Pregnancy and caring for a baby who is up at all hours are tough. You owe it to your son, your wife, and yourself to make it work. It will likely get better.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5856004&forum_id=2#49812204)

wait until your son meets a kid while playing at your house and you overhear him say, "i don't live here, i'm just visiting," even though you've explained to him that he lives at BOTH your house and mom's house. his home is mom's house. he visits you.

if your wife is a bitch, she will try to turn the kid against you. that's not on you, but it kind of is because you took up with new pussy and left.

the caring for a baby thing is huge. you may not realize that that's driving a wedge between you and your wife, but it is. your marriage was/is fixable...probably. maybe it isn't.

i'm not piling on, nor am i trying to talk you out of this because you're doing it, but trying to brace you for some things that are coming.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5856004&forum_id=2#49812384)

Or props to the dad, at any rate. Once the divorce was final, the mom quit her job to become a "writer." I can always tell when it is her turn to be at the house, because whatever dude she is fucking that night will have his car parked in front of her house. In her defense, though, she was a fairly successful small business owner before she quit. It's possible that she was forced to give him a 50% stake in her business so she had no choice but to cash out. But it's also possible that she knew her ex-husband was going to be paying for her life anyway so she saw no reason to continue working. Women are 180.

I'm sure this won't happen to the OP, though. He is very clearly thinking with his head rather than his dick. And I'm sure the judge will understand the need to fuck a subordinate while his wife is pregnant and abandon his family for her, so there is minimal risk of him getting fuck over in the divorce.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5856004&forum_id=2#49815523)

wow cr they will be a part of your life forever but i wonder if their relationship with you will be impacted by the fact that you're taking them for granted and treating their lives as an afterthought before they were out of diapers.

"going out to get cigarettes! ill he back in 2050, they'll be fine til then haha"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5856004&forum_id=2#49812957)

how fortunate for you that this retardedly selfish and embarrassingly cliche bad idea of yours just so happens to be what’s best for your kid in your no-doubt sober and objective analysis.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5856004&forum_id=2#49812883)

LMAO

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5856004&forum_id=2#49813893)

apple doesn't fall too far from the tree!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5856004&forum_id=2#49816252)