293939)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:40 PM
Author: shivering faggotry

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49296549)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:08 PM
Author: Misunderstood giraffe lay

I'm not sure you're gonna be able to command top dollar considering your:

- age;

- height;

- remaining hair

But give it a go!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49291759)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:17 PM
Author: sticky godawful market

If they can’t handle me at my worst they don’t deserve me at my best

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49291776)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 4:15 PM
Author: Misunderstood giraffe lay

Your refusal to state your height speaks volumes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49291944)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:00 AM
Author: sticky godawful market

6’2”

220 (terrible build)

Slight receding with a widows peak. I don’t look balding yet but I’ve got some worries.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49293643)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 4:15 PM
Author: flushed theater stage marketing idea

why did your wife leave you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49291946)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:04 AM
Author: sticky godawful market

Wife had a mid life crisis. We married young but waited to have kids so I’m not sure what her problem is.

I work too much is part of it.

She didn’t cuck me before separation but I assume she has by now.

So I’m done.

Don’t really want another wife while my kids are young.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49293651)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 5:11 PM
Author: Lavender stage

if you have a chance to bludgeon yourself retarded with rust caked pipes, do that over and over instead

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49292139)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 5:40 PM
Author: puce at-the-ready double fault half-breed

Grinder.com

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49292243)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:22 PM
Author: Misunderstood giraffe lay

I don't believe OP is gay, though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49295397)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:18 AM
Author: bipolar vivacious affirmative action

There are some gems on SA if you’re willing to wade through the trash. Ideal would be to find a cute-ish 20-25 yo girl who will have sex for $500 a pop that you can see twice a month or so. There’s a lot of flakes, I suggest quickly moving conversation to “hey let’s meet up for a drink, are you free tonight?” to see if they are serious / interested or not.

Don’t talk about money / sex on the app, wait to meet up and feel things out in person. Hopefully you have a least a little game.

Also, get in shape.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49293677)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:20 AM
Author: floppy address boistinker

Search for the seeking arrangement poaster’s threads. All the scholarship you need.

The short version is if you are moderately good looking you’ll do great. Tell them up front you are looking for pay per meet. You will undoubtedly have some kooky situations. Ultimately, you will grow tired of it and your soul will be diminished.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49293681)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:21 PM
Author: Appetizing out-of-control stage idiot

wow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49296963)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: hairraiser disgusting dragon hell

What's ur $$$$$ situation and geography?

DESCRIBE ur terrible physique and honestly rate ur facial aesthetics and genetic makeup

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49293908)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: shivering faggotry

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49293911)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:16 PM
Author: Lime multi-colored indian lodge shitlib

"Don’t want to risk hookers"

I've got some bad news about SA

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49294299)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:54 PM
Author: bipolar vivacious affirmative action

There’s some pros on there for sure but there’s also some college girls looking for an allowance

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49294402)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 2:57 PM
Author: Lime multi-colored indian lodge shitlib

It is all literally sex for money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49295292)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:23 PM
Author: Misunderstood giraffe lay

They're not hookers.

They're just seeking Mutually Beneficial arrangements, tee-hee

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49295402)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:57 PM
Author: drunken electric codepig

Actual professional hookers seem less risky than this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49294413)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:59 PM
Author: bipolar vivacious affirmative action

How so?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49294425)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 1:18 PM
Author: drunken electric codepig

They're not going to do something dumb like call or text you at the wrong time or go nuts on you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49294503)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:15 PM
Author: bipolar vivacious affirmative action

I’d rather deal with an amateur hooker than a professional one, the pros are more likely to be sketchy, have a criminal record, drug use, poverty, STDs, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49295355)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 4:23 PM
Author: opaque cracking goal in life

professional hookers are in business bcs they are professional, not on drugs, germ-free, take credit cards where as amateurs are all dirty druggies with std's they dont even know about, "oh that itch/rash/sore/fever, i thought it was cuz I havent showered in 5 days".

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49295517)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:25 PM
Author: bipolar vivacious affirmative action

…?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49296355)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:43 PM
Author: Vigorous red queen of the night

Do not take advice from this poaster. He is dumb.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49296572)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:09 AM
Author: bipolar vivacious affirmative action

I’m speaking from experience, are you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49297045)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:23 PM
Author: Misunderstood giraffe lay

that's why you give them a burner number and not your real name.

Rookie

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49295406)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 4:13 PM
Author: bipolar vivacious affirmative action

Also this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49295494)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 1:00 PM
Author: jet-lagged psychic stead



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49294429)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:14 PM
Author: floppy address boistinker

What does this sentence mean: “ start autistically getting to a surrogate activity”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49296185)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:26 PM
Author: bipolar vivacious affirmative action

I think he means dedicate your life to hobbies or scholarship instead of wasting time on women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49296383)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:55 PM
Author: jet-lagged psychic stead



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49296940)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:22 PM
Author: Appetizing out-of-control stage idiot



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49296966)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:39 PM
Author: Vigorous red queen of the night

The time required to match/vet and potential for headaches that can come from the fake dating with SA always seemed like a big negative to me. That single non-parent dude in CO who was lining them up 3 per night and poasted all those pics and sex diaries seemed like the right way to SA. Ie it’s a tool suited to single middle aged dudes with a lot of time to search for a daddy issues Cinderella. But for a single dad with young kids it seems awful. Requires time you don’t have and energy/stress you should spare yourself. If you want to fuck a hot chick, pay over $500/hr (usually $800 in a big city), get a burner, use a fake name, set up a fake LinkedIn and treat yourself to a high end escort every once in a while. No reason that would prevent you from dating later on or concurrently, in fact I’d argue it would improve your performance because you won’t depend on dating for sex, you’ll have more time and you will be more rational in your assessments of potential long term candidates.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49296544)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:16 PM
Author: Sable submissive rigor

Or he can go to church and find a decent woman to date/marry

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49296958)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 3:24 AM
Author: Vigorous red queen of the night

1) he says he doesn’t want to marry, 2) dating is very hard as a single parent with little kids, 3) the only women at church who see a single dad wrangling two kids and think to themselves “ohh I wonder if he’s single or his wife just has a stomach bug” are 300+ lbs. You’re right that mongering is a soul-rotting practice, but he’s the rare dude where the soul rot is worth the trade for the convenient access to sex with a woman who is otherwise far too attractive for him to ever have a chance with.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49297191)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:47 PM
Author: sinister razzle-dazzle center circlehead

You will be amazed at how often their cars break down, family members/pets have costly medical emergencies, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49296638)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:51 AM
Author: Misunderstood giraffe lay



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49297113)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 2:08 PM
Author: Lime multi-colored indian lodge shitlib

lol, sounds ghastly

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49298625)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:07 PM
Author: Galvanic mildly autistic rehab

SA is a huge waste of time. Just hire hookers every now and then.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49296951)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:10 PM
Author: jet-lagged psychic stead



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49296954)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:50 AM
Author: Misunderstood giraffe lay

It is until you get caught in a sting.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49297112)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:03 AM
Author: Angry Rigpig Patrolman

There is no value in this. It died the same way dating apps died. The hot chicks are on instagram and if they need extra cash post on onlyfans. The dude who posted here about SA posted a lot of 30s women. Why bother with that?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49297025)



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Date: October 21st, 2025 5:03 PM
Author: salmon 180 temple

SA Poaster Here...

I got into a more serious relationship with a chick I met off a dating app... We ended up having a bunch of mutual friends in common and went from there so I haven't been on SA in ages... I also started doing great on the apps (this takes a bit of time as the algo ranks you and can be frustrating/discouraging at first so be patient), so I got off SA completely.

However, for your situation I think it's fine, just use a google voice burner number and ideally don't take them to where you live until you've hooked up with them at least once and aren't getting any sketchy or crazy vibes. I only say that because you have kids. I met up with plenty of chicks straight at my house straight away, including late at night and it was fine but if I had kids I wouldn't do that.

If you search SA on here you'll get all my poasts which have quite a bit of scholarship on the matter. Ideally you find 1 or 2 you actually have some fun hanging out with who are great in bed and you just keep them on rotation whenever you're free.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49364680)



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Date: October 21st, 2025 5:44 PM
Author: sticky godawful market

What kind of PPM should I be looking at for high col city?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49364751)



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Date: November 2nd, 2025 7:21 PM
Author: Peach space

WHITE MEN DONT PAY FOR SEX DURR DURR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49396314)



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Date: January 13th, 2026 6:54 PM
Author: Peach space

Reminder: nyuug isn't a Korean citizen, only has US Passport

http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3466376&forum_id=2#32188261



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49587124)



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Date: January 13th, 2026 7:08 PM
Author: Peach space



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49587194)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 12:38 AM
Author: Peach space



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49921692)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 12:54 AM
Author: Peach space



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49921779)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 8:00 PM
Author: Peach space



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49923921)



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Date: June 14th, 2026 9:42 PM
Author: nyuug



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49939211)



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Date: January 21st, 2026 5:33 PM
Author: sticky godawful market

This is like the worst parts of dating plus still having to pay.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49607174)



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Date: January 24th, 2026 9:40 AM
Author: sticky godawful market

These women are nuts

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49614072)



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Date: June 17th, 2026 2:03 PM
Author: ...,....,,........

they also enjoy licking your nuts

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49944475)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 5:55 AM
Author: Titillating green dilemma mood

why not just go hunting the Bumblesauruses?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49921905)