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What's the protocol for kicking a guy out of your friend group?

Long story on how this happened but basically 2 guys wormed ...
Saffron Alpha
  05/08/26
You make a facially neutral "no duplicate names" r...
poppy space
  05/08/26
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Saffron Alpha
  05/08/26
realize this is johnsmeyer but just call them by their last ...
Narrow-minded Temple
  05/08/26
if you are referring to a chat group member by their first n...
mint apoplectic senate
  05/08/26
Huh? What are you supposed to call them?
Saffron Alpha
  05/08/26
- last name - variation of last name - nickname
mint apoplectic senate
  05/08/26
Must be an ethnic thing. We're all white guys
Saffron Alpha
  05/08/26
(guy who read about white guys on WeChat)
mint apoplectic senate
  05/08/26
i think OP is referring to IRL people
Wonderful Spot
  05/08/26
it does seem that way, but why would he come here for advice...
floppy boltzmann striped hyena
  05/08/26
Evidently one of the "Gregs" is actually "Gre...
Saffron Alpha
  05/08/26
3G, actually
Judgmental razzle lettuce
  05/08/26
everybody has sex with his girlfriend nobody says shit
stirring selfie casino
  05/08/26
I had 3 groomsmen named Chris. Only last names are used
Aqua organic girlfriend
  05/08/26
Smash his fucking face in
Zippy red pit
  05/08/26
By changing your phone number, selling your house, moving to...
Trip school cafeteria double fault
  05/08/26
we had two Gregs in friend group so one was Greg, and the ot...
Rusted Cowardly Church Goyim
  05/08/26
usually you just make a new discord/group chat and then invi...
motley center personal credit line
  05/08/26
#GuyCore
Dark feces home
  05/08/26
protocol is 1. report the offender to HR 2. HR will cond...
unholy laughsome pistol
  05/08/26


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Date: May 8th, 2026 9:29 AM
Author: Saffron Alpha

Long story on how this happened but basically 2 guys wormed their way into our main friend group by being friends of core guys. Both guys are named Greg. We don't wanna do the "Greg G" "Greg R" thing, we just want one of the Gregs gone. How do we decide on which one and how to we break it to him?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5864971&forum_id=2#49874589)



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Date: May 8th, 2026 9:38 AM
Author: poppy space

You make a facially neutral "no duplicate names" rule that easily survives rational basis scrutiny for numerous logistical reasons. Kick them both out using the rule -- no hard feelings because the rule was applied neutrally so neither can complain. Not even "Gregs" were singled out, just duplicate names. After they're both gone, I can't think of a legit, non-israel reason why you can't invite the one you prefer back.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5864971&forum_id=2#49874601)



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Date: May 8th, 2026 9:58 AM
Author: Saffron Alpha



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5864971&forum_id=2#49874632)



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Date: May 8th, 2026 9:43 AM
Author: Narrow-minded Temple

realize this is johnsmeyer but just call them by their last names or call one of them dingleberry or something

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5864971&forum_id=2#49874607)



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Date: May 8th, 2026 9:43 AM
Author: mint apoplectic senate

if you are referring to a chat group member by their first name, they aren't a friend. nuke both from the group with malice.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5864971&forum_id=2#49874608)



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Date: May 8th, 2026 9:58 AM
Author: Saffron Alpha

Huh? What are you supposed to call them?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5864971&forum_id=2#49874631)



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Date: May 8th, 2026 11:12 AM
Author: mint apoplectic senate

- last name

- variation of last name

- nickname



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5864971&forum_id=2#49874797)



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Date: May 8th, 2026 12:39 PM
Author: Saffron Alpha

Must be an ethnic thing. We're all white guys

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5864971&forum_id=2#49874920)



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Date: May 8th, 2026 3:15 PM
Author: mint apoplectic senate

(guy who read about white guys on WeChat)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5864971&forum_id=2#49875159)



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Date: May 8th, 2026 10:13 AM
Author: Wonderful Spot

i think OP is referring to IRL people

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5864971&forum_id=2#49874668)



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Date: May 8th, 2026 10:20 AM
Author: floppy boltzmann striped hyena

it does seem that way, but why would he come here for advice about that kind of thing?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5864971&forum_id=2#49874696)



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Date: May 8th, 2026 10:12 AM
Author: Saffron Alpha

Evidently one of the "Gregs" is actually "Gregg" and he has said we can call him "2G" and keep both of them. I think it sounds stupid and am ready to wash my hands of the whole thing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5864971&forum_id=2#49874666)



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Date: May 8th, 2026 11:36 AM
Author: Judgmental razzle lettuce

3G, actually

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5864971&forum_id=2#49874819)



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Date: May 8th, 2026 11:34 AM
Author: stirring selfie casino

everybody has sex with his girlfriend

nobody says shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5864971&forum_id=2#49874815)



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Date: May 8th, 2026 11:38 AM
Author: Aqua organic girlfriend

I had 3 groomsmen named Chris. Only last names are used

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5864971&forum_id=2#49874820)



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Date: May 8th, 2026 11:41 AM
Author: Zippy red pit

Smash his fucking face in

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5864971&forum_id=2#49874823)



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Date: May 8th, 2026 12:39 PM
Author: Trip school cafeteria double fault

By changing your phone number, selling your house, moving to a new state, and never giving a passing thought to any of these people ever again.

And if you have any social media accounts besides XO—which you shouldn’t but the entire nature of this thread makes me question your judgment—then you should close those accounts immediately and get a new gmail address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5864971&forum_id=2#49874919)



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Date: May 8th, 2026 12:48 PM
Author: Rusted Cowardly Church Goyim

we had two Gregs in friend group so one was Greg, and the other Double G due to his name spelling (Gregg). Double G was a great name for the second greg, and sounded like a rapper name or British podcast guy name, so everyone was happy with it. Hope this helps.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5864971&forum_id=2#49874939)



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Date: May 8th, 2026 12:48 PM
Author: motley center personal credit line

usually you just make a new discord/group chat and then invite everyone to it except the one guy you're trying to get rid of

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5864971&forum_id=2#49874940)



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Date: May 8th, 2026 2:20 PM
Author: Dark feces home

#GuyCore

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5864971&forum_id=2#49875088)



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Date: May 8th, 2026 3:21 PM
Author: unholy laughsome pistol

protocol is

1. report the offender to HR

2. HR will conduct an investigation using an outside consultant if necessary

3. disciplinary action may be taken according to the findings

4. the offender may receive only a warning though depending on the severity of the offense, so

5. you may have to build a case to terminate the friendship

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5864971&forum_id=2#49875161)