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Wife left: tell me about seeking arrangements

Don’t want to risk hookers and i eventually want to tr...
titillating parlor
  09/22/25
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tan curious market doctorate
  09/23/25
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tan curious market doctorate
  09/23/25
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tan curious market doctorate
  09/23/25
I'm not sure you're gonna be able to command top dollar cons...
Yapping copper range roommate
  09/22/25
If they can’t handle me at my worst they don’t d...
titillating parlor
  09/22/25
Your refusal to state your height speaks volumes.
Yapping copper range roommate
  09/22/25
6’2” 220 (terrible build) Slight receding...
titillating parlor
  09/23/25
why did your wife leave you?
Bearded prole
  09/22/25
Wife had a mid life crisis. We married young but waited to h...
titillating parlor
  09/23/25
if you have a chance to bludgeon yourself retarded with rust...
Indigo office
  09/22/25
Grinder.com
Citrine tank garrison
  09/22/25
I don't believe OP is gay, though
Yapping copper range roommate
  09/23/25
There are some gems on SA if you’re willing to wade th...
Jet Bateful Sneaky Criminal Preventive Strike
  09/23/25
Search for the seeking arrangement poaster’s threads. ...
excitant state deer antler
  09/23/25
wow
bearded thriller kitty
  09/23/25
What's ur $$$$$ situation and geography? DESCRIBE ur terr...
erotic business firm factory reset button
  09/23/25
...
tan curious market doctorate
  09/23/25
"Don’t want to risk hookers" I've got som...
Pontificating degenerate
  09/23/25
There’s some pros on there for sure but there’s ...
Jet Bateful Sneaky Criminal Preventive Strike
  09/23/25
It is all literally sex for money.
Pontificating degenerate
  09/23/25
They're not hookers. They're just seeking Mutually Benefi...
Yapping copper range roommate
  09/23/25
Actual professional hookers seem less risky than this.
Mauve Gaped Box Office Half-breed
  09/23/25
How so?
Jet Bateful Sneaky Criminal Preventive Strike
  09/23/25
They're not going to do something dumb like call or text you...
Mauve Gaped Box Office Half-breed
  09/23/25
I’d rather deal with an amateur hooker than a professi...
Jet Bateful Sneaky Criminal Preventive Strike
  09/23/25
professional hookers are in business bcs they are profession...
Carnelian church death wish
  09/23/25
…?
Jet Bateful Sneaky Criminal Preventive Strike
  09/23/25
Do not take advice from this poaster. He is dumb.
maniacal french famous landscape painting
  09/23/25
I’m speaking from experience, are you?
Jet Bateful Sneaky Criminal Preventive Strike
  09/24/25
that's why you give them a burner number and not your real n...
Yapping copper range roommate
  09/23/25
Also this
Jet Bateful Sneaky Criminal Preventive Strike
  09/23/25
...
Rose vigorous senate
  09/23/25
What does this sentence mean: “ start autistically get...
excitant state deer antler
  09/23/25
I think he means dedicate your life to hobbies or scholarshi...
Jet Bateful Sneaky Criminal Preventive Strike
  09/23/25
...
Rose vigorous senate
  09/23/25
...
bearded thriller kitty
  09/23/25
The time required to match/vet and potential for headaches t...
maniacal french famous landscape painting
  09/23/25
Or he can go to church and find a decent woman to date/marry
Zippy police squad
  09/23/25
1) he says he doesn’t want to marry, 2) dating is very...
maniacal french famous landscape painting
  09/24/25
You will be amazed at how often their cars break down, famil...
Razzle-dazzle institution
  09/23/25
...
Yapping copper range roommate
  09/24/25
lol, sounds ghastly
Pontificating degenerate
  09/24/25
SA is a huge waste of time. Just hire hookers every now and ...
Elite Chapel
  09/23/25
...
Rose vigorous senate
  09/23/25
It is until you get caught in a sting.
Yapping copper range roommate
  09/24/25
There is no value in this. It died the same way dating apps...
Dun queen of the night
  09/24/25
SA Poaster Here... I got into a more serious relationship...
insanely creepy laser beams property
  10/21/25
What kind of PPM should I be looking at for high col city?
titillating parlor
  10/21/25
WHITE MEN DONT PAY FOR SEX DURR DURR
razzle brilliant really tough guy
  11/02/25
Reminder: nyuug isn't a Korean citizen, only has US Passport...
razzle brilliant really tough guy
  01/13/26
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razzle brilliant really tough guy
  01/13/26
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nyuug
  06/08/26
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nyuug
  06/08/26
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nyuug
  06/08/26
This is like the worst parts of dating plus still having to ...
titillating parlor
  01/21/26
These women are nuts
titillating parlor
  01/24/26
why not just go hunting the Bumblesauruses?
Long PlayroomPoon Clown Conniption
  06/08/26


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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:05 PM
Author: titillating parlor

Don’t want to risk hookers and i eventually want to try dating again but it’s been too long with the wife.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49291749)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: tan curious market doctorate

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49293910)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:50 AM
Author: tan curious market doctorate

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49293939)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:40 PM
Author: tan curious market doctorate

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49296549)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:08 PM
Author: Yapping copper range roommate

I'm not sure you're gonna be able to command top dollar considering your:

- age;

- height;

- remaining hair

But give it a go!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49291759)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:17 PM
Author: titillating parlor

If they can’t handle me at my worst they don’t deserve me at my best

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49291776)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 4:15 PM
Author: Yapping copper range roommate

Your refusal to state your height speaks volumes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49291944)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:00 AM
Author: titillating parlor

6’2”

220 (terrible build)

Slight receding with a widows peak. I don’t look balding yet but I’ve got some worries.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49293643)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 4:15 PM
Author: Bearded prole

why did your wife leave you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49291946)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:04 AM
Author: titillating parlor

Wife had a mid life crisis. We married young but waited to have kids so I’m not sure what her problem is.

I work too much is part of it.

She didn’t cuck me before separation but I assume she has by now.

So I’m done.

Don’t really want another wife while my kids are young.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49293651)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 5:11 PM
Author: Indigo office

if you have a chance to bludgeon yourself retarded with rust caked pipes, do that over and over instead

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49292139)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 5:40 PM
Author: Citrine tank garrison

Grinder.com

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49292243)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:22 PM
Author: Yapping copper range roommate

I don't believe OP is gay, though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49295397)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:18 AM
Author: Jet Bateful Sneaky Criminal Preventive Strike

There are some gems on SA if you’re willing to wade through the trash. Ideal would be to find a cute-ish 20-25 yo girl who will have sex for $500 a pop that you can see twice a month or so. There’s a lot of flakes, I suggest quickly moving conversation to “hey let’s meet up for a drink, are you free tonight?” to see if they are serious / interested or not.

Don’t talk about money / sex on the app, wait to meet up and feel things out in person. Hopefully you have a least a little game.

Also, get in shape.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49293677)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:20 AM
Author: excitant state deer antler

Search for the seeking arrangement poaster’s threads. All the scholarship you need.

The short version is if you are moderately good looking you’ll do great. Tell them up front you are looking for pay per meet. You will undoubtedly have some kooky situations. Ultimately, you will grow tired of it and your soul will be diminished.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49293681)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:21 PM
Author: bearded thriller kitty

wow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49296963)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: erotic business firm factory reset button

What's ur $$$$$ situation and geography?

DESCRIBE ur terrible physique and honestly rate ur facial aesthetics and genetic makeup

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49293908)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: tan curious market doctorate

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49293911)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:16 PM
Author: Pontificating degenerate

"Don’t want to risk hookers"

I've got some bad news about SA

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49294299)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:54 PM
Author: Jet Bateful Sneaky Criminal Preventive Strike

There’s some pros on there for sure but there’s also some college girls looking for an allowance

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49294402)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 2:57 PM
Author: Pontificating degenerate

It is all literally sex for money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49295292)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:23 PM
Author: Yapping copper range roommate

They're not hookers.

They're just seeking Mutually Beneficial arrangements, tee-hee

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49295402)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:57 PM
Author: Mauve Gaped Box Office Half-breed

Actual professional hookers seem less risky than this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49294413)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:59 PM
Author: Jet Bateful Sneaky Criminal Preventive Strike

How so?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49294425)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 1:18 PM
Author: Mauve Gaped Box Office Half-breed

They're not going to do something dumb like call or text you at the wrong time or go nuts on you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49294503)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:15 PM
Author: Jet Bateful Sneaky Criminal Preventive Strike

I’d rather deal with an amateur hooker than a professional one, the pros are more likely to be sketchy, have a criminal record, drug use, poverty, STDs, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49295355)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 4:23 PM
Author: Carnelian church death wish

professional hookers are in business bcs they are professional, not on drugs, germ-free, take credit cards where as amateurs are all dirty druggies with std's they dont even know about, "oh that itch/rash/sore/fever, i thought it was cuz I havent showered in 5 days".

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49295517)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:25 PM
Author: Jet Bateful Sneaky Criminal Preventive Strike

…?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49296355)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:43 PM
Author: maniacal french famous landscape painting

Do not take advice from this poaster. He is dumb.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49296572)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:09 AM
Author: Jet Bateful Sneaky Criminal Preventive Strike

I’m speaking from experience, are you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49297045)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:23 PM
Author: Yapping copper range roommate

that's why you give them a burner number and not your real name.

Rookie

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49295406)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 4:13 PM
Author: Jet Bateful Sneaky Criminal Preventive Strike

Also this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49295494)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 1:00 PM
Author: Rose vigorous senate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49294429)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:14 PM
Author: excitant state deer antler

What does this sentence mean: “ start autistically getting to a surrogate activity”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49296185)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:26 PM
Author: Jet Bateful Sneaky Criminal Preventive Strike

I think he means dedicate your life to hobbies or scholarship instead of wasting time on women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49296383)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:55 PM
Author: Rose vigorous senate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49296940)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:22 PM
Author: bearded thriller kitty



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49296966)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:39 PM
Author: maniacal french famous landscape painting

The time required to match/vet and potential for headaches that can come from the fake dating with SA always seemed like a big negative to me. That single non-parent dude in CO who was lining them up 3 per night and poasted all those pics and sex diaries seemed like the right way to SA. Ie it’s a tool suited to single middle aged dudes with a lot of time to search for a daddy issues Cinderella. But for a single dad with young kids it seems awful. Requires time you don’t have and energy/stress you should spare yourself. If you want to fuck a hot chick, pay over $500/hr (usually $800 in a big city), get a burner, use a fake name, set up a fake LinkedIn and treat yourself to a high end escort every once in a while. No reason that would prevent you from dating later on or concurrently, in fact I’d argue it would improve your performance because you won’t depend on dating for sex, you’ll have more time and you will be more rational in your assessments of potential long term candidates.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49296544)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:16 PM
Author: Zippy police squad

Or he can go to church and find a decent woman to date/marry

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49296958)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 3:24 AM
Author: maniacal french famous landscape painting

1) he says he doesn’t want to marry, 2) dating is very hard as a single parent with little kids, 3) the only women at church who see a single dad wrangling two kids and think to themselves “ohh I wonder if he’s single or his wife just has a stomach bug” are 300+ lbs. You’re right that mongering is a soul-rotting practice, but he’s the rare dude where the soul rot is worth the trade for the convenient access to sex with a woman who is otherwise far too attractive for him to ever have a chance with.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49297191)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:47 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle institution

You will be amazed at how often their cars break down, family members/pets have costly medical emergencies, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49296638)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:51 AM
Author: Yapping copper range roommate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49297113)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 2:08 PM
Author: Pontificating degenerate

lol, sounds ghastly

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49298625)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:07 PM
Author: Elite Chapel

SA is a huge waste of time. Just hire hookers every now and then.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49296951)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:10 PM
Author: Rose vigorous senate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49296954)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:50 AM
Author: Yapping copper range roommate

It is until you get caught in a sting.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49297112)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:03 AM
Author: Dun queen of the night

There is no value in this. It died the same way dating apps died. The hot chicks are on instagram and if they need extra cash post on onlyfans. The dude who posted here about SA posted a lot of 30s women. Why bother with that?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49297025)



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Date: October 21st, 2025 5:03 PM
Author: insanely creepy laser beams property

SA Poaster Here...

I got into a more serious relationship with a chick I met off a dating app... We ended up having a bunch of mutual friends in common and went from there so I haven't been on SA in ages... I also started doing great on the apps (this takes a bit of time as the algo ranks you and can be frustrating/discouraging at first so be patient), so I got off SA completely.

However, for your situation I think it's fine, just use a google voice burner number and ideally don't take them to where you live until you've hooked up with them at least once and aren't getting any sketchy or crazy vibes. I only say that because you have kids. I met up with plenty of chicks straight at my house straight away, including late at night and it was fine but if I had kids I wouldn't do that.

If you search SA on here you'll get all my poasts which have quite a bit of scholarship on the matter. Ideally you find 1 or 2 you actually have some fun hanging out with who are great in bed and you just keep them on rotation whenever you're free.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49364680)



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Date: October 21st, 2025 5:44 PM
Author: titillating parlor

What kind of PPM should I be looking at for high col city?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49364751)



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Date: November 2nd, 2025 7:21 PM
Author: razzle brilliant really tough guy

WHITE MEN DONT PAY FOR SEX DURR DURR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49396314)



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Date: January 13th, 2026 6:54 PM
Author: razzle brilliant really tough guy

Reminder: nyuug isn't a Korean citizen, only has US Passport

http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3466376&forum_id=2#32188261



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49587124)



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Date: January 13th, 2026 7:08 PM
Author: razzle brilliant really tough guy



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49587194)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 12:38 AM
Author: nyuug



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49921692)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 12:54 AM
Author: nyuug



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49921779)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 8:00 PM
Author: nyuug



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49923921)



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Date: January 21st, 2026 5:33 PM
Author: titillating parlor

This is like the worst parts of dating plus still having to pay.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49607174)



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Date: January 24th, 2026 9:40 AM
Author: titillating parlor

These women are nuts

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49614072)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 5:55 AM
Author: Long PlayroomPoon Clown Conniption ( )

why not just go hunting the Bumblesauruses?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49921905)