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Wife left: tell me about seeking arrangements

Don’t want to risk hookers and i eventually want to tr...
chest-beating offensive dysfunction twinkling uncleanness
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Garnet tattoo
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I'm not sure you're gonna be able to command top dollar cons...
brilliant federal ratface
  09/22/25
If they can’t handle me at my worst they don’t d...
chest-beating offensive dysfunction twinkling uncleanness
  09/22/25
Your refusal to state your height speaks volumes.
brilliant federal ratface
  09/22/25
6’2” 220 (terrible build) Slight receding...
chest-beating offensive dysfunction twinkling uncleanness
  09/23/25
why did your wife leave you?
useless poppy national
  09/22/25
Wife had a mid life crisis. We married young but waited to h...
chest-beating offensive dysfunction twinkling uncleanness
  09/23/25
if you have a chance to bludgeon yourself retarded with rust...
contagious brass newt mediation
  09/22/25
Grinder.com
Sepia mad-dog skullcap sanctuary
  09/22/25
I don't believe OP is gay, though
brilliant federal ratface
  09/23/25
There are some gems on SA if you’re willing to wade th...
Harsh dun range legal warrant
  09/23/25
Search for the seeking arrangement poaster’s threads. ...
Bat-shit-crazy thriller nowag native
  09/23/25
wow
Galvanic Peach Codepig
  09/23/25
What's ur $$$$$ situation and geography? DESCRIBE ur terr...
Exhilarant dilemma
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Garnet tattoo
  09/23/25
"Don’t want to risk hookers" I've got som...
Comical Factory Reset Button Boistinker
  09/23/25
There’s some pros on there for sure but there’s ...
Harsh dun range legal warrant
  09/23/25
It is all literally sex for money.
Comical Factory Reset Button Boistinker
  09/23/25
They're not hookers. They're just seeking Mutually Benefi...
brilliant federal ratface
  09/23/25
Actual professional hookers seem less risky than this.
fishy background story step-uncle's house
  09/23/25
How so?
Harsh dun range legal warrant
  09/23/25
They're not going to do something dumb like call or text you...
fishy background story step-uncle's house
  09/23/25
I’d rather deal with an amateur hooker than a professi...
Harsh dun range legal warrant
  09/23/25
professional hookers are in business bcs they are profession...
lime cuckold
  09/23/25
…?
Harsh dun range legal warrant
  09/23/25
Do not take advice from this poaster. He is dumb.
flirting corner marketing idea
  09/23/25
I’m speaking from experience, are you?
Harsh dun range legal warrant
  09/24/25
that's why you give them a burner number and not your real n...
brilliant federal ratface
  09/23/25
Also this
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sticky hell
  09/23/25
What does this sentence mean: “ start autistically get...
Bat-shit-crazy thriller nowag native
  09/23/25
I think he means dedicate your life to hobbies or scholarshi...
Harsh dun range legal warrant
  09/23/25
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sticky hell
  09/23/25
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Galvanic Peach Codepig
  09/23/25
The time required to match/vet and potential for headaches t...
flirting corner marketing idea
  09/23/25
Or he can go to church and find a decent woman to date/marry
Cerise Well-lubricated Pervert
  09/23/25
1) he says he doesn’t want to marry, 2) dating is very...
flirting corner marketing idea
  09/24/25
You will be amazed at how often their cars break down, famil...
topaz mexican
  09/23/25
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brilliant federal ratface
  09/24/25
lol, sounds ghastly
Comical Factory Reset Button Boistinker
  09/24/25
SA is a huge waste of time. Just hire hookers every now and ...
Plum slap-happy gunner
  09/23/25
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sticky hell
  09/23/25
It is until you get caught in a sting.
brilliant federal ratface
  09/24/25
There is no value in this. It died the same way dating apps...
Amber bull headed chad
  09/24/25
SA Poaster Here... I got into a more serious relationship...
Bespoke Spectacular Crackhouse Yarmulke
  10/21/25
What kind of PPM should I be looking at for high col city?
chest-beating offensive dysfunction twinkling uncleanness
  10/21/25
WHITE MEN DONT PAY FOR SEX DURR DURR
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Reminder: nyuug isn't a Korean citizen, only has US Passport...
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nyuug
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This is like the worst parts of dating plus still having to ...
chest-beating offensive dysfunction twinkling uncleanness
  01/21/26
These women are nuts
chest-beating offensive dysfunction twinkling uncleanness
  01/24/26
why not just go hunting the Bumblesauruses?
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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:05 PM
Author: chest-beating offensive dysfunction twinkling uncleanness

Don’t want to risk hookers and i eventually want to try dating again but it’s been too long with the wife.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49291749)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: Garnet tattoo

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49293910)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:50 AM
Author: Garnet tattoo

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49293939)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:40 PM
Author: Garnet tattoo

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49296549)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:08 PM
Author: brilliant federal ratface

I'm not sure you're gonna be able to command top dollar considering your:

- age;

- height;

- remaining hair

But give it a go!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49291759)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:17 PM
Author: chest-beating offensive dysfunction twinkling uncleanness

If they can’t handle me at my worst they don’t deserve me at my best

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49291776)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 4:15 PM
Author: brilliant federal ratface

Your refusal to state your height speaks volumes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49291944)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:00 AM
Author: chest-beating offensive dysfunction twinkling uncleanness

6’2”

220 (terrible build)

Slight receding with a widows peak. I don’t look balding yet but I’ve got some worries.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49293643)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 4:15 PM
Author: useless poppy national

why did your wife leave you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49291946)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:04 AM
Author: chest-beating offensive dysfunction twinkling uncleanness

Wife had a mid life crisis. We married young but waited to have kids so I’m not sure what her problem is.

I work too much is part of it.

She didn’t cuck me before separation but I assume she has by now.

So I’m done.

Don’t really want another wife while my kids are young.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49293651)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 5:11 PM
Author: contagious brass newt mediation

if you have a chance to bludgeon yourself retarded with rust caked pipes, do that over and over instead

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49292139)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 5:40 PM
Author: Sepia mad-dog skullcap sanctuary

Grinder.com

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49292243)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:22 PM
Author: brilliant federal ratface

I don't believe OP is gay, though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49295397)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:18 AM
Author: Harsh dun range legal warrant

There are some gems on SA if you’re willing to wade through the trash. Ideal would be to find a cute-ish 20-25 yo girl who will have sex for $500 a pop that you can see twice a month or so. There’s a lot of flakes, I suggest quickly moving conversation to “hey let’s meet up for a drink, are you free tonight?” to see if they are serious / interested or not.

Don’t talk about money / sex on the app, wait to meet up and feel things out in person. Hopefully you have a least a little game.

Also, get in shape.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49293677)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:20 AM
Author: Bat-shit-crazy thriller nowag native

Search for the seeking arrangement poaster’s threads. All the scholarship you need.

The short version is if you are moderately good looking you’ll do great. Tell them up front you are looking for pay per meet. You will undoubtedly have some kooky situations. Ultimately, you will grow tired of it and your soul will be diminished.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49293681)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:21 PM
Author: Galvanic Peach Codepig

wow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49296963)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: Exhilarant dilemma

What's ur $$$$$ situation and geography?

DESCRIBE ur terrible physique and honestly rate ur facial aesthetics and genetic makeup

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49293908)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: Garnet tattoo

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49293911)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:16 PM
Author: Comical Factory Reset Button Boistinker

"Don’t want to risk hookers"

I've got some bad news about SA

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49294299)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:54 PM
Author: Harsh dun range legal warrant

There’s some pros on there for sure but there’s also some college girls looking for an allowance

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49294402)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 2:57 PM
Author: Comical Factory Reset Button Boistinker

It is all literally sex for money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49295292)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:23 PM
Author: brilliant federal ratface

They're not hookers.

They're just seeking Mutually Beneficial arrangements, tee-hee

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49295402)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:57 PM
Author: fishy background story step-uncle's house

Actual professional hookers seem less risky than this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49294413)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:59 PM
Author: Harsh dun range legal warrant

How so?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49294425)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 1:18 PM
Author: fishy background story step-uncle's house

They're not going to do something dumb like call or text you at the wrong time or go nuts on you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49294503)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:15 PM
Author: Harsh dun range legal warrant

I’d rather deal with an amateur hooker than a professional one, the pros are more likely to be sketchy, have a criminal record, drug use, poverty, STDs, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49295355)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 4:23 PM
Author: lime cuckold

professional hookers are in business bcs they are professional, not on drugs, germ-free, take credit cards where as amateurs are all dirty druggies with std's they dont even know about, "oh that itch/rash/sore/fever, i thought it was cuz I havent showered in 5 days".

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49295517)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:25 PM
Author: Harsh dun range legal warrant

…?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49296355)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:43 PM
Author: flirting corner marketing idea

Do not take advice from this poaster. He is dumb.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49296572)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:09 AM
Author: Harsh dun range legal warrant

I’m speaking from experience, are you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49297045)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:23 PM
Author: brilliant federal ratface

that's why you give them a burner number and not your real name.

Rookie

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49295406)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 4:13 PM
Author: Harsh dun range legal warrant

Also this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49295494)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 1:00 PM
Author: sticky hell



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49294429)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:14 PM
Author: Bat-shit-crazy thriller nowag native

What does this sentence mean: “ start autistically getting to a surrogate activity”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49296185)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:26 PM
Author: Harsh dun range legal warrant

I think he means dedicate your life to hobbies or scholarship instead of wasting time on women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49296383)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:55 PM
Author: sticky hell



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49296940)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:22 PM
Author: Galvanic Peach Codepig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49296966)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:39 PM
Author: flirting corner marketing idea

The time required to match/vet and potential for headaches that can come from the fake dating with SA always seemed like a big negative to me. That single non-parent dude in CO who was lining them up 3 per night and poasted all those pics and sex diaries seemed like the right way to SA. Ie it’s a tool suited to single middle aged dudes with a lot of time to search for a daddy issues Cinderella. But for a single dad with young kids it seems awful. Requires time you don’t have and energy/stress you should spare yourself. If you want to fuck a hot chick, pay over $500/hr (usually $800 in a big city), get a burner, use a fake name, set up a fake LinkedIn and treat yourself to a high end escort every once in a while. No reason that would prevent you from dating later on or concurrently, in fact I’d argue it would improve your performance because you won’t depend on dating for sex, you’ll have more time and you will be more rational in your assessments of potential long term candidates.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49296544)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:16 PM
Author: Cerise Well-lubricated Pervert

Or he can go to church and find a decent woman to date/marry

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49296958)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 3:24 AM
Author: flirting corner marketing idea

1) he says he doesn’t want to marry, 2) dating is very hard as a single parent with little kids, 3) the only women at church who see a single dad wrangling two kids and think to themselves “ohh I wonder if he’s single or his wife just has a stomach bug” are 300+ lbs. You’re right that mongering is a soul-rotting practice, but he’s the rare dude where the soul rot is worth the trade for the convenient access to sex with a woman who is otherwise far too attractive for him to ever have a chance with.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49297191)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:47 PM
Author: topaz mexican

You will be amazed at how often their cars break down, family members/pets have costly medical emergencies, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49296638)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:51 AM
Author: brilliant federal ratface



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49297113)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 2:08 PM
Author: Comical Factory Reset Button Boistinker

lol, sounds ghastly

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49298625)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:07 PM
Author: Plum slap-happy gunner

SA is a huge waste of time. Just hire hookers every now and then.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49296951)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:10 PM
Author: sticky hell



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49296954)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:50 AM
Author: brilliant federal ratface

It is until you get caught in a sting.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49297112)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:03 AM
Author: Amber bull headed chad

There is no value in this. It died the same way dating apps died. The hot chicks are on instagram and if they need extra cash post on onlyfans. The dude who posted here about SA posted a lot of 30s women. Why bother with that?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49297025)



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Date: October 21st, 2025 5:03 PM
Author: Bespoke Spectacular Crackhouse Yarmulke

SA Poaster Here...

I got into a more serious relationship with a chick I met off a dating app... We ended up having a bunch of mutual friends in common and went from there so I haven't been on SA in ages... I also started doing great on the apps (this takes a bit of time as the algo ranks you and can be frustrating/discouraging at first so be patient), so I got off SA completely.

However, for your situation I think it's fine, just use a google voice burner number and ideally don't take them to where you live until you've hooked up with them at least once and aren't getting any sketchy or crazy vibes. I only say that because you have kids. I met up with plenty of chicks straight at my house straight away, including late at night and it was fine but if I had kids I wouldn't do that.

If you search SA on here you'll get all my poasts which have quite a bit of scholarship on the matter. Ideally you find 1 or 2 you actually have some fun hanging out with who are great in bed and you just keep them on rotation whenever you're free.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49364680)



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Date: October 21st, 2025 5:44 PM
Author: chest-beating offensive dysfunction twinkling uncleanness

What kind of PPM should I be looking at for high col city?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49364751)



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Date: November 2nd, 2025 7:21 PM
Author: obsidian dashing property

WHITE MEN DONT PAY FOR SEX DURR DURR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49396314)



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Date: January 13th, 2026 6:54 PM
Author: obsidian dashing property

Reminder: nyuug isn't a Korean citizen, only has US Passport

http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3466376&forum_id=2#32188261



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49587124)



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Date: January 13th, 2026 7:08 PM
Author: obsidian dashing property



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49587194)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 12:38 AM
Author: nyuug



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49921692)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 12:54 AM
Author: nyuug



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49921779)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 8:00 PM
Author: nyuug



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49923921)



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Date: January 21st, 2026 5:33 PM
Author: chest-beating offensive dysfunction twinkling uncleanness

This is like the worst parts of dating plus still having to pay.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49607174)



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Date: January 24th, 2026 9:40 AM
Author: chest-beating offensive dysfunction twinkling uncleanness

These women are nuts

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49614072)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 5:55 AM
Author: Long PlayroomPoon Clown Conniption ( )

why not just go hunting the Bumblesauruses?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2]#49921905)