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Date: July 25th, 2026 2:32 PM Author: exciting milk Told me today after I found his stuff at our place. Says she wants him in my kids life. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50023647) |
Date: July 25th, 2026 2:35 PM Author: self-centered talking set (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50023656) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 2:35 PM Author: Sadistic Greedy Nowag Business Firm LUCKY (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50023659) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 4:48 PM Author: self-centered talking set (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50023912) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 7:20 PM Author: Hyperactive twinkling uncleanness (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50024184) |
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Date: July 26th, 2026 3:53 PM Author: aquamarine excitant den haunted graveyard (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50025424) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 2:35 PM Author: self-centered talking set tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50023660) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 5:11 PM Author: Mewling amber space cuckold (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50023972) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 2:37 PM Author: Yellow charismatic box office is this flame, or are you guys separated or what (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50023664) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 2:43 PM Author: exciting milk We separated. We agreed not to introduce romantic partners to our kid. She has been doing it behind my back apparently. And she won’t stop. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50023681) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 2:43 PM Author: self-centered talking set (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50023683) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 2:49 PM Author: Slate Idea He Suggested but when she promised she didn't have another man. so, it's completely different now. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50023699) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 7:02 PM Author: disgusting affirmative action (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50024166) |
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Date: July 27th, 2026 11:49 PM Author: Swollen stock car "She won't stop"
Heh, and neither will he, lil' breh |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 10:08 AM Author: Vigorous church building 1. How old are your kids? 2. How long have you been separated? 3. How long has she been dating this guy? |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 2:39 PM Author: Galvanic Infuriating Cruise Ship Race? But you doomed the fictional child in this fictional situation to its lifetime of playroom hotdogs when you started cheating. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50023672) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 2:43 PM Author: exciting milk We are white (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50023682) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 2:50 PM Author: Galvanic Infuriating Cruise Ship You and the other man are "we" already? Eskimo bros (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50023703) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 2:51 PM Author: geriatric coral parlour Yeah if her other man is birdshit he’s only putting up with a fat bitch who just gave birth in order to get access to the child. Honestly a black guy would be safer from the playroom hotdog perspective (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50023707) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 2:54 PM Author: exciting milk It’s insane to me why this dude would target her. He’s a normal good looking bro. My kid is 9 months old. There’s a crib in the room I found his shoes and business shirt. If I did something like that, it would be one night stand, but it sounds like they’re in some relationship and he has aspirations of moving into my place. I have a very very nice place. Maybe he thinks she’s rich. Lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50023713) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 6:18 AM Author: Clear site persian this is probably it. he is going to be "regular dad" and you'll be "weekend dad". living off of your dime, in the house you paid for at least the kids is young enough that they'll never really view you as their father |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 8:29 AM Author: Sienna Base Mad-dog Skullcap This is the kind of morning toxicity I came here for. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50029062) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 1:31 PM Author: Sickened jew (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50029865) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 11:53 AM Author: adulterous theater stage athletic conference (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50029569) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 2:55 PM Author: Galvanic Infuriating Cruise Ship 100% this. But at least he's not Hispanic (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50023715) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 5:18 AM Author: supple parlor “the playroom hotdog perspective” would be a great name for a 1970s experimental funk jazz fusion band (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50028935) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 7:03 AM Author: Yellow charismatic box office (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50028977) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 2:51 PM Author: Citrine crawly tank in all seriousness dont let him near ur kid. that's like 95% of molestation cases (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50023705) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 2:51 PM Author: exciting milk How can I stop it? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50023708) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 4:05 PM Author: geriatric coral parlour The best way is to not cheatmo and blow up your family. This kid’s boihole is gonna be busted (to the extent any of this is real which we all know it’s sloppy flame based on that last vacation thread) but luckily you can start over with the new chick and have a kid and try not fall in love (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50023826) |
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Date: July 27th, 2026 11:49 PM Author: Swollen stock car (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50028799) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 6:19 AM Author: Clear site persian cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50028944) |
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Date: July 29th, 2026 6:12 AM Author: Long PlayroomPoon Clown Conniption ( ) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50031454) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 5:01 PM Author: aromatic sandwich file for divorce and get a custody order that prohibits other partners from being introduced to the kid (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50023953) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 7:06 AM Author: Yellow charismatic box office Not a family lawmo but seems like it’s too late for this, given that the kid met him and he’s evidently moving in. Would a court really order that a person who’s already met the kid can’t be around the kid or move into the house? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50028980) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 3:58 PM Author: Pink contagious fortuitous meteor Do they call him daddy? Do they look oddly like him? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50023814) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 4:09 PM Author: pea-brained jade spot idiot You just have to give up on the whole "family" and move on when this happens (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50023829) |
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Date: July 26th, 2026 4:05 PM Author: transparent kitty (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50025447) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 5:55 AM Author: Indecent provocative voyeur station lol yeah (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50028937) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 4:48 PM Author: self-centered talking set (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50023911) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 4:49 PM Author: Grizzly ticket booth not really ur wife is she bud (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50023915) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 1:46 PM Author: ivory hairraiser school cafeteria circlehead (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50029905) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 5:12 PM Author: Unhinged Hall Filthpig Alpha (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50023973) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 6:09 PM Author: self-centered talking set (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50024078) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 5:13 PM Author: ruddy black woman good for you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50023974) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 6:08 PM Author: self-centered talking set (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50024076) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 6:15 PM Author: ivory hairraiser school cafeteria circlehead Isn't it time for divorce? or are you guys hey maybe we'll get back together? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50024095) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 6:16 PM Author: self-centered talking set I don't think its time yet. She is just going through a phase where she desires much more potent men. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50024096) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 7:24 PM Author: disgusting affirmative action not sure why that would be a phase. but otoh if you're not divorced i definitely don't understand why she wants to introduce the dude to your kid (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50024197) |
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Date: July 27th, 2026 10:09 PM Author: exciting milk Update - she now wants him to move in. She has been dating this guy for a few weeks. I will now be financing my wife and her husband apparently. She also has contacted a lawyer and wants half my take home pay. Seems like she’s going to serve me with papers soon. This should be fun a few years.
The only silver lining is things are going well with my subordinate. We remain in love. |
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Date: July 27th, 2026 11:31 PM Author: cerebral senate pozpig She’s hurting you intentionally because you started all of this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50028762) |
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Date: July 27th, 2026 11:39 PM Author: geriatric coral parlour Women aren't like that (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50028775) |
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Date: July 27th, 2026 11:43 PM Author: cerebral senate pozpig The real Garfield’s level of cynicism is about ten times too low for this conversation (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50028781) |
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Date: July 27th, 2026 11:54 PM Author: Swollen stock car (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50028812) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 11:42 AM Author: tan selfie messiness Okay, I lol'd (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50029537) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 7:56 AM Author: Racy green sweet tailpipe property Trust me, I know these things. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50029017) |
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Date: July 29th, 2026 6:17 AM Author: Coherence Burnout (gunneratttt) He deserves this
His innocent children don't
This was all predicted a year ago
Every time Rage Problems poasts I think about OhNoes poasting about how he thinks it's flame because it's so ordinary. I still can't decide myself. This is all playing out exactly as expected, but without the fanfare you'd expect from flame. |
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Date: July 27th, 2026 11:41 PM Author: ivory hairraiser school cafeteria circlehead Oh you're that guy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50028779) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 12:24 AM Author: disgusting affirmative action (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50028859) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 6:19 AM Author: Clear site persian (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50028945) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 7:23 PM Author: .,.,...,..,.,.,:,,:,.,.,:::,...,:,...:..:.,:.::,. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50030662) |
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Date: July 27th, 2026 11:54 PM Author: Citrine crawly tank ur kids gonna have some dark fukin moments man (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50028814) |
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Date: July 27th, 2026 10:11 PM Author: orange office people who are hurt Is this Whok? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50028546) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 5:25 AM Author: boyish fat ankles hominid (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50028936) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 7:03 AM Author: alcoholic chocolate bawdyhouse travel guidebook OP is Muscadine Wine. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50028978) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 7:24 AM Author: ocher wonderful newt (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50029002) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 11:06 AM Author: orange office people who are hurt Forgot about him. He was 180. Great poaster. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50029435) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 7:09 PM Author: .....;;,,.........;.;.;.;.,;,;,;.;.;,; If this was actually true then XO titman club founding member MW would have described his subordinate’s tits in exquisite detail. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50030627) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 7:23 PM Author: .,.,...,..,.,.,:,,:,.,.,:::,...,:,...:..:.,:.::,. I figured treeman (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50030664) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 5:58 AM Author: Appetizing Medicated Public Bath Ratface Guys, _this_ is how you slow play flame. Take notes. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50028939) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 7:04 AM Author: Yellow charismatic box office If something like this had happened with me, I’d have lost it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50028979) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 7:17 AM Author: Puce center OP is sociopath storytime style flame not raging on Adderall style flame (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50028995) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 7:29 AM Author: Yellow charismatic box office i don't think he's flame. if he is, he's very good flame. i did something very similar to him back in 2020, and goddamn it if he doesn't sound exactly like me back then.
is op really muscadine wine? i forget what he was poasting as when he started making threads about his subordinate. |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 8:17 AM Author: exciting milk It’s not flame. This is my real life sadly. I am not muscadine wine. I can’t say much about her taking up with another dude obviously since I’m already with my subordinate. But having him around my kid already behind my back and wanting him to move in is crazy. I have a key and could have walked in on them. Like a month ago my wife was literally asking if I’d be willing to give her my semen so that she could have another kid from me even if we aren’t staying together. So this just started and this guy already wants to move into my place. He’s apparently even willing to somehow financially compensate me to do so. So she’s rushed into this. I can’t imagine this is going to end well. But I may have some opportunity to get this whole thing over and settled for a reasonable amount financially due to her somehow being in love. But I can’t get over the kid angle. He’ll be with them more than I am and in my place. That is a tough pill to swallow. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50029044) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 8:26 AM Author: Yellow charismatic box office JFC what a mess. all i can say is thank god my wife never did anything like this or i'd have possibly killed her and myself.
your wife seems to be acting erratically, which i guess is obvious and didn't need to be said. this whole situation is pretty fucked up.
are you and your subordinate shacked up or do you have plans to be? i assume you're still closeted at work, so maybe you can't.
you got this advice before from me and others, but be very wary of your subordinate. something is "off" about a woman who would be willing to break up a young family. my wife said that to me right after she caught me and i told her i was leaving, and she was right. the woman i left for is extremely selfish and self-centered - used to being told how beautiful she is and having guys pay for this and do that for her, etc. and it shows. turns out she had a disabled kid when she was 22 and she wrote him off. she also left her 13 year old kid in florida to move in with me. anyway, just look for red flags, brother. she went right back to florida, in her 40s with no job and not having worked since she was like 28, living off alimony, bouncing her loose pussy from man to man, according to what friends tell me.
anyway, i'm pulling for you. |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 11:38 AM Author: exciting milk We don’t live in the same city so we can’t be shacked up. I need to be here so that I can be close to my kid. But we live close enough that it’s a quick flight. She came out for 10 days recently. I just went and hung out with the kid without her around and then came back later. And I go to her and we go on vacation etc. But yes the relationship is closeted other than with our closest friends. She actually has a really good head on her shoulders, has been a calming influence in my life. Plus she’s hot. And thanks man, I appreciate that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50029523) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 11:45 AM Author: Yellow charismatic box office i assume she's going to eventually move? you should probably wait to introduce her to your kid (i assume you already were). maybe 6-8 months would be good, if not a full year, and then work your way up to her moving in or whatever.
i did not do that, i moved out in october 2020 and the other lady moved in on like november 6 and i got into it with my wife over introducing the kids to her, etc. i was such a shithead at the time. i tell you this so you are aware of what can happen (may not be all that applicable to you since almost all of it was driven by my alcoholism) - i neglected my kids badly for about 8 months (october to june) while i was bad off with booze: i left my kids in the apt one night to run across the street to get beer/wine and my older son, 5, had woken up and was in the living room bawling when i got back. my gf/fiancee went out for a few hours and came home and the older kid was on the couch looking dejected and she said "hey, what's wrong?" and he said "well i kept asking my dad if he'd take me to CVS to get a toy and he kept telling me we will go soon, but he kept drinking more and more and now he's in the bed sleeping" and she took him out and bought him a superman or marvel action figure. we took the kids to hershey park (when i had an ankle monitor LOL) and we stayed there for like 45 mins, i rode two roller coasters with the older kid and maybe one by myself and then we left. when i think about that stuff, i feel very bad about myself. don't ever get to that point. |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 12:00 PM Author: exciting milk For work reasons, it will likely be hard for her to be here full time. At some point we will have to figure it out, but we may have to always kinda split time between the two cities for the foreseeable future. Yeah, I don’t really have any desire to introduce her to the kid anytime soon. That’s my wife’s decision is so perplexing. I’ve been in love and with the subordinate for several months and it hasn’t crossed my mind. Meanwhile my wife not only introduces him to the kid but even wants him to move in after weeks? I can’t wrap my mind around that. Just date the dude when I’m watching the kid or babysitter etc. until it’s been like a year.
I drink a lot but haven’t around the kid. |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 12:19 PM Author: Yellow charismatic box office yea you know what, a woman doing what she's doing is a huge red flag. it's somewhat par for the course for men to do retarded bullshit (like i did or like your wife is doing), but it's another for a woman to do it. double standard and unfair i guess, but true.
this is pretty concerning all around. |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 12:05 PM Author: dashing skinny woman laser beams Isn't the subordinate married? Has she not left her husband yet? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50029603) |
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Date: July 29th, 2026 3:15 AM Author: Rage Problems She’s actually divorced already, got a quick one (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50031362) |
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Date: July 29th, 2026 6:19 AM Author: Coherence Burnout (gunneratttt) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50031458) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 8:29 AM Author: Angry nursing home legend what's his name (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50029060) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 9:50 AM Author: Sienna Base Mad-dog Skullcap (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50029235) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 8:43 AM Author: Galvanic Infuriating Cruise Ship Why does he need a place to live? Is he homeless? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50029072) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 8:50 AM Author: diverse gaped personal credit line easy access to milf pussy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50029081) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 8:53 AM Author: Galvanic Infuriating Cruise Ship And playroom hotdogs (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50029091) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 11:40 AM Author: exciting milk That’s what I asked her. My place really is amazing. He probably lives in a much worse place and they think they’re in love and destined for this and this is his opportunity to move in and make it all happen. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50029531) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 8:49 AM Author: diverse gaped personal credit line this is 180 and you deserve this. Hopefully he knocks your wife up and some lesbian judge makes you pay child support |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 2:25 PM Author: Fragrant embarrassed to the bone gas station (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50030013) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 9:53 AM Author: Sienna Base Mad-dog Skullcap Going from still trying to work it out to separated to dating someone new and ready to move in together in the span of a few weeks is wild. Why is your ex so enthusiastic about starting another long term relationship already? And how does she have time for that while watching your kid? Where is he while your wife is going on these dates?
How long did you and her take to go from dating to in a relaitonship to moving in together to married? |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 10:04 AM Author: Yellow charismatic box office She’s very emotional rn so part of this is her flailing trying to find love and part of it is her trying to hurt op. That’s how I read it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50029277) |
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Date: July 29th, 2026 6:14 AM Author: Long PlayroomPoon Clown Conniption ( ) https://v82.erome.com/7009/NNPGTxan/JMfZCzFp_720p.mp4 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50031455) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 11:43 AM Author: exciting milk She spends all of her time socializing and just brings the kid everywhere. My wife is good looking but it’s still insane to me that some dude is like I’m gonna start a romance next to a small child.
I dated her for five years before we got married, but we moved in relatively quickly. But we didn’t have kids and she kept a separate place for the first like year just in case, just a different situation. |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 11:47 AM Author: Yellow charismatic box office this guy 100% has something wrong with him. no idea what it is, but there is something.
she is also clearly not herself. you traumatized her badly (not trying to make you feel bad), and part of this i think is she's not in her right mind and she also wants to hurt you or get back at you. that has to be going on as well. this situation is not going down very well, unfortunately. |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 1:53 PM Author: Sienna Base Mad-dog Skullcap (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50029919) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 6:53 PM Author: Kenneth Play (emotional girth) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50030581) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 1:56 PM Author: Sienna Base Mad-dog Skullcap Does she work?
Is she smart enough to see that a guy very likely isn't a great long term prospect when he's (a) the first guy she happened to start something with, just weeks after her marriage dissolved (presumably...), and (b) strangely eager to date and move in with a newly single mom? |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 6:08 PM Author: Ricky Lost you at smart enough irt a woman (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50030519) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 7:00 PM Author: literal octopus at an aquarium I'm gonna let everyone in on a little secret. She's been banging this guy longer than a few weeks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50030597) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 7:52 PM Author: Emotionally + Physically Abusive Ex-Husband (oppose bitchbois) Damn (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50030728) |
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Date: July 29th, 2026 3:18 AM Author: Rage Problems I actually don’t think so. Her mood got better a few weeks ago and as recently as a month ago she was still very jealous and stalking me, asked if she could have my semen for a second kid even if we don’t stay together. I legit think this started no longer than 4-8 weeks ago max, and probably even 2-3 weeks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50031363) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 12:01 PM Author: dashing skinny woman laser beams I think this is where I'm finally able to say this whole saga has been flame. But well done. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50029591) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 2:49 PM Author: Yellow charismatic box office i'm telling you, as someone who lived a scenario very similar to this, this isn't flame. it rings too true. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50030119) |
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Date: July 29th, 2026 6:21 AM Author: Coherence Burnout (gunneratttt) The only part of me that thinks it might be flame is because it's so ordinary. But that just means it's impossible to tell. This guy might as well be talking about eating a ham and cheese sandwich. It's so by the numbers. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50031459) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 7:17 PM Author: Garfieldguy2000 The vacation thread made it seem flame but the rest all seems true, even including this. Hard to say. But whether this is flame or not, this story is playing out all over America right now. Same shit nearly happened to me last year with Asian Pussy. The affair partner seemed like she had it all but as zurich noted: something is off about a woman that would break up a family. Luckily my wife forgave me and I cut off contact with the AP. I wonder how it turned out for her. Once in a blue moon I get a little devil on my shoulder saying "reach out" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50030654) |
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Date: July 29th, 2026 6:15 AM Author: Long PlayroomPoon Clown Conniption ( ) asian pussy is toxic. do you go to AP Anonymous? |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 1:32 PM Author: Sickened jew Have you considered triple homicide suicide? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50029871) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 6:13 PM Author: Rickys' Cat atleast hes not hispanic (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50030527) |
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Date: July 29th, 2026 3:30 AM Author: Brother Peter Dimond i think i read all these threads but i guess i missed whether the wife ever really found out what was going on with the subordinate or if op just checked out without her knowing much (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50031364) |
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Date: July 29th, 2026 8:18 AM Author: Rage Problems She didn’t. She actually seems to think I have no one now. Told me yesterday that she hopes I can find someone new too one day. If I had to guess, she probably thinks it was just a fling or I was out banging randos. Once I go public one day with the subordinate I am sure she will highly suspect it was her, but it doesn’t really matter anymore. She’ll probably be glad because I’m sure she has some level of guilt over this.
The weird thing is I’m suddenly the good guy. It’s an easy story now that she moved in with some random dude when we were separated and I of course had to move on, found the subordinate. The only slightly worrying thing is when I told my closest coworker yesterday that happens to also be a solid personal confidant and friend (wanted more recommendations on family lawyers), he was trying to cheer me up and was like no one died is the good thing and put it in perspective you have a healthy kid and a great job etc etc and you’ll find someone one day - I think (subordinate’s name) would be a good match. So now he’s going to feel like the match maker when it comes out and there’s an easy story in there. |
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Date: July 29th, 2026 6:28 AM Author: Coherence Burnout (gunneratttt) I don't think you realize how hard it is to find sane, attractive young-to-middle aged women.
Remember how Milhouse's dad initiated the separation, and his option was a slore, while his Milhouse's mom was getting courted by Chad, and the Dad wound up begging to reunite?
This is how it works IRL. This is what everyone told you. Quality women are in short supply. When they're available, they get snapped up quick. Divorced scumbag Dads that cheated on their doting wives are abundant.
Welcome to the suck you retard. Don't say no one told you. |
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Date: July 29th, 2026 8:15 AM Author: Rage Problems I’m already in something new. The subordinate has had a calming influence on my life. I sometimes wonder if I didn’t get involved with her and gave an honest second try with my wife if it would have worked out, but I don’t think it would have. She was really unhappy and resentful and being around her was a nightmare for over a year before anything happened with the subordinate. So there’s a good chance this would have happened to me eventually anyway. Now at least I already have another serious relationship that I’m actually incredibly satisfied with. It’s the kid situation that makes it tough to swallow. I may have moved on from my wife but I hadn’t yet from the family structure. I wouldn’t think to introduce the kid to the subordinate anytime soon. The fact that she did after a few weeks with the new guy is mind blowing to me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50031524) |
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Date: July 29th, 2026 8:53 AM Author: Coherence Burnout (gunneratttt) You're justifying your irritation and framing this as being about concern for your kids because you know this is on you. You can't feign suprise at her reaction when everyone told you this would blow up and drag the kids into it.
She was depressed or having some sort of emotional crisis based on her change in attitude. It's understandable you'd want out. But you knew that doing so risk sending her into a tailspin and your kids would be weaponized. You knew this and proceeded anyway. Own it. You're not a victim. |
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Date: July 29th, 2026 9:26 AM Author: Long PlayroomPoon Clown Conniption ( ) "Welcome to the suck, homos" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50031639) |
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Date: July 29th, 2026 8:26 AM Author: Strong words from the president ((zurich is stained)) rate my luck. i started in shitlaw and lateraled to biglaw, then cheated on my doting wife and left her and successfully came back. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50031531) |
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Date: July 29th, 2026 8:54 AM Author: Coherence Burnout (gunneratttt) 0 luck friend. You're a talented and amazing guy. You created that luck. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50031560) |
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Date: July 29th, 2026 9:38 AM Author: Strong words from the president ((zurich is stained)) i'm genx (or maybe an xennial) and i pulled myself up by the bootstraps. you can too. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50031660) |
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Date: July 29th, 2026 9:46 AM Author: Coherence Burnout (gunneratttt) I did bootstrap you bitch. And you're firmly Gen X. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50031668) |
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Date: July 29th, 2026 10:18 AM Author: Strong words from the president ((zurich is stained)) not true. i read this on the net. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50031705) |
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Date: July 29th, 2026 9:51 AM Author: lfo extremely narrow winning categories -military widows -lapsed guilty divorced Mormons -nurses or flight attendants the moment they decide they're tired of the hours of their job |
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Date: July 29th, 2026 9:56 AM Author: Coherence Burnout (gunneratttt) Divorcees (if you can confirm the husband caused the divorce like OP) and widows are CR.
Nurses and flight attendants are unmarriagable past like 25. The good ones get locked down quick, the remainder have the highest levels of insanity. 180 to casually pumo tho. |
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Date: July 29th, 2026 9:58 AM Author: lfo two categories of absolute CAWG 180000000, totally irregular hours and timezones and insanity (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50031683) |
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Date: July 29th, 2026 10:19 AM Author: Strong words from the president ((zurich is stained)) my friend's wife is a nurse. she withheld sex from him for like 5 years and gained not flame like 100 lbs. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50031706) |
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Date: July 29th, 2026 10:40 AM Author: Coherence Burnout (gunneratttt) My friend's wife is a dime piece and fucks and sucks me vigorously. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50031722) |
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Date: July 29th, 2026 10:46 AM Author: Strong words from the president ((zurich is stained)) lol wow what a poor schmuck! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50031735) |
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Date: July 29th, 2026 10:48 AM Author: Coherence Burnout (gunneratttt) He's actually an amazing and talented guy that creates his own luck despite being Gen X (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50031739) |
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Date: July 29th, 2026 10:49 AM Author: Strong words from the president ((zurich is stained)) sounds like a 180 guy except for his being a cuck. glad that's not me haha. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2…id#50031740) |