Just paid for my first SeekingArrangement girl... how pathetic?
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Date: October 1st, 2016 3:31 AM Author: Crusty mother psychic
Late-20s guy. Decent looking but nerdy and socially awkward. Go out on date with SeekingArrangement girl, 20 years old. Smart, high achieving college student. She's relatively new to the site, doesn't look like a slut or anything. I make conversation, ask her several times what she's looking for, trying to get a sense of what her deal is, and how much money she wants. She demurs, says she's just looking for someone to feel cozy with, and that she's not a sex worker. We spend quite a while together, go back to my place and bang several times. She's a pro, sucks and fucks like a porn star. During the periods between sex I'm prying her for information about her sex life, the nasty things she's done. She divulges all but says how she's changed from "the past" (she's 20). She's flattering me, saying she's into guys with feminine personalities (lol). After the last bang, I ask if she wants to stay over. Very sweetly she says "I want to go home." Then ask her again if she's sure. She again very sweetly asks for an uber. Then she turns around and asks for a donation. I look crestfallen and give her a hundred.
On one hand, all things considered, this is a good deal for sex (dollar-wise) no matter who you are.
On the other hand, why the fuck was she so evasive about what she was after, and felt like she was massively buttering me up... all for a measly hundred?
Finally, I feel this is the nail in the coffin shattering any residual respect I had for myself. I literally just paid for sex. Not only am I no longer attractive to college girls and will likely never get them for free again (I know this lone event isn't indicative on a rational basis since we met on SA, duh, but emotionally it feels this way). But also I wasted MY youth, MY time in college having never banged girls like this and now I'm a semi-washed up old man paying them for pity sex or something. Apparently it was so easy to fuck her that she was relating the times she fucked guys who simply asked her a lot. But I'm not even on THAT level, and never was. Soon I'll be a full blown perv without a family and addicted to shallow encounters with disease infested whores.
Fuck my life
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2#31533586) |
Date: October 1st, 2016 4:31 AM Author: judgmental canary center depressive
Bargain! But yes that is really sad for all parties.
Have you tried being confident and lifting weights?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2#31533741) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 4:53 AM Author: Crusty mother psychic
poor social skills
yeah it's amazing that the ability to speak fluently to strangers about random shit is the defining line between hot nubile girls consistently wanting to be around you and rub their private parts with you from puberty onward, and having no meaningful human contact whatsoever for decades while you are at your physical horniest.
fuck this
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2#31533784) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 5:28 AM Author: Crusty mother psychic
honestly though, the only "identity" i would be able to conjure up and fashion is literally geek, intellectual, etc.
undesirable things
having confidence to be something wholly undesirable to nubile sex kittens is really nothing to be proud about at all
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2#31533840) |
Date: October 1st, 2016 5:11 AM Author: Crusty mother psychic
one thing i have to say after having been on Tinder and now SA: all the nasty stories you hear about young people in their teens fucking like rabbits, just hooking up all the time, giving out easy blowjobs to whomever, having 3somes, having violently rough sex, exploring various kinks before they've even gotten their driver's license... it's ALL TRUE!
they are out there doing these things, even though when i was their age i was a mega-nerd in the library studying. didn't know these things existed outside the confines of porn.
and no, it's not all with this mythical chad. it's within certain communities under varied contexts, but these were highly identifiable and perhaps exploitable if i had opened my eyes, actually looked around without fear of seeing something that would make me uncomfortable, went out there and TRIED
but i didn't, and this latter realization sucks the most
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2#31533811) |
Date: October 1st, 2016 10:23 AM Author: buck-toothed plaza juggernaut
you're complaining about a LIFEHACK that didn't exist until very recently. an organic as fuck experience and an endless gravy train of 20-year-old chicks for us successful yet busted guys.
i'd shamelessly pay the industry standard $500 for what you got. (and she's correct, that's what most SA chicks have quoted me).
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2#31534436) |
Date: October 1st, 2016 11:36 AM Author: Flirting bateful piazza
No she didn't respect you. You went into it thinking you could redeem yourself from being a John and you simply didn't have the power to do so.
You shouldn't be so hard on yourself. You put yourself in a pit that is hard to come out of, even if you are a Chad. Better option would be just to stay in there when you're dealing with these types of situations.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2#31534715) |
Date: October 1st, 2016 12:10 PM Author: jet-lagged stage pistol
A 5 hour multiple fuck session GFE date goes for at least $500. This wasn't a purely transactional thing for the girl . . . . wouldn't be worth her time. It's a lot simpler and less sinister than you're making it out to be. She probably liked you some and had a good time but is broke and needs a bit of extra money. You probably could have fucked her for free no problem (and without her being upset about it) if you had gone in with a different attitude.
It's insane that you think you got taken advantage here when you got a lengthy fuckfest with a young (and attractive sounding chick) for less than a lot of beta professional bros blow on dates with match.com shrews who "didn't feel a spark." If anyone got taken advantage of it's the girl, but she wouldn't have done it without money upfront unless she enjoyed it so it sounds like she got a good deal too.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2#31534854) |
Date: October 1st, 2016 12:44 PM Author: Hateful emerald lodge goal in life
It's even more toxic once you remember the job market facing people her age. To you, $100 plus an uber is a trivial expense. To a college student, that's 8 or more hours at a part time job. On an hourly basis, she needs two to three times as much compensation to tolerate your company as she does to fold shirts at Old Navy.
What's more, she likes sex-- just not with you. Some of that money, inevitably, is going to cosmetics and clothes so she can look good to attract the man she actually wants to have sex with. You are funding her pursuit of chad, who will fuck her for free as much as he likes (until he gets bored and moves on to the next girl).
The economics of the sexual market are absolutely brutal.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2#31535001) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2016 1:17 PM Author: jet-lagged stage pistol
Let's assume all of this is 100% true.
If we turn back the clock 70 years to when dating was much more assortive and everyone had fewer partners (5s dating 5s, 6s with 6s), OP wasn't going to bang this girl at all.
Now, for a minor expense, he gets to punch above his weight. Those economics are great for him, not brutal.
The real cost of this cartoon world is that when a 5-bro actually wants to settle down with a 5-chick, she's going to have been blown out by 7-bros and will never be satisfied with the 5-bro.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2#31541120) |
Date: October 1st, 2016 6:49 PM Author: Crusty mother psychic
here's the pic again
http://imgur.com/a/vcO8h
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2#31537325) |
Date: October 2nd, 2016 12:12 AM Author: aquamarine office
sites called SA, and now your complaining?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2#31539060)
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Date: October 2nd, 2016 6:54 AM Author: Ocher medicated forum
your problems are as following:
1. thinking you are above paying for it. no one is above paying for it in the right circumstances.
2. posting this shitty as flame.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2#31539951)
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