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Thunder Collins update: the endgame nears
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Date: April 20th, 2020 12:11 PM Author: Aggressive locus My wife has become completely unglued as this quarantine progresses. Just batshit insane and abusive.
We tried to go to the San Clemente beach a couple weeks ago and they shut it down. So I drop her off at our neighborhood playground to use the sand there instead. A guy in the neighborhood comes up and harasses her and tells her she should be ashamed of putting her daughter's life at risk. He comes back multiple times and starts recording her. My wife went ballistic on them and she calls me screaming. I go to talk to the guy who did this and chew him out for being a dick and they call the cops on us. Six cop cars show up for a domestic violence call.
She screams for hours a day and has threatened to kill me multiple times. I woke up one night last week to her punching me in the head. My daughter asked me if mommy had hurt me last weekend and I said no. She later grabs my daughter and tells her - while she is in tears - that daddy is a bad man and he hurts mommy.
I told her I want a divorce and that she is mentally ill and have begun reaching out to lawyers this morning.
Taking questions and advice. |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 4:00 AM Author: Costumed vigorous national friendly grandma If only someone had warned you.
Thoughts and prayers friend. |
Date: April 20th, 2020 12:21 PM Author: Balding genital piercing Not speaking to the domestic issue, but the guy recording your wife sounds like a total dick. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40053873) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 12:25 PM Author: godawful impertinent shrine guarantee you it was a middle-aged white male. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40053906) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 12:27 PM Author: Balding genital piercing a lib "male" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40053928) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 12:50 PM Author: Aggressive locus It was a middle aged white man. I tracked him down and told him he was a dickhead and that he needed to delete the videos because it is against the law to record someone without their consent in California. The cops were called and told it was a DV situation and I assaulted or was on the verge of assaulting the guy. He was physically intimidated because I am like twice his size. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054179) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 2:09 PM Author: nubile parlour fanboi No expectation of privacy in public. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054869) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 2:12 PM Author: Aggressive locus That was his response. Fuck, I thought it was illegal. His wife was a lawyer and he said he was a criminal investigator. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054908) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 2:27 PM Author: nubile parlour fanboi Sounds like he was harassing you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40055075) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 2:55 PM Author: godawful impertinent shrine this is why people need guns. and I usually post about repealing the 2nd amendment. ljl. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40055303) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 3:09 PM Author: Aggressive locus Wife made the same point. She was ranting about how shit like this doesn’t happen in Texas (where we used to live) because you never know who has a gun (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40055453) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 7:05 PM Author: Rambunctious translucent mental disorder address wasn't it your wife's idea to move to socal? ljl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40057205) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 7:20 PM Author: Aggressive locus Yup, she fucked me over in numerous ways (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40057302) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 2:26 PM Author: godawful impertinent shrine Sure. But I don't get why Birdshits have to be hall monitors everywhere. That guy should be shot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40055074) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 2:27 PM Author: nubile parlour fanboi I'd go back to same spot and if he does it again you then have enough to file for a civil harassment restraining order. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40055079) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 2:32 PM Author: Aggressive locus The cop told my wife to call him if harasses her again. I said we should go back to the spot and waIt for him to do something. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40055115) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 3:02 PM Author: nubile parlour fanboi If who harasses your wife again? I thought the cop was the one harassing her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40055373) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 3:08 PM Author: Aggressive locus No it was some random dickhead in the neighborhood. The cops were like WTF, why were we called about this and asked my wife if I assaulted the guy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40055441) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 4:07 PM Author: nubile parlour fanboi Ah, I see. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40055905) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 5:06 PM Author: insane citrine hell Was he actually a criminal investigator? That's a very specific claim to make. Even as a PI (I'm licensed as one in CA) I can't go around making people think I'm a cop or other form of LE. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40056338) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 6:14 PM Author: Aggressive locus No idea. I doubted it at the time, but who knows. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40056780) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 1:55 PM Author: Lemon forum boltzmann (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40062645) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 12:23 PM Author: Heady Crackhouse Patrolman Thank you for your service (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40053887) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 12:23 PM Author: Thriller Vermilion Sound Barrier Electric Furnace When U follow through with divorce (unlikely) will u commit to posting pics of her tits? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40053893) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 12:24 PM Author: Heady Crackhouse Patrolman She needs a moniker so we can get BOTH SIDES of the story. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40053901) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 12:31 PM Author: vivacious philosopher-king new version (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40053968) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 1:40 PM Author: Lake Ceo Nibblets (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054581) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 2:12 PM Author: drunken provocative brethren orchestra pit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054902) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 5:43 PM Author: Bronze school (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40064235) |
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Date: April 22nd, 2020 12:01 AM Author: Maroon multi-billionaire property (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40066896) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 12:24 PM Author: Peach Native what have you done to protect yourself prior to divorce (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40053897) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 12:52 PM Author: Aggressive locus I have taken a lot of videos which show her threatening to stab me, destroy my things, hitting me as well as screen captures of text messages where she threatened to do things like take my kids out of state without my permission, deny me paternity, admit to abusive behavior etc. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054195) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 7:28 PM Author: Irradiated temple The more issues you have (especially medically related), the more expensive it's to litigate.
You need to think through the financial implications.
This could easily cost 100s of thousands when the woman is batshit crazy who refuses to amicably negotiate things outside of court.
Think very very carefully about this. |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 2:13 PM Author: Massive aquamarine space What are his other options though? Live with her forever until she is ugly and even crazier? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40062764) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 12:24 PM Author: Peach Native are you still sleeping in the same bed as her (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40053899) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 12:53 PM Author: Aggressive locus No, neither of us are sleeping and it is really a huge cause of her going nuts. She is sleeping in the same bed as my toddler daughter and is getting up at 4:30 or 5:00 with both kids while I sleep in the master. She can’t sleep in any other bed because she feels like all of the other beds are too uncomfortable. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054217) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 1:25 PM Author: Hairraiser internet-worthy brunch alpha you have TWO kids??? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054459) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 1:27 PM Author: Aggressive locus One 2.5 year old that is hyperactive and wakes up at 5 in the morning One 6 month old
Life is hell. Everyone says just divorce pussy, but it is terribly difficult to take care of both of them alone. |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 10:48 PM Author: Cocky cobalt market Have similarly aged kids. If i divorced there is no way i could take care of two young kids. Impossible. My wife is the one who makes all that work. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40066372) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 12:25 PM Author: Cracking angry police squad pit Time to start pulling out (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40053908) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 12:26 PM Author: Irate buff toaster famous landscape painting Lmao (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40053921) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 12:28 PM Author: Rose stirring hospital Oh hey. I asked about you a couple times in threads. Glad you're okay, sort of. Think about how much better you will feel in 6 months or a year when you're on the other side of this and free. If that won't do it, leave for your kids.
Wait. Unless, do you think she will treat your kids better or worse once you're out of the picture? |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 12:55 PM Author: Aggressive locus She has threatened to slowly turn my kids against me over time. Also has erupted in rage at my daughter and I have had to restrain her from spanking her hard.
Divorce is not going to be good either way for my kids except maybe they won’t have to witness as many fights. |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 2:15 PM Author: Massive aquamarine space (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40062785) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 12:29 PM Author: black immigrant liquid oxygen Dude. I dont know if you've been following my truck camper build, but it is designed.for a guy like you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40053955) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 12:55 PM Author: Aggressive locus (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054236) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 1:00 PM Author: black immigrant liquid oxygen Seriously. You never seem certain where you are going to move next and always post "worried about cost of house inDenver/orange county/etcetc". Move into a legit luxurious truck camper. $23k, and superior to $50k products that dominate the market. Dequontavius@gmail.com and I'll send you build quality pictures, etc. |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 1:03 PM Author: Aggressive locus LOL, I have thought about what I would do if I lost my job and considered a camper plus gym membership for shower if it got desperate. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054296) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 1:06 PM Author: black immigrant liquid oxygen Think diiferent. You wont need the gym .embership: My truck camper includes a shower with water heated from a 5 gal tank with a heat exchanger inside that receives hot water from a diesel-fired water heater designed to keep truck engines warm. In other words the hot water tank has no problem maintaining water volume and heat. Plus, there is an option to weld az power tower type gym onto the rear of the camper (all aluminum, just like the camper, if course). |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 12:30 PM Author: boyish theater reminder: Thunder Collins is the broken one in this relationship (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40053960) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 12:53 PM Author: Judgmental theatre (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054212) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 12:55 PM Author: Plum Mediation Library (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054237) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 12:33 PM Author: vivacious philosopher-king new version does CSLG do divorces? having him represent you in the divorce proceedings for an insane fee would be a 180 XO west coast crossover poast. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40053977) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 12:33 PM Author: Peach Native chilmata does (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40053981) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 3:01 PM Author: Purple ungodly resort ?? i thought chilmata was a 45yo with less than $1,000 to his name who is also the general counsel for 10 different businesses (all of which are money laundering fronts where the owner found the dumbest most credulous lawyer he could who would sign anything put in front of him) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40055363) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 3:11 PM Author: Tripping Startling Nowag Stage That was before phish forum exposed him as a racist (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40055468) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 6:37 PM Author: Umber Unhinged Base Karate chilmata has at least $25,000 to his name (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40056944) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 3:14 PM Author: nubile parlour fanboi I took $5,000 and bought Boeing, Sysco, Sprouts, BP, and Disney at the dip. Just put $2000 in HBAN today. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40063215) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 11:50 AM Author: nubile parlour fanboi lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40061731) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 12:33 PM Author: Odious flirting french chef the problem with your story is it's obviously one-sided. what are some of your shortcomings? of course, keeping in mind self-assessments are rarely objective (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40053988) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 12:56 PM Author: bateful background story generally being a soft faggot bitch who won't stand up to his wife. see fulano and nutella, supra (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054242) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 1:21 PM Author: Aggressive locus I do stand up to her and it results in insane fights that last for hours and escalate into crazy threats and physical violence (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054437) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 1:00 PM Author: Aggressive locus I am a little aspie and can get wrapped up in my own thoughts. I am not attentive and not emotional. She is highly emotional and craves tons of emotional support that frankly I don’t have the energy for with two young kids and everything else. She also is a neat freak and I am messy.
The biggest issue is I have been happy to let her get up with the kids while I sleep until 6. I do things like give a late night feeding or take care of both kids in the morning so she can go back to bed if she wakes me up. But I am a heavy sleeper and just don’t hear the baby’s crying while she is immediately awake if he coughs in the middle of the night. |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 5:10 PM Author: jet-lagged half-breed This is why people like us should never marry. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40056373) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 6:13 PM Author: Aggressive locus CR. I am honestly not suited for it. I need alone time and space. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40056772) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 12:54 PM Author: Fear-inspiring Clown Stage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054226) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 12:56 PM Author: Fuchsia antidepressant drug box office My wife has been naughty lately but it has helped when I made an effort to bang her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054239) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 1:01 PM Author: Aggressive locus We ended up fucking after the cop incident. I think she was turned on that I physically intimidated the guy and confronted him. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054281) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 1:02 PM Author: Fuchsia antidepressant drug box office Does she just act crazy because she wants you to initiate sex? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054288) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 1:04 PM Author: Aggressive locus No, she is just bipolar or BPD and when stressed and going on no sleep has constant rage episodes. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054308) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 1:36 PM Author: trip church building psychic aren't bipolar and BPD the same thing? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054534) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 2:28 PM Author: bateful background story (xo 2020) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40055085) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 3:07 PM Author: trip church building psychic ???
i've been here since the beginning. always thought BPD was just short for bipolar |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 5:09 PM Author: bateful background story BPD, as anyone who was here during the box era knows, = borderline personality disorder (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40056359) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 5:15 PM Author: trip church building psychic I always thought it was bipolar. kooky.
borderline is like the mom in sopranos where you're just an evil bitch. throwing rage fits and all that shit sounds more like bipolar |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 6:40 PM Author: bateful background story yes, livia was BPD. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40056977) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 4:29 AM Author: up-to-no-good university People with Bipolar Type 1 have cycles that switch from a depressive state to a manic state. Manic symptoms sometimes include flashes of deep depression within the manic episode (called rapid cycling). Between cycles, people often have periods of true symptom-free wellness. This period of wellness can last weeks, months or years depending on the person. People diagnosed with BPD typically have more persistent day-to-day emotional symptoms which can impact everyday life. BPD mood changes are more persistent, short-lived and reactive to environmental factors, like stress at work or home. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40060336) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 4:19 PM Author: Aggressive locus She might be bipolar; she has self-diagnosed herself as bi-polar and it makes sense given her behavior. She is a happy and fun person as long as she is medicated, getting sleep, and isn't stressed. Unfortunately she has been going on no sleep for months and is extremely stressed with two young kids at home all day with no breaks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40063629) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 4:20 AM Author: up-to-no-good university They're not the same. BPD is much worse. His wife is obviously BPD. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40060326) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 4:21 AM Author: Garnet unholy theater stage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40060329) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 1:17 PM Author: Judgmental theatre (yes) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054416) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 1:08 PM Author: scarlet location ljl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054343) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 1:11 PM Author: amethyst insecure dog poop lol 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054364) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 2:13 PM Author: saffron curious range (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054919) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 8:53 PM Author: Bronze school (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40057900) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 4:15 PM Author: mind-boggling death wish be honest, how good was it? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40063586) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 4:29 PM Author: Aggressive locus Really good (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40063721) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 5:23 PM Author: Territorial floppy voyeur (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40064119) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 5:43 PM Author: Bronze school (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40064237) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 1:08 PM Author: scarlet location I've always believed TC wasn't flaming but he's starting to push it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054349) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 1:18 PM Author: Aggressive locus 100 percent not flame. I have never experienced shit like this before. My wife has major emotional problems and acts crazy. It is so far beyond anything I have ever heard of it is difficult to process. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054423) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 1:43 PM Author: Heady Crackhouse Patrolman God she sounds hot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054616) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 2:20 PM Author: orange insanely creepy lodge (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054997) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 2:27 PM Author: godawful impertinent shrine (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40055078) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 3:08 PM Author: vivacious philosopher-king new version (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40055436) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 5:29 PM Author: Azure Underhanded Kitty (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40056474) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 7:09 PM Author: Lilac 180 weed whacker state (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40057224) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 1:09 PM Author: Red fragrant dilemma TC, you know what the chances are that this woman may actually kill you? Greater than 0%.
If you don't GTFO, she will. Further, she'll wait for the most opportune time and absolutely fuck you to the wall. If you initiate divorce, you'll be civil and try to be fair (because that's what almost all men do), but if she does it, she will treat you worse than a bum on side of the road.
Yea you'll probably get fucked in this divorce. However, you're fucked anyways, at least you can get your kids out of this awful situation. |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 1:16 PM Author: Dark elite senate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054402) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 1:16 PM Author: Aggressive locus There is a low chance she will kill me.
My goal has been to get out of SoCal into a lower COL environment and then feel less stressed about divorce when my kids are a little older.
Will I get fucked in a divorce? I have proof she has been abusive and she makes $350-$400K while I am only pulling in $150-175k. Plus the house and car loans are in my name only because her credit is garbage.
I know men get fucked in divorce and she is going to be irrationally hostile. But I feel like I may be in an okay position now. |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 2:23 PM Author: Red fragrant dilemma From everything you've said, I don't believe that's true. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40055039) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 2:28 PM Author: Aggressive locus What is the likely outcome for me? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40055089) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 3:40 AM Author: nubile parlour fanboi Supervised visits with your kids for four hours a week.
If you actually listened to good advice you could get primary custody but you don’t.
I’ve already told you that your recordings are illegal under California law and you have waited too long to pull the trigger to use DV as a custody grab as a man.
You made your bed etc. |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 2:24 PM Author: Massive aquamarine space What about if he lets his wife hit his kid and then calls CPS on her? But only if she has no evidence of him abusing the kids
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Date: April 21st, 2020 2:29 PM Author: Red fragrant dilemma If your plan is to get CPS to do anything, you're fucked. DSS or CPS workers are the lowest paid, least educated, unscrupulous of all government workers. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40062884) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 3:13 PM Author: nubile parlour fanboi CPS could do a double-pwn and say TC is just as bad for allowing the wife to abuse them and then sticking the kids in foster care and dependency court for a year.
If you want to see Queen Shrews just look at the ones running CPS and dependency court. |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 4:11 PM Author: Aggressive locus How are they illegal? I (usually) tell her I am recording her and she doesn't ask me to stop. I have copies of text messages where she is threatening crazy shit as well. Seems like that should count for something.
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Date: April 21st, 2020 6:36 PM Author: nubile parlour fanboi If she knows you are recording and doesn't object then that should be implied consent.
I actually started typing that holding onto the videos for years could backfire on your DVRO case, but then I remembered that she was threatening to file false allegations against you.
You could convince a judge that originally you started collecting these videos to protect yourself if she filed false allegations against you, but that her behavior became increasingly erratic and now you actually fear for your safety and that of your children.
You probably want to file a motion for a psych eval and if you are willing to spend the money you should file a motion for a custody evaluation. These things could cost $20-30K, but your chances are 1000x greater of winning a custody battle via a custody evaluation than leaving your fate to a 90 IQ Family Court services social worker. |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 2:23 PM Author: Red fragrant dilemma I believe that you have made the decision to not leave her, no matter what. I think you are afraid of her, and I think that you have very good reason to be afraid. However, due to your fear of leaving her, you put the "ball in her court," and she is not going to go on being miserable for the rest of her life.
So, outcomes: 10% she cheats bigly and you have a nice outcome in your divorce. 89% she sets up this divorce perfectly for herself, taking months (or years) to prepare, and when the time is right, hits you with a divorce action that you will never financially or emotionally recover from. You will be paying child support (and maybe alimony) based on our absolute upper income figures and your time with your children will be severely limited. You will lose most of your assets. 1% you realize that you're playing with your life and go on the offensive and take the fight to her.
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Date: April 21st, 2020 4:17 PM Author: Aggressive locus There are a lot of reasons that I have hesitated to pull the trigger, primarily the massive financial/emotional toll of divorce. She is not going to be reasonable. Then add in the fact I don't want to be stuck in California, don't want to raise a baby and a 2.5 year old alone, worry about losing my job, and fear getting royally fucked in a divorce. This has not been an easy decision.
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Date: April 20th, 2020 2:52 PM Author: Red fragrant dilemma Your case is 100% a child custody case and she works from home. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40055285) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 4:09 AM Author: Costumed vigorous national friendly grandma Hie thee to Alaska friend (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40060312) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 1:24 PM Author: Hairraiser internet-worthy brunch alpha i feel terrible for your daughter. what are you doing to make sure she doesn't turn out fucked up? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054452) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 1:26 PM Author: Aggressive locus Separating her from her insane mother 50% of the month post divorce
The tragic thing is she is a really sweet little girl and I don’t know how she is going to avoid having major emotional issues because of her mother. |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 6:33 PM Author: sexy comical church If you really believe this why haven’t you already divorced and taken the kids? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40056909) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 1:28 PM Author: amethyst insecure dog poop Book of Job ITT (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054477) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 1:30 PM Author: Ultramarine rehab rigpig NEXT TIME ON THUNDER COLLINS Z! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054488) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 1:38 PM Author: Disgusting Pearly Coffee Pot has she ever received mental health treatment? she's obviously really far gone even by BPD standards, but there should be a way to make the symptoms somewhat manageable. if she meditated several hours a day or used psychedelics she would probably be a completely different person. talk therapy would be next to useless in this case - it's an emotion regulation problem. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054565) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 1:43 PM Author: Aggressive locus She was in talk therapy during her residency and it was worthless.
She takes mood stabilizers and they usually help is she is also getting sleep.
She needs intensive therapy and yeah maybe psychedelics and meditation.
She is in denial that she has a personality disorder and refuses to get evaluated because she views it as a waste and doesn’t want to be recognized as an impaired physician because that could hurt her career and cost her money in higher malpractice insurance. |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 1:50 PM Author: Disgusting Pearly Coffee Pot yeah, this is not something someone can talk themselves out of.
she really should try meditation, at the very least. i know of people with BPD or BPD like traits who benefited greatly from it. there's a lot of evidence that mindfulness dampens activity in the emotional centers of the brain. the effect can be greatly enhanced with low dose psychedelics.
https://www.nature.com/articles/s41598-019-50612-3?sf222886569=1
she might not like this initially, but she would probably start feeling noticeably better after just a week of regular practice. |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 5:10 PM Author: insane citrine hell Anonymous report to the state medical board. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40056372) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 7:10 PM Author: Rambunctious translucent mental disorder address This would be the worst thing he could do if he actually intended to divorce. If he intends to divorce he should present her as a sane workaholic mother who is just overly focused on career and they can't resolve their differences.
Collect alimony and move into a truck camper. |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 2:04 PM Author: sickened cream fat ankles How is her credit garbage with an annual income of $400K? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054830) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 2:07 PM Author: Aggressive locus Years of unpaid medical bills, phone bills etc. prior to our marriage. She has the lowest credit score I have ever seen. Thought she didn’t need credit because she was going to be a doctor making a ton of money. She has only been out of residency for three years. It might be better now. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054851) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 2:09 PM Author: sickened cream fat ankles unpaid medical bills -- and she probably freaks if her patients pay her 3 days late (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054876) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 2:13 PM Author: Aggressive locus She is a hypocrite about many things (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054913) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 5:12 PM Author: insane citrine hell Have her and you sign up for Credit Karma. Free is really free! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40056384) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 6:17 PM Author: obsidian knife (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40056791) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 2:07 PM Author: Soul-stirring Turdskin Sorry brother, we are here for you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054860) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 2:09 PM Author: Rose stirring hospital Ayeee, she is a doctor. Disturbing. I like to think of doctors as stable, even keeled characters.
Maybe she'll contract COVID. |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 2:11 PM Author: Aggressive locus We probably already contracted it. She is unstable as fuck, but you would never know it in a professional setting. She will talk on the phone for work and sound completely lucid and calm and then come out of the room screaming like an unhinged lunatic. It is disturbing. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054893) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 2:24 PM Author: black immigrant liquid oxygen Funniest post of the year (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40055051) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 3:06 PM Author: Purple ungodly resort you need to get urself into a "diving bell and butterfly" situation ASAP so she has to use her doctor brain on you instead of her wife brain. feel free to fake it if need be (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40055409) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 11:03 AM Author: excitant business firm (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40061431) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 2:27 PM Author: Massive aquamarine space She is a psychiatrist bro, not a "doctor"...they are all unhinged. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40062880) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 6:38 PM Author: Judgmental theatre lmao (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40064606) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 2:10 PM Author: saffron curious range Are you going to have another kid? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054885) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 2:11 PM Author: Garnet unholy theater stage I think another child would clearly fix their issues. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054890) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 2:11 PM Author: Aggressive locus (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054897) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 2:15 PM Author: Fuchsia antidepressant drug box office (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054935) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 2:16 PM Author: Disgusting Pearly Coffee Pot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054946) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 2:25 PM Author: Heady Crackhouse Patrolman Clearly (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40055061) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 2:44 PM Author: Apoplectic filthpig shitlib (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40055227) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 3:04 PM Author: Dark elite senate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40055384) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 4:30 PM Author: Bronze school (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40056127) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 6:13 PM Author: deranged site (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40056775) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 6:16 PM Author: Cerebral drab organic girlfriend (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40056789) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 6:37 PM Author: ocher vengeful parlor (Muscadine Wine) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40056946) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 2:24 PM Author: Red fragrant dilemma #3 on the way, coming in July!!! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40062857) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 10:14 PM Author: exciting buck-toothed home 180! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40066126) |
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Date: April 23rd, 2020 7:41 AM Author: Azure Underhanded Kitty lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40075356) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 7:12 PM Author: Rambunctious translucent mental disorder address (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40057238) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 8:25 PM Author: Aqua hall (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40057709) |
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Date: March 27th, 2026 5:10 PM Author: tfw no racist japanese twitter gf (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#49774449) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 2:12 PM Author: Slate Incel Hominid she is even worse than my wife...i tried to leave two days ago for a motel...she would not let me (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40054906) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 4:13 AM Author: Costumed vigorous national friendly grandma How did she stop you? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40060317) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 11:00 AM Author: Slate Incel Hominid grabbing me, taking my keys and wallet (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40061407) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 2:28 PM Author: orange insanely creepy lodge Sad situation, man. Any chance she could do something violent to the kids if you initiate divorce? She sounds deeply disturbed. Also, she sounds BPD, so medication won't really do much of anything. She needs to buy into intense cognitive behavioral therapy. Also, does she exercise? Need to encourage her to do some extended hard cardio sessions. Meditation/mindfulness would work wonders too. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40055087) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 2:51 PM Author: fantasy-prone indigo plaza NOWAG incel here. Can I take your place? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40055279) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 5:30 PM Author: amethyst insecure dog poop interesting hypo: NOWAG incel or Thunder Collins? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40056494) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 12:12 AM Author: bateful background story the one is a seething morass of insecurity and humiliation from being constantly reminded of his own unnecessary misery while all around him others achieve some happiness, even alone
the other is a chill lifelong bachelor from the orient |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 4:14 AM Author: Costumed vigorous national friendly grandma Underrated (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40060319) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 4:21 AM Author: Garnet unholy theater stage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40060327) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 10:31 AM Author: beady-eyed sanctuary (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40061148) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 5:08 PM Author: demanding fiercely-loyal menage lol you will never divorce her. you are obsessed with her high earning career. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40056351) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 5:49 PM Author: Passionate pistol kitchen This thread is titled like Star Wars movies except it’s episodic vignettes highlighting the misery of your life :( |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 6:15 PM Author: confused galvanic piazza prole Whenever my marriage hits a rocky patch (which luckily is pretty rare) and I feel a little sorry for myself, I just go and read some TC wife threads and am immediately grateful for everything in my life. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40056782) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 6:17 PM Author: Cerebral drab organic girlfriend Praying for you and your family man, hope you can get through this etc. can you poast a pic of her in a swimsuit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40056798) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 6:36 PM Author: amethyst insecure dog poop (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40056934) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 6:52 PM Author: Odious flirting french chef (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40057091) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 4:04 PM Author: Aggressive locus https://imgur.com/a/6naxDpA (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40063490) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 4:09 PM Author: bateful background story very beautiful lady,very nice photto....but can you edit my face out of the second one thx (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40063530) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 4:10 PM Author: Costumed vigorous national friendly grandma Underrated (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40063550) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 4:12 PM Author: bat-shit-crazy tanning salon internal respiration (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40063557) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 5:42 PM Author: Bronze school (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40064232) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 9:40 PM Author: Heady Crackhouse Patrolman (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40065858) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 10:23 PM Author: saffron curious range (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40066193) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 4:10 PM Author: Peach Native even her smile looks evil (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40063549) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 4:15 PM Author: Massive aquamarine space I think it's partly the thin lips. I've noticed that when white women hit 30, their lips get thin. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40063588) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 4:15 PM Author: bateful background story to me, she has a nice friendly smile, but as an oriental i key in on the eyes not the mouth; i understand for westerners it is just the opposite (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40063590) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 4:17 PM Author: Massive aquamarine space CR, the eyes are the primary determinant of beauty
I can't really judge anyone's looks without seeing their eyes (shape, size, etc.), then face shape is second and then third is nose size |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 4:24 PM Author: Aggressive locus (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40063675) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 4:12 PM Author: amethyst insecure dog poop thank (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40063556) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 9:40 PM Author: Heady Crackhouse Patrolman 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40065863) |
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Date: April 22nd, 2020 3:18 AM Author: Cerebral drab organic girlfriend 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40067618) |
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Date: April 22nd, 2020 7:15 AM Author: Lascivious Codepig nice teeth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40067928) |
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Date: April 23rd, 2020 1:19 PM Author: obsidian knife jeez...that rack with those skinny arms and neck. Know you've mentioned that she's had some help, but still.
Nice smile, although appears a bit fragile, like it's covering some anxiety?
Wish her soles were pinker. :( |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 9:38 PM Author: Heady Crackhouse Patrolman (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40065846) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 6:19 PM Author: Talking corn cake cruise ship (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40056809) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 4:16 AM Author: Costumed vigorous national friendly grandma I would have filed immediately after this statement. No second thoughts (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40060321) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 6:35 PM Author: cheese-eating corner roommate Serious question: has she ever tried weed? Conservaheroine that she is I'm sure the thought disgusts her, but it honestly seems like a weed addiction for her could really help your cause in a relatively quick and cost-effective way. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40056929) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 6:40 PM Author: sexy comical church TC: do you think a woman like this, who you’ve described as hot and with fake tits, hasn’t cheated on you? You said iITT she craves emotional support and attention that you don’t give her. If she’s hot there’ll be tons of guys lining up to give that to her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40056974) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 6:48 PM Author: Aggressive locus Doubt she has cheated on me. She works from home and we never spend time apart. She has no friends here and is never out for an extensive period of time without me present.
I am sure tons of guys would be lined up, but she can’t sustain a relationship. Maybe she will get pumped and dumped by a lot of wealthy divorced guys. |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 6:55 PM Author: amethyst insecure dog poop Do you think it’s possible she could use the World Wide Web to meet strange men while you’re out of the house? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40057115) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 6:55 PM Author: ocher vengeful parlor You met her on match right? What happened to all her friends who were married? Are they all divorced now. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40057117) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 7:20 PM Author: Aggressive locus One friend got divorced. The others are unhappily married. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40057294) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 7:21 PM Author: ocher vengeful parlor Sounds like their obsession with marriage worked out! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40057306) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 6:57 PM Author: sexy comical church I definitely mean short term stuff. She seems like the type to view sex as emotional attention. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40057134) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 7:14 PM Author: Talking corn cake cruise ship (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40057259) |
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Date: April 20th, 2020 7:23 PM Author: Aphrodisiac canary chapel with this coronavirus thing cops have an easy out to be lazy. god forbid something happen to your wife but, so long as there's no deep lacerations or gunshot residue, you may get home after 2-3 perfunctory questions and a drug test. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40057317) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 2:11 PM Author: Peach Native (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40062756) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 12:14 AM Author: coiffed erotic stag film depressive Why don’t you crush up shrooms and put it in her food? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40059459) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 4:21 AM Author: up-to-no-good university Literally the ONLY important life lesson one can learn from XO is not to date or marry a borderline. You failed, sorry. We told you not to move or procreate. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40060328) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 4:28 AM Author: Costumed vigorous national friendly grandma If you get full custody and she refuses to pay alimony, will you be able to go to the battered men’s shelter with the kids? Will you get “Men with Infant Children” (MIC) stamps to buy groceries and diapers? Subsidized daycare? Etc, etc.
Honestly, the ONLY bright spot for you in this situation is that she makes a lot more money than you.
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Date: April 21st, 2020 4:32 AM Author: ocher vengeful parlor I don;'t think she makes that much. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40060339) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 2:29 PM Author: Massive aquamarine space She is a psychiatrist working two part time jobs supposedly for the California government (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40062885) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 4:23 PM Author: Aggressive locus She is the Medical Director for multiple organizations and bills like 48 hours a week plus gets stipends from each org for serving in the Director role. She is raking in cash, but is probably committing tax fraud. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40063665) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 5:11 AM Author: sinister indian lodge cuck Damn bro. I must thank you again for saving me from ending up with my ex gf. Best sex of my life, most intense connection, but her text messages looked wayyyy too much like Mrs. Collins. This shit was always in the back of my mind when I failed to propose to her and ultimately broke up with her. Missed her and regretted it for a while but the new chick is an easy-going sweetheart and infinitely less stressful to date. Literally the most emotionally stable chick who has ever wanted to be with me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40060380) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 3:20 PM Author: Massive aquamarine space Psychos are not worth it bro. Was in a relationship with one for a few years, ended up being stalked for a couple years after I ended it.
Thankfully we never had kids. |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 2:05 PM Author: ruddy factory reset button haunted graveyard I hate to say this, but you need to divorce her, relinquish custody of the kids, & completely start over. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40062724) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 2:26 PM Author: sexy comical church Can you completely change your moniker including tagline? There’s only room for one thunder persona on this board and his content creation is off the charts. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40062875) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 2:29 PM Author: cyan chest-beating ladyboy It won't matter once TC's wife murder-suicides him (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40062887) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 3:03 PM Author: ruddy factory reset button haunted graveyard No. I was here for like a decade before he was. Not my fault he picked that moniker. |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 3:17 PM Author: sexy comical church This is a what-have-you-done-for-me-lately board. Now carry Thunder Collins’ jock strap. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40063234) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 3:37 PM Author: sinister indian lodge cuck rude (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40063325) |
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Date: April 23rd, 2020 3:55 PM Author: Mustard Shivering Preventive Strike Athletic Conference how dare you call TC a clothmo (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40078542) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 2:12 PM Author: charismatic son of senegal station I hope she gets the password in the divorce. She's much more interesting (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40062760) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 4:17 PM Author: mind-boggling death wish TC, please poast moar pics!
Don't give up. I'm pulling for you and your family. Try dosing her up with some LSD and running mind control on her. You can get some legal synthetics online using cryptos. |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 5:52 PM Author: Contagious twinkling uncleanness point *Sets Google news alert for "doctor" "murder" "husband" "california" "cuck"* (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40064288) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 10:36 PM Author: Nudist henna abode (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40066272) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 6:05 PM Author: yapping hairless trust fund public bath I think it's best to just assume that you're going to be screwed in any sort of divorce proceedings, moreso because of what you said earlier:
"She is unstable as fuck, but you would never know it in a professional setting. She will talk on the phone for work and sound completely lucid and calm"
Doesn't mean that divorce isn't still the right answer, but would definitely lower your expectations for how it'll go for you. |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 6:11 PM Author: Aggressive locus :( (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40064420) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 6:13 PM Author: Contagious twinkling uncleanness point Set up a bunch of Nest cameras throughout the house as a security system. tell her it's for the safety of the family during these turbulent times.
Pay for a subscription and download and save clips of her acting out. I feel like there has to be some security camera exception for the 2 party consent rule the other poaster mentioned.
if you ever go hiking push her off a cliff. |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 10:11 PM Author: Marvelous Heaven okay. as some in this thread know, i divorced a borderline. it quite literally saved my life. and i think it might save my daughter too.
maybe this is too serious for XO, but you are standing at a crossroads.
if you choose to stay, you are dooming yourself and your children to long, miserable, dysfunctional lives. she is a borderline. she will never improve. she will never get "fixed." there is an excellent chance that your reward for your loyalty will be either redoubled pain, her divorcing YOU, or suicide. it will never be better.
if you choose the right path, you will experience the most intense fight you've ever known. i had such a turbulent childhood that i ran away at 16. i had an ultra-rare liver disease that nearly killed me at 19. i had to restart my career at 31. none of these events came CLOSE to the emotional omaha beach of divorce... but now i'm two years out and HAPPY. and my daughter knows when she's with daddy it's a peaceful, serene place she can thrive.
im not going to post in this thread again. i've warned you several times but i also understand how hard of a position you're in. so i've gone through the trouble of setting up an email for you:
bigdogthrowawayforthunder@gmail.com
If you email me I will send a throwaway Google Voice number and i can give you advice and tips.
i repeat myself: this will never get better unless you take action
call me if you want. otherwise, goodbye and good luck |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 10:30 PM Author: sexy comical church EVERYBODY DANCE NOW (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40066233) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 10:38 PM Author: Hideous pozpig bawdyhouse very generous man here (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40066281) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 10:48 PM Author: Disgusting Pearly Coffee Pot how does someone end up married to a borderline? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40066373) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 11:58 PM Author: Marvelous Heaven codependency is one. same-sex (weirdly) parent as a borderline is another way. sometimes narcissists and borderlines attract but those relationships tend to be ultra-volatile (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40066881) |
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Date: April 23rd, 2020 7:57 AM Author: amethyst insecure dog poop 180 you're a good bro (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40075404) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 10:45 PM Author: Cocky cobalt market Verry sorry. Lesson to all: pick ur lady wisely. Try to cop custody if you care at all about how your kid will be raised to view you. |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 10:46 PM Author: ocher vengeful parlor Some of us have no choice. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40066356) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 10:49 PM Author: Cocky cobalt market OP is somewhat to blame if he knew this chick was a psycho before he married her. Some women go nuts after having kids though. Does smething to their brain. Cant predict that obviously. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40066394) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 10:50 PM Author: Supple office messiness Did somebody say . . . Endgame?
Hello Mr. Collins. I want to play a game with you. |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 11:41 PM Author: Thriller Vermilion Sound Barrier Electric Furnace (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40066772) |
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Date: April 22nd, 2020 3:12 AM Author: Garnet unholy theater stage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40067609) |
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Date: April 22nd, 2020 7:07 AM Author: sexy comical church (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40067908) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 11:37 PM Author: Sticky nursing home Why have we not gotten pics? Sounds like this is a lost cause anyway. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40066746) |
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Date: April 21st, 2020 11:59 PM Author: Maroon multi-billionaire property Should have put a bullet in the head of the recording guy and showed your wife a pic of his corpse. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40066888) |
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Date: April 22nd, 2020 6:36 AM Author: titillating stead macaca the thing people don't realize is BPD is literally untreatable
Sure you can treat some ancillary symptoms like anxiety, depression with drugs but there is NO proven therapeutic for BPD. doctors avoid even diagnosing people with it because there is no hoap. the only thing to show any efficacy whatsoever is intense CBT, which basically no BPD people will ever complete.
if you met someone with narcissistic personality disorder would you tell them to go to a doctor? no, of course not, that would be ridiculous. it's the same thing with BPD. these cluster B disorders are to humans what a crack in the foundation is to a building. |
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Date: April 22nd, 2020 7:33 AM Author: ruddy factory reset button haunted graveyard I have a female relative who is BPD.
Everything you said is accurate.
It can’t be fixed, & it’s impossible to have a healthy relationship with someone who has it.
They cannot control their emotional impulses.
The worst thing a man can do is marry a bpd woman. |
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Date: April 23rd, 2020 5:32 AM Author: Massive aquamarine space Is NPD treatable? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40075168) |
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Date: April 23rd, 2020 6:21 AM Author: Costumed vigorous national friendly grandma It usually goes hand in hand with BPD.
Cuttingboard is 100% accurate |
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Date: April 22nd, 2020 8:22 AM Author: bipolar free-loading casino Explain to me then why we see a ton more BPD people walking around today than we did 50 years ago. Clearly environmental factors can increase the prevalence, its not a stretch to assume that means we can also "cure" it. Even if the "cure" is just moving towards more traditional norms of social interaction. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40068044) |
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Date: April 23rd, 2020 4:59 AM Author: Razzle-dazzle tan principal's office I think it is a stretch to suggest that because relative incidence may be contingent on environmental factors, surely the condition is often susceptible to cure. Think about sociopathy, or height. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40075140) |
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Date: April 23rd, 2020 5:26 AM Author: titillating stead macaca b/c the used to lock these freaks up (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40075163) |
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Date: April 23rd, 2020 6:06 AM Author: Garnet unholy theater stage There are far more toxic, broken homes now
Top risk factors for developing BPD are abuse and abandonment at a young age
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Date: April 23rd, 2020 6:10 AM Author: Razzle-dazzle tan principal's office The fucked logic is thinking that an environmental pathway to a condition means there must be a ready environmental exit. A bit of reflection will show that there are limitless counterexamples. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40075196) |
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Date: April 23rd, 2020 7:49 AM Author: Big-titted electric center What makes you think there are more now than before? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40075380) |
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Date: April 23rd, 2020 7:47 AM Author: Big-titted electric center My ex wife had BPD. It's true and my therapist pulled me aside one time and was like "this is what you are dealing with and it's not treatable". It was one of the things that led me to finally pull the trigger and get a divorce.
I've already told TC all of the above multiple times. He seems to even recognize and believe it. Yet he plods on. One day he'll reach rock bottom and get out. It's a shame he's wasting years of his life this way though. |
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Date: April 23rd, 2020 8:05 AM Author: Costumed vigorous national friendly grandma (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40075420) |
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Date: April 23rd, 2020 4:03 PM Author: Bronze school (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40078587) |
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Date: April 23rd, 2020 1:20 PM Author: Blathering razzmatazz skinny woman field Jesus saves (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40077322) |
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Date: May 17th, 2020 5:12 PM Author: Contagious twinkling uncleanness point How we doing TC? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4514460&forum_id=2#40226494) |
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