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Normal to prefer masturbation over sex with wife?

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white blood rage
  05/20/22
in my older age I can’t stand the feeling of an orgasm...
Nudist frisky multi-billionaire parlor
  05/20/22
Jfc
Motley violent temple
  05/21/22
I've gone thru periods like this but only v there is some we...
jet-lagged skinny woman gunner
  05/20/22
That’s pretty mainstream now
Nudist frisky multi-billionaire parlor
  05/20/22
other than those periods, youre cool with just fuckin the sa...
white blood rage
  05/20/22
Link?
Motley violent temple
  05/21/22
Describe your wife’s appearance and the tightness of h...
Claret Talented Foreskin
  05/20/22
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magenta excitant gaping trailer park
  05/20/22
no
Mewling At-the-ready Chad
  05/20/22
i'm like this, my wife too. it's just so much easier.
idiotic aromatic chapel half-breed
  05/20/22
Its just understood and theres no resentment? What your wife...
white blood rage
  05/20/22
i think she wishes we had sex more often but she accepts tha...
idiotic aromatic chapel half-breed
  05/20/22
so its more on your end and she does it as a response to you...
white blood rage
  05/20/22
yeah that's fair. i have no interest in fucking her.
idiotic aromatic chapel half-breed
  05/20/22
is she overweight? age?
Mewling At-the-ready Chad
  05/20/22
nah she's still pretty thin, not super fit like when we met ...
idiotic aromatic chapel half-breed
  05/20/22
i've been with my wife for 12 years, married to her for 7 ye...
Mewling At-the-ready Chad
  05/20/22
good for you two.
idiotic aromatic chapel half-breed
  05/20/22
Bad for me, bc I get turned down for sex a couple days a wee...
Mewling At-the-ready Chad
  05/20/22
2-4x is really not bad though IMO. Look around on XO - tons...
Odious magical preventive strike
  05/20/22
Yeah i dont think its about objective physical attractivenes...
white blood rage
  05/20/22
yeah i mean if some hot new slut came into my life i'd be fu...
idiotic aromatic chapel half-breed
  05/20/22
Life is miserable isn’t it
Beady-eyed Amethyst Meetinghouse
  05/20/22
for the most part.
idiotic aromatic chapel half-breed
  05/20/22
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Monikor
  08/26/26
COVID killed it for sure. You can't be around someone nearly...
demanding greedy theater juggernaut
  05/20/22
my wife and i both worked from home for about 15 months duri...
Mewling At-the-ready Chad
  05/20/22
*2 years of marriage
titillating bronze parlour
  05/21/22
rare honesty
costumed topaz halford place of business
  05/20/22
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avocado double fault
  05/20/22
you are a slave, a perfect subject for Zuck's "metavers...
Drunken Histrionic Point Antidepressant Drug
  05/20/22
oh ok *gets dick hard to fuck aging woman who just griped...
white blood rage
  05/20/22
(*gets dick hard for digital image of woman he will never to...
Drunken Histrionic Point Antidepressant Drug
  05/20/22
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costumed topaz halford place of business
  05/20/22
Women view sex as a “give” and they want to take...
soul-stirring jap
  05/20/22
not all relationships degrade into transactionalism
Drunken Histrionic Point Antidepressant Drug
  05/20/22
Go get married and report back after a couple years, sucker
soul-stirring jap
  05/20/22
I've been married well over a decade
Drunken Histrionic Point Antidepressant Drug
  05/20/22
And how often do you have sex? You’re trying to argue...
soul-stirring jap
  05/20/22
frequently & yes. presumably you were in a relationsh...
Drunken Histrionic Point Antidepressant Drug
  05/20/22
xo posters are betabucks losers that women only fuck for res...
marvelous roommate
  05/20/22
Relationships are not the same as marriage & you’r...
soul-stirring jap
  05/20/22
why would I lie to you? what have I ever done on XO that wou...
Drunken Histrionic Point Antidepressant Drug
  05/20/22
lol cmon man
white blood rage
  05/20/22
You’re pumo scum you tell me
soul-stirring jap
  05/20/22
pumanimals are not pumos, come on
Drunken Histrionic Point Antidepressant Drug
  05/20/22
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cerebral clown goyim
  05/20/22
So, you need to understand where xo Melvins are comimg from....
cerebral clown goyim
  05/20/22
well this response for one
costumed topaz halford place of business
  05/20/22
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white blood rage
  05/20/22
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soul-stirring jap
  05/20/22
I'm genuinely confused, it's not like I have some history on...
Drunken Histrionic Point Antidepressant Drug
  05/20/22
who cares about your "history," its about the shit...
white blood rage
  05/20/22
what did he say, that frequent sex with a wife is possible? ...
Mewling At-the-ready Chad
  05/20/22
OP isnt about whether you can "possibly" fuck your...
white blood rage
  05/20/22
idgi. i am in the same boat as pumanimal. i know from exper...
Mewling At-the-ready Chad
  05/20/22
would you say its normal to prefer that over masturbation? ...
white blood rage
  05/20/22
yes, i think it's normal. by 'possible' i mean that i pr...
Mewling At-the-ready Chad
  05/20/22
fair
white blood rage
  05/20/22
if you think what I'm saying is so obviously untrue, I feel ...
Drunken Histrionic Point Antidepressant Drug
  05/20/22
When i need it to be fast, absolutely. But if i have 30 minu...
cerebral clown goyim
  05/20/22
I look forward to masturbating later while I'm having sex wi...
metal high-end locus brethren
  05/21/22
you sound like a bitch boi
Exhilarant Sound Barrier
  05/21/22
100% true for me. My wife is old and overweight and insists ...
Vibrant Dull Persian Scourge Upon The Earth
  05/21/22
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white blood rage
  05/21/22
and cheat when I can tp
lfo
  08/26/26
I dont even feel like fumming but my body forces me to like ...
coalition of rabbis
  08/26/26


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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:44 AM
Author: white blood rage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543233)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:45 AM
Author: Nudist frisky multi-billionaire parlor

in my older age I can’t stand the feeling of an orgasm. too intense. It just irritates me and puts me in a shitty mood

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543235)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:33 PM
Author: Motley violent temple

Jfc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44551901)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:45 AM
Author: jet-lagged skinny woman gunner

I've gone thru periods like this but only v there is some weird fetish that appealed to me. For a few weeks, I was really into chicks high on meth having sex. I know, sick fuck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543237)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:46 AM
Author: Nudist frisky multi-billionaire parlor

That’s pretty mainstream now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543242)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:53 AM
Author: white blood rage

other than those periods, youre cool with just fuckin the same woman over the visual stimulation of a wider range of chicks?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543679)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:34 PM
Author: Motley violent temple

Link?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44551907)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:48 AM
Author: Claret Talented Foreskin

Describe your wife’s appearance and the tightness of her puss

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543244)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:55 AM
Author: magenta excitant gaping trailer park



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543693)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:55 AM
Author: Mewling At-the-ready Chad

no

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543698)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:02 AM
Author: idiotic aromatic chapel half-breed

i'm like this, my wife too. it's just so much easier.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543739)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:04 AM
Author: white blood rage

Its just understood and theres no resentment? What your wife fantasize about?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543750)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:06 AM
Author: idiotic aromatic chapel half-breed

i think she wishes we had sex more often but she accepts that it's a normal part of marriage. none of her friends fuck their spouses anymore either. and even when we do it's kind of comical, like, what the fuck are we doing we feel like siblings?

i don't know what she fantasizes about but she watches porn.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543759)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:10 AM
Author: white blood rage

so its more on your end and she does it as a response to your lack of drive?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543778)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: idiotic aromatic chapel half-breed

yeah that's fair. i have no interest in fucking her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543844)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:32 AM
Author: Mewling At-the-ready Chad

is she overweight? age?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543883)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:35 AM
Author: idiotic aromatic chapel half-breed

nah she's still pretty thin, not super fit like when we met but not fat at all. we've just fought so much over the years that i don't have any desire for her anymore. she feels more like a roommate that i have to constantly negotiate with. also maybe some of it is due to COVID and spending literally 24/7 together for 2 years. we're 40.

but again, it's totally normal not to fuck anymore after 10 years of marriage. hell most people stop after 3 or 4 years. it just gets old man and familiarity breeds contempt.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543899)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:43 AM
Author: Mewling At-the-ready Chad

i've been with my wife for 12 years, married to her for 7 years and i still want to fuck her daily. in practice we only manage 2-4 times per week, largely bc her sex drive is less than mine and life isn't easy with two kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543956)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:48 AM
Author: idiotic aromatic chapel half-breed

good for you two.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544022)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:04 PM
Author: Mewling At-the-ready Chad

Bad for me, bc I get turned down for sex a couple days a week

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544124)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 3:09 PM
Author: Odious magical preventive strike

2-4x is really not bad though IMO. Look around on XO - tons of these guys' wives won't fuck them at all.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44545213)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:43 AM
Author: white blood rage

Yeah i dont think its about objective physical attractiveness. Just arguing and hashing out all the real life shit doesn't do anything to increase sexual desire compared to some hot chick whose psychological hangups you know nothing about lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543961)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:48 AM
Author: idiotic aromatic chapel half-breed

yeah i mean if some hot new slut came into my life i'd be fucking her several times a day, but eventually we'd get to the same point. it's all so tiresome.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544016)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:54 AM
Author: Beady-eyed Amethyst Meetinghouse

Life is miserable isn’t it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544062)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:55 AM
Author: idiotic aromatic chapel half-breed

for the most part.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544063)



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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:52 AM
Author: Monikor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#50093926)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:17 PM
Author: demanding greedy theater juggernaut

COVID killed it for sure. You can't be around someone nearly 24/7 and keep a spark going. You just become roommates or siblings. She's been sick this week, so we've started sleeping in different rooms and it's been 180. I feel great when I wake up in the morning.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544182)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 3:05 PM
Author: Mewling At-the-ready Chad

my wife and i both worked from home for about 15 months during COVID. but yeah, we sleep in separate rooms at least 3 or 4 times a month and it helped.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44545191)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:28 PM
Author: titillating bronze parlour

*2 years of marriage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44551859)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:34 AM
Author: costumed topaz halford place of business

rare honesty

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543890)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 1:52 PM
Author: avocado double fault



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544744)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:14 AM
Author: Drunken Histrionic Point Antidepressant Drug

you are a slave, a perfect subject for Zuck's "metaverse," a terminal faggot who prefers the simulacrum to the real

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543794)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:22 AM
Author: white blood rage

oh ok

*gets dick hard to fuck aging woman who just griped about the work entailed in raising 2 kids, bitched about her coworkers, and detailed the intricacies of properly loading the dishwasher*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543836)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: Drunken Histrionic Point Antidepressant Drug

(*gets dick hard for digital image of woman he will never touch tenderly penetrated by two dicks he begins to secretly wish were inside him*)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543848)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:34 AM
Author: costumed topaz halford place of business



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543894)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: soul-stirring jap

Women view sex as a “give” and they want to take from you after it

That’s why it’s not worth it half the time

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543845)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:28 AM
Author: Drunken Histrionic Point Antidepressant Drug

not all relationships degrade into transactionalism

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543864)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:30 AM
Author: soul-stirring jap

Go get married and report back after a couple years, sucker

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543875)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:39 AM
Author: Drunken Histrionic Point Antidepressant Drug

I've been married well over a decade

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543932)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:40 AM
Author: soul-stirring jap

And how often do you have sex? You’re trying to argue with a straight face she doesn’t use sex to extract resources?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543938)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:49 AM
Author: Drunken Histrionic Point Antidepressant Drug

frequently & yes.

presumably you were in a relationship where this *didn't* happen at some point, right?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544027)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:50 AM
Author: marvelous roommate

xo posters are betabucks losers that women only fuck for resources.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544035)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:51 AM
Author: soul-stirring jap

Relationships are not the same as marriage & you’re a liar, hth

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544042)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:53 AM
Author: Drunken Histrionic Point Antidepressant Drug

why would I lie to you? what have I ever done on XO that would make me come off as a liar. please tell me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544055)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:57 AM
Author: white blood rage

lol cmon man

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544083)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:58 AM
Author: soul-stirring jap

You’re pumo scum you tell me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544088)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: Drunken Histrionic Point Antidepressant Drug

pumanimals are not pumos, come on

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544107)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:05 PM
Author: cerebral clown goyim



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544128)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 2:18 PM
Author: cerebral clown goyim

So, you need to understand where xo Melvins are comimg from. They don't choose women based on being a good fit. In fact, they think the women who are like them (intelligent and disinterested in getting dolled up) are the bane of this world. So, instead they date whores. Since they never even attempt to have a real relationship, it's transactional. And since they are so repulsive, the women constantly feel like they've been screwed in this deal, and get more bitter and angry and exploitative of their pathetic excuse of a husband.

Don't feel bad that these people can't understand our lives.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544916)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:00 PM
Author: costumed topaz halford place of business

well this response for one

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544097)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: white blood rage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544103)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: soul-stirring jap



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544105)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:03 PM
Author: Drunken Histrionic Point Antidepressant Drug

I'm genuinely confused, it's not like I have some history on the boart of being a braggart, then I could understand.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544120)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:06 PM
Author: white blood rage

who cares about your "history," its about the shit youre saying

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544134)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:09 PM
Author: Mewling At-the-ready Chad

what did he say, that frequent sex with a wife is possible? depends how you define frequent, but multiple times per week is certainly possible even after years of marriage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544146)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:15 PM
Author: white blood rage

OP isnt about whether you can "possibly" fuck your wife a couple times a week

question is about preference

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544174)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:18 PM
Author: Mewling At-the-ready Chad

idgi. i am in the same boat as pumanimal. i know from experience it's possible to prefer and engage in frequent sex with your wife after years of marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544188)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:20 PM
Author: white blood rage

would you say its normal to prefer that over masturbation?

dont know where "possible" became the standard

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544205)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:23 PM
Author: Mewling At-the-ready Chad

yes, i think it's normal.

by 'possible' i mean that i prefer sex with my wife over masturbation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544220)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:27 PM
Author: white blood rage

fair

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544237)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:16 PM
Author: Drunken Histrionic Point Antidepressant Drug

if you think what I'm saying is so obviously untrue, I feel sorry for you, and will say a prayer for you, pumo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544175)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 2:19 PM
Author: cerebral clown goyim

When i need it to be fast, absolutely. But if i have 30 minutes to spare, i like going to pound town

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544919)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 4:28 AM
Author: metal high-end locus brethren

I look forward to masturbating later while I'm having sex with my wife

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44548580)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 10:00 PM
Author: Exhilarant Sound Barrier

you sound like a bitch boi

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44552039)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:41 PM
Author: Vibrant Dull Persian Scourge Upon The Earth

100% true for me. My wife is old and overweight and insists that I finger her for like an hour before I can go inside. It's just not worth that much work for low-quality sex. I'd rather just quickly jack off before bed and cheat when I can.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44551937)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:55 PM
Author: white blood rage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44552011)



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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:52 AM
Author: lfo

and cheat when I can tp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#50093928)



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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:54 AM
Author: coalition of rabbis

I dont even feel like fumming but my body forces me to like eating or breathing

Def don't want sex anymore

Barely can even get hard for wife

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#50093931)