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Normal to prefer masturbation over sex with wife?

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Olive Vibrant University Rigor
  05/20/22
in my older age I can’t stand the feeling of an orgasm...
Judgmental Big-titted Library
  05/20/22
Jfc
Insane Gas Station Sex Offender
  05/21/22
I've gone thru periods like this but only v there is some we...
Lascivious salmon indian lodge masturbator
  05/20/22
That’s pretty mainstream now
Judgmental Big-titted Library
  05/20/22
other than those periods, youre cool with just fuckin the sa...
Olive Vibrant University Rigor
  05/20/22
Link?
Insane Gas Station Sex Offender
  05/21/22
Describe your wife’s appearance and the tightness of h...
indecent home macaca
  05/20/22
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Nofapping indigo generalized bond pervert
  05/20/22
no
Fragrant affirmative action black woman
  05/20/22
i'm like this, my wife too. it's just so much easier.
Startling Concupiscible Orchestra Pit Milk
  05/20/22
Its just understood and theres no resentment? What your wife...
Olive Vibrant University Rigor
  05/20/22
i think she wishes we had sex more often but she accepts tha...
Startling Concupiscible Orchestra Pit Milk
  05/20/22
so its more on your end and she does it as a response to you...
Olive Vibrant University Rigor
  05/20/22
yeah that's fair. i have no interest in fucking her.
Startling Concupiscible Orchestra Pit Milk
  05/20/22
is she overweight? age?
Fragrant affirmative action black woman
  05/20/22
nah she's still pretty thin, not super fit like when we met ...
Startling Concupiscible Orchestra Pit Milk
  05/20/22
i've been with my wife for 12 years, married to her for 7 ye...
Fragrant affirmative action black woman
  05/20/22
good for you two.
Startling Concupiscible Orchestra Pit Milk
  05/20/22
Bad for me, bc I get turned down for sex a couple days a wee...
Fragrant affirmative action black woman
  05/20/22
2-4x is really not bad though IMO. Look around on XO - tons...
orange queen of the night pit
  05/20/22
Yeah i dont think its about objective physical attractivenes...
Olive Vibrant University Rigor
  05/20/22
yeah i mean if some hot new slut came into my life i'd be fu...
Startling Concupiscible Orchestra Pit Milk
  05/20/22
Life is miserable isn’t it
floppy tanning salon
  05/20/22
for the most part.
Startling Concupiscible Orchestra Pit Milk
  05/20/22
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Monikor
  08/26/26
COVID killed it for sure. You can't be around someone nearly...
know-it-all fiercely-loyal property idea he suggested
  05/20/22
my wife and i both worked from home for about 15 months duri...
Fragrant affirmative action black woman
  05/20/22
*2 years of marriage
Glassy wonderful stage crotch
  05/21/22
rare honesty
shivering center
  05/20/22
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medicated mad-dog skullcap associate
  05/20/22
you are a slave, a perfect subject for Zuck's "metavers...
Flickering fat ankles
  05/20/22
oh ok *gets dick hard to fuck aging woman who just griped...
Olive Vibrant University Rigor
  05/20/22
(*gets dick hard for digital image of woman he will never to...
Flickering fat ankles
  05/20/22
...
shivering center
  05/20/22
Women view sex as a “give” and they want to take...
Lake lay
  05/20/22
not all relationships degrade into transactionalism
Flickering fat ankles
  05/20/22
Go get married and report back after a couple years, sucker
Lake lay
  05/20/22
I've been married well over a decade
Flickering fat ankles
  05/20/22
And how often do you have sex? You’re trying to argue...
Lake lay
  05/20/22
frequently & yes. presumably you were in a relationsh...
Flickering fat ankles
  05/20/22
xo posters are betabucks losers that women only fuck for res...
Ebony offensive death wish
  05/20/22
Relationships are not the same as marriage & you’r...
Lake lay
  05/20/22
why would I lie to you? what have I ever done on XO that wou...
Flickering fat ankles
  05/20/22
lol cmon man
Olive Vibrant University Rigor
  05/20/22
You’re pumo scum you tell me
Lake lay
  05/20/22
pumanimals are not pumos, come on
Flickering fat ankles
  05/20/22
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Curious Doctorate
  05/20/22
So, you need to understand where xo Melvins are comimg from....
Curious Doctorate
  05/20/22
well this response for one
shivering center
  05/20/22
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Olive Vibrant University Rigor
  05/20/22
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Lake lay
  05/20/22
I'm genuinely confused, it's not like I have some history on...
Flickering fat ankles
  05/20/22
who cares about your "history," its about the shit...
Olive Vibrant University Rigor
  05/20/22
what did he say, that frequent sex with a wife is possible? ...
Fragrant affirmative action black woman
  05/20/22
OP isnt about whether you can "possibly" fuck your...
Olive Vibrant University Rigor
  05/20/22
idgi. i am in the same boat as pumanimal. i know from exper...
Fragrant affirmative action black woman
  05/20/22
would you say its normal to prefer that over masturbation? ...
Olive Vibrant University Rigor
  05/20/22
yes, i think it's normal. by 'possible' i mean that i pr...
Fragrant affirmative action black woman
  05/20/22
fair
Olive Vibrant University Rigor
  05/20/22
if you think what I'm saying is so obviously untrue, I feel ...
Flickering fat ankles
  05/20/22
When i need it to be fast, absolutely. But if i have 30 minu...
Curious Doctorate
  05/20/22
I look forward to masturbating later while I'm having sex wi...
Titillating Toilet Seat Hospital
  05/21/22
you sound like a bitch boi
seedy deranged dopamine dilemma
  05/21/22
100% true for me. My wife is old and overweight and insists ...
Drunken excitant spot feces
  05/21/22
...
Olive Vibrant University Rigor
  05/21/22
and cheat when I can tp
lfo
  08/26/26
I dont even feel like fumming but my body forces me to like ...
coalition of rabbis
  08/26/26


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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:44 AM
Author: Olive Vibrant University Rigor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543233)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:45 AM
Author: Judgmental Big-titted Library

in my older age I can’t stand the feeling of an orgasm. too intense. It just irritates me and puts me in a shitty mood

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543235)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:33 PM
Author: Insane Gas Station Sex Offender

Jfc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44551901)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:45 AM
Author: Lascivious salmon indian lodge masturbator

I've gone thru periods like this but only v there is some weird fetish that appealed to me. For a few weeks, I was really into chicks high on meth having sex. I know, sick fuck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543237)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:46 AM
Author: Judgmental Big-titted Library

That’s pretty mainstream now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543242)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:53 AM
Author: Olive Vibrant University Rigor

other than those periods, youre cool with just fuckin the same woman over the visual stimulation of a wider range of chicks?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543679)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:34 PM
Author: Insane Gas Station Sex Offender

Link?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44551907)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:48 AM
Author: indecent home macaca

Describe your wife’s appearance and the tightness of her puss

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543244)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:55 AM
Author: Nofapping indigo generalized bond pervert



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543693)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:55 AM
Author: Fragrant affirmative action black woman

no

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543698)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:02 AM
Author: Startling Concupiscible Orchestra Pit Milk

i'm like this, my wife too. it's just so much easier.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543739)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:04 AM
Author: Olive Vibrant University Rigor

Its just understood and theres no resentment? What your wife fantasize about?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543750)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:06 AM
Author: Startling Concupiscible Orchestra Pit Milk

i think she wishes we had sex more often but she accepts that it's a normal part of marriage. none of her friends fuck their spouses anymore either. and even when we do it's kind of comical, like, what the fuck are we doing we feel like siblings?

i don't know what she fantasizes about but she watches porn.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543759)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:10 AM
Author: Olive Vibrant University Rigor

so its more on your end and she does it as a response to your lack of drive?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543778)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: Startling Concupiscible Orchestra Pit Milk

yeah that's fair. i have no interest in fucking her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543844)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:32 AM
Author: Fragrant affirmative action black woman

is she overweight? age?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543883)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:35 AM
Author: Startling Concupiscible Orchestra Pit Milk

nah she's still pretty thin, not super fit like when we met but not fat at all. we've just fought so much over the years that i don't have any desire for her anymore. she feels more like a roommate that i have to constantly negotiate with. also maybe some of it is due to COVID and spending literally 24/7 together for 2 years. we're 40.

but again, it's totally normal not to fuck anymore after 10 years of marriage. hell most people stop after 3 or 4 years. it just gets old man and familiarity breeds contempt.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543899)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:43 AM
Author: Fragrant affirmative action black woman

i've been with my wife for 12 years, married to her for 7 years and i still want to fuck her daily. in practice we only manage 2-4 times per week, largely bc her sex drive is less than mine and life isn't easy with two kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543956)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:48 AM
Author: Startling Concupiscible Orchestra Pit Milk

good for you two.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544022)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:04 PM
Author: Fragrant affirmative action black woman

Bad for me, bc I get turned down for sex a couple days a week

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544124)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 3:09 PM
Author: orange queen of the night pit

2-4x is really not bad though IMO. Look around on XO - tons of these guys' wives won't fuck them at all.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44545213)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:43 AM
Author: Olive Vibrant University Rigor

Yeah i dont think its about objective physical attractiveness. Just arguing and hashing out all the real life shit doesn't do anything to increase sexual desire compared to some hot chick whose psychological hangups you know nothing about lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543961)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:48 AM
Author: Startling Concupiscible Orchestra Pit Milk

yeah i mean if some hot new slut came into my life i'd be fucking her several times a day, but eventually we'd get to the same point. it's all so tiresome.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544016)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:54 AM
Author: floppy tanning salon

Life is miserable isn’t it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544062)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:55 AM
Author: Startling Concupiscible Orchestra Pit Milk

for the most part.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544063)



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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:52 AM
Author: Monikor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#50093926)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:17 PM
Author: know-it-all fiercely-loyal property idea he suggested

COVID killed it for sure. You can't be around someone nearly 24/7 and keep a spark going. You just become roommates or siblings. She's been sick this week, so we've started sleeping in different rooms and it's been 180. I feel great when I wake up in the morning.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544182)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 3:05 PM
Author: Fragrant affirmative action black woman

my wife and i both worked from home for about 15 months during COVID. but yeah, we sleep in separate rooms at least 3 or 4 times a month and it helped.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44545191)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:28 PM
Author: Glassy wonderful stage crotch

*2 years of marriage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44551859)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:34 AM
Author: shivering center

rare honesty

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543890)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 1:52 PM
Author: medicated mad-dog skullcap associate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544744)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:14 AM
Author: Flickering fat ankles

you are a slave, a perfect subject for Zuck's "metaverse," a terminal faggot who prefers the simulacrum to the real

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543794)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:22 AM
Author: Olive Vibrant University Rigor

oh ok

*gets dick hard to fuck aging woman who just griped about the work entailed in raising 2 kids, bitched about her coworkers, and detailed the intricacies of properly loading the dishwasher*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543836)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: Flickering fat ankles

(*gets dick hard for digital image of woman he will never touch tenderly penetrated by two dicks he begins to secretly wish were inside him*)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543848)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:34 AM
Author: shivering center



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543894)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: Lake lay

Women view sex as a “give” and they want to take from you after it

That’s why it’s not worth it half the time

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543845)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:28 AM
Author: Flickering fat ankles

not all relationships degrade into transactionalism

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543864)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:30 AM
Author: Lake lay

Go get married and report back after a couple years, sucker

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543875)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:39 AM
Author: Flickering fat ankles

I've been married well over a decade

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543932)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:40 AM
Author: Lake lay

And how often do you have sex? You’re trying to argue with a straight face she doesn’t use sex to extract resources?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44543938)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:49 AM
Author: Flickering fat ankles

frequently & yes.

presumably you were in a relationship where this *didn't* happen at some point, right?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544027)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:50 AM
Author: Ebony offensive death wish

xo posters are betabucks losers that women only fuck for resources.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544035)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:51 AM
Author: Lake lay

Relationships are not the same as marriage & you’re a liar, hth

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544042)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:53 AM
Author: Flickering fat ankles

why would I lie to you? what have I ever done on XO that would make me come off as a liar. please tell me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544055)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:57 AM
Author: Olive Vibrant University Rigor

lol cmon man

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544083)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:58 AM
Author: Lake lay

You’re pumo scum you tell me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544088)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: Flickering fat ankles

pumanimals are not pumos, come on

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544107)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:05 PM
Author: Curious Doctorate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544128)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 2:18 PM
Author: Curious Doctorate

So, you need to understand where xo Melvins are comimg from. They don't choose women based on being a good fit. In fact, they think the women who are like them (intelligent and disinterested in getting dolled up) are the bane of this world. So, instead they date whores. Since they never even attempt to have a real relationship, it's transactional. And since they are so repulsive, the women constantly feel like they've been screwed in this deal, and get more bitter and angry and exploitative of their pathetic excuse of a husband.

Don't feel bad that these people can't understand our lives.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544916)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:00 PM
Author: shivering center

well this response for one

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544097)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: Olive Vibrant University Rigor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544103)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: Lake lay



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544105)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:03 PM
Author: Flickering fat ankles

I'm genuinely confused, it's not like I have some history on the boart of being a braggart, then I could understand.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544120)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:06 PM
Author: Olive Vibrant University Rigor

who cares about your "history," its about the shit youre saying

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544134)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:09 PM
Author: Fragrant affirmative action black woman

what did he say, that frequent sex with a wife is possible? depends how you define frequent, but multiple times per week is certainly possible even after years of marriage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544146)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:15 PM
Author: Olive Vibrant University Rigor

OP isnt about whether you can "possibly" fuck your wife a couple times a week

question is about preference

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544174)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:18 PM
Author: Fragrant affirmative action black woman

idgi. i am in the same boat as pumanimal. i know from experience it's possible to prefer and engage in frequent sex with your wife after years of marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544188)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:20 PM
Author: Olive Vibrant University Rigor

would you say its normal to prefer that over masturbation?

dont know where "possible" became the standard

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544205)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:23 PM
Author: Fragrant affirmative action black woman

yes, i think it's normal.

by 'possible' i mean that i prefer sex with my wife over masturbation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544220)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:27 PM
Author: Olive Vibrant University Rigor

fair

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544237)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:16 PM
Author: Flickering fat ankles

if you think what I'm saying is so obviously untrue, I feel sorry for you, and will say a prayer for you, pumo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544175)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 2:19 PM
Author: Curious Doctorate

When i need it to be fast, absolutely. But if i have 30 minutes to spare, i like going to pound town

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44544919)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 4:28 AM
Author: Titillating Toilet Seat Hospital

I look forward to masturbating later while I'm having sex with my wife

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44548580)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 10:00 PM
Author: seedy deranged dopamine dilemma

you sound like a bitch boi

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44552039)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:41 PM
Author: Drunken excitant spot feces

100% true for me. My wife is old and overweight and insists that I finger her for like an hour before I can go inside. It's just not worth that much work for low-quality sex. I'd rather just quickly jack off before bed and cheat when I can.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44551937)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:55 PM
Author: Olive Vibrant University Rigor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#44552011)



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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:52 AM
Author: lfo

and cheat when I can tp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#50093928)



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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:54 AM
Author: coalition of rabbis

I dont even feel like fumming but my body forces me to like eating or breathing

Def don't want sex anymore

Barely can even get hard for wife

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2]#50093931)